1 . Self-criticism (自我批评) is a mental habit of negatively analyzing and judging ourselves and our actions. If we don’t find a way to overcome self-criticism, we won’t be able to live a happy and satisfying life.
Stop Negative Thoughts
Thought stopping is one of the best secrets of how to overcome self-criticism. Interrupting your thoughts helps you change how you think about yourself, thus helping you feel better.
Another strategy is to replace negative self-critical thoughts with positive realistic statements. For instance, if you set a goal, be realistic about it by giving yourself enough time to achieve it. In fact, having a constant desire to achieve immediate success can ruin your confidence.
Avoid Perfectionism
Another secret is to let go of the need to be perfect. It’s all right to set high standards for yourself.
Stop Comparing Yourself to Others
A.Be realistic |
B.Focus on strengths |
C.It’s normal to feel like that everyone has a better life than you |
D.Remember it’s from your mistakes that you get to improve yourself |
E.If you’ve been stuck in negative thoughts, here’s what you need to do |
F.It’s important to note that changing your negative thought patterns can take time |
G.However, falling short of your goals and expectations can make you feel worthless |
Jack was a bright and curious child, always eager to learn new things and explore the mysterious world about science. However, he often found himself in disagreement with his mother. His mother was always busy with her work and she didn’t have enough time to learn about his interests and passions.
One day, Jack came home from school feeling particularly excited. He just found a sci-fi book about an adventure on the moon. Upon arriving at home, he couldn’t tear himself away from the book. He read and read until it was dark. Having finished reading it, he couldn’t wait to share it with his mother, only to be told that he should focus on more practical subjects like math and history, which would help him get into a good college and have a successful career.
Jack couldn’t understand why his mother didn’t see the value in what he was doing. He felt that she was holding him back and not allowing him to pursue his true interests. “Why can’t you see how important this is to me?” Jack asked his mother angrily. “I’m never going to be happy if I have to spend my life doing things that I show no interest in just because they are practical or make you proud.”
The once peaceful home was filled with tension and anger. His mother’s voice grew louder as she shouted, “You can’t just do whatever you want! You should be responsible for your future!” Jack, fueled by his own frustration, shot back, “I am tired of you always telling me what to do! I am not a child anymore! You only care about your own feeling! You never thought about my feeling!” They were so caught up in their own anger and hurt that they failed to see how their words and actions were affecting each other.
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Jack rushed into his bedroom and locked the door heavily.
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When Jack heard his mother’s words, regretful tears rolled down his face.
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3 . As bad as it feels, anxiety is essential. It’s awful, but imagine not having it? Imagine the state of our lives and relationships if we don’t have that little feeling inside us going, “Ah, don’t go there. Don’t do that.”
Name things that make you feel safe
If you’re feeling anxious, ask yourself, “What are some things that help me feel safer?”
Try naming five things you can hear, taste, touch, smell or feel. You can also try washing your face with cold water. Smelling something strong can help too. These strategies help activate the parasympathetic nervous system (副交感神经系统),which can allow the body to relax.
Acknowledge your physical sensations
Naming how you feel physically when anxious can help dial down the intensity. For example, let’s say you feel anxiety in your stomach.
A.Use your senses to relieve yourself. |
B.Describe your pain to your physician. |
C.Notice you feel like it’s on fire and it’s tight. |
D.Thus, your physical sufferings will be greatly relieved. |
E.Anxiety is how our body can signal to us when we’re in danger. |
F.That way, the part of your brain responsible for logic can come back online. |
G.It could be a person you feel comfortable around or a TV show you love rewatching. |
4 . In 1980, Dad was diagnosed(诊断) with a serious disease. The disease
“Oh, you know, dear, the same. They treat me like a mushroom around here. They keep me in the dark.” He laughed, proud of his
As I walked through the kitchen, I stopped to hug Mom. She
Care-giving comes at a
A.affected | B.connected | C.gathered | D.improved |
A.used | B.hated | C.agreed | D.had |
A.happy | B.crazy | C.curious | D.normal |
A.beat | B.scare | C.refuse | D.hug |
A.information | B.joy | C.humour | D.protest |
A.held | B.washed | C.nodded | D.shook |
A.help | B.enjoy | C.challenge | D.remind |
A.leaving | B.continuing | C.chatting | D.complaining |
A.short | B.bad | C.deep | D.last |
A.heard from | B.trapped in | C.figured out | D.checked on |
A.Gradually | B.Typically | C.Thankfully | D.Regularly |
A.awarded | B.identified | C.fancied | D.appreciated |
A.price | B.ceremony | C.time | D.distance |
A.care | B.independence | C.laughter | D.energy |
A.permission | B.love | C.response | D.honesty |
5 . Many people were never taught how to express their emotions. Because they do not know how to express them, they end up repressing (压抑) their emotions instead. For people who have gone through painful life situations, they can end up engaging in unhealthy behaviours to avoid expressing their emotions, such as performing self-injuries or developing eating disorders.
●Recognize the importance of expressing emotions.
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Many people who have never learned how to express their emotions have a difficult time even labeling what those emotions are. Some people might feel anger when the emotion that they are actually dealing with is pain. Others might cry and feel sad in situations in which anger is really the more appropriate (合适的) emotion. Practise labeling the emotion that you are actually having.
●Express your anger physically.
Anger can be a frightening emotion for many people to express. Anger is best expressed physically, especially if you have a lot of repressed anger to process.
●Cry out your pain.
Tears really do heal a wounded spirit. However, many people have a hard time expressing their sorrow.
A.Label your emotions appropriately. |
B.Unexpressed emotions affect your life. |
C.Everyone must express his or her emotions immediately. |
D.A good laugh can do wonders for a person’s emotional state. |
E.Expressing emotions is the best way to release repressed feelings. |
F.Choose a physical activity that will not harm another person or yourself. |
G.Try watching a sad movie and allowing yourself to cry for the characters. |
One of the most common emotions we all feel while pursuing a goal is frustration. How do you deal
Frustration is
We deal with it by picking our battles. If the thing
By taking these two simple steps, you can save
7 . According to The Tohoku Journal of Experimental Medicine, laughter has many profound physiological and psychological benefits. It can relax muscles, promote mental and psychological well-being, etc. But we have become so busy with our daily routines that we rarely laugh. Laughter Online University found that children laugh 300 to 400 times on an average, whereas adults laugh only 17.5 times in a day.
◆Reduce stress
◆Ensure a healthy relationship
My friend and I used to have issues and never talked for over a month.But suddenly, one day, she sent me a super funny meme (表情包) while on call, and we both laughed at it. Just laughing together made us come closer.
Boost your confidence Have you ever experienced that when you laugh at a fearful situation, you feel more courage and confidence?
A.Laughter is a powerful stress killer. |
B.If you ask me, I have experienced this. |
C.I had anger issues when I was in school. |
D.This simple laughter had a significant effect on me. |
E.It also helps us forget problems and cherish friendship. |
F.Laughter can help you think clearly and more effectively. |
G.No wonder why we adults suffer mental problems like anxiety. |
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