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Imagine you made plans with a new friend to talk on the phone. You called but there was no answer-and you didn’t get a call back. What happened? Perhaps they got held up by a work obligation. Perhaps they didn’t want to meet but didn’t bother to cancel. Or perhaps they had a busy week and simply forgot to write down your appointment time.

In social situations like this, our minds can produce various explanations, ranging from ones that are more understanding to ones that put blame to the other party. Psychologists refer to this as our attributional style. Past research has found that individuals with a “hostile” attributional style tend to be less satisfied with their relationships.

According to a new study, they’re also less happy overall. The researchers can’t say for sure whether seeing people as hostile directly lowers our happiness, or whether unhappy people are just more likely to make hostile attribution in the first place. However, this study does suggest the possibility that giving people the benefit of the doubt is a practice to improve our relationships and well-being.

Dorota Jasielska, lead researcher of the study, suggests that we start by developing positive and trusting social relationships. When we find ourselves surrounded by warmth and support, it can help us see the social world in a kinder light. Another important strategy is to have open and direct communication. Instead of letting your anxieties get worse, it may be better to simply talk to people about their confusing behavior.

So the next time a friend cancels plans or forgets to text back, consider giving him the benefit of the doubt and waiting to hear his side of things before jumping to conclusions. Assuming others have good intentions will make the world seem like a friendlier place.

1. How does the author introduce the topic of the text?
A.By giving an example.B.By asking a question.
C.By giving a definition.D.By telling a story.
2. What is the attributional style?
A.To show an understanding of one’s mistake.B.To imagine a particular social situation.
C.To find out the cause of social phenomena.D.To make assumptions on uncertain things.
3. What can make us happier according to the study?
A.Finding common interests with others.B.Making positive excuses for others.
C.Improving social communication.D.Being friendly to others.
4. What do the last two paragraphs mainly talk about?
A.Importance of reaching out and making friends.B.Strategies for having effective communication.
C.Advice on handling confusing social behavior.D.Methods for improving our social relationships.

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“Well, you could call me widowed,” she replied. “My husband died five months ago today.”

“I’m so sorry,” I said. “I needed it to fill out your credit application.”

“Don’t worry about it, honey,” she said. “If I never thought about it, I would not remember the love and the memories we shared. Even after 50 years of marriage, each passing moment would bring a deeper meaning to the word ‘love’.”

I began to deal with her credit application, words hung in the air. My mind was not focused on the task, and I was unsuccessful in my first few attempts. After I finally completed it, she continued in a heart-to-heart. I couldn’t believe someone could open up to a perfect stranger.

“Have you ever been married?” she asked.

I couldn’t help but laugh. I hadn’t even thought about getting married. Besides, I looked nothing like a married woman.

“Ah, no,” I replied. “I’m only 16.”

“Sixteen?” she murmured (嘟囔).“That’s a great age, an age of lessons. There’s so much worth learning.”

She then spoke in a whisper, sharing the one lesson that I will carry with me the rest of my life. “Never, ever take anyone for granted . If you are in love with someone, let it be known as often as you feel it. Otherwise, life may pass you by. Don’t spend your life angry. The ridiculous arguments you think are important won’t even be remembered in a short time.”

I have never seen that woman again, but her words of inspiration still live in me.

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A.She broke up with her husband.B.She got married 50 years ago.
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Being tolerant (包容的) is a good idea. No one is perfect.     3     Therefore, we should try to understand our friends and be patient with them when they make mistakes since we’re all on a journey to being better people. Gradually, our friendships will last longer and become more solid (坚固的).

Be honest.     4     However, it’s better to be honest with friends, to tell them what is bothering us and seek their advice. Being honest will not annoy (惹恼) your friends, but it will bring you and your friend closer together.

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