1 . Do you remember those times when your mother told you to avoid talking to strangers? But now you’re not a child anymore. In fact, there are many advantages of talking to strangers.
●You can meet a really great person.Talking to a stranger is a good habit because you never know whom you may meet.
You have some opinion about different subjects and you know your friends’ and relatives’points of view about them, too. But there are millions of other people who think differently and can give you unpredictable yet smart ideas that will broaden your horizons.
●You can improve your social skills.The thing you’ll definitely like about talking to strangers is that you can make someone’s day better.
Talking to someone you don’t know is all about finding out something you didn’t know. You may have some problems that you can’t solve for a long time. However, someone you suddenly meet can figure out the right solution you didn’t even think about before.
A.You can expand your world view. |
B.Smile and people will smile in return. |
C.Why not speak to someone until your turn comes? |
D.It may be the help you needed to get a long time ago. |
E.You shouldn’t miss these unexpected chances of meeting people. |
F.You can meet a person who will become your best friend in the future. |
G.Whatever social skills you have, you can make them better when talking to strangers. |
2 . A workable and pretty easy solution to improving your listening skills is that you begin to realize how much of your ability to be an effective listener is really about you, not the other person and how fascinating or boring they are.
We tend to assume that listening is little more than showing up and paying attention to the other person.
You need to identify your personal “hot spots”.
In a performance review or heated debate, you can remind yourself if you’re having an emotional response to feedback and are having trouble hearing the other person out. Observing and learning from your behavior, and noticing how you are affected by your surroundings help you uncover your unique needs for doing your best listening.
A.Considering external factors is also important. |
B.Besides, get curious about your conversation style. |
C.In fact, if they’re boring, in some ways that is on you. |
D.But it’s also deeply tied to paying attention to ourselves. |
E.Effective listening is about creating the space for others to express themselves. |
F.The topics are what uniquely set you off and emotionally inspire you in some ways. |
G.Those are going to help everything from meetings to client presentations run smoothly. |
3 . Teens often find themselves in difficult situations with friends where they struggle to communicate their needs or their values. Even when their gut(直觉)is telling them that someone is crossing a line, they may struggle to express that the situation is making them uncomfortable. For this reason, parents need to work with their teens to establish boundaries with others.
Although boundaries are different for everyone, when done correctly, they help teens set limits with others in order to protect themselves. Setting boundaries allows teens to communicate with other people about what is OK and what is not OK with them and is important to teen friendships.
What are boundaries? Boundaries are limits teens establish in order to protect themselves in some way from being hurt, manipulated(操纵), or taken advantage of. As an expression of self-worth, boundaries let other people know who they are, what they value, and how they want to be treated. Additionally, boundaries help to create space between teens and other people when they need it.
Learning how to set boundaries - both physical and emotional - is an important part of growing up. It’s also essential to developing friendships that are respectful, supportive and healthy.
Unfortunately, though, many teens have trouble setting boundaries with their friends; and when this happens, it puts them at risk for everything from unhealthy friendships to bullying(霸凌) or abuse.
Of course, setting boundaries isn’t easy. It’s uncomfortable and forces a teen to stand up for themselves. What’s more, communicating boundaries to other people can make for difficult conversations or uncomfortable situations. Yet, it’s one of the most important things that teens need to learn how to do.
1. Which of the following best explains “crossing a line” underlined in paragraph 1?A.Sharing secrets. |
B.Keeping in touch. |
C.Behaving properly. |
D.Going beyond accepted limits. |
A.Their values and self-worth. |
B.Their levels of independence. |
C.Their ability to manipulate others. |
D.Their physical and mental health. |
A.Easy. | B.Rewarding. | C.Boring. | D.Unnecessary. |
A.The benefits of setting boundaries. |
B.The possible results of breaking boundaries. |
C.Strategies for effectively setting boundaries. |
D.The role of parents in helping teens set boundaries. |
4 . How to Overcome a Bad First Impression
First impressions are important, but everyone has an off day or makes mistakes in social situations.
Apologize.
Suggest another meeting. If you won’t see them in another setting, ask if you can have another opportunity to let them get to see the real you.
Show who you really are. If you do get another opportunity to overcome a poor initial impression, make sure you show the qualities and strengths that you have and keep it in your future interactions.
Overcoming a bad first impression takes time and effort. It’s important to learn from the experience and apply those lessons when meeting new people.
A.Don’t be nervous |
B.Explain what happened |
C.Changing how people think of you is not an easy job |
D.Let the other person see the “real you” in actual situations |
E.Make an apology if your first meeting was affected by a mistake |
F.It’s common that we may be misunderstood in daily communications |
G.However, respect the other person’s decision if they refuse your offer |
5 . It can be a wonderful and satisfying experience to have roommates to share a home with. Living with others can often help you develop close relationships and learn some life skills along the way.
Honest communication
In order to solve any problems that may arise, effective communication is necessary.
Nothing is more important than keeping your shared space clean and organized. Take the time to clean up shared areas like bathrooms and kitchens and respect each other’s standards of cleanliness.
Develop a sense of humor
Be considerate of your roommates’ needs
Being considerate of your roommates’ schedule, preferences and routines is part of living with them. A supportive living environment is created by small things, for example, offering to pick up groceries or helping with housework.
A.Respect yourself |
B.You can create an open-door policy |
C.Keep shared space clean and organized |
D.It is also wise to be mindful of noise levels |
E.Here are practical tips on how to be a good roommate |
F.Living with others can lead to disagreements and arguments |
G.Being a good roommate is more than making your rent payments on time |
6 . There’s a song by the great Jamaican singer Bob Marley called So Much Trouble In the World. Marley understood that part of the reason why there are so many problems in the world is the lack of tolerance between people. The UN understands this too— that’s why it made Nov16th “International Day for Tolerance”.
