1 . Feeling anxious? Try smiling or doing a good deed to get rid of it.
Taitz, a clinical psychologist, published a new book Stress Resets: How to Soothe (缓和) Your Body and Mind in Minutes.
Name that emotion. You feel overwhelmed with negative emotions and you’re not sure why you feel this way.
Wear a half smile.
Do a good deed. You feel like you have no control over your life and nothing seems to be going right because you feel powerless, says Taitz. Doing a good deed can remind you that you have the power and ability to make things better for yourself and others.
Taitz says all of these are actions like “small wheels on a big suitcase.” So pause the next time you are feeling stressed and give yourself a reset.
A.Make a pie chart of your life |
B.Classify the upsetting events |
C.Do you tense up your face when you’re stressed |
D.Are you in a setting that is making you force a smile |
E.Observe and describe the emotion and label its intensity |
F.You can live by your values even if so much is out of your control |
G.She shares 75 techniques to help reduce stress and anxiety in real time |
2 . In order to grow and be better than before , you must learn to be emotionally intelligent. Here are some strategies to help you become emotionally mature!
You cannot change others. Everyone else is entitled to their own beliefs and opinions. It is completely normal. Keeping that in mind, it is better if you understand that you cannot change others, no matter how hard you try. Even if you try changing others and their feelings, you will only be hurting yourself in the process.
People interact with us like we are mind readers sometimes.
It is necessary to take responsibility for your actions. Just like your words, you need to take full responsibility for your actions. Many people make silly excuses and don’t take responsibility for their actions. That is where they hurt others and themselves.
A.You need to mind whatever you do. |
B.You are known by the company you keep. |
C.Just as you try to be a mind reader, others expect so. |
D.The best course of action would be to change yourself. |
E.Whenever you feel something like that, cut ties with them. |
F.Your partner would want you to know exactly what they want. |
G.If you make a mistake and affect others negatively, apologize immediately. |
3 . Psychologists have defined nostalgia (怀旧) as self-conscious, socially emotional, bittersweet but mainly positive. It develops out of happy memories mixed with a longing for the past and the close relationships we had back then. Often, nostalgia involves five senses. For example, the smell of autumn leaves might spark an intense longing for your childhood home.
Almost everyone experiences nostalgia, although its object tends to vary throughout life. One survey conducted by the psychologist Krystine Irene Batcho found that younger people felt more nostalgia for pets, toys, and holidays than did older people, who felt it more strongly for music. I came of age in the 1980s, and even songs I found hopelessly annoying back then can fill me with nostalgic emotions.
As my colleague Julie Beck has written, nostalgia was originally viewed as an emotional disorder when it was first defined in the late 17th century. And, crucially, it often occurs when people are experiencing negative moods or having bad experiences. Loneliness can be a trigger, as researchers found in 2008. Another is bad weather.
However, despite its association with negative emotions, nostalgia does not cause or increase unhappiness. Rather, nostalgia is a defense response to unhappiness, one that brings relief from a negative mood. Psychologists writing in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology in 2006 found that stirring nostalgia in experiments strengthened people’s social bonds, boosted their positive feelings about themselves, and improved their mood. Similar research has shown that when people feel nostalgia, it can fire their sense of life’s meaning, lower an existential (存在主义的) reaction to the idea of death, increase spirituality, and raise optimism.
Scholars aren’t sure exactly why nostalgia works; some have inferred that recalling happy memories strengthens “valued aspects of the self” in situations when we might otherwise feel lonely or unworthy. Either way, its emotional intensity allows the joy of the past to overpower the unpleasantness of the present, a little escapism that helps get us through the bad times.
