1.阐述与父母相处的重要性;
2.谈谈你与父母的相处方式。
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2.请按如下格式在答题卡的相应位置作答。
How I Get Along With My Parents
____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________A.Husband and wife. |
B.Father and daughter. |
C.Employer and employee. |
It’s hard to talk to dads sometimes. The roles we often expect our fathers to play—protector, provider—can make them seem impenetrable (不可理解的). That’s how it was with my dad. He came to Canada at the age of ten and settled in an immigrant community. He was never much of a talker. He rarely drank, so we didn’t get to see him loosen up after a few beers. He didn’t tell stories about himself at the dinner table or when we went for walks in the park. He was a private person and seemed to want to stay that way.
Bringing up the many questions I had about life before I was born--his early hopes and dreams, loves and heartbreaks—let alone sharing my own feelings, felt like too much for us to handle. I didn’t want to threaten the integrity (完整) of his hard shell. I had gotten used to it, and it made me feel secure.
But when my relationship and career suffered a hit a year ago at the same time, things had to change. I was facing serious questions about my own nature (本性), and I wanted to know that he had faced them, too. I needed to know how he had found his way, because I felt like I had lost mine.
In a severe moment of desperation, it occurred to me that sending an email might be the key. An email can be crafted (心制作) slowly and carefully. I could speak at a comfortable distance and give him room to adjust. He’d be up in his office — a comfortable place filled with bookshelves, dusty CD-ROMs and piles of old newspapers. I’d be at my desk in an apartment 20 minutes away.
So I wrote to him. I told him about my regrets and fears, and I asked him to answer, if he felt like it, and to share something about himself, something that would give me much-needed perspective on my life, especially on relationship and career.
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Two weeks later, his response showed up in my email box.
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I closed the email and started to cry.
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Heated arguments and cold silences usually happen between parents and their children.
Although sometimes it may seem impossible to get along as a family, you can take action
5 . Erik and Brittany Mallasch knew each other in 2006. They got married
Erik was a plumber (水电工). He had his own YouTube channel, where he
The loving husband and father devoted most of his
So Erik
It took a little
A.sooner | B.later | C.recently | D.before |
A.providing | B.comparing | C.taking | D.connecting |
A.advantage | B.source | C.success | D.challenge |
A.preferred | B.forgot | C.used | D.lost |
A.waste | B.spend | C.save | D.delay |
A.research | B.shopping | C.space | D.work |
A.feeling | B.time | C.promise | D.honesty |
A.set about | B.looked after | C.passed down | D.cleared up |
A.realized | B.imagined | C.responded | D.announced |
A.opinions | B.hobbies | C.needs | D.stories |
A.fact | B.title | C.idea | D.explanation |
A.finally | B.entirely | C.especially | D.directly |
A.told | B.asked | C.persuaded | D.advised |
A.fear | B.run | C.laugh | D.jump |
A.Following | B.Ignoring | C.Adding | D.Admiring |
A.named | B.supplied | C.handed | D.cheated |
A.hesitation | B.instrument | C.punishment | D.movement |
A.disappointment | B.surprise | C.sadness | D.entertainment |
A.favorite | B.regular | C.personal | D.simplest |
A.requested | B.expected | C.doubted | D.admitted |
Sometimes it can feel like getting along with your parents
When you have
Once your relationship with your parents has been improved, do your best
7 . How to Feel Connected
It's easy to feel disconnected from what is going on around you in today's fast-paced world.
Consider why you feel disconnected. Knowing what is making you feel disconnected can help you choose the best ways to address it.
Interact with people in person. Technology is a great way to stay in touch, but sometimes you need to spend time with other people in person.
Your loved ones could feel shy, so you may never know how to improve your relationship unless you ask the right questions. Asking them to open the doors can give you some insight on what you can do. Learning this information can help to strengthen your bond.
Show your commitment to them. Simply showing up and being there for your loved ones says a lot about how much you value your relationships. Putting in the time shows them that you are committed and want to stay connected.
Show appreciation. A simple “thank you” goes a very long way. Unfortunately, it is something that people who are close often take for granted. Telling someone you appreciate their time, love, and efforts can strengthen your bond and help you to become more connected.
A.Ask others what they need from you. |
B.Sometimes you can feel isolated and distant from the ones you love. |
C.Be brave to express your love. |
D.Reach out to people to schedule a time to get together. |
E.Attending family events, or simply visiting someone once a week can help to strengthen your relationship and keep it strong. |
F.Targeting your efforts toward those issues allows you to close that distance more effectively. |
G.You can have a gift delivered to friends on special occasions. |
A MOTHER’S DAY SURPRISE
The twins were filled with excitement as they thought of the surprise they were planning for Mother’s Day. How pleased and proud Mother would be when they brought her breakfast in bed. They planned to make French toast and chicken porridge. They had watched their mother in the kitchen. There was nothing to it. Jenna and Jeff knew exactly what to do.
The big day came at last. The alarm rang at 6 a.m. The pair went down the stairs quietly to the kitchen. They decided to boil the porridge first. They put some rice into a pot of water and left it to boil while they made the French toast. Jeff broke two eggs into a plate and added in some milk. Jenna found the bread and put two slices into the egg mixture. Next, Jeff turned on the second stove burner to heat up the frying pan. Everything was going smoothly until Jeff started frying the bread. The pan was too hot and the bread turned black within seconds. Jenna threw the burnt piece into the sink and put in the other slice of bread. This time, she turned down the fire so it cooked nicely.
Then Jeff noticed steam shooting out of the pot and the lid starting to shake. The next minute, the porridge boiled over and put out the fire. Jenna panicked. Thankfully, Jeff stayed calm and turned off the gas quickly. But the stove was a mess now. Jenna told Jeff to clean it up so they could continue to cook the rest of the porridge. But Jeff’s hand touched the hot burner and he gave a cry of pain. Jenna made him put his hand in cold water. Then she caught the smell of burning. Oh dear! The piece of bread in the pan had turned black as well.
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As the twins looked around them in disappointment, their father appeared.
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