1 . For many parents, raising a teenager is like fighting a long war, but years go by without any clear winner. Like a border conflict between neighboring countries, the parent-teen war is about boundaries: Where is the line between what I control and what you do?
Both sides want peace, but neither feels it has any power to stop the conflict. In part, this is because neither is willing to admit any responsibility for starting it. From the parents’ point of view, the only cause of their fight is their adolescents’ complete unreasonableness. And of course, the teens see it in exactly the same way, except oppositely. Both feel trapped.
In this article, I’ll describe three no-win situations that commonly arise between teens and parents and then suggest some ways out of the trap. The first no-win situation is quarrels over unimportant things. Examples include the color of the teen’s hair, the cleanliness of the bedroom, the preferred style of clothing, the child’s failure to eat a good breakfast before school, or his tendency to sleep until noon on the weekends. Second, blaming. The goal of a blaming battle is to make the other admit that his bad attitude is the reason why everything goes wrong. Third, needing to be right. It doesn’t matter what the topic is—politics, the laws of physics, or the proper way to break an egg—the point of these arguments is to prove that you are right and the other person is wrong, for both wish to be considered an authority—someone who actually knows something—and therefore to command respect. Unfortunately, as long as parents and teens continue to assume that they know more than the other, they’ll continue to fight these battles forever and never make any real progress.
1. Why does the author compare the parent-teen war to a border conflict?A.Both are about where to draw the line. |
B.Both can continue for generations. |
C.Neither has any clear winner. |
D.Neither can be put to an end. |
A.The teens tend to have a full understanding of their parents. |
B.The teens agree with their parents on the cause of the conflict. |
C.The teens cause their parents of misleading them. |
D.The teens blame their parents for starting the conflict. |
A.give orders to the other |
B.know more than the other |
C.gain respect from the other |
D.get the other to behave properly |
A.Solutions for the parent-teen problems. |
B.Examples of the parent-teen war. |
C.Causes for the parent-teen conflicts. |
D.Future of the parent-teen relationship. |
Apparently, at times in the past , peasants in France liked a semi-state of human hibernation . So writes Graham Robb, a British scholar who has studied the sleeping habits of the French peasants. As soon as the weather turned cold people all over France shut themselves away and practiced the forgotten art of doing nothing at all for months on end.
In line with this, Jeff Warren, a producer at CBC Radio’s The Current, tells us that the way we sleep has changed fundamentally since the invention of artificial(人造的) lighting and the electric bulb.
When historians began studying texts of the Middle Ages, they noticed something referred to as “first sleep”, which was not clarified, though. Now scientists are telling us our ancestors most likely slept in separate periods. The business of eight hours’ uninterrupted sleep is a modern invention.
In the past , without the artificial light of the city to bathe in, humans went to sleep when it became dark and then woke themselves around midnight. The late night period was known as ”The Watch” It was when people actually kept watch against wild animals ,although many of them simply moved around or visited family and neighbours .
According to some sleep researchers, a short period of insomnia(失眠) at midnight is not a disorder .It is normal . Humans can experience another state of consciousness around their sleeping, which occurs in the brief period before we fall asleep or wake ourselves in the morning .This period can be an extraordinarily creative time for some people .The impressive inventor, Thomas Edison , used this state to hit upon many of his new ideas.
Playing with your sleep rhythms can be adventurous ,as anxiety may set in. Medical science doesn’t help much in this case. It offers us medicines for a full night’s continuous sleep, which sounds natural ; however, according to Warren’s theory,it is really the opposite of what we need.
1. The example of the French peasants shows the fact that________.
A.people might become lazy as a result of too much sleep |
B.there were signs of hibernation in human sleeping habits |
C.people tended to sleep more peacefully in cold weather |
D.winter was a season for people to sleep for months on end |
A.to set traps to catch animals |
B.to wake up their family and neighbours |
C.to remind others of the time |
D.to guard against possible dangers |
A.Sleep in the way animals do. |
B.Consult a doctor if they can’t sleep. |
C.Follow their natural sleep rhythm. |
D.Keep to the eight-hour sleep pattern. |
A.To give a prescription for insomnia. |
B.To urge people to sleep less. |
C.To analyze the sleep pattern of modern people. |
D.To throw new light on human sleep. |
3 . Before I had my son, I spent two years working with children with disabilities. I learnt that shouting and threats of punishment would result in a disaster. Coming up against their behaviour could only make the job harder and their behaviour more extreme. I found something that worked, though.
