1 . The work-life balance is dead. By this, I’m not advocating that you should give up your pursuit of having a fulfilling career and a thriving personal life, and I’m definitely not saying that you have to give up one to have the other. I also acknowledge that we have a work-life problem, but I’m arguing that the concept of balance has never been helpful, because it’s too limiting. You see, our language makes a difference, and how we refer to things matters because it affects our thinking and therefore our actions.
At the minimum, most of us work because we want to be able to support ourselves, our families, and the people around us. In the ideal world, we’re all doing work that we’re proud of and that provides meaning and purpose to us. But even if your job doesn’t give you shivers of joy each new day, working is a part of what each of us does and the contribution we make to society. When you separate work and life, it’s a little bit harder to make that connection. But when you think of work as part of a full life and a complete experience, it becomes easier to see that success in one aspect often supports another.
Losing your balance and falling isn’t pleasant. A goal to balance suggests that things could quickly get off the balance, and that causes terrible outcomes. It’s more constructive to think of solutions that continue to evolve over shifts in life and work. Rather than falling or failing, you may have good days or better days or not-so-good days. These variations are normal, and it’s more useful to think of life as something that is ever evolving and changing, rather than a high-risk enterprise where things could go wrong with one misstep.
How we talk to ourselves matters, and how we talk about issues makes a difference. Let’s bury “work-life balance” and think bigger and better about work-life fulfillment to do a little less balancing and a lot more living.
1. What does the author say about our use of language?A.It changes with the passage of time. |
B.It impacts how we think and behave. |
C.It reflects how we communicate. |
D.It differs from person to person. |
A.We do work that betters the lives of our families and friends. |
B.We do work that gives us bursts of joy each new day. |
C.We do meaningful work that contributes to society. |
D.We do demanding work that brings our capacity into full play. |
A.It is cyclical. |
B.It is dynamic. |
C.It is balanced. |
D.It is risky. |
A.Make life as simple as possible. |
B.Talk about balance in simpler terms. |
C.Balance life and work in a new way. |
D.Strive for a more fulfilling life. |
2 . I come from a long line of farmers. When my parents moved to Wisconsin, farming allowed them to
I didn’t
As a kid, I hated doing farm work and I never thought that someday I would say that I kind of
A.connect | B.head | C.retire | D.report |
A.changed | B.covered | C.replaced | D.affected |
A.dream | B.game | C.chore | D.mystery |
A.sold | B.gave | C.sent | D.lent |
A.intention | B.opportunity | C.choice | D.job |
A.while | B.if | C.since | D.until |
A.regret | B.monitor | C.appreciate | D.complain |
A.generation | B.graduate | C.professional | D.beginner |
A.give away | B.make up | C.act out | D.relate to |
A.expected | B.learned | C.chosen | D.demanded |
A.corn | B.rice | C.beans | D.flowers |
A.flexible | B.necessary | C.legal | D.possible |
A.improves | B.revives | C.works | D.exists |
A.confusion | B.permission | C.balance | D.hope |
A.miss | B.risk | C.delay | D.escape |
3 . Mr. Smith, the professor at my business class, had a unique way of going over the answers to our weekly tests. For each question, he would ask a random student for their answer and then continue to grill(盘问追问) him/her, forcing him/her to defend that answer. It was certainly a memorable way to review. How I wished I’d been a more experienced student and got used to the professor’s grilling! I wasn’t, though.
But in my anatomy class, Dr. Cuddy introduced “high power” and “low power” body positions, saying “high power” positions involve taking up much space and making yourself look big, while “low power” poses, in contrast, involve making yourself look small, keeping your arms and legs crossed and held close. People tend to see others with high power poses as natural leaders, and are more willing to hire them. Her research finding was that spending just two minutes standing in a high power pose increased a person’s feeling of power and self-confidence. She wanted us to try it out.
On my next quiz-review day, instead of bending over my book studying quietly, I sat up straight and spread out my books and notebooks on the entire surface of my desk. When our teacher asked if anyone had any questions about the material before we began our quiz review, I raised my hand.
The effect was surprising. My professor answered my question as if talking to a colleague, and I had a wonderful feeling of calm. Suddenly, I realized that the important thing was that I was participating. I just needed to engage fully in the class and learn.
Today, before a presentation or a test, I spend a few minutes “thinking big”-taking up space and being seen. It calms me down and when I do, my best always turns out to be pretty good.
