Everyone has failed in something, whether it is a failed relationship, fitness goal, business, or examination. Here are some tips to help you deal with failures in your life.
●Accept your failure
●Take a break
If you're burned out or need some time to clear your head, take some time off. For some people, this may mean closing a project for some time.
●Find out what went wrong
You might feel pain at first, but spend some time thinking why you failed.
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Don't analyze(分析)every little problem that went wrong or everything you "should" have done in the past. Instead, pay attention to what you've learned from these mistakes. With each mistake you make, ask yourself, "What can I learn from this?"
●View failure as part of a process(过程)
Failure doesn't have to be the end. Think of it as the start or middle of a process.
A.Let it go |
B.Learn your lessons |
C.Success comes with some luck |
D.Things don't always work out as planned |
E.See failure as a stepping stone on the way |
F.For others it may mean taking a vacation or a road trip |
G.For example, if you failed a test, think about how you studied for it |
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At the DMV: Start online, where most states allow you to take care of basic services remotely or at least schedule an appointment. Avoid visits at the end of the month, when most driver’s licenses expire (到期), and go before noon in the middle of the week.
At Disneyland: Arrive at least 30 minutes before the park opens, and start with the most popular rides; every minute you show up after the doors open becomes two extra minutes in line.
At the grocery store: Favor store that use a “serpentine line”—that is, a single long line that flows into several cash registers (e.g., the line at your local bank). Many Trader Joe’s and Whole Foods stores use this system, proved to be at least three times faster.
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C.Going to the DMV as soon as your driver’s license expires. |
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【推荐2】As is known to everyone, we all care about what others think of us and want to be liked,
※Prove you are paying attention.
To really show someone your interest in him or her, try bringing up a topic the person mentioned earlier. Did your co-worker talk about working with his son on a science fair project last week? Follow up and ask how it went.
※Handle criticism in a wise way.
While you want to be generous with your praise, be careful with your criticism. For example, if someone makes an error, don’t call that person out in front of a group.
※Ask for advice.
Asking someone for advice is a great way to get people to like you. It shows that you respect the other individual's opinion.
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Most people love to talk about themselves. If you are asking questions and getting people to talk about themselves, they ’ll leave the conversation thinking that you're the coolest.
A.Try to be confident and respectful. |
B.Everyone likes to feel needed and important. |
C.It doesn't have to be a big, life-changing event. |
D.Ask other people about their lives and interests. |
E.Always use an individual's name in a conversation. |
F.You can discuss your own mistakes before digging into someone else's errors. |
G.The basics of getting people to like you are obvious---be nice, considerate and polite. |
【推荐3】Top Tips for Better Writing
There are many different types of writing, such as essays, letters and speeches. Whatever your reason is and whatever your style, there are some universal tips that will help you improve your writing:
Be clear about your purpose
The most basic question to ask yourself before you start is why you are writing. In an essay or assignment, your purpose is to convey information and draw conclusions. But if you are writing a business report, you may want to make recommendations(建议).
Start with a plan
Guide readers through what you write
Your task is to help readers understand your message quickly and precisely.
Your aim in writing is to communicate ideas and information to other people, and you must keep that in mind with every word and sentence you write. Constantly ask yourself who you really write the information for.
Write for the ear, not for the eye
Once you’ve finished a draft of your speech, practice reading it out loud.
A.Write for readers, not yourself |
B.Write for the aim, not for the words |
C.It sounds robotic, and employers hate it. |
D.Far too often people write without a plan. |
E.You’ll hear anything that sounds awkward. |
F.Whatever it is, keep your purpose in mind at all times to avoid going off topic. |
G.To do this, it is necessary to show them clearly how the different parts relate to each other. |
【推荐1】Getting people to smile is not difficult because most people like to smile. However, if someone is faced with loss or experiencing sadness, they might be less possible to smile.
Praise someone to get them to smile.
Learn to listen. Again, some people may be so troubled by something that it is hard for them to smile.
Make an unexpected phone call.
A.Let them know they are not alone. |
B.They may just need someone to talk to. |
C.So in such cases, how can we get people to smile? |
D.Tell them everyone experiences hard times in life. |
E.Perhaps the person you are talking to has nice eyes. |
F.Usually, it could make an uneasy situation even worse. |
G.It works especially well if you express your concern about them on the phone. |
【推荐2】Earlier this year, I removed all Internet services from my home, which was very upsetting at first, but I have lived that way.
I was not content with the time I was wasting—
Now the Internet is a tool I use to improve my life.
It will be upsetting at first, but you will live, and your life will be better without it.
A.Here are some of my tips to use the Internet in a more productive way |
B.Since I got rid of the Internet at home, I’ve found so many benefits |
C.I don’t have a monthly Internet bill |
D.I learnt to think independently |
E.It ended up being the most productive and wisest decision I’ve ever made |
F.I log on to watch some videos or laugh at funny pictures |
G.I felt I could do more purposeful things than spend it on the Internet |
【推荐3】How to keep a journal
Keeping a journal can be a way of giving your feelings an outlet like no other.
Find a journal medium that's perfect for you.
Decide what kind of journal you'd like to keep.You could simply use your journal to write down all the thoughts that come to you at any particular time,randomly,or you could make your journal more focused on a specific theme to draw out something that you're trying to develop more of in your life.
Find sources of inspiration.It's often easiest to start with your current feelings.
A.Write down your feelings on paper and see where this takes you next. |
B.Reflect over what you've written now and then. |
C.Keep in mind that a journal is not about using a fancy book. |
D.Decide how you want to keep your journal,either on paper or in electronic form. |
E.Journal writing is a personal journey,determined wholly by your own thoughts. |
F.It's fun to glue in little things of your life,like pictures you took of a breathtaking sunset. |
G.And there is nothing saying that you can't keep both a random and a specific journal at the same time! |