It takes time to really get to know someone, but first impressions often determine whether someone is willing to spend more time learning about you. In fact, people’s first impressions are made within seven seconds of meeting someone new.
Show respect. People want to feel respected before they show you the same respect.
Be enthusiastic.
Try to avoid the bad days. If something unfortunate happens, you don’t have to follow a scheduled meeting on the day.
A.Make others feel lucky. |
B.Instead, you can set another time. |
C.Pay attention to your body language. |
D.Show interest in the person you meet. |
E.When you go out for dinner, be polite to waiters. |
F.Be polite and show manners with “please” and “thank you”. |
G.Here are some tips on how to make a good first impression. |
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【推荐1】It seems that society has placed so much value on the word “humility (谦逊)”, sometimes we’re told to lower ourselves in order to be recognized as a more modest student or employee.
1. Stop questioning your worth
Being mild-mannered does not contradict recognizing your worth, because you’ll become at peace with your inner self when you accept your own strengths. Humility will then come as a natural consequence.
2.
Be willing to get coffee for a colleague, sweep the floors of your dormitory, or move to a smaller office at work.
3. Accept uncertainty
A.Be eager and flexible |
B.Be determined and hard-working |
C.Develop a healthier relationship with uncertainty |
D.Uncertainty is a double-edged sword in many cases |
E.Remember that you are valuable regardless of outside variables |
F.This can allow you to interact with the people around you in new ways |
G.The true humility,however, is more about the way you relate to yourself and your surroundings |
【推荐2】Whether you’re in the final research stages of a major paper, or on a Zoom (a calling app) call for work, a dropped WiFi connection at zero hour is something annoying.
The first and easiest fix is to disconnect unused devices from your WiFi. The easiest way to do this is to simply change your WiFi password, which will kick everyone off. Then, you can allow only certain devices to rejoin.
A.What can you do about it? |
B.Sometimes that’s all that’s required. |
C.Finally, you may need to upgrade your connectivity. |
D.People deal with this modern inconvenience all the time, |
E.Cutting back on heavy WiFi use temporarily can also help. |
F.In general, this is a very good solution to a dropped WiFi connection. |
G.Back in the day, the average household had a computer or two to connect. |
【推荐3】Some people don't wish to waste even a second at work. Looking at a computer screen for a long time can cause stress on one's eyes. Sitting and looking at a television screen for hours can also make the eyes tired.
Bookworms love reading and they will make sure they read much more than their bodies can deal with. The strong wish to finish a book may result in fast reading,without taking breaks, which can lead to tired eyes. Reading for a long time in weak light can also cause tired eyes.
More salt-based junk food like burgers,pizzas, etc. and less water also play a role in causing tired eyes. The junk food is a reason for tired eyes for it hasn't enough vitamins(维生素).
Less sleep causes the eyes to become heavy. Dark circles also develop if one doesn't get enough sleep over a period of time.
If not treated in time,the condition can become worse. Here are some ways to relieve(减轻)a tired eye condition.
Every hour during your day at work, spend a minute relaxing your eyes. Look away from your computer screen and roll your eyes in all directions. Try and blink(眨眼)more often. Look around the room or close your eyes for a minute if you want and then work again. Following these every hour will help relieve the stress on your eyes,and you won't feel so tired after work.
Tea helps relieve tired eyes. Make a cup of hot black tea and pour it into a glass. Hold the glass close to your eyes,so that the vapors from the tea reach your eyes. This will also make you feel fresh.
If your eyes feel very tired at work, go to the washroom and wash your face with cool tap water. The cold water will help relieve the tired feeling. Do this every hour during work and your eyes will feel good.
1. How many factors will cause the tiredness of one's eyes according to the passage?A.6 | B.4 |
C.8 | D.10 |
A.A physical approach. | B.A medicine treatment. |
C.An operation. | D.An exercise method. |
A.To show the importance of our eyes. |
B.To explain the ways of eyes' protection. |
C.To help us keep fit. |
D.To tell us how to get rid of eyes' tiredness. |
A.A poster. | B.A travel guide. |
C.A health magazine. | D.An introduction to an eye hospital. |
【推荐1】All over the world, mothers and fathers teach their children manners. Other children may have manners that are not like yours. There are all kinds of manners. Years ago,children who had good manners were seen everywhere. They kept quiet if grown-ups were talking. Today, well-mannered children have more freedom. Sometimes good manners in one place are bad manners in other places.
