“The lift becomes this interesting social space where etiquette (礼仪) is sort of odd (奇怪的),” Gray told the BBC.“The elevators are socially very interesting but often very awkward places.”
We walk in and usually turn around to face the door.If someone else comes in,we may have to move.And here,according to Gray,liftusers unthinkingly go through a set pattern of movements.He told the BBC what he had observed.
He explained that when you are the only one inside a lift,you can do whatever you want – it’s your own little box.
If there are two of you,you go into different corners,standing diagonally (对角线地) across from each other to create distance.
When a third person enters,you will unconsciously form a triangle.And when there is a fourth person it becomes a square,with someone in every corner.A fifth person is probably going to have to stand in the middle.
New entrants to the lift will need to size up the situation when the doors slide open and then act decisively.Once in,for most people the rule is simple – look down,or look at your phone.
Why are we so awkward in lifts?
“You don’t have enough space,” Professor Babette Renneberg,a clinical psychologist at the Free University of Berlin,told the BBC.“Usually when we meet other people we have about an arm’s length of distance between us.And that’s not possible in most elevators.”
In such a small,enclosed space it becomes very important to act in a way that cannot be understood as threatening or odd.“The easiest way to do this is to avoid eye contact,” she said.
1. According to Gray,when people enter an elevator,they usually _____.
A.turn around and greet one another |
B.look around or examine their phone |
C.make eye contact with those in the elevator |
D.try to keep a distance from other people |
A. |
B. |
C. |
D. |
A.someone’s odd behaviors |
B.a lack of space |
C.their unfamiliarity with one another |
D.their eye contact with one another |
A.Bad manners in the elevator |
B.Some unwritten rules of elevator etiquette |
C.An interesting but awkward elevator ride |
D.The strange behaviors in the elevator |
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【推荐1】A study found overweight adults lost nearly 10 lb(10磅) in 12 weeks after drinking water half an hour before breakfast, lunch and dinner.
Researchers say it could provide a low-cost solution to Britain’s increasing obesity crisis.
They conducted an experiment and the obese adults experimented were given a weight management consultation. They were advised on changing their lifestyle and diet and how to improve their levels of physical activity. Half were asked to drink water before meals and half were just asked to imagine that they had a full stomach before eating. The first group lost 2 lb 14 oz more than the second group, on average. Sparkling water(苏打水), sodas and sweetened drinks were not allowed and participants drank plain tap water.
Helen Parretti, Doctor of the National Institute for Health Research at the University of Birmingham and lead author of the research, said, "The beauty of these findings is in the simplicity. Just drinking a pint (品脱) of water, three times a day, before your main meals may help reduce your weight.
"When combined with brief instructions on how to increase your amount of physical activity and on a healthy diet, this seems to help people to achieve some extra weight loss at a healthy rate. It’s something that doesn’t take much work in our busy everyday lives."
Many weight-loss plans advise people to drink water, but no previous studies directly tested this.
Last night Tam Fry said, "There is a widely held view that simple tap water is plain boring and couldn’t possibly help you feel full — but it does."
Dr. Louis Levy, head of nutrition science at Public Health England, said, "Thirst can sometimes be mistaken for hunger. "He added. "While water does not cause you to lose weight, it does keep you hydrated (含水的) and might help you to eat less."
1. What advice did the obese adults experimented get?A.Changing their lifestyle and diet and improving their levels of physical activity. |
B.Always imaging they had a full stomach before drinking water. |
C.How to lose weight in a short time. |
D.How to drink water in the daytime. |
A.Sparkling water. | B.Sodas. |
C.Sweetened drinks. | D.Plain tap water. |
A.Beautiful. | B.Simple. |
C.Hard. | D.Complex. |
A.water may help people eat less |
B.water itself can make people lose weight |
C.water can make people feel hungry |
D.a person who is thirsty is actually hungry |
【推荐2】Loneliness is a feeling I know very well. I live in an apartment with no one but my dog, and I don’t get a lot of company because most of my friends have moved to another town, got married, or simply lost touch. I loved the peace and quiet at first, but a few months later, I realized I had a serious problem and decided to learn how to live a happy life alone.
1. Take Care of Your Home
When you’re not around other people, it is easy to lose interest in tidying up your home. Even if you don’t have a roommate or company that frequently walks in your door,
2.
If you don’t see beauty in your world, you’re not looking hard enough. If you’re home alone and feeling down, walk outside and spend some time with nature. Go to the park, walk on a nature trail, clear your thoughts, listen to the sounds of the forest, and you will find the beauty that’s right in front of you.
3. Watch Out for Noisy Thoughts
4. Create Something of Value
The best way to feel happy alone is to spend your time creating something that brings you joy. start a blog about a topic that interests you,
Having friends and family is great but we all need to learn how to live a happy life alone.
A.Treat Yourself to a Big Meal |
B.Here are some tips I learned along the way. |
C.go to the park and paint a landscape to hang on your wall |
D.Find Beauty in the Ordinary |
E.you had better clean house at least once a week. |
F.There is no reason to bury yourself in depressing news stories for hours on end. |
G.Your thoughts can be your best friend and worst enemy |
It is good to make mistakes, and here’s why.
Finally, when you make a mistake you are that much closer to success. Why? Because when all is said and done, you will have tried some finite number of things before you succeed.
There is an old axiom that goes, “if you’re not making mistakes, you’re not trying hard enough.” So go forth and make mistakes, and learn, and grow, and prosper.
