No more wet towels on the bathroom floor, and no more empty juice plastic boxes. No more doors closing at 3 a. m. , and no more coming home to a noisy crowd of strangers around the kitchen table. There’s nothing so quiet, says a friend whose youngest has just moved out.
But if adjusting to an empty nest can be tough (difficult), it seems there is one thing tougher: a formerly empty nest that suddenly fills back up again. According to a research from the London School of Economics (LSE), parents whose grown up children don’t actually manage to leave —who move out, only to bounce right back again —are actually less happy than those whose fledglings (幼鸟) heartlessly fly off without a backward glance. The quality of life for parents of boomerang (coming back) kids fell on average by about 0.8 points on the LSE researchers’ scale.
A quarter of young British adults now live with their parents, more than at any time since records began in1966. But more shockingly, this is no longer just about the young. Around a quarter of a million people aged between 35 and 44 still live at home with their parents and the idea that that can all be blamed on helicopter parents making it too easy for their little darlings not to grow up isn’t logical. Midlife divorce, insecure gig economy work and straightforward poverty all play their part in driving what were once perfectly functioning grown-ups back to their teenage bedrooms.
These kids are admittedly luckier than those for whom going back home is sadly not an option. But when choosing to live with your mum is the only way of coping with an insecure job, or with the costs of renting in the city, then that’s not much of a choice. Home is still the place where, when you have to go there, they have to take you in. But a healthy and successful society shouldn’t be sending quite many overgrown children hurrying back for shelter, and nor should it leave quite many parents feeling bad about it.
1. According to the first two paragraphs, parents of boomerang children _________.A.have to do too much housework | B.feel bad about it |
C.expect their children to live together | D.enjoy higher quality of life |
A.To avoid their life pressure. | B.To nurse elderly parents. |
C.Because their parents choose to take them in. | D.Because they have helicopter parents. |
A.Supportive. | B.Confused. | C.Uninterested. | D.Disapproving. |
A.Does the empty nest matter? | B.Is the nest really empty? |
C.What worries grown-ups? | D.How do parents help their kids? |
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【推荐1】How to Have a Healthy Relationship with Your Colleagues at Work
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It is unprofessional to misbehave towards fellow workers. An employee must behave in an acceptable way in the workplace. Being rude to fellow workers spoils the relationships among employees. Remember that the way you behave says a lot about your education, upbringing and family background.
●Make Your Fellow Workers Feel Important
Show how much you care about them. If they have done something for you, remember to thank them. The good work of employees must be acknowledged and appreciated in front of all. Being jealous doesn’t help, and, in turn, it spoils your relationship with your fellow workers.
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If any of your colleagues is doing something wrong, tell him to his face. It is better to be straighlt-forward than spread unnecessary rumours (谣言) Criticizing and making fun of fellow workers spoil relationships and eventually turn friends into enemies.
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Listen to what your colleagues say. You need to be a little more understanding, meanwhile. Try to avoid unnecessary conflicts in the workplace. Put yourself in your colleague’s shoes before taking any important decisions.
A. Be a Patient Listener
B. Respect Your Colleagues
C. Learn from Your Colleagues
D. Be Honest with Others
【推荐2】Oxford ELAT(English Literature Admissions Test)
If you are applying for one of the following courses you will be required to take the Oxford ELAT: English Language and Literature, Classics and English, English and Modern Languages, History and English.
The Oxford ELAT is a paper-based test, lasting 90 minutes and taken under timed exam conditions. The Oxford ELAT is designed to test a candidate’s close reading skills, and their ability to write about unfamiliar literary material. You will be asked to write one essay comparing two passages, focusing on elements such as language, form and structure.
You will be given six passages on the same theme, the names of the authors and the dates of publication, as well as the forms (novel, essay, poetry, etc.). You are not expected to introduce any references to other texts or authors you have studied and marks are not awarded for evidence of wider reading or previous knowledge of the texts or their contexts (语境). Instead, the examiners will reward your ability to do the following: respond perceptively (有洞察力地) to unfamiliar materials demonstrate skills of close reading construct a well-structured essay write fluently and accurately.
Please note that the Oxford ELAT is a closed-book test and you will not be able to take dictionaries or notes into the test.
