1 . One rainy afternoon, I was on a crosstown bus when a young woman jumped on. She had a child with her who was about three or four years old. The bus was full, bumpy(颠簸的), and it soon got noisy, as her kid began crying — he was upset that he couldn't sit next to his mother. She looked embarrassed.
Then another woman, a little older, stood up and moved so that the mother and child could sit together. The mum smiled as a thank-you. And then three words came out of the older woman's mouth that raised the entire energy of that bus ride: “I've been there.”
Simple, undramatic, and honest. In that moment, it seemed to unite the diverse people of the city. Why? Because almost all experiences are shared human experiences. They're universal. We forget that as we go through life, focused on our own troubles and needs — which are actually less unique than we think.
Sometimes painful past experiences prevent us from wanting to open up to others because we don't want to revisit our own history. But a wonderful way to honor your past hurt is to help comfort another's current pain.
When I was a little girl, we lived on donations from local families and clothing from the " lost and found" baskets. It was shameful for me at the time — I lived in fear of being caught in a friend' s cast-off item.
Even when it was warmer, I refused to take off a layer in the classroom for this reason. Now I don't meet people who are in this exact situation, but I do notice when someone is struggling with financial shame or feels less than other people they meet. And I'm quick to say some version of, "I've been there."
Can the essence of these three words help you make a small difference right now? It can be as simple as volunteering your seat, sharing some helpful advice, or even lightening the mood with a joke when you notice that someone's uncomfortable — because we're all in this together.
1. What influence did the older woman's words have on the people around?A.Causing discomfort. | B.Breaking long silence. |
C.Creating a heated debate. | D.Inspiring common feelings. |
A.They are mostly shared experiences. | B.They don't really matter to anyone' |
C.They will be forgotten with time. | D.They are unique to each individual. |
A.Because she had the same sweater with others. |
B.Because she stole the sweater from someone' |
C.Because she liked wearing the coat in summer. |
D.Because she felt embarrassed wearing others' clothes. |
A.Painful Experiences Are No Big Deal | B.The Best Way to Honor Your Past Hurt |
C.True Happiness Comes from Helping Others | D.Three Little Words That Bring Us Together |
2 . There are some clouds that have silver linings and some that don't — Anonym
Sometimes I feel like an open book, empty. But I still have memories from my
That afternoon I was in the operation room. It was
After many times of having chemotherapy (化疗), my
Some people have told me that attitude doesn't matter when you have something like cancer. I
I will
A.battle | B.communication | C.appointment | D.argument |
A.dangerous | B.terrible | C.meaningful | D.suitable |
A.share | B.cure | C.discuss | D.enjoy |
A.ambition | B.memory | C.growth | D.peace |
A.warm | B.cold | C.cool | D.hot |
A.seized | B.shook | C.waved | D.patted |
A.Sweet | B.Joyful | C.Relieved | D.Salty |
A.telling | B.saying | C.considering. | D.announcing |
A.bed | B.wheelchair | C.bench, | D.seat |
A.hand | B.nose | C.body | D.head |
A.nothing | B.something | C.everything | D.anything |
A.wise | B.lucky | C.rich | D.brave |
A.celebrate | B.check | C.continue | D.cancel |
A.adopt | B.disagree | C.admit | D.dislike |
A.took on | B.put down | C.cared about | D.got through |
A.permission | B.help | C.hesitation | D.hope |
A.certainly | B.never | C.absolutely | D.forever |
A.made | B.given | C.‘discovered | D.influenced |
A.satisfaction | B.pride | C.happiness | D.frustration |
A.controlled | B.tested | C.punished | D.blamed |
3 . An American businessman who travelled in southern Mexico met with one young Mexican fisherman rowing a small boat at the dock (码头).
Inside the boat were several large
“How long did it take you to
“Oh, a few hours,” the Mexican fisherman
“Why don’t you
The Mexican answered, “With these fish I have more than enough to
The businessman then became
With a smile, the fisherman answered, “I
The American businessman cut in, “Look, I have an MBA, and I can help you
Having never
The businessman said proudly, “Then you could
The story tells us: Know what really matters in life, and you may find that it is already much
A.equipment | B.cloth | C.wood | D.fish |
A.terrified | B.praised | C.puzzled | D.spotted |
A.catch | B.eat | C.feed | D.sell |
A.agreed | B.doubted | C.replied | D.promised |
A.give up | B.dig down | C.settle back | D.stay out |
A.avoid | B.support | C.show | D.understand |
A.angry | B.serious | C.excited | D.sad |
A.time | B.money | C.food | D.work |
A.fight | B.deal | C.play | D.meet |
A.spend | B.borrow | C.make | D.save |
A.small | B.dead | C.extra | D.last |
A.until | B.though | C.because | D.if |
A.start | B.expand | C.leave | D.plan |
A.rich | B.confident | C.healthy | D.clever |
A.relied on | B.suffered from | C.thought of | D.set down |
A.What | B.When | C.Where | D.Why |
A.regretfully | B.happily | C.carefully | D.tiredly |
A.devote | B.lead | C.return | D.refer |
A.judge | B.visit | C.remind | D.find |
A.closer | B.simpler | C.slower | D.wider |
●Does failure really exist? If you believe you have failed, then you have. If you believe you don’t have the ability to succeed, then you don’t.
