1 . Volunteering is fun and rewarding (有益的), but if you want to be a good volunteer, you need to learn more.     1     Be well-trained. Know what you’re doing as a volunteer. If you need to learn about your job,     2    If you’re good at your job, it will be easier to help others.     3    Work as part of a team and make sure everyone works together and shares the work. If someone asked for help, just give a hand. If you need some help, ask politely for it.

Be understanding.     4    Be friendly.     5    To be a volunteer, you might meet new people who want to make friends with. You might just meet someone who becomes a friend for the rest of your life.

3 . Spare the rod, spoil the child (不打不成器). Many parents believe it.     1     and that it might result in violence (暴力).

“We are not saying that spanking (打屁股) children must cause violence, but parents are taking it as an example for their children.     2    , they may think that spanking children is a right way and they may carry that forward and get in trouble at last,” said Jeff Temple.

In the study, Temple’s group interviewed 758 persons. About 69 percent said they were spanked during childhood, and     3    . Spanking makes children have poor relationships with their parents later in life.     4    , but in order to avoid the punishment, they may tell a lie.

Parents are the most important people to children and     5    .