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Other people may have their own ideas about our lives. We can value their advice, but we don’t have to take it to heart.

Our parents have dreams for us. They want us to do well in school and to do whatever is necessary to reach our highest potential (潜力). Later in life, friends may try to set us up with their ideas of the perfect partner or the perfect job. People close to us may have ideas about how we should live our lives, ideas that usually come from love and the desire for us to be happy. Other times, they come from a place of need within them whether it is a parent who wants us to live out his or her dreams or a friend who wants us to play a good role. Whatever the case, we can appreciate and consider those people’s advice, but ultimately we must follow our own guidance.

There may come a time when all the suggestions can become overbearing (专横的). We may feel that the people we love don’t agree on our judgment, which can hurt our feelings. It can affect the choices we make for our lives by making us doubt ourselves before we’ve had a chance to decide what we want. We can tell our loved ones how much we appreciate their thoughts and ideas, but that we need to live our own lives and make our own decisions. We can explain that they need to let us learn from our own experiences. When they see that we are happy with our lives and the path we are taking to reach our goals, they can make sure that all we need them to do is to share in our joy.

1. People close to us often tell us ideas to show their ________.
A.powerB.concernC.potentialD.happiness
2. When a friend’s advice is overbearing, we may feel__________.
A.determinedB.frightenedC.doubtfulD.grateful
3. What should we do if we don’t accept our friends’ advice?
A.Tell them our choices directly.
B.Let them experience our ways of life.
C.Share our own experiences with them.
D.Let them know we should make our own decisions.
4. What is the best title for the text?
A.Appreciating SuggestionsB.Avoiding Making Suggestions
C.Accepting SuggestionsD.Offering Suggestions
【知识点】 朋友 日常生活 友谊

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