1 . I ask every student I interview for admission to my institution, Pitzer College, the same question, “What do you look forward to the most in college?” I was stunned and delighted recently when a student sat across from me and replied, “I look forward to the possibility of failure.” Of course, this is not how most students respond to the question when sitting before the person who can make decisions about their academic futures, but this young man took a risk. “You see, my parents have never let me fail,” he said. “When I want to take a chance at something, they remind me it’s not a safe route to take. Taking a more rigorous course or trying an activity I may not succeed in, they tell me, will ruin my chances at college admission. Even the sacrifice of staying up late to do something unrelated to school, they see it as a risk to my academic work and college success.”
Kids all over the world admit they are under tremendous pressure to be perfect. So students are usually in shock when I chuckle and tell them I never expect perfection. How could a dean of admission at one of America’s most selective institutions not want the best and the brightest? The reality is (that) perfection doesn’t exist.
I’ve spent enough time in high schools to know teenagers will never be perfect. They do silly things, mess up, fall down, and lack confidence. The ability to bounce back is a fundamental life skill students have to learn on their own. The lessons of failure can’t be taught in a classroom; they are experienced and reflected upon. During my weekend of interviews, another student told me, “I’m ashamed to admit I failed precalculus, but I decided to take it again and got a B-plus. I’m now taking calculus, and even though I don’t love it, I’m glad I pushed through!” I asked him what he learned from the experience. “I learned to let go of shame,” he said. “I realized that I can’t let a grade define my success. I also learned that if you want anything bad enough, you can achieve it.”
I smiled as I wrote his words down on the application-review form. This kid will thrive on my campus. Not only will the faculty love him, but he has the coping skills he needs to adjust to the rigors of life in a residential college setting. Failure is about growth, learning, overcoming, and moving on. Let’s allow young people to fail. Not only will they learn something, it might even get them into college.
1. What does the underlined word “rigorous” in the first paragraph mean?A.fun | B.lively | C.strict | D.special |
A.Teachers can help students to admit failure. |
B.Parents define their children’s success by grades. |
C.Teenagers get lessons of failure through experiences. |
D.Young people spend enough time letting go of shame. |
A.Because the college teachers would love the student for his perfection. |
B.Because he succeeded in persuading the student into the college. |
C.Because the student realized his dream of being a perfect person. |
D.Because he thought the student would have a promising future. |
A.Learn to Fail | B.Live to Learn |
C.Try to Succeed | D.Decide to Experience |
2 . We often wonder how we’re doing as parents. Kids don’t come with an instruction guide, so how do we
The video opened, showing a man in a suit and tie. Her daughter’s next to him, looking
As the man began his
When raising children, we can never be
A.desert | B.judge | C.choose | D.appreciate |
A.appointment | B.expectation | C.agreement | D.experiment |
A.reminded | B.defeat | C.interrupted | D.inspired |
A.delighted | B.annoyed | C.embarrassed | D.frightened |
A.reporters | B.advertisers | C.interviewers | D.employers |
A.Confidently | B.Apparently | C.Skillfully | D.Remarkably |
A.lecture | B.motion | C.humor | D.peace |
A.installation | B.institution | C.introduction | D.interaction |
A.showed | B.switched | C.shined | D.spotted |
A.lie | B.complain | C.appeal | D.explain |
A.make up | B.call out | C.put away | D.take in |
A.massive | B.curious | C.anxious | D.certain |
A.honors | B.qualities | C.talents | D.manners |
A.blame | B.punish | C.decline | D.correct |
A.capable | B.sure | C.proud | D.cautious |
3 . My phone was an extension of myself. I couldn’t go anywhere
When I was watching TV shows or movies and there was a boring part, I
I have welcomed silence into my life with open arms and am enjoying the increased
As much as having a smartphone was
A.through | B.without | C.despite | D.upon |
A.updates | B.instructions | C.assessments | D.decisions |
A.symbol | B.responsibility | C.reality | D.addiction |
A.conscious | B.shameful | C.foolish | D.random |
A.sell | B.pull | C.throw | D.mind |
A.avoided | B.denied | C.missed | D.allowed |
A.assist | B.improve | C.associate | D.occupy |
A.requests | B.thoughts | C.directions | D.comments |