1. What do the psychologists think of nostalgia?A.Always painful. | B.Primarily positive. |
C.Seldom intense. | D.Usually unconscious. |
A.To show the objects of nostalgia change with age. |
B.To illustrate annoying music often leads to nostalgia. |
C.To highlight the young are more likely to be nostalgic. |
D.To demonstrate nostalgia has an impact on emotions. |
A.Attending a lively class. | B.Engaging in a family reunion. |
C.Staying alone in an empty room. | D.Joining in a joyful birthday party. |
A.Maintaining self-respect. | B.Shaping personal insights. |
C.Escaping from daily chaos. | D.Enhancing one’s self-worth. |
4 . Have you ever started your day feeling unbeatable, only to feel worn down by the time you get into bed?
Practise gratitude. As you wake up, whether naturally or through your alarm, pause for a few seconds.
Exhale(呼出) your tension. If you feel anxious or stressed as you wake up, take a few minutes to do an exercise to deal with the tension. Stand tall and bring both hands to your chest. Inhale, and then exhale as you open your arms and reach down to touch the floor. This will stretch your body and oxygenate your brain.
Check in with yourself. On your way to work, take a minute to “check in” with yourself. Think through your goals for the day.
A.Brighten your day. |
B.Respond, don’t react. |
C.Teach the body to sense it is safe. |
D.And imagine yourself completing them well. |
E.Thus you process your tension feeling more positive. |
F.Look around the room for something you are grateful for. |
G.The daily ups and downs weaken your resolve and leave you low. |
5 . “You’re as stupid as a goat.” It is a common insult (侮辱) in Nigeria. Recently a study published in Animal Behaviour suggested that’s just not true.
Alan McElligott, associate professor of animal behavior and welfare in City University of Hong Kong conducted a study in cooperation with Marianne Mason, an expert in the cognitive (认知的) abilities of goats in England.
In the experiment, a speaker was hidden to play a recording of a human saying “Hey, look over here!” with two versions—a happy one and an angry one. When the study’s 27 goat participants entered the pen one by one, the speaker would play either the positive or negative version 9 times in a row. At first the goats would respond by looking up and even looking for the source of the sound. But after a few repetitions, they would just stop paying attention. Then the speaker switched to play the opposite version three times. 71% of those disinterested goats lifted their ears and looked up in the direction of the sound. Among those newly engaged goats, some started to investigate the source of the sound longer than in the initial stages of the experiment, suggesting they noticed the emotions had changed.
The finding is a case in point of the intelligence of goats. Actually, experienced goat farmers have already known that their livestock (家畜) are discriminating listeners and respond well to kind treatment. So why do such a study if that’s already known? “By showing this ability in goats, we’re trying to move the needle in terms of opening people’s eyes to the cognitive abilities of livestocks. Our overall goal is to get people to think about animals in a different way, to treat them a little bit better.” says Mason. The two researchers hope that people will start to understand these livestocks deserve to be nicely treated, especially as we are using them for our milk products and meat.
1. What did Alan McElligott and Marianne Mason work together on?A.The intelligence of goats. | B.Social abilities of animals. |
C.Distinctive behavior of goats. | D.Animal welfare in HongKong. |
A.The 27 goats paid no attention to the voice all the time. |
B.The majority of goats noticed the change of the emotions. |
C.The speaker kept playing the positive version throughout the experiment. |
D.The goats kept responding to the source of the sound in the initial stages. |
A.Adjust a study goal. | B.Shift the public’s attention. |
C.Make a positive change. | D.Change the original structure. |
A.The background of the study. | B.The main purpose of the study. |
C.The farmers’reactions to the study. | D.The wisdom of some goat farmers. |
6 . You laugh out loud when a friend misses a step on the stairs, but soon you feel guilty of laughing at other’s clumsiness. You may ask yourself “Shouldn’t I feel empathetic (共情的) for the person involved?” Don’t worry. Your laughter is not provoked by lack of empathy. As a clinical psychologist, I’d like to shed light on different aspects of such a situation which can bring our usually well-meaning laughter.
The first of these ingredients is surprise. The unexpected situation surprises us and creates a departure from the predictable, from what we expected to see. This incongruous (不一致的) situation highlights our errors of prediction. Laughing at the situation is a way of resolving the incongruity by making a new and comic interpretation of what we witnessed.