There was a very naughty boy in the nursery and a teacher who was generally very confident with the children was asked to take charge of him. One day the boy joined a session in the room next to mine. His appearance created an atmosphere of tension. He spent the entire session running around, hitting and kicking, and destroying property.
I was in the craft room working with some other children when my coworker told me that this boy's teacher was in tears, and could not get control of the situation. As we were talking, the boy ran in. I told my coworker that I would take care of him.
I closed the door. He was full of energy, throwing things around and making a huge mess. But I could see that he was doing all these to annoy me. He needed connection, and this was the only way he knew how to ask for it. So I sat back down and kept quiet. Then he slowed down and began making a rocket. I talked to him about it. We continued like this for a few minutes before I slipped into the conversation:
“So what happened today?”
It was purely a question, no blame or anger in my tone. I believe that if I had criticized him, the gate that was slowly opening would have shut firmly closed. He told me that the teacher didn't let him do what he knew well due to safety but asked him to do what he disliked. He also admitted that he had enjoyed making her run around and saw it as a game. I explained that his teacher had not seen it as a game and was very upset. This again was stated simply as a fact. I suggested that next time he had a session, he talk about what he hoped to do at the start, which might be easier for everyone. He agreed and was quiet for a moment. Then he looked at me with tears in his eyes before quietly asking if he could go to find his teacher to apologize.
1. The boy made trouble for his teacher because he ________.A.was accused of destroying property |
B.was told not to yell at other children |
C.was made to do things against his will |
D.was blamed for creating an air of tension |
A.She didn't want to make it worse. |
B.She didn't mind the huge mess at all. |
C.She was tired of shouting and threats. |
D.She hadn't thought of a coping strategy. |
A.playing games with him |
B.giving him a good suggestion |
C.describing his teacher's feelings |
D.avoiding making critical remarks |
A.He was sorry about his reputation. |
B.He was regretful about his behaviour. |
C.He was fearful of the author's warning. |
D.He was sad for the author's misunderstanding. |
4 . When our restaurant business failed, we headed north in a camping truck to Texas, hoping to have a “fresh start”.
At the
The park was
Having survived that night, we were
That evening,
the little money my wife
Living in the tiny
A.back | B.edge | C.centre | D.entrance |
A.sponsored | B.published | C.noticed | D.answered |
A.safe | B.free | C.convenient | D.beautiful |
A.in return | B.in time | C.in short | D.in turn |
A.attempt | B.agreement | C.appeal | D.appointment |
A.crowded | B.dangerous | C.ideal | D.quiet |
A.repeatedly | B.immediately | C.eventually | D.calmly |
A.attack | B.leave | C.pass | D.search |
A.satisfied | B.determined | C.confident | D.aware |
A.responsibilities | B.requirements | C.circumstances | D.conditions |
A.moreover | B.therefore | C.meanwhile | D.however |
A.winds | B.snows | C.woods | D.trails |
A.shaking | B.quarrelling | C.mourning | D.aching |
A.After | B.Between | C.During | D.Beyond |
A.give away | B.hand out | C.live on | D.put aside |
A.borrowed | B.earned | C.posted | D.raised |
A.business | B.career | C.family | D.image |
A.started | B.failed | C.expanded | D.declined |
A.truck | B.park | C.house | D.camp |
A.desperate | B.ready | C.suitable | D.thankful |
The paper, published this March in Psychology and Aging, examined health and welfare surveys from roughly 40,000 Germans between ages 18 and 96. The surveys were conducted every year from 1993 to 2003.
Survey respondents were asked to estimate their present and future life satisfaction on a scale of 0 to 10, among other questions.
The researchers found that young adults (age 18 to 39) routinely overestimated their future life satisfaction, while middle-aged adults (age 40 to 64) more accurately predicted how they would feel in the future. Adults of 65 and older, however, were far more likely to underestimate their future life satisfaction. Not only did they feel more satisfied than they thought they would, the older pessimists seemed to suffer a lower ratio of disability and death for the study period.
