The pain we feel may be nature’s way of telling us it’s time to take notice of our inner selves. Should you be facing painful times, we urge you to reach out to get the help and support you need.
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●Keep a journal. This is a good way to measure your progress in “getting to the other side” of things.
●Be extra good to yourself. Especially when life hurts, it’s time to take extra good care of yourself. Get enough rest, eat properly, get the exercise your body needs to burn off the tension, listen to soft music, and don’t forget those extra hugs for your pet.
●See a professional counselor (咨询师). Seeing a trained professional is an excellent way to work through painful times. Ask your parents or school counselor to help you find one.
A.Try to bear your pain. |
B.Don’t keep it all inside. |
C.Be sure to date each entry. |
D.Maybe you believe that no one will understand you. |
E.You know what a source of comfort you are to others. |
F.It is also a good way to improve your writing skills gradually. |
G.It means you may need more outside support than you’re getting. |
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【推荐1】There are many weight loss products, plans and programs in the market. However, if most of these programs were effective, we would see obesity trends reversing, yet we are witnessing more and more people struggling with weight.
Experiences of dieters regaining pre-dieting weight within 5 years are common. Therefore, a fitness program that works over a long period of time is something you should be looking for. Before reaching for your wallet or purse, make sure the program is exactly what it claims to be.
Professional endorsement(认可)
A good program should not insist on offering pills, injections, powders or similar products that are not endorsed by a medically trained professional. Your choice of programs should have been designed by a medically trained professional.
Unrealistic promises
A good program should not make unrealistic promises, such as “To lose 5 pounds in a week, with no exercise!” Therefore, it is advisable to judge whether the promises being made are realistic. The plan should also have a high success rate of weight loss.
Qualification
A weight loss program should consider the health of the applicants. It should consider their age, medical condition, gender, health background, medication and more, in order to make a plan that meets the needs of every applicant. A good program should include diet and exercise in order to promote permanent and good health.
Restriction
A good program should not overly restrictive(限制的)on food allowances. Some programs ask you not to eat foods from the main nutrient food groups like fruit and vegetables. A successful weight loss plan, for most people, should not involve less than 1,200 calories per day.
Cost effective
A long-term program does not have to cost you lots of money. An effective plan that is reasonably priced can save you a large sum of money that can be spent on other healthy habits. This car in turn improve your lifespan.
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1. The test mainly contributes to ________.A.better understanding of good weight loss programs |
B.finding the case of being overweight worldwide |
C.selling more reasonably priced weight loss products |
D.helping people avoid overweight by controlling diets |
A.Increasing quickly in a short time. | B.Arranging things in the opposite order. |
C.Going faster in the same direction. | D.Changing to the opposite direction. |
A.To tell some more weight loss products. | B.To help better understand weight loss programs. |
C.To help know the obesity trends. | D.To turn against weight loss products. |
A.Medically trained professionals usually recommend medicines on purpose. |
B.No weight loss program can stop you regaining weight five years. |
C.We should take in at least 1,200 calories every day to keep healthy. |
D.Weight loss program always have to charge a large amount of money. |
【推荐2】It’s not easy to know how to help our animals, considering they can’t talk—and don’t always listen.
When looking for a new pet, where do you start?
Buying pets online is risky because you have no idea about their upbringing or health. Consider adopting from a shelter, as you will be helping pets in need. If you go to a breeder(饲养员), aim to see any animal in person and in the place where they were born, better with their mothers.
How can you be sure the pet you pick will be the right fit?
You need to spend plenty of time with your pet or he may become lonely or bored and develop problem behaviors such as chewing and barking.
How can you get him to do what you need him to?
Elderly dogs are less able to cope with extreme temperatures. Keep them cool on hot days and away from drafts on cold ones. Place pieces of carpet or bedding where your dog rests to help him rise from slippery floors. Make sure to check claws, which may not wear down sufficiently with reduced activity.
A.Energy level is also important. |
B.A dog’s intelligence can be increased through education and training. |
C.Here we share how to choose pets and keep them happy and healthy. |
D.How can you help your pets live better as they age? |
E.Be prepared to wait and possibly travel to find the perfect companion. |
F.Therefore, it’s important for us to choose a pet full of love and energy. |
G.So is it possible for us to get along well with our pets? |
【推荐3】Curious people are interested in the world around them and are full of questions. Being curious is an excellent way to expand your knowledge base, help you strengthen your relationships and improve your memory as well as health.
Read widely. Choosing something you are already interested in makes it easy to start becoming curious. Reading is one of the best ways to widen your knowledge base. There are books on every topic, from politics to cooking and to gardening. Think about your interests and choose one to start learning about.
Start with the question.
Avoid routines. A set routine is considered an active enemy of curiosity.
