1 . When is a kid not a kid anymore? If you asked my 12-year-old daughter, the magical age would be 13, when you can no longer be considered a “child”. If you asked my 15-year-old niece, the age would be 16, when she will be able to drive a car and get an after-school job. According to the U. S. government, a child officially becomes an adult when they turn 18. That’s when they can vote. But even though an 18-year-old starts paying taxes, the government does not consider that person mature enough to buy a beer. Still, even a kid who can buy a beer is not old enough to rent a car.
Scientists have learned from a new study that when kids are around 18, their prefrontal cortex, which helps control impulses, solve problems, and organize behavior, is only halfway developed. That’s not to say that kids in their late teens and early 20s can’t take on these tasks, but it means that it’s harder for them to do so - at least until around age 25 or so when this area of the brain fully develops.
“What we’re really saying is that to have a definition of when you move from childhood to adulthood looks absurd,” Peter Jones from the University of Cambridge said. “It’s a much more nuanced (微妙的) change that takes place over thirty years.”
This isn’t a news flash for parents who have watched their teens take crazy risks while seeming unable to get their lives together until they’re older. But this information throws new light on the way kids without as much support are treated. In the foster (寄养的) care system, once a child turns 18, he can no longer receive state-backed support. And many people think this is too early for a teen to be on his own, especially a teen who has experienced a painful childhood. Because of this, some foster care advocates think it makes more sense for 25 to be the new legal age of adulthood.
1. What does the author want to show us in Paragraph 1?A.Different age groups have different needs. |
B.Becoming an adult means you can do a lot of things. |
C.People have different opinions on becoming an adult. |
D.Children need to learn basic life skills to become an adult. |
A.To explain why teenagers are at risk. |
B.To suggest a way of helping teenagers develop. |
C.To explore the characteristics of different age groups. |
D.To discover when the human brain is fully developed. |
A.Impossible. | B.Invaluable. |
C.Unreasonable. | D.Uninteresting. |
A.It may inspire teens to be independent. |
B.It may allow a 20-year-old to get government support. |
C.It may drive the government to protect the foster care system. |
D.It may encourage parents to stop supporting their children at college. |
2 . What are the speakers talking about?
A.Polite greetings. | B.Table manners. | C.Body language. |
1. The more friends you have, the happier you’ll be.
2. Having a few true friends is enough.
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1. Whom did people usually marry in Russia in the past?
A.Those with the same interests. |
B.Those with the same background. |
C.Those with the same profession. |
A.She was a scientist. | B.She was a teacher. | C.She was a musician. |
5 . Tips to help you overcome people-pleasing
Considering other people’s feelings and treating them with kindness is something we strive to do.
When this happens, people-pleasing has crossed the line from kind and generous to self-abandonment — not being the authentic self because we’re afraid others will disapprove, criticize, or reject us. Here are tips for you to overcome such behaviors.
Self-care is a necessity, not a luxury. It’s not something you do if you have time or if you deserve it. Taking care of your emotional, mental, spiritual, and physical needs keeps you healthy. Without it, you’ll get sick, stressed, and irritable. Try putting self-care activities (exercise, socializing, hobbies, etc.) on your calendar to ensure that self-care is a priority.
Not everyone’s opinion matters.
One big mistake people-pleasers make is acting as if everyone’s opinion matters equally. You don’t differentiate whose opinion matters more. Generally, the closer the relationship, the more you’ll value their opinion and want to please them. Thus, it’s natural to want to do things to make your loved ones happy.
Healthy conflict can improve relationships.
Most people worry that painful conflicts will destroy relationships.
A.Be aware of your inner needs. |
B.Taking care of yourself isn’t selfish. |
C.This indicates that we’re People-Pleasers. |
D.It’s understandable and common to want to avoid them. |
E.But sacrificing our wellbeing to make others happy is not. |
F.However, you don’t need to please acquaintances in the same way. |
G.It results in greater understanding and ultimately strengthens the relationship. |
1. What does the man invite Grace to do tonight?
A.Attend a party. | B.Go to the library. | C.Go over the lessons. |
A.A coming exam. | B.Some new emojis. | C.A popular game. |
7 . Self-confidence is about trusting your judgement and your ability to do something well. It is also about being willing to consider the possibility that you are wrong and change your mind. It is a combination of courage and humility, which leads to open-minded thinking.
·One of the reasons is the home environment where children grow and develop. They may find it difficult to develop self-confidence if their parents are critical or overprotective. Once they fail to fulfill expectations, they may feel bad about themselves and get trapped in the cage of self-doubt.
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Self-confidence can be improved
·Work on positive thinking. A positive attitude will lead to positive results. Go for it and don’t worry about letting others down.
·Set realistic goals for yourself and visualize yourself achieving these goals.
