One Sunday, my family had gathered at my parents’ house to feast upon Mom’s wonderful cooking. During the normal dinner chatter, I noticed that my father was slurring (说话含混) his words. No one mentioned this during dinner, but I felt compelled to discuss it with my mother afterward.
We decided that there was something seriously wrong and that Dad needed to see the doctor.
Mom phoned me two days later. The doctor found a brain tumor (肿瘤). It’s too large at this point to operate. Maybe they can do something then, but the odds are long.
Even with the treatment, my father’s condition worsened, and the doctor finally informed us that this condition was terminal. During one of his stays in the hospital, we brought our baby daughter Chelsey with us when we visited him. By this time he had great difficulty speaking. I finally figured out that he wanted Chelsey to sit on his stomach so he could make faces at her.
Watching the two of them together, I realized I was living an experience that would stay with me forever. Though grateful for the times they could share, I couldn’t shake the feeling of a clock ticking in the background.
On the visit to my parents’ home during what we all know was my father’s last days, my mother took Chelsey from my arms and announced, “Your father would like to see you alone for a minute. ”
I entered the bedroom where my father lay on a rented hospital bed. He appeared even weaker than the day before.
“How are you feeling, Dad?” I asked. “Can I do anything for you?”
He tried to speak, but he couldn’t make out a word.
“I’m sorry, but I can’t understand you,” I said.
With great difficulty he said, “I love you.”
We don’t learn courage from heroes on the evening news. We learn true courage from watching ordinary people rise above hopeless situations. In many ways my father was a strict, uncommunicative man. He found it difficult to show emotion. The bravest thing I ever saw him do was overcome that barrier to open his heart to his son and family at the end of his life.
1. Which of the following statements is TRUE?A.The writer accompanied his father to a medical examination. |
B.The writer’s father got worse after the removal of the brain tumor. |
C.The writer’s father had known about his illness before the writer discovered it. |
D.The writer was quick to notice the strange condition of his father. |
A.It takes a long time for Father to recover. |
B.There’s little possibility for Father to recover. |
C.Father needs love and care from his family. |
D.They need a proper time to operate on Father. |
A.he was not used to openly showing his emotions |
B.he was not so attached to the writer |
C.he thought there was no need to tell the writer |
D.he believed in strictness and punishment |
A.Life is short, so live your life to the fullest. |
B.Don’t wait to see a doctor till it is too late. |
C.Bravely express your love for your family. |
D.We don’t often value health until we lose it. |
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【推荐1】Brad’s idea of a good time is to swim across the lake at the base of Grand Teton, and then hike to the peak and back. Sometimes his wife Sheila and daughters Sage and Sienna will join him. “Being in the wilderness is the best therapy (疗法) I’ve found,” Sheila says. “
An article details the power of nature therapy not only in reducing stress and anxiety, but in dramatically reducing the symptoms of PTSD. That’s the basis on which the National Ability Center (NAC) is built. The NAC draws in nationwide participants with disabilities.
Brad’s family was once part of a larger family, skiing with autistic (患自闭症的) kids and biking with the depressed. The girls quickly connected with the kids. Sage, the older daughter, says, “
The forest and the clear sky create a sense of connection beyond our humanness, making us part of something bigger and restoring our emotions. “We’re all hurt in some way. But if we help each other out well get through it.
A.It’s a stress and anxiety reliever. |
B.To bond with them is a lot easier. |
C.The therapy functions in two directions. |
D.The preservation of the world lies in the wilderness. |
E.After all, it’s difficult to achieve anything without support. |
F.It’s a mixed bag of humanity who lands on the unfair side of life. |
G.Being in the wilderness has sustained our family through hard times. |
【推荐2】It’s hard to talk to Dad sometimes. His silence about his feelings and thoughts made him mysterious and hard to see through. You could never break his hard shell and get to know him. And he seemed to want to stay that way too.
But a year ago when my relationship with my wife and career took a hit, I needed my dad to pull back the curtain so I could see him as real and accessible. I was facing serious problems and I wanted to know whether he had faced them before and how he had found his way, because I felt like I had lost mine. In desperation, it occurred to me that sending an email might be the key, so I wrote him one, telling him about my regrets and fears, and I asked him to answer, if he felt like it.