Suppose you are a visitor in the land of Mongolia. Some friends ask you to eat with them. What kind of manners do they want you to have? They want you to give a loud “ burp (打嗝) ” after you finish eating. Burping shows that you like your food. In some countries, if you give a loud burp, you are told to say, “Excuse me, please.” In many places people like to eat together. But in some parts of Polynesia it is bad manners to be seen eating together. People show good manners by turning their backs to others while they eat.
What are manners like in an East African town? People try not to see you. They are being polite. You may see a friend. He may not see you at all. If you are polite, you will sit down beside him. You will wait until he finishes what he is doing. Then he will talk to you.
Suppose you visit a friend in Arabia. You should walk behind the other tents until you come to his tent. If you pass in front of the other tents, you will be asked into each one.People will ask you to eat with them. And it is bad manners if you say no.
Manners are different all over the world. But it is good to know that all manners begin in the same way. People need ways to show that they want to be friends.
1. What is considered good manners in Mongolia?A.Trying not to see one’s friends. | B.Walking in front of people’s tents. |
C.Giving a loud burp after finishing eating. | D.Turning one’s back to others while eating. |
A.Turn your back to him. | B.Wait until he finishes his call beside him. |
C.Go straight to talk to him. | D.Pretend not to see him and go away. |
A.To show their friendliness. | B.To make their culture interesting. |
C.To demonstrate their generosity. | D.To attract others from other places. |
A.Good manners change over time. |
B.Good manners are welcome everywhere. |
C.Children with good manners make friends easily. |
D.Different places have different understanding of good manners. |
In Brazil
Brazilians are warm and friendly. They often stand close when talking and it is common for them to touch the person on the shoulder. People often greet each other (particularly women) with light cheek kisses. Schedules tend to be flexible, with business meetings sometimes starting later than planned. But to be safe, be on time. Meals can last for hours—there’s no such thing as rushing a meal in Brazil.
In Singapore
Singaporeans shake hands when they meet and often also greet each other with a small, polite bow. Arriving late is considered disrespectful. So be on time. Efficiency (效率) is the goal, so meetings are fast-paced. Singaporeans are direct in their discussions, even when the subject is about money. Rank is important and authority is respected. People avoid disagreeing outright with someone with a higher rank.
In the United Arab Emirates
In the UAE, status is important, so the most senior or oldest should be greeted first with their titles. The handshake seems to be longer than elsewhere. So, do not pull away the handshake. People do not avoid entertaining in their homes, but they also hold business meals at restaurants. Touching or passing food or eating with your left hand is to be avoided.
In Switzerland
The Swiss tend to be formal and address each other by last name. They also are respectful of private lives. You should be careful not to ask about personal topics. Punctuality (守时) is important, so arrive at any meeting or event a few minutes early to be safe. The Swiss follow formal table manners. They also keep their hands visible at the table and their elbows(肘部) off the table. It is polite to finish the food on your plate.
1. The passage mainly deals with ________.
A.various types of communication |
B.the atmosphere in workplace |
C.living conditions and standards |
D.customs and social manners |
A.They regard efficiency as the most important. |
B.They dislike face-to-face communication. |
C.They are supposed to obey the person of a higher rank. |
D.They are used to having a fast-paced and direct talk. |
A.In Brazil. | B.In Singapore. |
C.In the United Arab Emirate. | D.In Switzerland. |
【推荐3】Men and The Art of Listening
The world today is moving at a so high pace that we rarely stop to listen to each other. We’ve all been in conversations with someone who we felt wasn’t listening. They may keep looking at their watch or at other people around them. They nod and say yes — but we feel like a stranger talking to a wall.
To listen is to love.
Allowing someone to open up and share their life with us communicates the simple truth: you matter and I care about your life.
When we are with someone who is processing something difficult, to listen with compassion can often look like listening without feeling pressed to solve or advise. It comforts the one who is talking in a silent way. Women tend to be better at this form of listening. They can talk for hours and not necessarily be focused on sharing information.
To listen is to be needed deep down.
A.Listening with compassion. |
B.To listen, therefore, is to love another. |
C.To listen is to support some else quietly. |
D.Instead, they are letting out everything in mind. |
E.Listening is a skill badly missing in today’s world. |
F.We need to be able to talk freely with a friend and know we’ve been heard. |
G.We depend on it that someone may lend a hand if we are really in desperate trouble. |