A.instead of | B.regardless of | C.but for | D.apart from |
A.creativity | B.productivity | C.knowledge | D.independence |
A.routine | B.necessity | C.loneliness | D.temptation |
A.genuine | B.grateful | C.direct | D.desperate |
A.naturally | B.certainly | C.seemingly | D.gradually |
A.wonder | B.imagination | C.interest | D.authenticity |
A.depressive | B.comfortable | C.stressful | D.boring |
4 . I often read of incidents of misunderstanding or conflict. I’m left
I was growing up in Kuala Lumpur in the early 1960s, when children from different races and religions played and studied together
One spring afternoon in 1983, I stopped a taxi in Kuala Lumpur. When I
If we can allow our children to be themselves without prejudice, they’ll build friendships with people
A.fascinated | B.curious | C.frustrated | D.puzzled |
A.parties | B.nationalities | C.regions | D.races |
A.at random | B.in harmony | C.on occasion | D.by turns |
A.cast | B.drop | C.flight | D.roll |
A.embraced | B.removed | C.sought | D.defended |
A.paid | B.preserved | C.meant | D.treated |
A.get through | B.come across | C.deal with | D.run into |
A.absence | B.choice | C.effort | D.company |
A.stated | B.traced | C.decided | D.ordered |
A.instructions | B.attempts | C.intentions | D.arrangements |
A.similarly | B.strangely | C.familiarly | D.dramatically |
A.departures | B.decades | C.years | D.months |
A.infection | B.affection | C.motivation | D.homesickness |
A.let alone | B.according to | C.rather than | D.regardless of |
A.from | B.with | C.by | D.against |
5 . In an international spelling contest (竞赛) in America, an 11-year-old girl was asked to spell a certain word. But with her
As the girl walked off the
Probably the biggest test of our character and honesty is what we should do if we knew we would never get
It’s so true that the choices you make today
A.high | B.sweet | C.tough | D.soft |
A.finally | B.kindly | C.secretly | D.totally |
A.forgotten | B.mispronounced | C.misspelled | D.lost |
A.correct | B.wrong | C.different | D.same |
A.stage | B.studio | C.test | D.classroom |
A.bravery | B.honesty | C.courage | D.cleverness |
A.cancelled | B.cost | C.offered | D.wasted |
A.achieve | B.broke | C.won | D.defeated |
A.talent | B.knowledge | C.understanding | D.character |
A.paid | B.awarded | C.caught | D.reported |
A.escaped | B.lied | C.changed | D.answered |
A.accept | B.fight | C.cheat | D.insist |
A.value | B.touch | C.learn | D.play |
A.contest | B.champion | C.judge | D.expert |
A.sense | B.money | C.respect | D.benefit |
A.come to | B.adapt to | C.discuss with | D.live with |
A.make | B.change | C.keep | D.create |
A.give | B.take | C.follow | D.set |
A.grow up | B.bring up | C.take up | D.come up |
A.recording | B.inspecting | C.correcting | D.watching |
6 . It was a comfortable sunny Sunday. I was going to meet an old university friend I hadn’t seen for years, and was really excited.
My train was running a little late, but that was no big problem—I could text him to say I would be delayed. He would understand. But … where was my mobile phone? I had that familiar sinking feeling. Yes, I’d left it at home.
No mobile phone. I’m sure I’m not alone in feeling anxious, on edge and worried when I don’t have my phone with me. In fact, I know I’m not alone: two-thirds of us experience “nomophobia (无手机恐惧症)”, the fear of being out of mobile phone contact.
That’s according to a study from 2012 which surveyed 1,000 people in the UK about their relationship with mobile phones.
It says we check our mobile phones 34 times a day, and that 18—24-year-olds, especially girls, are the most likely to suffer fear of being without their mobiles: 77% of them say they are unable to be apart from their phones for more than a few minutes.
Do you have nomophobia?
● You never turn your phone off.
● You frequently check for texts, missed calls and emails.
● You always take your phone to the bathroom with you.
● You never let the battery run out.
It’s funny to think that around 20 years ago the only people with mobile phones would be businessmen carrying their large, plastic “bricks”. Of course, these days, mobile phones are everywhere. A UN study from this year said there would be more mobile phones than people across the world by the end of 2020.
And when there are more phones than people in the world, maybe it’s time to ask who really is in charge? Are you in control of your phone, or does your phone control you?
So, what happened with my university friend? When I arrived a few minutes late he just laughed and said: “You haven’t changed at all—still always late!” And we had a great afternoon catching up, full of jokes and stories, with no desire to check my phone.
Not having it with me felt strangely free. Maybe I’ll leave it at home on purpose next time.
