1 . It’s important to be able to talk to people when networking and building strong relationships. If you work in a professional role, you probably need to make small talk sometimes. However, you may don’t know how to make small talk. Don’t worry.
Put your electronic devices away. The first step to making small talk is to put your devices away. This is a small but meaningful gesture in this digitalized world.
Listen first. In social situations, one way to show you are offering your full attention is to listen.
Ask open questions.
A.Respond enthusiastically. |
B.Here are some tips for you. |
C.They are some simple but useful methods. |
D.Behave properly in response to open questions. |
E.When you are talking with someone, listening is also important. |
F.When you ask about the person you are speaking to, ask open-ended questions. |
G.Putting your phone or computer away shows you focus on the person you are talking to. |
A.Mr. Jones is busy now. |
B.Mr. Smith has taken over Mr. Jones's work. |
C.The man mistook Mr. Smith for Mr. Jones. |
3 . We may think that communication is as simple as our words. This is not the case. The fact is that we receive far more information than what we say.
Let people see your hands.
Slow down.
We all can work on these things above. But the receiver of our message is the judge. Their perception (感知)of our body language rules the day. When we apply the ideas above, we will increase the chances that their perception is positive.
A.Be a mirror. |
B.Words alone aren’t enough. |
C.Use encouraging body language. |
D.We all use them to communicate. |
E.Some of us rush our communication. |
F.Words are the most effective form of communication. |
G.If so, better communication and relationships will follow. |
4 . Mark, a professor at Stanford University, published a paper named The Strength of Weak Ties. Until then scholars had agreed that a person’s happiness depended mainly on the quality of relationships with close friends and family.
Weak ties or strong ones, which are more important?
One way to think about any person’s social world is that you have an inner circle of people whom you often talk to and feel close, and an outer circle of people whom you see infrequently or just for a short time. Mark named these “strong ties” and “weak ties”.
Someone people knew may bring more opportunities.
Mark studied 282 Boston-based workers and found that most of them got their jobs through someone they knew.
Sandstrom, a senior lecturer in psychology, found that people with larger networks of weak ties tended to be happier in general, and that on days when a participant had a greater number of casual interactions(互动) with weak ties — a neighbour, a member of yoga class — they experienced more happiness.
When do weak-tie interactions happen?
A.Mark showed that quantity(数量) matters, too |
B.Only the people with strong ties can feel it |
C.Weak-tie interactions happen when we are out |
D.People get happiness from weak-tie relationships |
E.Mark even went to interview these people in person |
F.But only a minority got the job through a close friend |
G.He stressed weak ties are more important to us than strong ones |
A.Friends. | B.Salesman and customer. | C.Boss and employee. |
要点提示:1.衣着干净、整齐,保持微笑;
2.诚实,乐于助人;
3.懂得与他人合作;
4.其它。
How to be popular
Most people would like to be popular with others,but what is the secret to achieve popularity? In fact,it is very simple.
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提示:
1.人物介绍;
2.推荐理由(学习、品质、班级工作等);
3.你的愿望。
注意:
1.词数100左右;
2.可以适当增加细节,以使行文连贯;
3.开头和结尾已给出,不计入总词数。
参考词汇:雾霾haze 维生素vitamin
Dear Peter,
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Yours,
Li Hua
8 . D
Sure, it’s good to get along with your teacher because it makes the time you spend in the classroom more pleasant.
And yes, it’s good to get along with your teacher because, in general, it’s smart to learn how to relate to the different types of people you’ll meet throughout your life.
But really, there’s one super-important reason why you should get along with your teacher. When you do, “learning bursts right open,” says Evelyn Vuko, a longtime teacher who writes an education column called “Teacher Says” for the Washington Post newspaper.
In fact, kids who get along with their teachers not only learn more, but they’re more comfortable asking questions and getting extra help. This makes it easier to understand new material and do your best on tests. When you have this kind of relationship with a teacher, he or she can be someone to turn to with problems, such as problems with learning or school issues, such as bullying(欺负人).
As a kid in a primary or middle school, you’re at a wonderful stage in your life. You’re like a sponge(海绵), able to soak up lots of new and exciting information. On top of that, you’re able to think about all this information in new ways. Your teacher knows that, and in most cases, is very excited to be the person who’s giving you all that material and helping you put it together. Remember, teachers are people, too, and they feel great if you’re open to what they’re teaching you. That’s why they wanted to be teachers in the first place --- to teach!
Some kids may be able to learn in any situation, whether they like the teacher or not. But most kids are sensitive to the way they get along with the teacher, and if things aren’t going well, they won’t learn as well and won’t enjoy being in class.
1. In the passage, the author mainly talks about _____.A.how to get along well with teachers |
B.the importance of a good relation with teachers |
C.how much the students are expected of to get along with teachers |
D.how to make the time in the classroom more pleasant |
A.learning becomes easier for you at once |
B.you find an opening to learning |
C.there’ll be more problems with learning |
D.there’ll be no problems with learning. |
A.You are getting on well with your teachers, so you have more questions than others. |
B.You find it comfortable to ask questions, so you can build a good relationship with teachers. |
C.You have a good relationship with teacher, so you can turn to him/ her when in trouble. |
D.You are in trouble, so you can build a good relationship with teachers. |
A.Teachers are exited even if you wouldn’t like to accept their teaching. |
B.Teachers sometimes have the same feelings as students do. |
C.Though few there are still some students who can learn even if they don’t like the teacher. |
D.Having a bad relationship with your teachers does more or less harm to your studies. |