Asking for or accepting help can bring up a wide range of complicated emotions, like there’s the fear of being seen as needy or weak. Although accepting help from others is difficult, giving and receiving is a necessary part of life.
Sometimes these unnoticed requests are a result of neglect or because parents are too busy to notice. Maybe they were undertaking some jobs to make ends meet or didn’t have additional family support to spare.
How do you get better at accepting help? One way to get better at accepting help is to start with small requests, such as asking for directions.
Helping others feels good. Although asking for help is hard, one way to make it a little easier is to focus on how it feels when you help others.
A.Start small and make it a habit |
B.It can feel like a burden to ask for help |
C.Whatever the cause is, it may affect you |
D.Having needs ignored can make asking for help difficult |
E.We grow up in situations where help comes with duties attached |
F.And remember that the same thing applies when others are helping you |
G.Another way to get better at accepting help is to listen to your internal reactions |
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【推荐1】THE COLLEGE APPLICATION PROCESS
It takes hard work to guarantee your college application stands out. Make it rise to the top of the pile by becoming familiar with the application process and getting organized.
HOW MANY SCHOOLS TO APPLY TO
There are a ton of schools out there, but applying to too many colleges is a common mistake. Submitting your application to between five and eight colleges is suggested. Of that list, you should include a variety of dream schools, safety schools and possible schools.
EARLY DECISION AND EARLY ACTION
Early Decision and Early Action are options that allow you to apply to a college early and receive the admissions department’s decision in advance of traditional applicants. However, there are also restrictions that are important to understand. Early Decision, for example, is binding; if you submit Early Decision to a college and they accept, you must attend that college. You will also not be able to apply for more financial aid after this point. Early Action, on the other hand, is not binding; you can submit Early Action to a college, get accepted and have until the following spring to decide whether or not you want to attend.
WRITING A COLLEGE ESSAY
A good college essay is a critical part of the application process. A college essay is really just a way for admissions advisors to get to know you more, hear your perspective and relate to you on a personal level. This is one area you know a lot about, so just remember to infuse as much of “you” as possible into your essay.
NAILING YOUR COLLEGE INTERVIEW
A college interview is an opportunity for you to make a personal impression on an admissions officer and increase your chances of acceptance into a college. It’s a way for you to differentiate yourself from others and show your personality in a way that you can’t on a piece of paper. Practice and preparation will help you do well during your college interview.
1. Who is the text intended for?A.College freshmen. | B.Educational institutions. |
C.High school students. | D.General public. |
A.Apply for another safety school. | B.Apply for more economic support. |
C.Start to prepare for your college. | D.Start to prepare your college essay. |
A.By applying to as many colleges as possible. |
B.By submitting Early Decision or Early Action. |
C.By praising the target colleges in the essay. |
D.By showing your personalities in the interview. |
【推荐2】You want to be loved, respected, and live a happy life. And so do I.
They hang out with other happy people. It's true that happiness is contagious (会 传染 的).
They exercise regularly. Exercise is good for health, both physical and mental health. You don't need to spend two hours in the gym. Just a thirty-minute walk can be enough. To get the most out of a workout, simply pick an activity you enjoy. They don't seek happiness in things. They know a pair of new shoes or a new car isn't what's going to make them happier.
A.We all want the same thing. |
B.They live in the moment. |
C.They stay with their kids. |
D.But sadness and anger are contagious too. |
E.Most of the time, happiness isn't something we just walk into. |
F.Instead, happy people value experiences and people above things. |
G.They choose to look at the bright side of things. |
【推荐3】Profile pictures
Definition
A profile picture is the image that represents a social media account in all its interactions on a platform. Profile pictures are displayed next to the account names on posts, comments and mentions, depending on the platform.
Profile pictures make a visual impact on social media users and potential customers, making it important for businesses to select the right images. For a company, a profile picture should be the best part of that brand’s image, usually combining its logo.
How to select a profile picture
Profile pictures should be easily recognizable as belonging to your business. While using an independent logo is the most common strategy, some brands use a lifestyle image that includes that logo.
Other brands rely more on a person — a recognizable “face of the brand”. If this is your marketing strategy, your profile image should be creative and attractive:
●Use professional photography and design.
●Colorful images are better at catching people’s eyes.
●Photos should be taken in bright light.
●Show a smiling face.
If you have multiple social media outlets, use the same profile picture on every platform to create a consistent brand image.
Above all, use high-quality images. Keep in mind a few basic rules:
●Images should be clear.
●Make images simple and visually striking.
●Always meet requirements of the platform’s image size.
If the platform allows, add a description to your profile picture that includes links to your website.