But first of all, what is tolerance? According to French philosopher Voltaire, tolerance is the consequence of humanity. We are all formed of frailty (脆弱)and error; let us pardon each other’s fool— that is the first law of nature.”
Very often, people don’t realize that they’re intolerant. This is because intolerance has a lot to do with ignorance. For example, the UN’s campaign is in part about the treatment of females by males. But often, the behavior of men toward women is intolerant because men don’t put themselves in the shoes of women.
It’s worth thinking a little about the words “tolerance” and “intolerance”. Are they the best words to describe the evils of which we’re speaking here? To agree to be “tolerant” of someone isn’t necessarily a very respectful thing. When someone is tolerated, it implies that there’s something wrong with them.
Still, what Voltaire said stands: We humans are not perfect and this weakness is something that we all share. That’s the reason we should be tolerant. It’s a little like generosity. We can give things to another person, and we can also give our forgiveness.
1. What’s the purpose of the UN “International Day For Tolerance”?A.To arouse people’s awareness of tolerance among people. |
B.To celebrate the founding of the UN. |
C.To solve the problem of global warming. |
D.To change people’s opinion towards globalization. |
A.Because men don’t realize the purpose of the UN. |
B.Because men are physically stronger than women. |
C.Because men don’t appreciate the shoes of women. |
D.Because men willing to understand women. |
A.Because they are hard to pronounce in English. |
B.Because they don’t express the exact meaning people refer to. |
C.Because they can’t be translated into other languages. |
D.Because they can’t be used in a respectful way. |
A.Humans are advised to treat others better. |
B.Humans leant to find faults in others. |
C.Humans need to give something to others. |
D.Humans will change their attitudes to others. |
7 . Your neighbors are probably the first line of defense in case of any problematic situation.
The first step is introducing yourself when you move to a new neighborhood or when a newcomer moves in. Leave them a note under their door to introduce yourself.
Be respectful of your neighbors. It’s in poor taste to have regular insensitive parties at your place causing disturbances. Before your party, it’s good practice to notify your neighbors. Besides, avoid chatting them up for hours on end, which may be inconvenient, especially if you don’t know their schedules.
As Emma Seppälä put it, “social connectedness generates a positive feedback loop (圈) of social, emotional and physical well-being.” It feels so easy to just stay home without having to engage with your neighbors but connecting with them is worth the effort.
A.Remember every small gesture counts. |
B.A crisis is a test of communication skills. |
C.It can actually boost your mood in the long run. |
D.Slipping it in their mailbox further solidifies friendship. |
E.It’s essential to ensure you maintain decent relationships with them. |
F.Alternatively, you can give them a gift while making yourself known to them. |
G.Only by establishing healthy boundaries will you achieve peaceful coexistence. |
8 . You form an impression ofa person based on his postures, gestures and facial expressions, as soon as you meet, or even see him. This is why it is important to make a good first impression on the person who will be interviewing you. Within the first 60 seconds of meeting you, the interviewer will have formed an impression about what type of person you are and what kind of employee you would become, and
First of all, relax. Think positive thoughts and you are more likely to come across as a positive, confident person during the interview.
Another important issue is eye contact. Looking someone in the eye shows confidence in yourself and trust’in the other person. However, don’t overdo it, as too much eve contact or staring will make the other person uncomfortable. Use more eye contact when listening than when talking, and when you look away, look down.
A.55% of chis will be based only on your body language |
B.Posture is important |
C.it will be wise of you to focus on the interviewer |
D.walk as fast as possible with a smile |
E.Dress smartly |
F.Looking up at the ceiling will make you seem bored or rude |
G.Try to avoid slowing down as you walk into the room |
9 . How to Handle an Argument with Your Family Members
We’ve all been there. A relaxed evening with our family members. A lot of laughing. And then, as if someone had sat on the TV remote and changed the channel, the mood shifts. No more warmth. Suddenly there’s shouting, a ping-pong of accusations(指责), deadly stares, and hostility(敌意) streaming from eyes like red laser pointers. Having a conflict with your family members is frustrating, and you may feel sad and depressed.
Do remember that as much as it might feel this way, you’re not in a court of law with your family members.
Do try to be an advocate of others’ feelings.
Don’t try to explain yourself. You often want to explain yourself when having conflicts with your family members, but you don’t have time. You’re being cut off and attacked again.
A.If you are looking for a new relationship |
B.Don’t attempt to prove yourself in the face of your loved ones |
C.The point of an argument isn’t to prove the others guilty or to win |
D.Rather than going in circles about what you think and how you feel |
E.Each accusation strikes deeper and deeper into your sense of justice |
F.Don’t talk about what happened as though you’re simply stating the facts |
G.Here are the do’s and don’ts when you are arguing with your family members |
10 . Miscommunications can sometimes be funny, however, most of time you will feel frustrated or upset. Put some efforts into your conversations, and you can lower your risk of miscommunicating.
Get people’s attention. It means making sure they are listening to and understanding the words you say. Make eye contact and check to make sure they are listening. If the other person is distracted or in the middle of doing something else, say that you’ll talk later when he or she is more available.
Listen closely.
Avoid interrupting. If someone else is speaking, do your best not to interrupt them.
A.Think before you speak. |
B.Check for understanding. |
C.Give your full attention when someone is speaking. |
D.Avoid calling out or shouting at people to get attention. |
E.He or she will appreciate feeling heard and understood. |
F.Let them complete their thoughts before you add to them. |
G.This is true if you’re talking to someone from a different culture. |