3 . Behind the sweaty hands, racing minds, and a general sense of misfortune, anxiety carries a lesser-known power. It can push us toward what matters to us.     1    .

Connect. We are social creatures. Connection is one of the strongest coping mechanisms(机制)we have. You don’t have to talk to someone about what is bothering you to benefit from this.     2    .

    3    . In my own life, and those of others I know who have experienced anxiety either for a temporary situation or a long-term one, it is common, upon emerging from an anxiety, to feel an increased level of empathy(共情)for other people who are suffering in the world. This is beautiful. We can take that empathy and change it into kindness.

Acts of Kindness. A research study found that participants who participated in acts of kindness reported a greater decrease in anxiety when compared to controls.     4    . A smile, encouraging words, or baking cupcakes for your housemates are all simple acts of kindness.

Take in the Beautiful Things. Mindfulness of the present moment allows us to surf through the anxieties we experience.     5    . On the other hand, when we try to shut out anxiety, we also run the risk of shutting out the pleasant things.

4 . Rising Above Fear: Strategies For Conquering Anxiety and Achieving Your Goals

You have to know that managing your worst fear and anxiety isn’t easy but that’s okay, we are here to help you out.     1    Here are the necessary steps to help you overcome your fear and anxiety.

You need to notice how you feel.     2    You need to be able to identify the sensations that clue you into your emotional state. Do you experience trouble breathing, a sweaty body, or even a stomachache? You need to practice reading these physical cues, don’t let them carry you away!

Own your fears. Have you ever cried so much that it became very difficult to stop the tears, we can totally understand that.     3    When this happens, you need to stop using your emotional energy in trying to be okay, sometimes you need to own your fears. Trust me, this energy would be better used in reaching out for help.

Create goals that are necessary. Most of the time, the process of overcoming your fears and anxiety is hindered by elusive goals that we set for ourselves. Ask yourself this: What does the life I deserve look like? How can I achieve that lifestyle? Once you know that your goals are essential, the fear of not making an effort will overcome the fear of failure.     4    

    5     When you set your goals, what is the biggest fear that you will face? The fear of failure! What you have to know is that failure is just like pain and we should only learn and grow from it. Failure will always provide a valuable learning experience that will positively impact your future.

5 . Your Path to Emotional Maturity

Emotions play a critical part in our lives and are contagious unless you know how to actually control them. In order to grow and thrive, you must learn to be emotionally intelligent.    1    .

Focus Your Efforts On Self-evolution

Just like you, it is completely normal for everyone else to have their own beliefs and opinions. Keeping that in mind, it’s better to understand that you cannot change others, no matter how hard you try. Even if you try changing others, you could be hurting yourself in the process.    2    .

Try Using “I” Statements

    3    . Use “I” statements like “I feel miserable and heartbroken” instead of “You make me feel miserable and heartbroken.” This approach conveys your emotions effectively without aggression, showcasing emotional maturity.

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People sometimes interact with us as if we are mind readers, especially in relationships. Your partner may expect you to understand their desires, which can be challenging. Just as you aren’t a mind reader, others aren’t either. You need to communicate your needs to other people, and they need to do the same with you. Share your needs with your loved ones and observe the positive changes.

Avoid Negative People

You are known by the company you keep, and this is always true.    5    . If surrounded by negative people that only bring others down, then you will always feel miserable. In order to be emotionally intelligent, you must have a good and supporting company by your side. Steer clear of people who emotionally manipulate others. Whenever you feel something like that, cut ties with them immediately.