1. How did the author perform in his business class?A.He was good at defending his answer. |
B.He had difficulty getting used to the professor. |
C.He did good memorization for his weekly tests. |
D.He felt confident to question against the teacher. |
A.Keeping their arms crossed at a talk. |
B.Keeping their desks clean in class. |
C.Using low-power poses in class. |
D.Taking a high-power pose briefly. |
A.Discussing the content with his classmates. |
B.Going over his lessons without being seen. |
C.Making himself look big and get noticed. |
D.Collecting things on his desk to make it clean. |
A.Favorable. |
B.Doubtful. |
C.Critical. |
D.Indifferent. |
4 . My career as a chef started at the age of 25, but my
From my youth, I have had this passion for food. Growing up in Morocco, I witnessed the most amazing hospitality and
I remember as a young kid coming home from school to the
Food is almost as
In my kitchen, I try to duplicate (复制) smells and flavors that make me think about more than what I’m actually smelling or
A.talent | B.passion | C.explanation | D.expectation |
A.changing | B.ordering | C.preparing | D.searching |
A.inspired | B.bothered | C.honored | D.amused |
A.ask about | B.experiment with | C.learn of | D.shop for |
A.biggest | B.cleanest | C.best | D.cheapest |
A.wisdom | B.honesty | C.success | D.generosity |
A.offices | B.houses | C.restaurant | D.hotel |
A.art | B.signs | C.creation | D.smells |
A.fruits | B.vegetables | C.ingredients | D.goods |
A.delicious | B.useful | C.organic | D.convenient |
A.nutritious | B.sufficient | C.emotional | D.suitable |
A.reason | B.purpose | C.cook | D.story |
A.kitchen | B.heart | C.source | D.point |
A.tasting | B.chewing | C.touching | D.seeing |
A.holds up | B.drives away | C.stirs up | D.depends on |
5 . Poppy beamed at herself in the mirror. Her new dress was absolutely perfect. It was her favorite colour of blue and had a row of bows (蝴蝶结) down the front.
Poppy’s mother was making her famous fruit juice. “My goodness, sweetheart, why are you dressed up today?” she asked. “I’m trying on my dress for picture day tomorrow,” Poppy explained. “I want to make sure everything is perfect.”
“Well, I think you’re already perfect,” her mom said. “Be careful. Don’t spill it.” Poppy rolled her eyes, grabbing a cup of fruit and gulping it down.
Seconds later, her mom yelled, “Oh, sweetheart — you spilled your juice!” Poppy glanced down at the spots and gasped. She couldn’t go to school picture day like this! Her class picture would be in the yearbook forever. “It will be all right,” her mom said positively. “I’ll wash it tonight. It’ll be as good as new.”
The next morning, Poppy grabbed her blue dress out of the laundry basket. She pulled it over her head, but something wasn’t right. Poppy couldn’t lower her arms, and the bows pulled tightly. “Oh, no!” Poppy cried. “My dress shrank!” She ran to her closet to find something else she could wear. Finally, in the back of the closet, Poppy found an old yellow dress. Nevertheless, it would have to do.
While waiting for the class’s turn, she hoped it would never come. Maybe the camera couldn’t work or it happened to rain dogs and cats!
The class marched onstage. “All right,” the photographer called. “I guess we all have something we don’t like about our looks. None of us is perfect.”
Poppy glanced at her classmates. Rosa had a bandage taped across her nose. Tom was pulling at his pants, trying to hide his mismatched socks. Lei flashed a Jack-o’-lantern grin, showing several missing teeth. We’re all different, she thought. Maybe that’s what makes us special. Poppy breathed a sigh of relief.
“Cheese!” the photographer called out. The flash went off as the photographer snapped the picture of the yearbook. Poppy smiled her brightest. The picture day hadn’t gone the way she had planned. It had gone even better. “Perfect anyway!” she cried.
1. How did Poppy feel when she looked into the mirror?A.Upset. | B.Relaxed. | C.Nervous. | D.Excited. |
A.It was covered with spots. |
B.It got less bright in color. |
C.It became too small to wear. |
D.It was broken when pulled down. |
A.The photographer cheered her up and made her relieved. |
B.She realized and accepted her difference and uniqueness. |
C.The picture of the yearbook was satisfying as expected. |
D.She found her classmates on stage all had their problems. |
A.There are spots even on the sun. |
B.Inner beauty is the real beauty. |
C.Actions speak louder than words. |
D.God helps those who help themselves. |
6 . I started playing the piano when I was around four years old—that was 15 years ago!—and since then, the longest I haven’t touched piano keys was probably two months. This was an enormous amount of devotion to something that I wasn’t even planning to make money off of—so there must have been something worth holding on to, right?