Two weeks later, it showed up in my inbox: a much-thought, three-page letter. Dad, a 68-year-old retired technologist and grandfather of four, had carefully considered my message, and crafted a response. He mentioned his lost love, the foolish mistake he made in career and the stupid pride he had between him and his parents. He comforted me that “life will still find its right track despite many of its twists and turns”.
I closed the email and started to cry, because I wished I had opened up earlier but was grateful it wasn’t too late. I cried because at 33, in the midst of my own struggles, his letter instantly put me at ease. And I cried because in the end, it was so simple: I just had to hit “Send”.
We’ve since had many email exchanges. This increasing communication opened a door into his world. My problems haven’t been magically solved, but getting to know my dad better has made the tough thing more manageable and life sweeter. It’s hard to talk to Dad sometimes, but I’m glad I found a way to talk to mine.
1. Which of the following best describes the author’s father?A.Quiet and caring. |
B.Optimistic but careless. |
C.Selfish and lonely. |
D.Simple but proud. |
A.To make an apology. |
B.To express thanks. |
C.To turn to him. |
D.To blame him. |
A.The author regretted not writing to Dad earlier. |
B.Dad’s letter of reply is simple. |
C.Dad helped settle the author’s problems. |
D.The author can talk to Dad easily. |
Experiments with schoolchildren who did well on a given test show that those who were praised for being smart and then offered a more challenging or less challenging task afterward usually chose the easier one. On the other hand, children praised for trying hard-rather than being smart-far more often selected the more difficult task.
If we try hard to avoid mistakes, we aren't open to getting the information we need in order to do better. In a writing study, experiments showed that those who are so scared to make mistakes perform worse in writing tasks than those who aren't as worried about being perfect. They fear receiving any kind of negative feedback, so they don't learn where they went wrong and how to get better.
We don't just learn more when we're open to mistakes, we learn deeper. Research tells us that if we're only concerned about getting the right answer, we don't always learn the underlying concepts that help us truly understand whatever we're trying to figure out. Mistakes need to be seen not as a failure to learn, but as a guide to what still needs to be learned. As Thomas Edison said, “I am not discouraged, because every abandoned wrong attempt is another step forward. "
Furthermore, we often make mistakes because we try new things-we wander away from accepted paths. Teflon, penicillin-these are examples of great discoveries made by mistake. Take a page from Albert Einstein, who said, "Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new. "
1. What will happen to students praised for being smart in face of choosing tasks compared to students praised for working hard?
A.He will choose a less challenging task. |
B.He will hide his mistakes from his teachers. |
C.He will work harder to avoid mistakes. |
D.He will ask his teachers for advice. |
A.The more mistakes we make, the more we learn. |
B.Mistakes can be used as a positive factor for success. |
C.Being open to mistakes help you understand the truth. |
D.A step forward may come from mistakes you've made. |
A.One must follow a correct path to avoid mistakes. |
B.To become an Einstein, you should make mistakes. |
C.You can't make mistakes unless you try new things. |
D.Making mistakes is not a disadvantage in a way. |
A.We can never avoid making mistakes when we work. |
B.Success can't be achieved without making mistakes. |
C.Mistakes should be treated with a correct attitude. |
D.Try every means to avoid mistakes in our daily life. |
【推荐1】Family vacations are a must whenever you have time.As a matter of fact,you never have to spend a lot of money taking a break because this can be done in various ways.
To begin with,you can just stay in a place near your house as long as you have the chance to be with your family.You can also have just a simple dinner where your family members can just talk to each other and have fun.
You also need to search for new destinations for your family vacation so that you can at least be in a place that you haven't been to before.
A.You need to talk about the stress at work. |
B.Lastly,you should take family vacations on a regular basis. |
C.There is no need for you to spend a lot of money. |
D.A family vacation is indeed the best chance to spend more time with your family. |
E.Wear your sunglasses and sunhat when you go to the beach. |
F.Here are some of the ways in which you can have a vacation with your family. |
G.In this way,you will have the chance to learn about new cultures, new ways of living, and even new languages. |
【推荐2】My mother is the most important person in my life and she means the whole world to me. She was a nurse at Stony Brook University Hospital and she always took the night shift so that she could come home in time to drive me to school. She’d sleep during the day and be ready when I returned home before heading out again in the evening. This went on for 23 years. She never complained. No matter how tired she was, she always had enough energy to be my mom.