1. The underlined phrase “on edge” in Paragraph 3 probably means “________”.A.energetic | B.nervous | C.brilliant | D.amazed |
A.Worried. | B.Positive. | C.Neutral (中立的). | D.Negative. |
A.A successful manager. | B.A 21-year-old girl. |
C.A 21-year-old boy. | D.A lonely middle-aged person. |
A.The history of mobile phones. |
B.The story of meeting an old university friend. |
C.The attraction of playing mobile phone. |
D.The terrible feeling of being without their mobiles. |
7 . While enjoying my fresh lunch in a restaurant in Amsterdam, I noticed something odd. Customers coming in for something to eat ignored the person standing behind the counter (柜台), preferring to
What was the crazy thing about this? They were just several
Think about it for a moment. When was the last time you naturally
We shop,
A.talk | B.call | C.order | D.deliver |
A.meters | B.millimeters | C.kilometers | D.centimeters |
A.chance | B.turn | C.look | D.test |
A.spoken | B.written | C.typed | D.mentioned |
A.efficient | B.enthusiastic | C.effective | D.energetic |
A.ended up | B.engaged in | C.made up | D.went on |
A.hear | B.believe | C.remember | D.understand |
A.recording | B.studying | C.playing | D.calculating |
A.idea | B.aim | C.problem | D.rise |
A.cash | B.price | C.debt | D.tax |
A.decorate | B.book | C.build | D.repair |
A.Contact | B.Work | C.Quarrel | D.Reunion |
A.interests | B.benefits | C.disadvantages | D.influences |
A.unrealistic | B.unsuitable | C.unreasonable | D.unexpected |
A.serves as | B.refers to | C.accounts for | D.consists of |
8 . Small children are easy to throw up in the air and catch — and they
I hope Jacky will always trust me fully, but I know that, as he gets older, it will need more effort and sound judgment
A.deserve | B.love | C.miss | D.know |
A.in case | B.even though | C.so that | D.as if |
A.fear | B.doubt | C.excitement | D.astonishment |
A.reasonable | B.absolute | C.limited | D.important |
A.responsibility | B.satisfaction | C.achievement | D.relief |
A.on my part | B.on my behalf | C.in my honor | D.in my name |
A.wait | B.choose | C.expect | D.afford |
A.attach | B.compare | C.introduce | D.adjust |
A.grateful | B.happy | C.proud | D.safe |
A.For instance | B.Above all | C.At first | D.In addition |
A.However | B.Therefore | C.Similarly | D.Fortunately |
A.affection | B.leadership | C.friendship | D.determination |
A.assess | B.understand | C.organize | D.develop |
A.gesture | B.lack | C.bond | D.measure |
A.communication | B.personality | C.management | D.education |
9 . It was just a typical morning of an ordinary workday. I was at the
Over the years. I had grown more competitive due to the
Shortly after I got back home, I started to receive some emails from my workmates — I guessed they expected me to join them again soon. After a few
A.store | B.office | C.cafe shop | D.station |
A.settle | B.disappear | C.awaken | D.explode |
A.uncertain | B.unique | C.unfamiliar | D.unsmiling |
A.begin with | B.get rid of | C.proceed with | D.get down to |
A.pressure | B.response | C.commitment | D.obligation |
A.outcome | B.opposite | C.means | D.alternative |
A.responsible | B.anxious | C.tough | D.productive |
A.starting | B.breaking | C.ending | D.boiling |
A.fame | B.honor | C.partner | D.occupation |
A.accounts | B.jokes | C.lines | D.greetings |
A.belief | B.assistance | C.hardship | D.answers |
A.choked | B.hesitated | C.relaxed | D.suffered |
A.protected | B.prevented | C.liberated | D.excused |
A.Actually | B.Generally | C.Eventually | D.Fortunately |
A.irregular | B.improper | C.illogical | D.insignificant |
10 . Standing on the top of Mount Tai, I watched the sun rising through the cloud and taking its place in the sky. I haven’t seen many
When I left for China, the
Now I have stayed in China for a few weeks. In Beijing, my group have,
This
A.clouds | B.sunrises | C.mountains | D.tops |
A.describe | B.select | C.imagine | D.experience |
A.thought | B.aim | C.mission | D.origin |
A.belonged to | B.occurred to | C.fallen to | D.turned to |
A.discover | B.study | C.spread | D.update |
A.developed | B.sought | C.kept | D.showed |
A.spoken | B.brief | C.poor | D.unique |
A.assume | B.claim | C.realize | D.expect |
A.chance | B.reason | C.function | D.goal |
A.amazing | B.striking | C.powerful | D.terrible |
A.Besides | B.Otherwise | C.However | D.Anyhow |
A.addicted to | B.confused about | C.used to | D.concerned about |
A.adventure | B.course | C.climbing | D.journey |
A.eager | B.energetic | C.amazed | D.tired |
A.effect | B.measures | C.opportunities | D.applications |