Then we worked out a plan: When Christie takes one of her children out, I’ll watch her other three. And when she watches two of mine, I’ll take someone out.
The children were extremely quick to accept the idea of “Mommy and Me” time. Christie’s daughter, McKenzie, went first. When she returned, the other children showered her with tons of questions. McKenzie was smiling broadly. Christie looked refreshed and happy. “She’s like a different child when there’s no one else around,” Christie shared with me quickly. With her mother all to herself, McKenzie didn’t have to make an effort to gain attention.
Just as Christie had noticed changes in McKenzie, I also discovered something different in each of my children during our alone times. For example, I am always surprised when my daughter, who is seldom close to me, holds my hand frequently. My stuttering(口吃的)son, Tom, doesn’t stutter once during our activities since he doesn’t have to struggle for a chance to speak. And the other son, Sam, who’s always a follower when around other children shines as a leader during our times together.
The “Mommy and Me” time allows us to be simply alone and away with each child ---talking, sharing, and laughing, which has been the biggest gain. Every child deserves(应得到)to be an only child at least once in a while.
1. What is the text mainly about?
A.The experience of the only child being with mother. |
B.The advantage of spending time with one child at a time. |
C.The happy life of two families. |
D.The basic needs of children. |
A.happy | B.curious | C.regretful | D.friendly |
A.The daughter acts like a leader. | B.Sam holds her hand more often. |
C.The boys become better followers. | D.Tom has less difficulty in speaking. |
A.having brothers and sisters is fun |
B.it’s tiring to look after three children |
C.every child needs parents’ full attention |
D.parents should watch others’ children |
2 . How to Make Friends, According to Science
Friendship is one of life’s most important features, and one too often taken for granted.
The human desire for companionship may feel boundless, but research suggests that our social capital is finite—we can only handle a certain number of relationships at one time. Social scientists have used some creative approaches to measure the size of people’s social networks; these have returned estimates ranging from about 250 to about 5,500 people. Looking more specifically at friendship, a study using the exchange of Christmas cards to test closeness put the average person’s friend group at about 121 people. However vast our networks may be, our inner circle tends to be much smaller. The average American trusts only 10 to 20 people. Moreover, that number may be shrinking: From 1998 to 2017, the average number of trusted friends decreased from three to two. This is both sad and of important consequence, because people who have strong social relationships tend to live longer than those who don’t.
So what should you do if your social life is lacking? Here the research is instructive. To begin with, don’t refuse to consider the humble acquaintance(交情). Even interacting with people with whom one has weak social ties has a meaningful influence on well-being. Beyond that, building deeper friendships may be largely a matter of putting in time. A recent study out of the University of Kansas found that it takes about 50 hours of socializing to go from acquaintance to casual friend, an additional 40 hours to become a “real” friend, and a total of 200 hours to become a close friend.
If that sounds like too much effort, renewing inactive social ties can be especially rewarding. Reconnected friends can quickly recapture the trust they previously built, while offering each other a dash of novelty(新奇)drawn from whatever they’ve been up to in the meantime. And if all else fails, you could start randomly to tell secrets to people you don’t know that well. Self-disclosure makes us more likable, and as a bonus, we are more likely to favor those to whom we have revealed our soul.
Longing for closeness and connection is common and everywhere, which suggests that most of us are stumbling(跌跌撞撞)through the world, expecting companionship that could be easily provided by the lonesome stumblers all around us. So set aside this article, turn to someone nearby, and try to make a friend.