“We observed that being too optimistic in predicting a better future than actually observed was associated with a greater risk of disability and a greater risk of death within the following decade,” wrote Frieder R. Lang, a professor at the University of Erlangen-Nuremberg.
Lang and his colleagues believed that people who were pessimistic about their future may be more careful about their actions than people who expected a rosy future.
“Seeing a dark future may encourage positive evaluations of the actual self and may contribute to taking improved precautions (预防措施),” the authors wrote.
Surprisingly, compared with those in poor health or who had low incomes, respondents who enjoyed good health or income were associated with expecting a greater decline. Also, the researchers said that higher income was related to a greater risk of disability.
The authors of the study noted that there were limitations to their conclusions. Illness, medical treatment and personal loss could also have driven health outcomes.
However, the researchers said a pattern was clear. “We found that from early to late adulthood, individuals adapt their expectations of future life satisfaction from optimistic, to accurate, to pessimistic,” the authors concluded.
1. According to the study, who made the most accurate prediction of their future life satisfaction?A.Optimistic adults. |
B.Middle-aged adults. |
C.Adults in poor health. |
D.Adults of lower income. |
A.to fully enjoy their present life |
B.to estimate their contribution accurately |
C.to take measures against potential risks |
D.to value health more highly than wealth |
A.They will earn less money. |
B.They will become pessimistic. |
C.They will suffer mental illness. |
D.They will have less time to enjoy life. |
A.Pessimism guarantees chances of survival. |
B.Good financial condition leads to good health. |
C.Medical treatment determines health outcomes. |
D.Expectations of future life satisfaction decline with age. |
Ridley calls himself a rational optimist—tactical .because he’s carefully weighed the evidence optimistic because that offence shows human progress to be both unavoidable and good .And this is what he’s set out to prone from unique point of view in his most recent book. The Rant anal Opting .He views mankind as grand enterprise that .on the whole has done little but progress for 100.000 years. He backed his finding with hard gathered though years of research.
Here’s how he explains his views.
1)Shopping fuels invention
It is reported that there are more than ten billion different producers for sale in London alone. Even allowing for the many people who still live in poverty .our own generation has access to more nutritious food ,more convenient transport ,bigger houses, better ears and of course, more pounds and dollars than any who lived before us .This will continue as long as we there things to make other things. This more we specialize and exchange, the better off we’ll be.
2) Brilliant advances
One reason we are richer, healthier, taller, cleverer, longer-lived and freer than ener before is that the four most basic human needs -food, clothing, fuel and shelter- have grown a lot cheaper. Take one example. In 1800 a candle providing one hour’s light cost six hours’ work. In the 1880s the same light from an oil lamp took 15 minutes’ work to pay for. In 1950 it was eight seconds. Today it’s half second.
3) Let’s not kill ourselves for climate change
Mitigating(减轻) climate change could prove just as damaging to human welface as climate change itself. A child that dies from indoor smoke in a village, where the use of fassil-fuel(化石燃料) electrieity is forhidden by well meaming members of green polucal movements trying to save the world, is just as great a tragedy as a child that mes in a flood caused by climate change. If climate change proves to be mild, but cutting carbon canses realparn, we may well find that we have stopped a nose bleed by putting a tournquet(止血带) around our necks.
1. What is the theme of Ridley’s most recent book?
A.Weakness of human nature. |
B.Concern about climate change. |
C.Importance of practical thinking. |
D.Optimism about human progress. |
A.It encourages the creation of things. |
B.It results in shortage of goods. |
C.It demands more fossil fuels. |
D.It causes a poverry problem. |
A.oil lamps give off more light than candles |
B.shortening working time brings about a happier life. |
C.advanced technology helps to produce better candles. |
D.increased production rate leads to lower cost of goods. |
A.Cutting carbon is necessary in spite of the huge cost. |
B.Overreaction to cliamate change may be dangerous. |
C.People’s health is closely related to climate change. |
D.Careless medical treatment may cause great pain. |