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●Don’t believe in a clear finish line for goals.It’s a good idea to set a general timeline, but remember that something will be beyond your control.
●Be sure that you don’t see difficulties as failures.Difficulties mean only one thing: it’s not time for your goal to be completed yet. That’s it! It doesn’t mean you failed; it doesn’t mean you’re weak; it doesn’t mean you’ll never achieve your goals.
A.Never give up on yourself. |
B.Failure only exists in your own mind! |
C.That’s exactly how failure makes us feel. |
D.It simply means you have not done enough yet. |
E.You can never say exactly when your goal will be reached. |
F.Instead, make up your mind to make your goal happen, no matter what! |
G.Work hard towards your goal, and you will be likely to get good results. |
5 . Once I had a student called Jamal. He would squirm (扭来扭去)in his chair during independent work, and he would never stay still for more than three or four minutes. Students like Jamal can confuse brand new teachers because they’re not quite sure how to support young people like him. I took a direct approach. I negotiated with Jamal. If he could give me focused work, then he could do it from anywhere in the classroom: from our classroom rug, from behind my desk, or from inside his classroom locker, which turned out to be his favorite place.
Jamal’s least favorite subject was writing, and he never wanted to read what he had written out loud in class, but we were still making progress. One day, I decided to host a mock (模拟的)2008 presidential election in my classroom. My third graders had to research and write a speech for their chosen candidate: Barack Obama, Hillary Clinton or John McCain. The favorite candidates were obvious, but one student chose John McCain. It was Jamal. Jamal finally decided to read something that he had written out loud in class, and sure enough, Jamal stunned all of us with his brilliance. Just like Jamal’s dad, John McCain was a veteran, and just like Jamal’s dad protected him, Jamal believed that John McCain would protect the entire country. He wasn’t my candidate of choice, but it didn’t matter, because the entire class erupted into applause for our brave friend Jamal who finally showed up as his most confident self for the first time that year.
A lack of confidence pulls us down from the bottom and weighs us down from the top, crushing us between a flurry of can’ts and won’ts. Without confidence, we get stuck, and when we get stuck, we can’t even get started. Instead of getting mired in what can get in our way, confidence invites us to perform with certainty.
1. Which of the following best describes Jamal?A.Naughty and stubborn | B.Determined but shy |
C.Smart but unfocused | D.Confident and generous |
A.Because John was the least popular among the three choices. |
B.Because John had written something about him before. |
C.Because John shared some similarities with Jamal’s father. |
D.Because John was a soldier who could protect the country. |
A.Amaze. | B.Cheer. | C.Awake. | D.Entertain. |
A.To introduce the change of the authors student. |
B.To show how to deal with problem students. |
C.To stress the importance of encouragement. |
D.To encourage us to be confident. |
6 . If you have strong arms and feet, patience and a good temper, you might
From this first step, you may enter the restaurant
Later you may become “chef de rang” (a waiter in charge of a number of tables). You may even become a head waiter
When Carlo Bianchi first arrived in London, he spoke only two words of English — “please” and “Hello”. He
Every night, Carlo
Now, twenty-five years later, Carlo is in
A.make | B.create | C.replace | D.choose |
A.otherwise | B.therefore | C.thus | D.however |
A.commented | B.tasted | C.prepared | D.chosen |
A.as | B.for | C.with | D.to |
A.forced | B.allowed | C.banned | D.urged |
A.moving | B.laying | C.pushing | D.pulling |
A.curiosity | B.kindness | C.patience | D.interest |
A.simply | B.specially | C.exactly | D.eventually |
A.afraid | B.ashamed | C.fond | D.typical |
A.managed | B.attempted | C.predicted | D.expected |
A.tight | B.useful | C.spare | D.busy |
A.threw | B.found | C.sent | D.donated |
A.used | B.promised | C.regretted | D.remembered |
A.depressed | B.excited | C.worried | D.tired |
A.smile | B.face | C.color | D.surprise |
A.served | B.approved | C.praised | D.treated |
A.favor | B.need | C.possession | D.support |
A.hesitates | B.schedules | C.hurries | D.fails |
A.easiest | B.slowest | C.simplest | D.lowest |
A.in all | B.in time | C.in a word | D.above all |
7 . There is beauty in each moment of our lives, but often we're too distracted to notice it. Instead, we spend much of our time worrying about the future or regretting the past, and this habit can have negative consequences for our mental and physical health.