1. From Paragraph 2, we can know that .A.a strong social relationship can guarantee a long life |
B.real friendships are based on the exchange of presents |
C.people’s inner circle is decreasing despite large social networks |
D.people’s social networks depend on their desire for companionship |
A.Sharing secrets with close friends. |
B.Choosing likable people as friends. |
C.Avoiding the humble acquaintance. |
D.Spending time for deeper friendships. |
A.The tips on how to develop friendship. |
B.The reasons for seeking companionship. |
C.The benefits brought by a good social life. |
D.The relationship between friendship and happiness. |
A.using research results |
B.making comparisons |
C.giving some examples |
D.telling personal stories |
3 . It was at least two months before Christmas when nine-year-old Almie Rose told her father and me that she wanted a new bicycle. As Christmas drew nearer, her desire for a bicycle seemed to fade, or so we thought. We bought the latest rage, Baby Sitter's Club dolls, and a doll house. Then, much to our surprise, on December 23rd, she said that she "really wanted a bike more than anything else." It was just too late, with all the details of preparing Christmas dinner and buying last minute gifts, to take the time to select the "right bike" for our little girl. It was Christmas Eve around 9:00 p.m.. Almie and her six-year-old brother, Dylan, lay comfortably in their beds. Now we could only think of the bicycle and the disappointment of our child. "What if I make a little bicycle out of clay (黏土) and write a note that she could trade the clay model in for a real bike?" her dad asked. "This is an expensive item and she is 'such a big girl,' it would be much better for her to pick it out." So he spent the next four hours painstakingly (尽心地) working with clay to make a tiny bike. On Christmas morning, we were excited for Almie to open the little heart-shaped package with the beautiful red and white clay bike and the note. Finally, she opened it and read the note aloud. "Does this mean that I trade in this bike that Daddy made me for a real one?" Beaming, I said, "Yes." Almie had tears in her eyes when she replied, "I could never trade in this beautiful bicycle that Daddy made me. I'd rather keep this than get a real bike." At that moment, we would have moved heaven and earth to buy her every bicycle on the planet!
1. Choose the right time order of the following events.a. The girl asked for a new bike.
b. The girl opened the little heart-shaped package.
c. The parents bought the girl a modern and popular doll.
d. The father made the girl a bike with clay.
e. The girl would rather keep the clay bike than get a real one.
A.a, b, c, e, d | B.a, c, d, b, e |
C.a, c, b, d, e | D.a, b, d, c, e |
A.He wanted his daughter to buy a real one. |
B.He didn't want to disappoint his daughter. |
C.He thought his daughter would like it. |
D.He wanted to give his daughter a surprise. |
A.The parents were happy and encouraged. |
B.The parents felt comfortable and relaxed. |
C.The parents were moved and felt proud of the girl. |
D.The parents felt disappointed and sorry for the girl. |
A.A Lovely Little Girl |
B.A Great and Serious Father |
C.A Clay Bike |
D.Christmas Shopping |
1. 我心目中的英雄;
2. 我选择他/她作为心目中的英雄的原因;
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5 . Summer is slipping away from me. Some days, it makes me want to cry. Other days, I feel a sense of expectation within me just thinking about fall that makes me want to burst. Tonight, all five of us were in the family room doing our own things.
At this moment, my littlest kid is my number one trouble and my number one joy. He has a tooth on the way and although it’s such a tiny thing, it’s causing so much grief. I’m holding him a lot and I’m not going to lie. I live for his afternoon nap (小睡) so I’m able to actually get dressed and use the restroom.
The big E is starting school soon. The other day, I found myself a bit depressed about the end of summer and the beginning of another school year. I looked out of our front window with eyes that were heavy and a bit teary. Then, I suddenly realized just how silly this end of summer depression of mine is. I can’t change time. But, I can change my emotions and my thoughts. I decided not to spend my final days of summer vacation walking around with a sad face. I decided to hug the last few days of summer and remind myself that before I know it, we will be back in our school routine and all will go well.
This week we plan on meeting teachers. I'm taking my girl to have her nails done before her first day of kindergarten. We want to bake a few dozen cookies. We'll take our evening walks as usual and stay up late. And last but not least, I’ll get school clothes ready, I’ll pack lunches and write lunch notes, we’ll read “The Kissing Hand,” like we normally do, and I’ll tuck (掖好被子) my third grader and kindergartener in their little beds before the big first day.
Thank you summer, you’ve been warm and wonderful, you’ve been sweet and sticky, you’ve been refreshing and exactly what we need. And your sunsets have been amazing, so thank you.