1. What does the Oxford ELAT aim to test?A.Listening ability. |
B.Communicative skills. |
C.Reading and writing ability. |
D.Speaking and translating ability. |
A.Types. |
B.References. |
C.Summaries. |
D.Structures. |
A.By offering the authors’ background. |
B.By constructing a well-organized essay. |
C.By showing evidence of wider reading. |
D.By presenting previous knowledge of the texts. |
【推荐3】If you’re planning on traveling, there are a few simple rules about how to make life easier both before and after your journey.
First of all, always check and double-check departure (起程) time. It is amazing how few people really do this carefully. Once I arrived at the airport a few minutes after ten. My secretary had got the ticket for me and I thought she had said that the plane left at 10:50. When I arrived at the airport, the clerk at the departure desk told me that my flight was closed. Therefore, I had to wait three hours for the next one and missed an important meeting.
The second rule is to remember that even in this age of credit cards, it is still important to have at least a little of the local currency (货币) with you when you arrive in a country. This can be necessary if you are flying to a place few tourists normally visit. Once I arrived at a place at midnight and the bank at the airport was closed. The only way to get to my hotel was by taxi and because I had no dollars, I offered to pay in pounds instead. “Listen! I only take real money!” the driver said angrily. Luckily I was able to borrow a few dollars from a clerk at the hotel, but it was embarrassing.
The third and last rule is to find out as much as you can about the weather at your destination before you leave. I feel sorry for some of my workmates who travel in heavy suit and raincoats in May, when it is still fairly cool in London or Manchester, to places like Athens, Rome or Madrid, where it is already beginning to get quite warm during the day.
1. Where is the writer most probably from?A.Italy. | B.The USA |
C.Britain. | D.Greece |
A.The author tells people to choose warm places as their travel destinations. |
B.You don’t have to take credit cards when travelling. |
C.You should know more about the weather of the place you’ll visit. |
D.It’s unnecessary to check the departure time carefully. |
A.how to make life easier | B.how to be well prepared for a trip |
C.how to enjoy ourselves on a trip | D.how to plan our trip |
【推荐1】More than half of Chinese children and teenagers suffered from nearsightedness, according to a survey by the National Health Commission(NHC).
The common phenomenon of extreme myopia has also become alarming. According to the survey, the percentage of senior students in high schools who wear glasses stronger than six diopters went up to 21.9 percent.
According to Ma Jun, deputy head of the Beijing Ophthalmology Institute, the survey was the largest in recent years. This survey has provided a basis for taking targeted measures for control and prevention.
Nearsightedness is not curable with current medical techniques.
A.China made a plan last year to control the rise in nearsightedness among children and teenagers. |
B.The high rate of nearsightedness has brought about many incredible consequences, according to NHC official ZhangYong. |
C.The survey was organized by the Ministry of Education, Ministry of Finance and the NHC in 2018. |
D.Thus, prevention work is particularly important. |
E.Overall,53.6 percent(of these students) were nearsighted. |
F.Several factors are associated with the high rate of nearsightedness, according to NHC official Zhang Yong. |
G.Many scientists as well as educators are concerned about the increasing rate of nearsightedness. |
【推荐2】What is the ideal physique(体形)? The answer is ever-changing. But it is to a large extent work of a single company that dominated the past 60 years of body image standards.
Since its creation in 1959, Barbie has been in the leading position of promoting hardly attainable body image standards, for which it was often heavily criticized. Scientific research shows that the probability of achieving a Barbie-like body shape is less than 1 in 100,000!
Mattel, the company behind the Barbie doll, has recognized that the 60s’ idea of good body image is long gone. In an effort to keep up with social change, Mattel is adjusting the dolls' body type and skin color, introducing special editions.
There is now a Barbie in a wheelchair. There is a Barbie Astronaut, Rescuer, or Engineer. In their latest Barbie special edition, Mattel honors the women fighting the COVID-19 pandemic, including Dame Sarah Gilbert. In the hope that Mattel is adapting to modern corporate standards just as well as it is to social change, we’re attracted by what the company's sustainability data may tell us.
What does the data tell us? To answer this question, we’ve launched a sustainability-focused beauty contest-with Mattel as one of the contestants. The company scores relatively well on environmental and social metrics(衡量标准).However, in terms of diversity, Mattel is well below its competitor, Hasbro. This being said, the judges advise that beauty should be equally defined by the inside and the outside.
What does this mean? Be body-positive! As we’re approaching the second quarter of the 21st century, the importance of a healthy relationship between mind and body is being recognized. And with this, body image standards are changing, allowing for more freedom of expression and identity.