Besides, we react according to how we interpret the person’s facial expression. A study explored this. Participants were asked to view 210 images representing three types of faces: faces expressing a puzzled look, faces expressing pain or anger, and people whose bodies were placed in awkward positions, without the face being visible.
At the end of the study, participants rated the images with puzzled faces as funnier than images in which the faces expressed pain or anger, and funnier than images in which bodies were shown in ridiculous positions but no facial expression was seen.
So when we perceive puzzlement in the facial expression of the victim of clumsiness, this information creates a context that makes us laugh. On the other hand, if we can read suffering or anger in the facial expression, we will be touched by the pain of the victim of the fall and be empathetic, which will prevent us from laughing.
Let’s forgive ourselves for laughing at comical situations involving other people’s clumsiness! Having learnt that they are not actually in danger and have not really hurt themselves, we aren’t laughing at the other person’s suffering.
1. What does the underlined word “provoked” in Paragraph 1 mean?A.Determined. | B.Confirmed. | C.Caused. | D.Prevented. |
A.Unpredictability. | B.Visibility. | C.Dignity. | D.Identity. |
A.The faces expressing pain or anger were often ignored. |
B.Awkward positions seemed funnier than puzzled expressions. |
C.People laughed at others’ suffering in unfortunate situations. |
D.Participants were asked to indicate how funny the images were. |
A.Praiseworthy. | B.Unacceptable. | C.Forgivable. | D.Ridiculous. |
7 . Our Greatest Gift
Recently, a friend told me a story about twins talking to each other in the womb (子宫). The sister said to the brother, “I believe there is
Her brother
The little girl
After some silence, the sister said,
Her brother became angry. “A mother!” He
The sister was overwhelmed by her brothers
“Yes,” he answered. “What’s
“Well,” the sister said, “I think that these squeezes are there to get us ready
A.soil | B.air | C.life | D.water |
A.protested | B.projected | C.proposed | D.protected |
A.react | B.depend | C.hold | D.focus |
A.whispered | B.insisted | C.commented | D.reviewed |
A.chance | B.ability | C.freedom | D.choice |
A.dislike | B.admire | C.motivate | D.convince |
A.hesitantly | B.immediately | C.reluctantly | D.gradually |
A.world | B.bird | C.mother | D.human |
A.spoke | B.thought | C.wept | D.shouted |
A.both | B.so | C.not | D.neither |
A.in all | B.after all | C.above all | D.not at all |
A.satisfied | B.quiet | C.patient | D.diligent |
A.attitude | B.response | C.action | D.behavior |
A.give in to | B.reflect on | C.think of | D.let go of |
A.talk | B.refer | C.lend | D.devote |
A.squeezes | B.loads | C.burdens | D.secrets |
A.cosy | B.excellent | C.unpleasant | D.comfortable |
A.particular | B.special | C.wrong | D.angry |
A.in | B.at | C.for | D.with |
A.when | B.which | C.before | D.where |
1.表达安慰;
2.中国救援队已到达进行援助;
3.表达希望和对其重建家园的信心。
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1. What are the speakers likely to do?
A.Cancel the booking. | B.Enjoy the tea. | C.Make tea for Mike. |
A.He forgot to phone them. |
B.He is too aggressive. |
C.He didn’t keep the appointment. |
A.By letter. | B.By phone. | C.In person. |
10 . Understanding Your Feelings Helps You Name And Tame (驯服) Them
We all experience various feelings all the time. Some of them feel great, some feel unpleasant, and it’s helpful to be able to recognize and understand how you’re feeling so you know how to deal with it.
To deal with your feelings you need to recognize what they are.
You can understand a difficult feeling and help yourselfto handle it.
A.Experts call this “name it to tame it” . |
B.How can you deal with different feelings? |
C.Perhaps you have the thought, “It’s not fair” . |
D.Feelings are how people experience emotions. |
E.First of all, notice what’s going on with your body. |
F.They are shown through various body movements, to begin with. |
G.Feelings are sometimes labelled as good or bad but that isn’t helpful. |