That's why many people today are turning to the practice of mindfulness(正念减压法). Simply put, mindfulness means focusing on the present moment. Let's say you're sitting in traffic after a long day's work. Rather than dwelling on(老是想着)an unpleasant incident that occurred earlier or worrying about your schedule for the next day, you might direct your attention to the sound of the rain drops battering the windshield or to a specific image before you. By directing your attention to the here and now, you automatically shift your focus away from self-image, success, and other stress-inducing concerns.
Such a shift in consciousness helps us form more meaningful connections with others and handle problems with greater ease. It also lets us appreciate life's many little pleasures. So, it's not surprising that mindfulness has been found to help in the treatment of depression, anxiety, eating disorders, and even physical problems related to stress, such as heart disease, high blood pressure, and upset stomachs.
How do you practice mindfulness? While it's often associated with meditation, you don't actually need to be in a particular place or position to cultivate it. In fact, it can be incorporated(使并入)into almost any daily activity, including eating, walking, showering, or doing the dishes. Let's take this last activity as an illustration:
Begin by bringing your attention to your breath. Inhale(吸入)through your nose allowing the air to expand your belly, and exhale through your mouth. Notice the sensations as each breath goes in and out.
As you engage in the task of washing the dishes, direct your awareness to the scent of the soap, the sound of the running water, and the feel of the suds(肥皂泡沫)between your fingers. Simply be aware of these and any other immediate sensations without forming any judgments about them.
At times, this process may not be relaxing, especially when what you're doing is boring or unpleasant. Nevertheless, by practicing mindfulness, we can learn to accept whatever situations life brings us and, over time develop greater happiness.
1. Why is the example of “sitting in traffic” mentioned in Paragraph 2?A.To appreciate beauty at the present moment. |
B.To explain the meaning of mindfulness. |
C.To describe the traffic accident in the street. |
D.To attract the reader's attention to the traffic. |
A.Finding out problems in study more easily. |
B.Helping cure diseases like high blood pressure. |
C.Allowing us to enjoy small pleasures in life. |
D.Making friends with other people in the traffic. |
A.finding a particular place to cultivate it |
B.bringing our attention to our breath |
C.burying ourselves in washing the dishes |
D.putting it to use in our everyday life |
A.The reasons why people begin to practise mindfulness. |
B.The differences between mindfulness and meditation. |
C.The benefits of mindfulness and the way to practice it. |
D.The ways we should keep healthy mentally and physically. |
What's your definition of
That is the most important thing that you can say to a child that
So how can we teach our children what it means
“Why did you start playing basketball? Because I loved it; because nothing in this world moves without love.”
9 . I am a mother of three children and have recently completed my college degree. The last class I had to take was social study. The last class was asked to go out and smile at three people and document their reactions.
Soon after we were given the project, my husband, my youngest son, and I went out to McDonald’s one cold March morning. It was just our way of sharing special playtime with our son.
We were standing in line, waiting to be served, when all of a sudden everyone around us began to back way. I turned around and found there standing behind me were two poor homeless men with a horrible “dirty body” smell. The short gentleman, close to me, was “smiling”. His beautiful sky-blue eyes were full of light as he searched for acceptance. The second man played with his hands uneasily as he stood behind his friend. I realized the second man was mentally challenged and the blue-eyed gentleman was his salvation(救赎). The short man just asked for a coffee because that was all they could afford.
I smiled and asked the young lady behind the counter to give me two more breakfast meals on a separate tray(餐盘).I then walked around the corner to the men’s table. I put the tray on the table and laid my hand on the blue-eyed gentleman’s cold hand. He looked up at me with tears in his eyes and said “Thank you”.
I started to cry as I walked away to join my husband and son. When I sat down, my husband smiled at me and said, “That’s why God gave you to me, Honey. To give me hope.”
On the last evening of class, I turned in “my project” and the instructor read it. Then she looked up at me and said, “Can I share this?” I slowly nodded as she got the attention of the class. She began to read and we all knew that we need to heal people and to be healed.
I graduated with one of the biggest lessons I would ever learn: UNCONDITIONAL ACCEPTANCE. “LOVE PEOPLE AND USE THINGS--NOT LOVE THINGS AND USE PEOPLE.”
1. Why did the people around the author back away?A.Because the second man stood playing with his hands. |
B.Because the two homeless men were also waiting in line, with a bad smell. |
C.Because the short gentleman was smiling to everyone around. |
D.Because both men were poorly dressed and mentally ill. |
A.regretted and cried | B.turned in her project |
C.went back to her husband and son | D.talked with them for a while |
A.Lovely. | B.Mature. |
C.Over-curious. | D.Caring. |
A.Poor as the homeless men were, they had their dignity. |
B.The author felt we should know how to heal people. |
C.The author’s husband was very proud of her. |
D.What the author did to the men touched many people. |
Everyone would have success if it
There is a popular
Hard work gives you a purpose — it helps you to be patient, to take action instead of waiting
Now that you know all this about hard work, never