1. Why is it vital for a business to choose a proper profile picture?A.A profile picture is equal to a business. |
B.A profile picture has a visual influence on potential customers. |
C.A profile picture is usually displayed next to the account names. |
D.A profile picture is often the best part of a company’s brand image. |
A.Avoid photos taken in bright light. |
B.Always use a lifestyle image with the logo. |
C.Make images simple as well as visually appealing. |
D.Adopt various profile pictures for different social media outlets. |
A.On a business website. | B.On a business forum. |
C.In an academic report. | D.In a school brochure. |
【推荐1】How to Keep a Relationship Healthy and Strong
Are you new to experiencing relationships? Well, let me give you advice on having a healthy and possibly long-term relationship.
Make sure you give them respect. Now respect isn’t just simply treating her or him nicely. There' s a lot more to it. You have to learn to adjust to their liking.
Make sure you are encouraging to your partner.
Make sure you have a good sense of humor with them. Laughter is the key to happiness. Laugh a lot with them, joke with them. Laughter may seem silly, but it’s the secret to a lot in life. It will keep the sparks alive.
Make sure the communication is good. This goes along with trust, but always communicate how you feel, even if it’s something that upsets you. Instead of screaming, talk to them.
A.Be an honest person with them. |
B.Make sure you are reliable to your partner. |
C.Laughter keeps the relationship strong and lasting. |
D.Basically, learn to study your partners’ moods, wants and needs. |
E.If they did something that made you unhappy, tell them about it in a respectful manner. |
【推荐2】D
Sure, it’s good to get along with your teacher because it makes the time you spend in the classroom more pleasant.
And yes, it’s good to get along with your teacher because, in general, it’s smart to learn how to relate to the different types of people you’ll meet throughout your life.
But really, there’s one super-important reason why you should get along with your teacher. When you do, “learning bursts right open,” says Evelyn Vuko, a longtime teacher who writes an education column called “Teacher Says” for the Washington Post newspaper.
In fact, kids who get along with their teachers not only learn more, but they’re more comfortable asking questions and getting extra help. This makes it easier to understand new material and do your best on tests. When you have this kind of relationship with a teacher, he or she can be someone to turn to with problems, such as problems with learning or school issues, such as bullying(欺负人).
As a kid in a primary or middle school, you’re at a wonderful stage in your life. You’re like a sponge(海绵), able to soak up lots of new and exciting information. On top of that, you’re able to think about all this information in new ways. Your teacher knows that, and in most cases, is very excited to be the person who’s giving you all that material and helping you put it together. Remember, teachers are people, too, and they feel great if you’re open to what they’re teaching you. That’s why they wanted to be teachers in the first place --- to teach!
Some kids may be able to learn in any situation, whether they like the teacher or not. But most kids are sensitive to the way they get along with the teacher, and if things aren’t going well, they won’t learn as well and won’t enjoy being in class.
1. In the passage, the author mainly talks about _____.A.how to get along well with teachers |
B.the importance of a good relation with teachers |
C.how much the students are expected of to get along with teachers |
D.how to make the time in the classroom more pleasant |
A.learning becomes easier for you at once |
B.you find an opening to learning |
C.there’ll be more problems with learning |
D.there’ll be no problems with learning. |
A.You are getting on well with your teachers, so you have more questions than others. |
B.You find it comfortable to ask questions, so you can build a good relationship with teachers. |
C.You have a good relationship with teacher, so you can turn to him/ her when in trouble. |
D.You are in trouble, so you can build a good relationship with teachers. |
A.Teachers are exited even if you wouldn’t like to accept their teaching. |
B.Teachers sometimes have the same feelings as students do. |
C.Though few there are still some students who can learn even if they don’t like the teacher. |
D.Having a bad relationship with your teachers does more or less harm to your studies. |
【推荐3】How to talk to strangers?
Nowadays social phobia or social anxiety disorder(SAD)is common among young people.
Be brave, worry less
Be curious
Ask questions. Is the person wearing an article of clothing that’s noteworthy?
Skip the stock questions
Skip the stock questions, and ask a question that will make our conversation partner think, which is engaging. Or start with a statement: This painting really confuses me, or I can’t believe how crowded the train is today. And whether you’re asking a question, replying, or making a statement, say something sincerely.
At the very least, you’re in the same place and experiencing the same weather. But don’t be afraid to dig deeper and find more interesting commonalities: Maybe you’re from the same place, maybe you have a mutual friend, maybe you have a shared hobby, or maybe you work in similar roles.
A.Don’t be afraid to talk to someone who seems different from you. |
B.God helps those who help themselves. |
C.Talk about something you have in common. |
D.People want to get the real you so they can express the real them. |
E.They are afraid to meet people, unwilling to go out, do not want to socialise. |
F.Don’t do to others what you don’t want others to do to you. |
G.Why did they decide to come to this event? |