1 . “What do you want to be when you grow up?” When I was a kid, I ______ the question. Adults always seemed terribly disappointed that I wasn’t dreaming of becoming something grand or ______, like an astronaut.
Now, as an organizational psychologist, my job is to fix other people’s jobs, and I’ve come to believe that asking youngsters that question does them ______.
My first complaint about the question is that it ______ kids to define themselves in terms of work. If we define ourselves by our jobs, our ______ depends on what we achieve. So when you are asked what you want to be, it’s not socially ______ to say “A father” or “A mother”, let alone “A person of integrity”.
The second ______ is the implication that there is one calling (职业) out there for everyone. Research shows that ______ one leaves students feeling lost and ______. After all, not everyone has that talent for grand jobs.
If you manage to ______ the above barriers, there is a third hurdle (难关) : careers rarely live up to your childhood ______. In one study, looking for a(n) ______ job left college seniors feeling more anxious and less satisfied with the ______. As Tim Urban writes, happiness is reality minus expectations. It’s clear how expectations ______ our perceived happiness. If you are looking for extreme happiness, you’re bound to be disappointed.
Asking kids what they want to be leads them to ______ a career identity they might never want to earn. Instead, invite them to think about the different things they might want to do.
1. A.considered | B.feared | C.explained | D.recalled |
2. A.average | B.humble | C.heroic | D.romantic |
3. A.harm | B.good | C.wrong | D.honour |
4. A.forces | B.troubles | C.commands | D.forbids |
5. A.status | B.experience | C.worth | D.fame |
6. A.rejected | B.accurate | C.confirmed | D.acceptable |
7. A.thought | B.division | C.assumption | D.problem |
8. A.picking up | B.searching for | C.praying for | D.taking over |
9. A.bored | B.impatient | C.intolerant | D.confused |
10. A.strengthen | B.control | C.build | D.overcome |
11. A.efforts | B.struggles | C.ambitions | D.gains |
12. A.ideal | B.permanent | C.ordinary | D.specific |
13. A.benefit | B.outcome | C.solution | D.truth |
14. A.boost | B.contain | C.guarantee | D.affect |
15. A.refuse | B.claim | C.keep | D.ignore |