1 . Always the outsider?
One of the things I used to fear was being the new girl in the office — in the kitchen making coffee while the in-crowd chatted about the weekend. I worried that I wasn’t good enough or smart enough.
As in so many areas of life, the only thing you can control is your response. I remind myself of what Eleanor Roosevelt said:
●Starting anywhere new, you just have to find your people, the ones that get you.
●Very often it’s our belief systems that tell us we don’t fit in. We are replaying the stories from childhood and need to rewrite the script (剧本).
●Practice self-acceptance. Remind yourself that it’s OK to have a different way of operating in the world.
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A.Don’t charge into friendships, though. |
B.Start noticing your patterns of mentality. |
C.If I was asked a question, panic would set in. |
D.No one can make you feel lower without your agreement. |
E.The feeling of being an outsider would force me to shut up. |
F.Try doing something to take yourself out of your comfort zone. |
G.We all feel a little lost and awkward sometimes — you’re not the only one. |
2 . We are all creatures of habit. We tend to wake up at the same time each day, brush our teeth, have morning coffee and travel to work, following the same patterns every day.
Behavioral scientists who study habit formation say that many of us try to create healthy habits the wrong way.
A.It was just enough of a delay. |
B.Why do we stop doing what’s good for us? |
C.But why is it so hard to form new healthy habits? |
D.We probably form new habits when we clear away the barriers. |
E.The better way to form a new habit is to tie it to an existing habit. |
F.It explains why friction prevents the progress of forming good habits. |
G.For example, we set big goals to lose weight without taking proper steps. |
3 . Have you ever woken up at midnight with upsetting thoughts? Maybe you argued with your partner. Perhaps you are worrying about an interview. These are common in our life. But they can make it hard to see reality as it is.
Try to move preferably outside. Physical exercise can be helpful.
Stop feeding the fire and redirect your attention. If we’re ruminating over things, we may need to focus on better things. We can take a break from social media and practice gratitude for the good in our lives. We can also take action with like-minded people.
Talk to a trusted person or maybe a therapist. We can turn to others for help. Whether they do it with humor or by offering wisdom, sometimes getting an outsider’s perspective can help us a lot.
A.Push away our negative thoughts. |
B.Learn to practice mindful awareness. |
C.Being outside in nature is one of the best ways. |
D.They will keep us locked into negative thinking patterns. |
E.We need to give ourselves some space and not assume the worst. |
F.These can help reduce our worry while pointing us in a right direction. |
G.We should try to find the right person who can listen well and offer empathy. |
4 . High school can be an exciting yet challenging experience for many students.
Make good use of the resources in your school. High schools offer many kinds of resources (资源) that can help you to learn and achieve personal growth.
Be open to making new friends. Hanging out with friends is great. However, it’s better to step out of your familiar environment and introduce yourself to new people. Making new friends can open up more possibilities, sharpen your social skills, and build a support system for you.
Take care of your mental health. High school life is stressful for many reasons, and it’s important to pay attention to your mental health.
A.Develop good time management skills. |
B.They include libraries, labs, gyms and more. |
C.Moreover, friends can bring joy and happiness to your life. |
D.Taking a good rest and getting exercise can help reduce stress. |
E.It’s a time of change, growth, exploration and self-discovery. |
F.Exchange programs offer you an opportunity to experience new cultures. |
G.Read on and take a look at the following suggestions to help you make it through this period of your life. |
5 . While I admit my love for the convenience of modernity,
But it appears the tide is turning, and the curlicued (花体的) linked letters — and block printing, too, my personal print of choice — will not go down without a fight. A number of states are now requiring the teaching of cursive in schools, a revival encouraged by educators, researchers, parents, and politicians.
A report in Psychology Today describes the importance to brain development of learning cursive, during the course of which “the brain develops functional specialization that integrates both sensation, movement control, and thinking”. Brain imaging shows how engaged the brain is while learning cursive: “To write clear cursive, fine motor control is needed over the fingers. You have to pay attention and think about what and how you are doing it.
A.You have to practice |
B.And it’s a good thing |
C.Maybe I’m just old- fashioned |
D.This actually calms that person down and retrains the brain |
E.we run the risk of losing sight of what we think and write |
F.I loved it when my daughters started learning cursive in school |
G.my inner self longs for the simple pleasures of a 19th- century life |
6 . How to Make a Marathon Feel Easier
Marathon runners get to influence their effort-based decision making in two ways: firstly by increasing their motivation and, once that is maxed out, by reducing perception of effort, which can be better thought of as “making it feel easier”.
Studies have found if we learn to accept unpleasant feelings as something that must be suffered, we perform better and our perception of effort reduces. Before a marathon we do this by “preparing ourselves” for the discomfort ahead. The aim is not to make it too scary but try to control or resist the fears.
You have a long day in front of you, so you may as well try to enjoy it. You can distract yourself from the miles ahead by looking for things to make you smile.