She often had to work on Christmas, Christmas Eve or New Year’s Eve, and sometimes Thanksgiving, which made me upset. However, before holidays she always decorated the inside and outside of our house. She’d also have cookies baking in the oven, a holiday-themed movie in the VCR, and music playing throughout our house for me. But when it was time to go to work, there was no room for debate. “Why do you have to work on this day of all days?” I’d ask sadly. “They need me, too, dear son,” she’d respond, compassion in her tone.
For a long time I didn’t understand why she should care so much about those sick strangers. Recently, as my grandmother became ill, I found myself spending more time in hospitals. The scenes I saw in the hospital made me see the different side of my mother. The nurses checked heart, blood and oxygen levels, and made sure patients were comfortable. They lifted patients in and out of bed and helped them to the bathroom. Beyond their duties, the nurses displayed consideration for each patient.
What I saw helped me to understand why my mother was devoted to her occupation. I was filled with more admiration for my mother.
1. Why did the author’s mother work at night?A.To earn more money. | B.To take care of her kid. |
C.To sleep during the day. | D.To attend school in time. |
A.Spending holidays in the hospital. | B.Too much housework during holidays. |
C.His mother’s absence at holiday nights. | D.His mother’s concern about her patients. |
A.How the author came to understand his mother. | B.What qualities are required to be a good nurse. |
C.How challenging it is to work as a nurse. | D.Why the author’s mother loved her work. |
A.Hardworking and cautious. | B.Devoted and humorous. |
C.Loving and responsible. | D.Patient and ambitious. |
【推荐3】My 83-year-old mother came to live with me a year ago last November. She was very ill and I had to put my life on hold to care for her.
Each morning, I got her up and dressed her and made her breakfast and sat with her. I rushed for a bowl when she felt sick, and lit fires to keep her warm. I cooked and persuaded her to take a few bites.
It’s a hard job caring for a sick or dying parent, whoever you are. But it was especially hard for me, I feel, because I am a doctor myself. I couldn’t help looking at her in two different ways. The medical professional saw a body and scrutinized it with the coldness that medicine requires. But the daughter saw the woman who had given birth to me, wiped my nose, sent me off to college and had been a constant presence in my life for over half a century.
Also, my mother didn’t appreciate how hard it was for me to care for her. I remember an exchange between her and the nurse who came to see her once a week:
“You could get some more help with care.”
“Oh, I don’t think I need that,” Mom said.
Mom didn’t understand that the help would have taken some of the burden off me. None of the treatments her doctors gave her worked, and finally her life became about comfort. She refused painkillers (止痛药) for a long time, but finally the pain convinced her. And when she accepted the painkillers she accepted the fact that she would die.
Illness and needs took us across personal boundaries I’d never before considered. And yet, while living and being and dying with Mom I witnessed something precious dawning. We became closer. We shared so many stories from our past that it was as if our memories had become one.
In the past our relationship had been difficult. We had often argued. But when the end came, both of us simply accepted that we looked at the world in different ways. We were daughter and mother and we loved each other. That was all that mattered.
1. Why was taking care of her mom especially hard for the author?A.She was too busy living her own life. |
B.She and her mom had a difficult relationship. |
C.She was too old to attend to her mom carefully. |
D.She viewed her mom both as a patient and a loved one. |
A.held | B.checked |
C.ignored | D.left |
A.Helpful. | B.Thankful. |
C.Surprised. | D.Depressed. |
A.Love is more important than differences. |
B.Being alive was the most important thing. |
C.We should learn to understand other people. |
D.It was better for family members to live independently of each other. |
【推荐1】I always wondered how people would react if I tried to approach a total stranger for help in a busy place like a street corner or in a noisy mall. I have always hurried past a stranger who tried to catch my attention in a busy place or when I am rushing around.
Yesterday, I was in a busy shopping mall buying a large piece of luggage because I just had the time to do it after many days of planning. After the purchase in one of the large shops, I picked up my phone from my pocket to call my driver waiting in the parking lot but my phone was dead.