The easy guess is that I was always so purely in love with music and piano that I couldn’t bear to let them go. However, it’s a bit more complicated than that. I struggled a lot with piano. I felt pressure to improve, innovate, and be the best in order to prove something to others. The seed of my musical interest was grown with competition and doubt.
It’s difficult to learn to love something that you didn’t choose in the first place. But somehow, sometime, love grew. And by high school, it was strong enough that I found the strength to hold on tighter, dig further, and find something of my own to grow. In a way, I had to start over.
And so, I took a pause. I switched teachers, and got incredibly lucky with one who encouraged me and helped me tunnel into what I loved, not what I was told I should learn. Anything I had was good enough to be loved.
This summer, I started learning the guitar. I deliberately wanted to learn on my own—this was just for me, to form a new relationship to music. Even though my guitar skills are miles lower than my piano skills, I feel I can express myself even more wholly through strings than keys. There’s just something about doing it all for myself that has helped me heal the damages to my relationship to music.
The love and hate I’ve had for the piano were both planted and grown. If you too have learned to hate something you once loved—or something you never chose—remember that with dedication, it can be uprooted, and love can make a home in its place. There is always time. There is always room.
1. What can we learn about the author’s experience from Paragraph 1?A.He probably spent two months in playing the piano. |
B.He began to play the piano when he was 15 years old. |
C.He thought it necessary to start playing the piano early. |
D.He committed himself to the piano not for financial factors. |
A.Bittersweet. | B.Harmonious. | C.Painful. | D.Passive. |
A.His teacher’s constant encouragement. | B.His desire for a new relationship with music. |
C.His interest in strings rather than keys. | D.His talent for playing musical instruments. |
A.Practice makes perfect | B.Love cannot be forced |
C.Love is a thing that grows | D.There is no end to learning |
7 . We had just completed a unit on community heroes, and my kindergarten class homework was to draw their favorite hero. Each child was busy
I sat and watched as Austin, another little boy,
When Austin shared his picture, I was
A.selecting | B.observing | C.creating | D.seeking |
A.matter | B.happen | C.belong | D.apply |
A.learnt from | B.relied on | C.worked with | D.apologized to |
A.draw | B.find | C.visit | D.impress |
A.Suddenly | B.Immediately | C.Luckily | D.Finally |
A.enjoy | B.examine | C.share | D.revise |
A.description | B.expectation | C.adjustment | D.improvement |
A.way | B.turn | C.permission | D.ambition |
A.hid | B.colored | C.donated | D.placed |
A.disappointed | B.afraid | C.curious | D.certain |
A.persuaded | B.surprised | C.reminded | D.calmed |
A.patient | B.brother | C.hero | D.classmate |
A.hard | B.necessary | C.interesting | D.flexible |
A.survey | B.decision | C.lesson | D.suggestion |
A.responsibilities | B.predictions | C.achievements | D.arrangements |
8 . In our daily lives, we need to look at where we focus our time and energy.
Proactive (积极主动的) people focus their efforts on the Circle of Influence.
Reactive people, on the other hand, focus their efforts on the Circle of Concern.
A.Our time and energy are limited |
B.We each have a wide range of concerns |
C.They focus on the weakness of other people |
D.They work on the things they can do something about |
E.As we look at those things within our Circle of Concern |
F.There are so many ways to work in the Circle of Influence |
G.Now that it’s a good idea to focus on your Circle of Concern |
9 . I am writing this the day before the mail containing the result of the university entrance exam reaches me. I am writing this with a determination that I will
The envelope will reach my
I will be
I will not listen to those who
I know who I am. I
A.lie down | B.shout out | C.break in | D.carry on |
A.great | B.bad | C.interesting | D.funny |
A.mailbox | B.bed | C.heart | D.father |
A.shame | B.amusement | C.courage | D.happiness |
A.cry | B.talk | C.move | D.work |
A.comfortable | B.new | C.hard | D.long |
A.worthless | B.expensive | C.unknown | D.brief |
A.question | B.wonder | C.doubt | D.understand |
A.decrease | B.increase | C.reduce | D.lower |
A.strong | B.lost | C.energetic | D.stubborn |
A.humorous | B.weak | C.rich | D.smart |
A.hospital | B.prison | C.college | D.heaven |
A.disagree | B.hope | C.claim | D.reply |
A.living | B.escaping | C.exploring | D.entertaining |
A.angered | B.rejected | C.greeted | D.inspired |
A.stop | B.decline | C.pretend | D.continue |
A.hate | B.accept | C.forget | D.forgive |
A.others | B.them | C.schools | D.mistakes |
A.get up | B.grow up | C.look back | D.come back |
A.dream | B.wish | C.struggle | D.smile |