1 . Like the rest of us, scientists have long suspected the healing capacity (修复能力) of a good hug. Unlike the rest of us, they’ve gone about trying to prove it.
“Laboratory studies suggest that things like hugs help us feel safer. They can also make us less sensitive to physical pain and less reactive when we’re faced with threatening experiences,” says Michael Murphy. He is a research professor in the department of psychological sciences at Texas Tech University. “This lab work has shown that hugs and other touch behavior are related to stress. The more stress we have, the more our heart rates and blood pressure go up. At this time, hugs and other forms of personal touch may give off all sorts of feel-good chemicals, so that stress can be reduced.”
“There’s a lot that we still need to learn, and there’s a lot we don’t know,” Murphy says. “However, what seems to be rising up is that hugs, as well as other forms of loving and gentle touch, are really powerful. They remind people that they’ re cared about and that they have someone in their corner.”
We expect touch. When we were born, we were placed in our mothers’ arms almost immediately. In that first year of our life, we spend a lot of time being held by other people. And as we grow up, we seek out hugs and touch as a way of connection. I think what we have lost in the past few years are these really easy opportunities to be reminded of connection.”
While he was at Carnegie Mellon, Murphy was the lead author of a hug-centered 2018 article in the scientific journal PLOS One. In a series of interviews with 404 adults over a two-week period, the researchers found that receiving a hug is associated with the attenuation of negative emotions that occur on days with interpersonal conflicts. That is to say, generally, hugs help to reduce the negative impacts that personal conflicts may cause in our daily lives.
1. What can we infer about hugs from the laboratory studies?A.They show people’s good social relationships. |
B.They can cure us of our mental disease. |
C.They can put much pressure on people. |
D.They make us feel calm and at ease. |
A.To recall childhood memories. |
B.To keep connected with others. |
C.To solve relationship problems. |
D.To express their social politeness. |
A.Expression. | B.Influence. |
C.Suffering. | D.Reduction. |
A.The Power of Hugs |
B.How to Reduce Stress |
C.How to Care for Others |
D.The Importance of Interpersonal Relations |
2 . Improve Your Relationships
Having stable and positive relationships in your life can make you happier and more fulfilled. Whether it's your friends, family, or significant other, improving a relationship can sometimes be confusing.
Express your appreciation for the person.
If you hardly see each other or talk to each other, it can be difficult to maintain a relationship. Take extra time out of your day and devote it to the person that you want to improve relations with. Try to work around the other person's schedule so that you can spend the time together. You can share a meal, watch a show, listen to music, or go shopping with them.
Turn off distractions.
Distractions like a cell phone, social media, or video games can create a division in between you and another person. If you notice that you are always distracted, you should turn off your cell phone or computer and talk to them.
Seek therapy(心理治疗) if you can't get along.
To fix or improve family relationships or relationships with your significant other, you can turn to therapy. If you notice that you and the person are always arguing over the same kinds of things, and nothing has worked, you should consider seeking therapy with them.
A.Spend more time with the person. |
B.Maintain a relationship if possible. |
C.People often like to be praised for achievements. |
D.A specialist can help solve longterm issues in the relationship. |
E.If they are the one always distracted, ask them if they can do the same. |
F.Follow the tips and you can develop good relationships with your family. |
G.Luckily, by adjusting your behaviour, you can improve any relationship in your life. |
3 . Tips for Submitting a Good Letter of Recommendation
If you consider applying for any colleges abroad, one of the most important parts is the recommendation letter. Its purpose is to give universities a complete picture of you.
But a credible (可信的) reference saying you’ve consistently worked hard on a project can be the difference between getting accepted or rejected.
Choose the right references
Universities want to know how well you work under pressure and how you react to criticism, basically your characteristics, abilities and mentality. A good referee (推荐人) should have a solid professional relationship with you and be able to communicate your academic and personal strengths.
Most universities ask for two recommendation letters. They are regularly split between a school professor and an extracurricular (课外的) source. Undoubtedly, it’s good to show your skills in the subject you want to study.
