1 . There’s no single best way to cheer someone up when they are feeling down.
Write them a handwritten note. If you want to cheer someone up, you don’t have to write a six-page letter detailing every happy thing you can think of.
Have a movie night. Perhaps you won’t be talking a lot during the movie, but it’s an excuse to come together with the person you’re trying to support. Sometimes they just need a little company when they’re feeling down.
Bring them their favorite food. Surprising someone with their favorite meal is an act of kindness that many like. They’re called our “comfort foods” for a reason, and sharing them will help your friends feel better.
A.Try something new together. |
B.Talk about interesting things. |
C.It shows them that you value them. |
D.Often, it just depends on the person. |
E.Being close to someone can help them feel less alone. |
F.A simple note with a supportive sentence or a little card will be OK. |
G.Plus, sharing a meal together is a good chance to chat about whatever they want. |
2 . Social anxiety is a common type of anxiety that we deal with every day. Social anxiety disorder can be caused easily, and leaves long-lasting negative effects on us.
Social anxiety is a disorder that is made up of constant fear of interaction and communicating with other individuals. The sufferers are often very self-conscious about themselves. The anxiety is made up highly of a fear of being judged negatively.
There are multiple different factors that may lead someone to develop the disorder.
A.So it is important to understand it. |
B.It usually lasts 5 to 7 months at the minimum. |
C.Medicines that reduce anxiety are used as part of the treatment. |
D.This will usually lead to frequent escape from social situations. |
E.Social anxiety disorder has a major impact on people’s daily life. |
F.The leading causes are past experiences, stress and the environment. |
G.People with social anxiety can interact easily with some close friends. |
3 . Humans have a lot of emotions. Expressing anger over a broken promise or a lost opportunity is as healthy as expressing joy and sadness and should be encouraged. However,if anger is frequently expressed, it can prove to be harmful for many reasons.
Try positive exercises. When you feel the obvious signs of your anger building up, try to focus on positive practices like deep breathing to calm yourself down.
Reach out to loved ones. Just as you would open up to loved ones over the pain of heart break or the joy of a promotion, calling loved ones when you're about to lose control of your temper is a healthy way of dealing with the emotion.
See a psychologist. Sometimes you feel that your emotions are too strong and unstable to be contained through self-help.
A.Keep a mood journal. |
B.Note all the thoughts in your mind. |
C.Seeking professional guidance is your best choice |
D.Repeat the exercise until your anger is controlled. |
E.They can act as a support group, calming you down. |
F.But joy is a necessary part of your well-being in life. |
G.So learning to deal with this emotion becomes important. |
4 . I was sitting at my kitchen table the other day with a pen, notebook, calculator and a pile of bills. I was doing my monthly budget. There were bills for electric water, rent, insurance, the car payment, the phone bill, and the cable bill. Plus money needed to be set aside for food, gas, clothes and hopefully a little left over to save for those unexpected bills that always seemed to show up. When I was done, I shook my head, closed my eyes and thought of a time long ago when I would regularly get treasures.
When I was a boy, we lived across the road from Camp Caesar. It held week long camps all through the summer and my grandma who I lovingly called “Nanny” worked in her big kitchen. I remember slipping there getting a smile, a hug, a kiss and a hot roll from Nanny. Then she would always take deep in her pockets and pull out a treasure, a shiny quarter. She would give it to me and I would run down the hill to either get an ice cold can of coke from the pop machine or I would head to the camp’s swimming pool where I could buy a warm cup of cherry coke for 15 cents and a tiny 10 cent bag of chips from a stand. I took my time because it was always a big decision. It was nice too feeling so rich for a few minutes.
Looking back now I can see that the real treasure was not the quarter at all. It was the love with which Nanny gave it to me. I would have still visited her at work every day if I had never gotten a single quarter. It was her smile, hugs, and kisses that were priceless in my heart then and now.
The old saying is true, “With your work you can make a living, but it is with your love that you make a life.” You can always welcome love into your heart, soul and mind. And you can always share your love with others. It is that one treasure that lasts forever.
1. According to Paragraph 1, what was the author trying to figure out?A.Where to get treasures. | B.What food and supplies to buy. |
C.How to sort out these bills at hand. | D.How to balance the money available. |
A.A kind of bread | B.A kind of act. |
C.A sound. | D.A greeting. |
A.Considerate. | B.Generous. |
C.Affectionate. | D.Enthusiastic. |
A.To change people’s heart and soul. |
B.To show what we should value in life. |
C.To explain work and love can make a life. |
D.To advise more love and sharing in childhood. |