1 . Grandparents Answer a Call
As a third-generation native of Brownsville, Texas, Mildred Garza never planned to move away.Even when her daughter and son asked her to move to San Antonio to help with their children, she politely refused.Only after a year of friendly discussion did Ms.Garza finally say yes.That was four years ago.Today all three generations regard the move as a success, giving them a closer relationship than they would have had in separate cities.
No statistics show the number of grandparents like Garza who are moving closer to adult children and grandchildren. Yet there is evidence suggesting that the trend is growing.Even President Obama’s mother-in-law, Marian Robinson, has agreed to leave Chicago and move into the White House to help care for her granddaughters. According to a study by grandparents.com, 83 percent of the people said Mrs.Robinson's decision will influence grandparents in the American family.Two-thirds believe more families will follow the example of Obama’s family.
“In the 1960s we were all a little wild and couldn't get away from home far enough or fast enough to prove we could do it on our own,”says Christine Crosby, publisher of Grand, a magazine for grandparents. “We now realize how important family is and how important it is to be near them, especially when you’re raising children.”
Moving is not for everyone. Almost every grandparent wants to be with his or her grandchildren and is willing to make sacrifices, but sometimes it is wiser to say no and visit frequently instead.Having your grandchildren far away is hard, especially knowing your adult child is struggling, but giving up the life you know may be harder.
1. Why was Garza’s move a success?A.It strengthened her family ties. |
B.It improved her living conditions. |
C.It enabled her to make more friends. |
D.It helped her know more new places. |
A.17% expressed their support for it. |
B.Few people responded sympathetically. |
C.83% believed it had a bad influence. |
D.The majority thought it was a trend. |
A.They were unsure of themselves. |
B.They were eager to raise more children. |
C.They wanted to live away from their parents. |
D.They had little respect for their grandparents. |
A.Make decisions in the best interests of their own. |
B.Ask their children to pay more visits to them. |
C.Sacrifice for their struggling children. |
D.Get to know themselves better. |
2 . Avoid Internet Addiction
Admit you have an addition.
Limit your computer time.Make sure not to turn it on too many times a week.Before using your computer,decide on a time limit such as 30 minutes.Set the clock and make sure that you get off the computer when the time is up.
Try using the computer at the library.You won't be as attracted to look at certain websites and they do have a limit on how long you can stay online.
A.You will be happier if you use the Internet less. |
B.There is no use avoiding the truth. |
C.Also,it is a good place to get some good books and magazines to read. |
D.Get a hobby or an interest. |
E.Internet addition affects a lot of people. |
F.Get your family to remind you if you've been on a long time. |
G.Try to reduce the amount of time by 5minutes each time. |