1 . Fur Babies
Kong Qin, a 32-year-old white-collar worker in Beijing, recently noticed that Cheese, her cat, had been acting oddly since she gave birth to her son several weeks ago. The cat started using the bathroom all over the house, and she was never like that before.
Kong did not know what happened to the cat, and she asked for advice from a friend of hers who is also a cat owner. Her friend told her that Cheese may be acting out as she may be feeling neglected since the baby was born. She added that behaving this way was probably a trick to win over her master’s attention.
Kong remembered that in a family in Baba Huilaile (Dad is Back), a Chinese reality show that she watched around one year ago, the dog often pushed the kid aside when the kid asked his dad for a hug. When she was watching the show, she only took the pushing as a joke and did not think too much of it, but she is now beginning to wonder if the dog was actually trying to steal the limelight.
Zhang Yu, a veterinarian (兽医) in Beijing, advises that if fur babies start to misbehave after a baby is born, pet owners should not punish them, which may stress the pet out. Pets rarely actively attack kids, but if kids hurt pets out of curiosity, like pulling their tails, pets may bite kids to run away. She also recommends that parents should be with the kids who are younger than two years old when there are pets around to protect pets and kids from being hurt by each other. As children get older, parents can help introduce their kids to the pets to help them become familiar and comfortable around each other. “Pets will eventually get used to having kids around after some time, and pets owners need to wait some time,” she said.
Kong has happily found that Cheese is more like her usual self over the past few days. She is conscious that the cat has gone through the toughest stage. The next thing she is planning to do is to take Cheese to her son’s bed more often so that she will like him more.
1. The underlined expression“limelight”in paragraph 3 is closest in meaning to __________.A.food. | B.glance. | C.attention. | D.ownership. |
A.Pets won’t start a fight with babies when parents are around. |
B.Pets are always safe alone with those younger than 2-year-olds. |
C.Owners should be patient before pets get used to having babies around. |
D.Owners should stress pets out when they are not behaving themselves. |
A.Comfortable. | B.Thankful. | C.Depressed. | D.Hateful. |
A.Children need to be smart enough to avoid being hurt by pets. |
B.Owners should learn to help fur babies coexist with newborns. |
C.Parents’ fur babies can become friends with the newborns easily. |
D.Pets, like some parents, will feel delighted when newborns come. |
A.He knows who is knocking. | B.He is eager to know who it is. |
C.He doesn’t want to open the door. | D.He is ready to open the door. |
A.The boys are badly spoiled. |
B.The man gives them too much money. |
C.They should learn to manage money. |
D.She wants to save money for the boys. |
A.To a dress-up party. | B.To the tailor’s. |
C.To the theater. | D.To a shopping mall. |
A.At 10:00. | B.At 10:10. | C.At 10:20. | D.At 10:30. |
A.Go on a trip. | B.Take a long sail. | C.Run a restaurant. | D.Prepare a meal. |
7 . Our youngest daughter can be stubborn about receiving gifts, and I told her so.
“Where do you think I get it from?” she asked.
“I’m not stubborn when it comes to receiving gifts,” I said. “I used to be but not now.”
She has a birthday coming up and we want to get her some new cowboy boots.
Cowboy boots aren’t cheap, but we want to do something special and get her something she could use and enjoy for years to come.
But my daughter is pushing back, saying she’s happy with her current boots-which are old and worn-out.
I push back, she pushes back, and we become locked in a mother-daughter match over stubbornness and how much is too much to spend on a special gift.
She thinks my husband and I do too much for her. I used to think the same thing about my parents—my parents weren’t rich, but they were generous.
They kept saying they enjoyed giving me gifts, but all I could think about was how much money they were wasting on me.
Years ago, I mentioned to a friend that I thought my mother overdid it when it came to buying gifts for her children.
My friend, closer to my mothers age than mine, looked at me and said, “Who are you to tell your mother what she can do?”
I wanted to argue with her, but I didn’t. I didn’t fully understand it then but I understand it now—now that I’m a grandmother myself.
The longer you live, the more you see how often things go wrong.
Marriages fail, friendships break down, family members become estranged, and accidents and illnesses cut lives short.
There is a brokenness that fills many of our lives.
So, when you see life going well, families working hard and growing strong, you want to celebrate.
It took a lot of time for me to understand that giving is an expression of joy, as much as it is an expression of love, understand where my daughter is coming from, but I also understand where my parents were coming from—a place of pure and simple joy celebrating those moments when life goes well.
1. Why did the author’s daughter try to refuse her mom’s gift?A.She had many boots to wear. |
B.She wanted something else for her birthday. |
C.She didn’t like the style of the boots. |
D.She didn’t want her mom to spend too much money. |
A.listened to her friends’ advice |
B.experienced brokenness in life |
C.communicated with her husband |
D.received gifts from other family members |
A.lonely | B.distant | C.joyful | D.complete |
A.It is the best way to express our love to others. |
B.It is an expression of hope for the future. |
C.It is a way to show our joy when life is going well. |
D.It is a way for people to escape bad things in life. |
My daughter
(A story told by a father, a famous actor)
My wife and I only had the one child. We had Amy.
I see her as my best friend. I think she’d always come to me first if she had a problem. We have the same sense of humor, and share interests.
We were
I wanted more than anything else for her to be happy in
We have such similar tastes in books and music
I don’t think she’s a big television watcher. She knows when I’m on the television, and she
We’re very grateful for Amy. She’s a good daughter as daughters go. We’re looking forward to being grandparents.
A.Leave his wife another dish. | B.Don’t wash the dishes. |
C.Wash his wife’s dishes. | D.Help his wife wash dishes. |
Cross-cultural Marriage
Previously, cross-cultural marriages were not accepted. However, most people get married out of love for one another, not because of one's race. Cross-cultural marriages, therefore,
Cross-cultural marriage may be particularly