A.Instead, try to make up for lost time |
B.All they expect is that you do your best |
C.Confidence is built an a sense of accomplishment |
D.Children spare no effort to satisfy parents’ expectations |
E.Negative experiences also have a huge impact on self-confidence |
F.Low self-confidence, in contrast, will make you feel unmotivated |
G.The reasons for low self-confidence often differ from person to person |
8 . Not being able to see someone you love for a long time is very difficult…but it does make reuniting (重逢) all the more
Owen and Stevie
Owen and Stevie
As luck would have it, Owen’s dad recently
Although Stevie had no idea what was going on, one thing was certain: it couldn’t have happened at a better time.
Everyone has
As Stevie opened the door, Owen was sitting there! “What are you doing here?” Stevie said before crying. “You just
“I’m visiting you,” Owen replied and gave Stevie a huge hug (拥抱). He
A.dangerous | B.affordable | C.boring | D.special |
A.fought | B.met | C.left | D.worked |
A.friends | B.teachers | C.heroes | D.parents |
A.Strangely | B.Hopefully | C.Unluckily | D.Personally |
A.formed | B.ended | C.strengthened | D.challenged |
A.regretted | B.tried | C.refused | D.helped |
A.planned | B.avoided | C.offered | D.canceled |
A.pass up | B.pay for | C.compete for | D.jump at |
A.praise | B.join | C.thank | D.surprise |
A.busy | B.important | C.bad | D.happy |
A.shouted | B.arrived | C.woke | D.laughed |
A.remember | B.show | C.know | D.love |
A.broke my heart | B.missed my point | C.made my day | D.followed my example |
A.frightened | B.comforted | C.shamed | D.trained |
A.dreaming | B.walking | C.drinking | D.considering |
9 . When a friendship hit s a wall, how do you know whether to work on the relationship or let it go? “It actually is a matter of life and death,” wrote Lydia Denworth in her book. “Friendship is not a choice.It’s a necessity that is important to our ability to succeed.” If you’ve lost touch with good friends, it could be time to work through hurt feelings and repair the friendships.
●Think and write down the good
Before you face a difficult conversation with a friend, pause and think it over.“Think of the moments when this friendship has brought you joy or excitement,” suggested Adam, author of Friendship in the Age of Loneliness.
●Choose a different way to communicate
●Give it time and try again
People differ in how they deal with conflict (争执), so remember that you may need to give a friendship some breathing room before trying again.
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Sometimes a friendship suffers because of a miscommunication, and sometimes the problems run much deeper. Franco encouraged people not to let a single problem break up a friendship. “Conflict is a chance to improve a friendship. Don’t give up on friendships because one problem has occurred,” Franco said.
A.Don’t give up |
B.Stay with your friends |
C.Here are some ways to repair a friendship |
D.Then write down things you appreciate about a friend |
E.However, you should find ways to change your relationship |
F.If repair efforts have not worked, try a different way to communicate |
G.Franco, a friendship expert, said that friendships may require time to make progress |
Finally, the bell rang. “Don’t forget to practice your class presentation at home!” Miss Bella cried as everyone started talking and packing their school bags. Jessy felt sick. She hated having to read aloud in class. She was sure everyone got really bored listening to her. Once, when Jessy was reading out her holiday diary, Lee was even looking at his watch, a silver and blue one which seemed just magical.
Jessy watched Lee walk ahead of her as they left school. He seemed so clever, and he had a certain so rt of shining confidence. He was just one of those people who were good at everything. Jessy sighed. As she turned the corner, she saw Lee’s watch lying right in the middle of the path.
Jessy knew she should just pick it up and return it to him, but she didn’t want to run after him. Jessy bent down quickly, picked up the watch and ran home. On arriving home, Jessy put it on almost without thinking. She was surprised it fitted so well. She walked to the mirror and started practicing her speech. Words just flooded out of her. “I’m going to talk about swimming. I have been lucky. I’ve won lots of competitions. But when I’m in a race, I’m not really thinking about winning. I’m just loving the feeling of being in the water...”Jessy laughed with excitement. She walked across the room. She suddenly seemed to have a certain so rt of confidence. Turning back to the mirror, Jessy saw a flash of light from the watch in the glass. The flashes of silver seemed almost magical. So maybe Lee’s watch really did have something magic about it.
The next day, as the lesson began, Miss Bella asked who was going to be brave and go first. Nobody moved. Jessy slowly raised her arm. Before Miss Bella could say anything, there was a shout from behind. “She’s stolen my watch!” Lee said angrily, “It went missing at school yesterday.”
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Everybody was fixing their eyes on Jessy, waiting for an explanation.
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Miss Bella smiled and asked the class to listen to Jessy’s speech first.
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