Mattel’s efforts in product diversity are a welcome step in the right direction, as the doll has its very own influence. We believe that Barbie’s future lies in the empowerment(赋予力量)of today’s youth, contributing toward a generation of confident individuals.
1. How does scientific research evaluate a Barbie-like body shape?A.It needs much luck to achieve it. |
B.It's almost impossible to achieve it. |
C.There is increasing probability of achieving it. |
D.It's a breakthrough in attainable body image standards. |
A.To score well on social metrics. |
B.To launch a beauty contest. |
C.To keep pace with the times. |
D.To define what is real beauty. |
A.Positive. | B.Negative. | C.Uncertain. | D.Uninterested. |
A.The Future of Barb |
B.New Metrics for Body Image |
C.A Deep Dive into Barbie’s World |
D.A Great Change in Body Image Standards |
【推荐3】A young musician carrying a violin case in Paraguay makes her way to rehearsal(彩排).What's inside the case, however, is no ordinary violin. It's made from a salad bowl, a CD, and large pieces of wood.
The violinist, Ada Rios, 13, is a member of the Orchestra of Instruments Recycled from Cateura, a group of teen musicians whose instruments are made from the trash near their village. Cateura, just outside Paraguay's capital, Asuncion, is a poor area built on a very large landfill (垃圾填埋地).Cateura is home to 2, 500 families, with 20 teens in the orchestra. They play everything from the classical works of Beethoven to Beatles' songs.
Now the orchestra is attracting world-wide attention.The musicians are being filmed for a documentary, Land-fill Harmonic.The film will show how people in Cateura turn trash into instruments, and the effect that being part of an orchestra can have on kids.
In Paraguay, nearly 35 percent of the population lives in poverty (贫穷).In Cateura, a real musical instrument costs more than a house, says Favio Chavez, the orchestra's founder. About 1, 500 tons of waste are left at the landfill each day, and the people there earn a living searching through the garbage for things they can recycle and sell.
Chavez started teaching music in Cateura five years ago as a way to keep kids out of trouble. When he needed more instruments, he asked the landfill workers if they could build some from the trash. First, the men repaired a broken drum. Next, they built a guitar . The orchestra took_off_from there.
The group has already performed in Brazil and Colombia.The teens will travel to Arizona this year to play at the Musical Instrument Museum in Phoenix. Ada says music has already changed her life.“When I listen to the sound of a violin, I feel excited, ”she says.
1. What do we know about Ada's violin?A.It's of big size. | B.It cost a lot of money. |
C.It has a beautiful case. | D.It's made from waste. |
A.are mostly homeless | B.are from different cities |
C.play music of different types | D.search through the garbage each day |
A.To recycle the trash. | B.To save some money. |
C.To produce special sounds | D.To make the instruments more attractive. |
A.became popular | B.got into trouble |
C.stayed unchanged | D.got a lot of money |
【推荐1】If you could travel in time, where would you go? Perhaps you would watch a performance of a Shakespeare’s play in Elizabethan England? What about hanging out with Laozi in the Spring and Autumn Period? Or maybe you’d voyage far ahead of the present day to see what the future holds.
The possibility of time travel is indeed appealing. Stories exploring the subject have been around for hundreds of years. Perhaps the best-known example is science fiction novel The Time Machine, written by H. G. Wells and published in 1895. It was adapted into at least two feature films of the same name, as well as two television versions, and a large number of comic book adaptations. It is generally credited with the popularization of the concept of time travel using a vehicle that allows an operator to travel purposefully and selectively. The term “time machine”, coined by Wells, is now universally referred to a vehicle transporting people into the far future.
But could time travel actually be possible? Some scientists say yes, in theory. They propose using cracks in time and space called “wormholes”, which could be used as shortcuts to other periods. Einstein’s theory of relativity allows time travel in extreme circumstances. And Stephen Hawking says you could travel into the future with a really fast spaceship-going at nearly the speed of light. Though building such a spaceship wouldn’t of course be simple.
Even if you could travel into the past, there is something called the “grandfather paradox”. It asks what would happen if a time traveler were to go back in time and have his own grandfather killed for some reason, and therefore prevent himself from being born. If the time traveler wasn’t born, how would he travel back in time?
And would you really like to visit the future? In H. G. Wells’ book, the main character travels into distant time where he arrives at a beach and is attacked by giant crabs. He then voyages 30 million years into the future where the only living thing is a black object with tentacles.
If that’s what’s in store, maybe we are better just living in the present day after all.