A.Look around you. |
B.First of all, mistakes are a clear sign that you are trying new things. |
C.Every time you made a mistake you eliminated one of those things and are one step closer. |
D.Another good thing about mistakes is this: when you are making mistakes, you are learning. |
E.But this all doesn’t mean that you should forge ahead with disregard for the consequences of a mistake. |
F.Only by embracing and using your mistakes in this way can you make significant advances in your business and your career. |
G.Can you imagine how many mistakes were made before all of these individual materials and components were perfected and then assembled into the automobiles we know today? |
Living with other people can be difficult, especially when each person comes from a different background and has their own ideas about how they want to live. Though having a roommate can be challenging at times, it can also be enjoyable and fun.
You can discuss your expectations ahead of time. Get together before or on the first day you move in together and talk about what each of you needs and wants from the other.
You should agree to respect each other’s privacy. This is especially important.
You can also be considerate of your roommate in your life. Understand what’s going on in your roommate’s life. You should aim to be flexible and accommodating. Your roommate may have a big test coming up.
A.You can discuss each of your preferences for privacy. |
B.Spending time with your roommate is also important. |
C.This is your best chance to set boundaries with your roommate. |
D.Make sure that everyone is clear on the rules and responsibilities. |
E.This is what you should know to respect your roommate’s privacy. |
F.Then in this case you should probably be quiet and let them study. |
G.The following steps will help you live in harmony with your roommate. |
【推荐2】A dog can keep us company. Sweetie is a big dog who spends every Friday of the month in the Children’s Area of our local library. Earlier today, I was so lucky to be nearby when she was partnering with a boy who was reading a mystery of Magic Tree House. Every time Sweetie listened to the boy reading the most challenging words, she would softly lick(舔)his hand which was holding the book. With his mom in the background, Sweetie and the young boy shared a l0-minute happy partnership, and he was rewarded by Sweetie’s great attention to his every word.
Next Sweetie had an appointment with the twins who took turns reading poetry. With each girl giggling over the funny words, Sweetie was also smiling with her tongue dropping a bit as they each read. After the 10-minute interaction was done, each girl gave Sweetie a gentle hug and were rewarded by Sweetie’s foreleg bow.
In speaking with Sweetie’s owner and transportation “captain”, I learned that Sweetie had been specially trained to work as a service dog. She has retired(退休)after a career of wonderful service, and now she is “in her sunset years” in her service at the library.
Sweetie has a special resting carpet behind the scenes in the Children’s Area, so that she can refresh herself with fresh water and some food when she is tired and hungry. This is Sweetie’s third summer that she has been the “regular” partner. On Fridays from 2 pm~4 pm, Sweetie is ready to listen and act as a devoted partner.
1. What do we know about Sweetie?A.She is a good listener. | B.She likes playing tricks on people. |
C.She dislikes children. | D.She is stupid. |
A.Frightened. | B.Happy. |
C.Astonished. | D.Upset. |
A.Crying loudly. | B.Keeping silently. |
C.Speaking in a rude way. | D.Laughing in a silly way. |
A.Violent. | B.Lazy. |
C.Mysterious. | D.Friendly. |
【推荐3】Brandon Olsen and Tylor Fritz of Hometown Sanitation(公共卫生) left gifts for three sisters who waved to them each Thursday after learning that one of them,3-year-old Rose,had been fighting cancer.
The men also gave their parents free garbage service for one year.
“When they did that,it was a few weeks before the diagnosis(诊断) when every day just felt so impossible,”said Rose’s mother,Angie Evenson,of Blue Earth,Minnesota.“Nothing in reality changes Rose’s diagnosis.But what they did makes us feel we are truly not alone in this fight.”
With binoculars(双筒望远镜) in hand,Rose and her two sisters,Grace,5 and Sophia,2 sat by the window and waved at their garbage men,Olsen and Fritz,as they drove by on their weekly route.
Olsen,29,and Fritz,24,told ABC News that the girls’ smiling faces are what they look forward to while working.They even left Halloween candy for the girls this year to show their appreciation.They hope that more and more people can understand and support their work.
But weeks later,Evenson wrote Olsen and Fritz a note explaining that little Rose wouldn’t be able to wave to them for a while since she’d be undergoing chemotherapy(化疗). Rose had been diagnosed with Stage 4 kidney cancer in September.
“As a father of three,it changed my outlook on things,” Olsen said.“It opened my eyes...you don’t know what someone else is going through.”
Fritz said he cried when he read the note.“I got to the chemo part and there were tears running down my face,” he recalled.“I don’t have any children of my own,but I can imagine if someone very close to me is diagnosed as cancer,I’ll be heartbroken.”
“Rose is being treated at Sanford Children’s Hospital in Sioux Falls,South Dakota.She will miss a few more Thursdays,when she can wave to her garbage men,but her chemo sessions will be switched to Mondays soon and she’ll be back by the window early next year.I have confidence in Rose’s recovery,” her mother said.
1. How did the garbage men help Rose’s family?A.They took the sick girl to hospital regularly. |
B.They collected the garbage for free. |
C.They looked after Rose in turn. |
D.They offered money to help cure Rose. |
A.They made the family famous. |
B.They encouraged the family. |
C.They gave Angie Evenson a good lesson. |
D.They doubted about the doctor’s diagnosis. |
A.People’s appreciation for their work. |
B.Good friendship with the young girls. |
C.Making more efforts to do their work well. |
D.The girls’ family’s caring more for their children. |