Time
Professionals can sometimes find it hard to make time for writing recommendations.
Clear goals
Don’t be afraid to ask your referees to include certain qualities or examples you want to highlight. You should inform at least one of your referees about your career goals, grades and recent projects. They may not be referenced. But giving referees additional evidence to back up their points can make the letter more convincing.
A.Make sure to know more about your university. |
B.You can write that you’re hard-working yourself. |
C.They can be quite occupied during application season. |
D.The more information you include, the better it may be. |
E.Don’t forget to check each university’s guidelines for reference letters. |
F.Examples of how you have demonstrated them are needed to add more credibility. |
G.But other abilities that may not be apparent in the classroom can be equally valuable. |
4 . Ruby Kate, 11 likes to spend time with residents at the local nursing homes where her mother Amada works as a nurse.
One day last summer, Ruby
Pearl’s story
Amanda was
She went door to door at the nursing home,
Ruby and Amanda
“I'd like it to go on
A.warned | B.noticed | C.screamed | D.worried |
A.upset | B.curious | C.exhausted | D.satisfied |
A.expect | B.bother | C.afford | D.agree |
A.discussing | B.examining | C.sharing | D.digging |
A.any | B.so | C.not | D.ever |
A.moved | B.struck | C.changed | D.depressed |
A.comfort | B.compensate | C.help | D.protect |
A.brochure | B.pen | C.diary | D.notebook |
A.skeptical | B.aware | C.tired | D.confident |
A.put up | B.bring up | C.end up | D.show up |
A.matter | B.work | C.inspire | D.arise |
A.persuading | B.ordering | C.asking | D.advising |
A.delighted | B.confused | C.frightened | D.shocked |
A.simple | B.demanding | C.unreasonable | D.strange |
A.collected | B.bought | C.made | D.removed |
A.curiosity | B.anxiety | C.sympathy | D.generosity |
A.raise | B.earn | C.save | D.borrow |
A.managed | B.founded | C.advertised | D.invested |
A.temporarily | B.cheaply | C.forever | D.efficiently |
A.richer | B.higher | C.faster | D.bigger |
5 . When I was seven, my parents explained to me that my sister would be different.
Throughout our lives, my sister has often got stared at because she has Down syndrome (唐氏综合征), which makes her appear abnormal. There were times when I had to struggle with her.
I had this in mind when I was traveling alone recently and saw a mother and a son with special needs at the airport gate.
Some people gave the son and mother strange looks, the same kind of looks my sister and I would sometimes get.
To be honest. I didn’t even really regard what I did as something different or good.
A.They had got off another plane. |
B.People would stare at us even more. |
C.I don’t know what I should do to help. |
D.But I went up and asked if I could lend a hand. |
E.I just consider it as the only choice in that situation. |
F.I was so angry that I shouted loudly at the strangers. |
G.I had no idea what impact she would have on my daily life. |
6 . Don't brag(炫耀),but be proud of what you've done. These two pieces of advice were tough to balance before Facebook existed.
Social media like Facebook bring us convenience.
According to Therapist Jessica Michaels, providing "emotional context" may help prevent what might be seen as a bragging. Think about how you say something, not just what you say. Frame it in a way that makes it more of a sharing idea. For example, if you plan a party for Christmas, you could post "Hey friends of mine! Let's plan this together. Maybe we could all go." instead of saying "Oh I can't wait to enjoy my party."
Remember, the original intention behind social media is a connector, and your true best friends definitely do want to know when things are going good for you. Next time when you post a photo of your fantastic winter vacation, for example, make sure to tag your friends.
A little bit of social media love goes a long way!
A.To post or not to post? |
B.Will it make me a celebrity? |
C.Tell them you wish they were by your side. |
D.They are the most important friends in our life. |
E.Meanwhile, they can put us in danger of oversharing. |
F.It makes a big difference how you express your ideas. |
G.Even today's share-it-all social media haven't made it any easier. |