A.Be mindful. |
B.Get a book and find out more. |
C.Many people are creatures of habit. |
D.Become aware of your daily reading routines. |
E.In a word, curiosity is beneficial to you in many ways. |
F.Questions about curiosity can be found in a lot of books. |
G.Studies show that we are always too eager to get to the answer. |
【推荐1】Happiness is for everyone. You don’t need to care about those people who have beautiful houses with large gardens and swimming pools or
In fact, happiness is always around you if you put your heart into it.
Happiness is not the same as money. It is a feeling of your heart. When you are poor, you can also say you are very happy, because you have something else that can’t be bought with money.
A.When you are in trouble at school, your friends will help you |
B.If you take every chance you get, you can be a happy and lucky person |
C.those who have nice cars and a lot of money |
D.And when you do something good to others, you will feel happy, too |
E.those who have no houses |
F.If you meet with something frightening, you can give them up and be happy |
G.When you meet with difficulties, you can say loudly you are very happy |
【推荐2】Life is not always easy. One day you wake up feeling like you can take over the world, and the next day you wake up feeling like all you want to do is to lie in bed and hide from everything.
People walk into your life, grab your hand, and lead you through the most beautiful path you’ve known, but sometimes the same people let go of your hand without warning, and you become stranded at a place where you never thought you’d feel lost.
Let’s be honest, sometimes everything is going so great and it seems like nothing could go wrong, but right when you begin to think that, something so horrible comes crashing down and all of a sudden more problems come drowning around you and you just feel so hopeless because it’s so bad…
It’s so hard to understand why such things happen in life, and I personally wish I had an answer to that “why” you always ask yourself, but all I can say is no matter how hard life gets, you have to keep going. The life around you will never stop going on.
I’ll be honest and say that sometimes I feel a little bit worried and all I can think is “Will I be able to keep up? What if everything goes too fast?” But I realize that being scared and living with that burden of running away from problems only slow me down even more.
And I’ve come to the point where I believe that because life never stops, I shouldn’t stop either. It’s okay to take a break and to give yourself time to heal, but you cannot give up and you cannot quit.
Keep positive, fill your heart with gratitude for what you already have, and always remind yourself to be humble and true to who you are!
1. How does the author illustrate “Life is not always easy”?A.By making comparisons | B.By using some famous sayings |
C.By presenting his own experience | D.By listing statistics |
A.pointless | B.reasonable |
C.helpful | D.considerate |
A.Save against a rainy day. |
B.Constant dripping wears away the stone. |
C.A good medicine tastes bitter. |
D.Think it over before you leap. |
【推荐3】Next time a customer comes to your office, offer him a cup of coffee. And when you’re doing your holiday shopping online, make sure you’re holding a large glass of iced tea. The physical sensation(感觉)of warmth encourages emotional warmth, while a cold drink in hand prevents you from making unwise decisions—those are the practical lesson being drawn from recent research by psychologist John A. Bargh.
Psychologists have known that one person’s perception(感知)of another’s “warmth” is a powerful determiner in social relationships. Judging someone to be either “warm” or “cold” is a primary consideration, even trumping evidence that a “cold” person may be more capable. Much of this is rooted in very early childhood experiences, Bargh argues, when babies’ conceptual sense of the world around them is shaped by physical sensations, particularly warmth and coldness. Classic studies by Harry Harlow, published in 1958, showed monkeys preferred to stay close to a cloth “mother” rather than one made of wire, even when the wire “mother” carried a food bottle. Harlow’s work and later studies have led psychologists to stress the need for warm physical contact from caregivers to help young children grow into healthy adults with normal social skills.
Feelings of “warmth” and “coldness” in social judgments appear to be universal. Although no worldwide study has been done, Bargh says that describing people as “warm” or “cold” is common to many cultures, and studies have found those perceptions influence judgment in dozens of countries.
To test the relationship between physical and psychological warmth, Bargh conducted an experiment which involved 41 college students. A research assistant who was unaware of the study’s hypotheses(假设), handed the students either a hot cup of coffee, or a cold drink, to hold while the researcher filled out a short information form: The drink was then handed back. After that, the students were asked to rate the personality of “Person A” based on a particular description. Those who had briefly held the warm drink regarded Person A as warmer than those who had held the iced drink.
“We are grounded in our physical experiences even when we think abstractly,” says Bargh.
1. The author mentions Harlow’s experiment to show that ______.A.adults should develop social skills |
B.babies need warm physical contact |
C.caregivers should be healthy adults |
D.monkeys have social relationships |
A.evaluate someone’s personality |
B.write down their hypotheses |
C.fill out a personal information form |
D.hold coffee and cold drink alternatively |
A.abstract thinking does not come from physical experiences |
B.feelings of warmth and coldness are studied worldwide |
C.physical temperature affects how we see others |
D.capable persons are often cold to others |
A.Drinking for Better Social Relationships. |
B.Experiments of Personality Evaluation. |
C.Developing Better Drinking Habits. |
D.Physical Sensations and Emotions. |