1. According to Paragraph 1, the author ___________.A.feels excited | B.has bad feelings |
C.feels worried | D.has mixed feelings |
A.Live a simple life. | B.Stay at home and relax herself. |
C.Treasure the vacation. | D.Walk around with a depressed face. |
A.is fond of reading novels | B.often takes evening walks |
C.has two annoying children | D.has no time to get dressed |
6 . As a young man, Al was a skilled artist. He had a wife and two fine sons. One night, his older son developed a severe stomachache. Thinking it was only some
Knowing the death could have been
When I heard of Al’s death, I thought that Al’s life was a complete
As time went by, I began to re-evaluate (重新评价) my earlier judgment. I knew Al's now
I hadn’t heard Ernie talk much about his
Ernie sat quietly and
Tears came to my eyes as I realized what a fool I had been to
A.certain | B.rare | C.common | D.basic |
A.choked | B.died | C.starved | D.worsened |
A.cured | B.saved | C.forbidden | D.prevented |
A.guilt | B.debt | C.disease | D.duty |
A.quarreled | B.scolded | C.left | D.forgave |
A.conditions | B.situations | C.conflicts | D.adventures |
A.turned | B.drank | C.got | D.sank |
A.Because | B.Though | C.As | D.If |
A.needed | B.shared | C.benefited | D.possessed |
A.Gradually | B.Eventually | C.Therefore | D.Meanwhile |
A.failure | B.hardship | C.trouble | D.waste |
A.teen | B.adolescent | C.aged | D.adult |
A.identified | B.watched | C.catered | D.treated |
A.mother | B.brother | C.father | D.child |
A.belief | B.confidence | C.courage | D.faith |
A.puzzled | B.worried | C.interested | D.attracted |
A.especially | B.basically | C.merely | D.specially |
A.argued | B.searched | C.reflected | D.analyzed |
A.thoughts | B.ideas | C.minds | D.memories |
A.treat | B.call | C.judge | D.feel |
1. 你们全家都欢迎他;
2. 接他的地点和时间:地铁四号线中关村站西北出口,2月18日下午4点;
3. 晚上的主要安排:……
注意:1. 词数100左右;
2. 所有要点必须包括在内;
3. 可以适当增加细节,以使行文连贯。
Dear Tom,
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8 . When going through major life changes, like changing careers, I would change the people with whom I spent the most time. We’ve all gone through periods when the people in our lives have changed—graduation, moving to a new city, getting a new job, joining a new club, etc. I don’t think I need to convince you just how much influence other people can have over your identity. If you’ve ever experienced a major switch in your people environment, then you know that you change as well.
Most people don’t make these choices consciously though. You might consciously decide to spend more time with a certain friend, or you may ask someone out on a date to begin a new relationship. But few people choose their existing friendships deliberately.
There’s no “getting rid of people”. People are always dropping into and out of each other’s lives. Associations grow into friendships, and friendships fade into associations. You don’t get rid of anyone. The truth is that in order to make room for new people and new experiences, you may need to loosen up some of your existing connections.
What about loyalty? Shouldn’t you always be loyal to your friends? Once you have a close friend, even if their influence on you is slightly harmful, shouldn’t you stick by them?
Loyalty to a friend sometimes means having to let go. It means being loyal to their highest and best as well. If someone is destroying his health by smoking, for example, you aren’t showing loyalty by smoking right along with him. True loyally sometimes requires that you break damaging connections, get yourself back on solid ground, and then decide what you can really do to help your friend.
It can take a lot of courage to tell someone, “I’m sorry, but I can’t have you in my life anymore." But even though this might seem like a selfish act at times, it’s often the best thing for the other person too. If a relationship is holding you back in some way, understand that it is also hurting the other person. For example, if you work for a violent boss, your acceptance of that situation is considered to be silent approval, encouraging your boss to continue to behave violently.
1. When experiencing major life changes, people may ________.A.join a new social community | B.influence their friends around |
C.choose their friendships purposely | D.have their people environment changed |
A.Everyone has at least one friend. |
B.Friendship still exists though there’s less connection. |
C.It is unnecessary to make new friends. |
D.You ought to treat your old and new friend equally. |
A.Never betray your close friends whatever happens. |
B.Correct their mistakes while you guard their goodness. |
C.Stick by your friends even though they do harm lo you. |
D.Break up with your friends immediately if they smoke. |
A.We should accept what we are told to do. |
B.We should stay silent and be in favor of it. |
C.We should bravely disobey him if he is wrong. |
D.We should give our boss courage to continue. |
9 . Sarah came running in. “Look what I found.” Over the top of the paper I was reading came a crispy long object that caused me to jump. It was a snake skin that had been shed by one of our many garden snakes.