I then requested the shop assistant who had just sold me the luggage to ring the number of my driver for me and she replied that it was the shop policy that they cannot use mobile phones while working in the shop.
I got out of the shop onto the busy street in front and approached a young mother with her two kids to make a request. As soon as I said “Excuse me, madam”, she grabbed both her kids and ran. I felt like a kidnapper.
I stood there, wondering how many times I had reacted to strangers like the young mum. I stood there in the busy street with people rushing by, looking at their faces to see if there was a sign of kindness on their faces.
I saw a man pretty shabbily dressed. He seemed to have noticed me and I just stopped him expecting him to rush past. My request escaped the lips. He immediately called the number of my driver and waited till my car came to be sure I was picked up, and he turned around before I could thank him adequately and was gone. I was surprised by his kindness and hope I will do likewise to strangers who try to catch my attention from now on.
1. The author turned to others for help to .A.charge up his dead phone | B.test their reaction to a stranger |
C.call his driver to pick him up | D.catch their attention to him |
A.The shop assistant. | B.The shabbily-dressed man. |
C.The mother with two kids. | D.Nobody. |
A.The author was hopeless after seeking help in vain. |
B.The man may be too poor to own a phone. |
C.The man didn’t look safe. |
D.The author found himself mistaken for a bad person. |
A.Kindness can turn strangers into friends. |
B.Helping strangers is easier said than done. |
C.Experience is better gained through practice. |
D.Do to others what you would like others to do to you. |
Here's an example to show how honorable actions create happiness.
Say a store clerk fails to charge us for an item. If we keep silent, and profit from the clerk's mistake, we would drive home with a sense of sneaky excitement. Later we might tell our family or friends about our good fortune. On the other hand, if we tell the clerk about the uncharged item, the clerk would be grateful and thank us for our honesty. We would leave the store with a quiet sense of honor that we might never share with another soul.
Then, what is it to do with our sense of happiness?
In the first case, where we don't tell the clerk, a couple of things would happen. Deep down inside we would know ourselves as a type of thief. In the process, we would lose some peace of mind and self-respect. We would also demonstrate that we cannot lie trusted, since we advertise our dishonor by telling our family and friends. We damage our own reputations by telling others. In contrast, bringing the error to the clerk's attention causes different things to happen. Immediately the clerk knows us to be honorable. Upon leaving the store, we feel honorable and our self-respect is increased. Whenever we take honorable action we gain the deep internal rewards of goodness and a sense of nobility.
There is a beautiful positive cycle that is created by living a life of honorable actions. Honorable thoughts lead to honorable actions. Honorable actions lead us to a happier existence. And it's easy to think and act honorably again when we're happy. While the positive cycle can be difficult to start, once it's started, it's easy to continue. Keeping on doing good deeds brings us peace of mind, which is important for our happiness.
1. According to the passage, the positive action in the example contributes to our
A.self-respect | B.financial rewards | C.advertising ability | D.friendly relationship |
A.lying | B.stealing | C.cheating | D.advertising |
A.telling the truth to the clerk | B.offering advice to the clerk |
C.asking the clerk to be more attentive | D.reminding the clerk of the charged item |
A.We'll be very excited. | B.We'll feel unfortunate. |
C.We'll have a sense of honor. | D.We'll feel sorry for the clerk. |
A.How to Live Truthfully | B.Importance of Peacefulness |
C.Ways of Gaining Self-respect | D.Happiness through Honorable Actions |
【推荐3】A few months ago, a friend gifted me a robot sweeper that’s programmed to move around a room and clean as it goes.
When the box arrived, I was afraid the device would detect me and suck up (汲取) data along with the dog hair and dust. But the instructions were easy, and I finally decided not to care.
I powered up the sweeper, watched it leave its docking station to work, and quickly fell in love with my newly shiny floors. I kept shooting its working videos. “I think you’re giving more attention to it than to us,” joked my son.
One day, I returned home and discovered that our front door had blown open and the robot rolled into the yard, trying to clean the flower beds. Even when its brushes were blocked with leaves, bugs and mud, its little wheels bravely kept turning.