Finally, keeping in mind your technique, create your instructional secret, which is the short phrase you repeat in your head to remind your body how you run at your best.
A.Keep your head up, look forward and run. |
B.You can do it each time you pass a drinks station. |
C.Accept the fact that you are doing something difficult. |
D.Realizing you have dozens of miles to run can be fearful. |
E.They can be the best supporter signs, or your favorite costumes. |
F.It is often the phrase a coach would remind you about in a training session. |
G.Motivation is usually easy to find but perception of effort needs more thought. |
7 . People perceive happiness differently, with some seeing the glass half full while others half empty. Sonja Lyubomirsky, a social psychologist, explained that happiness comprises positive emotions and life satisfaction.
Go with the “flow”. Be absorbed in what you do. “When you’re so fully engaged in what you’re doing that you don’t notice the passage of time, you are in a state called ‘flow’, which is associated with joy,” Lyubomirsky explained. “
Practice random acts of kindness and express gratitude. Take a moment to do nice things for others. “Being kind to other people brings on a lot of positive results. It makes you feel generous and capable, leads you to feel grateful about your own situation, and gives you a greater sense of interconnectedness with the world,” Lyubomirsky said. “
We hope these three tips help you elevate your happiness game.
A.Manage your circles. |
B.Celebrate good news. |
C.This small investment may go a long way. |
D.It also gives joy to other people and leads them to like you more. |
E.Researchers measure those components by asking people such questions. |
F.The question for researchers returns to that glass half-full or half-empty issue. |
G.You don’t have to compete in a high- risk game of tennis or climb Mount Everest. |
8 . Benefits of Exploring New Places
Discovering unfamiliar places can often be frightening, but it’s also an adventure that offers many benefits. Whether you go abroad or plan a pleasant, local staycation (就近度假) , traveling gives you the opportunity to step away from your busy schedule to clear your mind and center yourself.
It improves mental health
It may come as no surprise to learn that exploring new places is good for your physical happiness, but do you know that it’s also good for your mental and emotional health?
It lets you disconnect from your daily life
It helps you step out of your comfort zone
New experiences can often bring forth new challenges.
Traveling can teach you many things about a destination, including its history, people and languages, which a book simply can’t. When you meet with new cultures and people, you’re improving your creativity in the process. Involving yourself in other people’s traditions, beliefs and real- life experiences will teach you new skills and insights, while sparking (激发) your creativity.
A.It improves creativity |
B.It expands your understanding |
C.Traveling boosts happiness and satisfaction |
D.Here are the benefits of discovery, near and far |
E.A leisurely walk can help calm your mind and spirit |
F.Sometimes your mind and body need to rest and recharge |
G.Exploring a new city, state or country can be scary at first |
9 . What if we had the power to control time, instead of moving from the past to the present to the future? What if we could jump, loop and travel through time in a machine?
This ability would allow us to witness historic wonders, change decisions and see people from the past.
The mysterious puzzle of time has kept people debating its nature for hundreds of years. Science fiction writers have turned it into imaginative stories. Some scientists have even attempted to explain it using math. This myth tries to make the dream of time travel come true.
Einstein introduced two ideas that have led to theories about the possibility of time travel. The first is relativity. The idea of relativity is that the force of gravity causes space to bend, which causes time to twist.
Stephen Hawking is a famous scientist. He believes that a time machine will never be built. If it were possible, he thinks we would already know. If a time machine could be built, how come no one from the future has invaded us?
The first science fiction story with this theme is The Clock That Went Backward by Edward P. Mitchell, which was published in 1881.
Will time travel ever happen? Who knows? Most important is to keep your eyes open and have a sense of wonder.
A.The second idea focuses on special relativity |
B.We could right wrongs and stop wars from starting |
C.The laws of nature governing the universe imply different possibilities for time travel. |
D.What if we could go wherever and whenever we pleased? |
E.The scientist Albert Einstein said that time and space are one thing |
F.Before the twentieth century, scientists and philosophers rarely investigated time travel. |
G.Since then, thousands of books, films and television shows have explored the idea of time travel |
10 . How many times have you shrunk yourself because you fear being judged?
There is a term in social psychology called the ‘spotlight effect’.
I have a folder in my laptop where I keep encouraging messages for myself. I want to share one I come back to often: Don’t let others stand in the way of your success.
Do the same for yourself as you do for others—reflect on your best qualities, celebrate your strengths, make yourself laugh, treat yourself to things, nurture your own happiness.
A.They keep me grounded and focused. |
B.It is slowly learned in small baby steps. |
C.If you’re not ready to step out, it’s fine. |
D.A lot of us tend to play it safe because we fear failing. |
E.Your positive light helps those around you feel cared for. |
F.It refers to our tendency to overestimate others’ attention to us. |
G.There will be many people who will decide you can’t do something. |