“Isn’t it beautiful?” said my wide-eyed seven-year-old.
I stared at the organic wrapper and thought to myself that it really wasn’t that beautiful, but I have learned never to appear uninterested with children. They see only good quality and excellence in the world until educated otherwise.
“Why does it do this?” Sarah asked.
“Snakes shed their skin because they need to renew themselves,” I explained. “Why do they need to renew themselves?” Sarah asked.
I suddenly remembered an article on this page many years ago where the writer was expressing her concept of renewal. She used layers of paper over a wall to describe how we hide our original selves, and said that by peeling away those layers one by one, we see the original beneath. “We often need to shed our skins and those coatings that we cover ourselves with,” I said to my now absorbed daughter. “We outgrow some things and find other ones unwanted or unnecessary. This snake no longer needs this skin. It is probably too crinkly(起皱的)for him, and he probably doesn’t think he looks as smart in it as he once did.”
Sarah was getting the point. As we talked, I knew that she began to understand, although slightly, that renewal is part of progress; that we need to take a good look at ourselves, our rooms, schoolwork and creativity, and see what we need to keep and what we need to cast off. I was careful to point out that this is a natural consequence of their growth.
“I see, Dad,” said Sarah and jumped off my lap and ran off.
I hoped she would remember this. That often, in order to find our real selves underneath the layers of community and culture with which we cover ourselves year after year, we need to start examining these layers. We need to gently peel some away, as we recognize them to be worthless or unnecessary; or at best, store the ones thrown away as mementoes(念想)of our promotion to a better vitality or spirit.
1. At the first sight of the snake skin, the author was .A.scared | B.puzzled |
C.uninterested | D.excited |
A.to recover the layers inside |
B.to review what has been done |
C.a natural part of getting mature |
D.the process of finding the unwanted |
A.dislikes the snake skin at all |
B.shows concern for nature and culture |
C.can grasp the chance to educate children |
D.often encourages his daughter to raise questions |
A.snakes cast off the layers to look smarter |
B.we should renew ourselves to get improved |
C.snakes shed their skins to renew themselves |
D.we should explore our original nature underneath |
10 . On a foggy evening, Steven took his old father to a restaurant for dinner. His father was very old and weak. While eating, he
The whole restaurant fell
At that moment, the old father nodded with
After he finished eating, Steven, his son, who was not at all
When they came out, the entire restaurant was
At that time, an old man among the diners called out to the
The son replied, "No sir, I haven't".
The old man insisted, “Yes, you have! You left a(n)
The restaurant went silent. All behind looked at Steven with regret and then, with great respect at both father and son, who were
To care for those who once cared for us is one of the
A.freely | B.constantly | C.regularly | D.silently |
A.waiters | B.waitresses | C.diners | D.men |
A.angry | B.calm | C.anxious | D.fearful |
A.lucky | B.happy | C.hopeless | D.speechless |
A.encouraged | B.urged | C.begged | D.mentioned |
A.quickly | B.slowly | C.less | D.much |
A.run | B.write | C.come | D.phone |
A.unhappiness | B.difficulty | C.thanks | D.surprise |
A.worried | B.tired | C.regretful | D.embarrassed |
A.wiped | B.threw | C.washed | D.ate |
A.pull | B.removed | C.fitted | D.picked |
A.watching | B.holding | C.commenting | D.studying |
A.when | B.how | C.what | D.where |
A.forgot | B.counted | C.refused | D.paid |
A.father | B.son | C.dinners | D.waiter |
A.took | B.ignored | C.left | D.deserted |
A.lesson | B.story | C.encouragement | D.experience |
A.diner | B.one | C.son | D.father |
A.moving | B.going | C.driving | D.running |
A.respected | B.best | C.highest | D.extraordinary |