The robot acted properly as it was programmed to clean “dirty” things. In a kitchen, dirt can be garden debris (碎片) such as leaves and mud. In a garden, this kind of dirt does not need to be removed. The context is important. The problem for robots is that reading this context is difficult.
This accident inspired me to think more about AI (artificial intelligence). As far as I am concerned, AI is simply well trained and reproduces what it has learned. And it is undeniable that robots are increasingly being given powerful intelligence. Some experts even predict that we will soon see not only AI-enabled robots designed to solve problems according to their instructions, but also those with the ability to judge how they should respond when they are in a different setting.
Maybe this will happen in the near future.
1. What was the author’s concern about the robot sweeper at first?A.Its after-sales service. | B.Its working efficiency. |
C.The privacy of her family. | D.The readability of its instructions. |
A.Enthusiastic. | B.Regretful. | C.Uncertain. | D.Cautious. |
A.Its program went wrong. | B.It lacked critical thinking. |
C.Its wheels were badly designed. | D.It failed to work on rough surfaces. |
A.The accident. | B.Some experts’ thinking. |
C.Its appeal to the author. | D.The author’s opinion. |
【推荐1】In the fall of 2009, as the theater reporter for The Times, I called Angela Lansbury to confirm a sensitive piece of information. I was writing a story revealing the kinds of special assistance that some actors used to remember their lines.
I had heard that Ms. Lansbury, who was then 84, had used an earpiece earlier that year while playing on Broadway. I remember being nervous as I dialed her number. Nervous about whether I could persuade her to open up to me. Most nervous about interviewing a star who meant something to me and my father. However, Angela Lansbury, filling me with great admiration, was game to talk, quick with a laugh, frank and honest. I’d assumed that aging and memory were vulnerabilities (弱点); she saw them as facts and addressed them confidently.
Of using an earpiece on Broadway, she told me: “If we’re going to play important roles at our age, we’re going to ask for some support if we need it.”
Ms. Lansbury brought a combination of dignity and frankness to her life and work. She may have lacked the classic good looks and voice of her era, as she openly acknowledged, but being who she was, she found stardom and a large number of fans through raw talent and risk-taking.
By the time I interviewed Ms. Lansbury, my father was in his 70s and showing signs of dementia (痴呆). I was overly sensitive to the facts of aging and tended to see it as a vulnerability better kept private, as my father did. After interviewing her, I mentioned her earpiece story to my father as I persuaded him to wear the hearing aids that he had refused several times. When it came to persuading him to accept a caregiver — a measure of special assistance, no doubt— star-powered inspiration did also help me win the argument, which gave me an even deeper appreciation for Ms. Lansbury.
1. Why did the author call Ms. Lansbury?A.To interview her for an article. |
B.To invite her to perform on Broadway. |
C.To learn from her how to remember lines. |
D.To inform her of new kinds of special assistance. |
A.She was rather nervous. |
B.She talked freely and openly. |
C.She took her vulnerabilities seriously. |
D.She had a good memory despite her age. |
A.Her unique voice. |
B.Her classic good looks. |
C.Her attractive personality. |
D.Her abilities to balance life and work. |
A.To prove Ms. Lansbury’s opinion on aging. |
B.To show Ms. Lansbury’s impact on him and his father. |
C.To explain the relationship between him and his father. |
D.To call on more people to show respect for Ms. Lansbury. |
【推荐2】To tell the truth, I don't remember seeing Mom actually read her old Bible. As far as I could tell, it just sat on the nightstand next to her bed. And that was the best place for it, since it probably wouldn't have survived any meaningful use anywhere else. The black cloth cover was ragged and time-worn, and its dog-eared pages yellowed. Once I accidentally knocked it off the nightstand, launching loose pages all over Mom's and Dad's bedroom. I expected a tongue-lashing for my carelessness, but Mom was so busy gathering the pages, gently smoothing them and returning them to their place in the book that she paid no attention to me.