1. Which of the following statements is TRUE?A.The Time Machine is one of the bestselling science fiction novels. |
B.There are films, comic books and dramas adapted from the novel The Time Machine. |
C.Works of Literature about time travel first appeared one hundred years ago. |
D.It was H.G. Wells who invented the term “time machine”. |
A.suggest the possibility of time travel |
B.have been proved wrong by some time travelers |
C.have similarities because both are based on experiments |
D.have pushed the invention of the first spaceship |
A.the reunion of the traveler and his grandfather brings happiness |
B.the grandfather’s death makes the traveler’s birth impossible |
C.the traveler goes back in time to seek for his grandfather |
D.the traveler is prevented from meeting his grandfather |
A.Unclear. | B.Supportive. | C.Doubtful. | D.Unconcerned. |
【推荐2】When parents ask, “What grade did you get?” there is a common follow-up question: “So who got the highest grade?” The practice of making such social comparisons(比较) is popular in all corners of the world. Many teachers choose and publicly announce the “best student” in a class. Adults praise children for doing better than others. People cheer for the athletes who defeat others.
Social comparisons are well meaning: we want to make children feel proud and push them to achieve more. Yet social comparisons can backfire: children can learn to always compare themselves with others and become caught up in a harmful cycle(循环) of competition.
One well-known method to remove social comparisons is to provide participation prizes for children who take an active part in activities. Such prizes, however, may not end social comparisons: A high achiever who receives the same prize as a low achiever may feel unfairly treated. More generally, those who are highly praised unexpectedly may come to believe that they do better than others and thus have reason to be given a prize.
How, then, can we make children feel proud of themselves and encourage them without the unwanted side effects? We believe a better way is to use temporal comparisons—encouraging children to compare themselves with their past self rather than with others, such as by checking on their progress. Adults should teach children that doing better than oneself is more important than doing better than others and that even small achievements can be celebrated.
1. Why do parents compare their children with others?A.To make the practice more popular. | B.To give children the desire to do better. |
C.To give children courage to face defeats. | D.To prevent children from being too proud. |
A.Make no difference. | B.Bring great benefits. |
C.Have opposite effects. | D.Cause short-term changes. |
A.It’s better than social comparisons. | B.It gives low achievers a wrong idea. |
C.It weakens the confidence of high achievers. | D.It’s a reasonable suggestion for inspiring children. |
A.You will be the best! | B.You are No. 1 again! |
C.You are doing better than before! | D.You make greater progress than Li Hua! |
【推荐3】Stories play a vital role in the growth and development of children. The books they read and the characters they get to know can become like friends. It's also good for children to understand that books are a useful source of information and that good reading skills are important for success in their future lives.
Children who can read well are more likely to have higher confidence levels. This will benefit them in school as they’ll feel able to participate fully in activities. Another part of building confidence is to know where you fit into the world. Stories can help with this process by showing children what people's lives are like where they live and in other parts of the world.
Stories are a great way to introduce new words and ideas into a child's language--starting with picture books for the very young, working up to more complex novels for teenagers. Fiction based on real life can also help children with their own life experience--it shows them how diverse the world is and that some people's lives are vastly different from theirs. And the process is done in a natural way. There's no actual teaching involved at all, but they learn from simply reading the story.
Reading helps children understand that there are other children who feel the same way and they are not alone. This helps children understand that feelings are normal and should be expressed. Watching their responses to the feelings of the characters in the stories will give you some idea of how a child feels about certain situations and emotions. For example, how the child responds to the character in the story feeling sad or scared will give you some idea of how the child thinks.
As you can see, children's stories are important for a number of reasons and form a vital part of the growing process. Being part of that process can bring children a sense of satisfaction as well as being great fun. So, go and get your children some wonderful books to allow them to enjoy a relaxing bedtime story.
1. What can we know from Paragraph 1?A.Reading stories benefits children a lot. |
B.Reading is the best way to gain information. |
C.Reading stories helps children make more friends. |
D.Reading skills should be developed at a young age. |
A.Inspiring children to get good grades. |
B.Supporting children's language development. |
C.Aiding children with living in a better family environment. |
D.Allowing children to explore their suitable positions in society. |
A.Unrealistic. |
B.Effective. |
C.Time-saving |
D.Expensive. |
A.Most teenagers are fond of complex novels. |
B.Picture books are lacking in real life situations. |
C.Most children have difficulty in expressing themselves. |
D.Parents can know kids better from kids' reading responses. |