Soon after I moved away from home, my sister Kathy and I bought a new Bible for Mom for her birthday. It was a black leather volume, twice as big as her old Bible. The pages were decorated in gold, and there were maps, references and a complete Bible dictionary included within its pages. We even had her name carved on the front with gold-leaf lettering. It was a beautiful book and Mom was touched and pleased. I remember watching her thumb carefully through the pages, admiring the quality of the paper and the clarity of the printing. From that day on, that Bible was the one she took with her to church and the one from which she read during the family Nativity Pageant. But for some reason, it never replaced the old Bible from its place for honor on her nightstand. And that bothered me a little.
“I don't know why you keep that old thing,” I told her as we prepared to pack it among her most precious belongings for what would turn out to be the last of many movements in her life-this time to warm Southern California. “That new Bible we got for you is the best that money can buy. You can't even use this old one anymore.”
Mom smiled at me weakly and sat on the edge of her bed, carefully rapping the old Bible in an equally old, equally shabby white cloth.
“Just because a thing isn't useful anymore, that doesn't mean it isn't valuable, “she said softly and deliberately.” You look at this and see an old, worn-out book. However, I see the gift your father gave me on our wedding day. I see the friend that was always there to provide me with strength and comfort when your father served at the front. I see the storybook from which I read stories to all of my children, and the book from which you all read your first Bible poems.”
“This Bible has been in the family as long as we've been a family."She continued, caressing it through the shabby white cloth.“Even though it isn't especially useful anymore, there is still value in what it represents.At least, there is to me.”
Suddenly it occured to me that she wasn't just talking about the old Bible. We live in an age of fanatically obsessive utilitarianism. Everything is disposable. If it's old or odd-looking or not particularly useful, we toss it out. We forget that there is value beyond use, and worth beyond “what's in it for me right now.”
When Mom passed away, Dad gave me her “new” Bible. It's among my most cherished possessions. It's the Bible I read and take to church. It means a lot to me, and it's really beautiful and incredibly useful. But I would trade it in a minute for Mom's old useless Bible. I even have the perfect place for it: on the nightstand next to my bed.
1. What does the underlined word “tongue-lashing” in Paragraph 1 mean?A.Defense. | B.Challenge. | C.Criticism. | D.Recognition. |
A.Her mom didn't take the new Bible to church. |
B.Her mom was unwilling to move to Southern California. |
C.Her mom couldn't find an appropriate place for the new Bible. |
D.Her mom had a strong love for the old Bible after owning the new one. |
A.The Bible is too old to use. |
B.The Bible has been part of their family. |
C.The author should have read all the stories in the Bible. |
D.The author should have shown respect for the Bible. |
A.Too much spoils, while too little is nothing. |
B.The most valuable things are the most useful. |
C.People nowadays are materially better off than ever before. |
D.The importance of the necessities of life has been overstated. |
A.Mom's Old Useless Bible. | B.The Power of Utilitarianism. |
C.The Making of a Holy Man. | D.Mom's Perfect Nightstand. |
【推荐3】I was driving home the other day on a sunny afternoon. It was such a beautiful day that I felt very happy. My good mood (心情) ended, however, when I suddenly heard a piece of news on the radio about a rich famous man who had broken the law. I shook my head as I came to a red traffic light.
As I stopped I noticed four leather-jacketed motorbikers. They were standing in the middle of the road with two on either side of the light. They looked dangerous, but as I got closer I noticed each one was holding their helmet (头盔) in their hands. I rolled down my window as one approached my car. “We are the Brother of the Wheel,” he said. “We are collecting money for Christmas Toy Drive for needy children.” As I pulled a dollar out of my wallet I looked past his beard and into his eyes. They shined with kindness that came right from his heart. I dropped the money in his helmet and waved to the other three men as I drove off. My good mood had returned. And I remembered once again never to judge (判断) people by their appearance (外表).
Our society often judges books by their covers. Perhaps one day we will realize that actions (行为) are much more important than appearance.
1. The writer’s good mood ended when ________.A.he had to give money to the man | B.he had to stop at a red traffic light |
C.he heard a rich man broke the law | D.he saw four leather-jacketed motor bikers |
A.Selling helmets to the passers-by. | B.Preparing for Christmas holidays. |
C.Having a motorbike race in the street. | D.Raising money to help kids in need. |
A.bad | B.poor |
C.kind | D.jobless |
A.judge others by their actions | B.change our attitude to society |
C.manage to help others in need | D.trust young people |