1 . My memories of my father are divided into parts and shares. Alive, and then dead. Healthy, and then helpless. And further back in time, the first and most division: Present and then absent; loving, and then indifferent.
He used to be a good writer and loving father. When I was a 16-year-old girl, he was fired from his company, a public, gossip-based dismissal that he would spend decades refusing responsibility for. This was the first crack that divided my relationship with him into poles of before and after. To escape his shame, he pushed away those who reminded him of it, first divorcing my mother, then alienating my sister and I.
As an adult, my relationship with my father was one of low expectations and high boundaries. He spent most of his time travelling. But when he died of heart failure in August, I was knocked off balance by the weight of the blow. I thought, after years of setting up delicate fences around our relationship, that I had already begun letting go. His death delivered a realization: despite years of analyzing his complicated love for me, there were pieces of my father I never understood—until I found my father’s notebooks in his cupboard.
In the notebooks, he often collected documentation: train tickets from Rome or a photograph of San Francisco’s Prescott Hotel. But what he was also doing was offering fatherly guidance, the kind I could only receive after he died. His life, in which what he had was never quite enough, was eventually exposed. In his final decade, he realized he had built a castle for himself upon sand and regret. Now in his entries, I hear his voice. “Debaleh,” I hear him say, using his pet name for me, “learn from my mistakes.”
I read these pages among my dad’s clothes, and wept. I hadn’t known that my father, too, lived with that familiar ache for new horizons in his heart, the one that can only be comforted by traveling.
1. Why did the author’s father keep away from his family?A.They weren’t responsible members. | B.He didn’t get on well with his wife. |
C.Their presence recalled his sad experience. | D.They talked behind others’ backs everywhere. |
A.Writing a journal carefully. | B.Travelling more for relaxation. |
C.Avoiding following in his footsteps. | D.Obeying father’s guidance thoroughly. |
A.Finding her father’s clothes. | B.Getting to know her late father. |
C.Failing to look for new horizons. | D.Knowing her father’s heart disease. |
2 . Sports are important in our family. Both of our sons were high-school athletes. So, I shouldn’t have been
“I’m gonna play basketball, Daddy.” Lauren ran to meet me when I came in from work. She flew into my arms and lingered long in my embrace. “That’s
Mid-November, the season’s first basketball game arrived. It got off to a good start, but soon Verden, Lauren’s team, was behind. Lauren
Just less than two minutes were left, and Verden was down by seventeen points when Lauren was called in for the game! She
For sixteen years, I’d tried hard to
A.disappointed | B.surprised | C.depressed | D.embarrassed |
A.normal | B.ordinary | C.different | D.typical |
A.awful | B.strange | C.hard | D.nice |
A.sank | B.poured | C.came | D.kicked |
A.frequently | B.carelessly | C.attentively | D.repeatedly |
A.kept pace with | B.gave way to | C.put up with | D.broke away from |
A.threw | B.missed | C.cast | D.caught |
A.mistake | B.record | C.mess | D.basket |
A.excuse | B.shelter | C.discourage | D.prohibit |
A.consciously | B.spiritually | C.literally | D.socially |
People from different generations often live and work together. Sometimes they’re happy being together, other times they’re not. One of the reasons for their unhappiness maybe a generation gap. A generation gap is the difference between two or more generations—not the differences between their years but the differences between the generations’ ideas, attitudes, and interests. Of course, people can have differences and still be happy together, but according to the experts, communication between the generations helps everyone get along.
Good communication between the generations starts in the family. These days many families are changing their communication style. They are moving from a “one-way” style to a “two-way” style of communication. To show this change, let’s compare two families:
The Smith family uses the “one-way” style of communication. Mr. and Mrs. Smith show interest in their children, but they don’t discuss problems of feelings. The parents make all the rules and decisions. They don’t ask for their children’s opinions. They explain their decisions to their children, but they don’t discuss them. The explanation is clear and the children understand. The communication goes one way: from the parents to the children.
The Jones family uses the “two-way” style of communication. Mr. and Mrs. Jones show interest in their children and ask for their opinions. They discuss problems and express their feelings. The family makes rules and decisions together after a discussion. The communication goes two ways: from parents to children and from children to parents.
Better communication between generations at home means better communication between generations at work and in the community. When people from different generations understand each other better, they learn from each other more. This helps them form stronger bonds, work together more easily. As a result, people of all ages can team up effectively and come up with new ideas in different parts of life.
1. What is a generation gap?2. Where does good communication between the generations begin?
3. Please decide which part is false in the following statement, then underline it and explain why.
If Jack’ parents discuss with him where to spend their summer vacation, they use the “one-way” style of communication.
4. To bridge the generation gaps, what other suggestions would you make besides better communication? (In about 40 words)
4 . One summer night in a seaside cottage, a boy felt himself lifted from bed. Then, with the swiftness of a dream, he was held in his father’s arms out onto the nearby beach. Overhead the sky blazed with stars. “Watch!” Incredibly, as his father spoke, one of the stars moved. In a line of golden fire it flashed across the astonished heavens. And before the wonder of this could fade, another star leaped from its place, then another, plunging towards the restless sea.
“What’s this?” the child whispered.
“Shooting stars. They come every year on a certain August night. I thought you’d like to see the show.”
That was all: just an unexpected glimpse of something mysterious and beautiful. But, back in bed, the child stared for a long time into the dark, knowing that all around the quiet house, the night was full of the silent music of the falling stars.
Decades have passed, but I remember that night still, because I was the fortunate boy whose father believed that a new experience was more important for a small boy than an unbroken night’s sleep. No doubt I had all the usual childhood entertainment, but those are forgotten now. What I remember is the night of the shooting stars, and the day we rode in a caboose (列车末尾的职工车厢), the telegraph we made that really worked, and the “trophy table” in the dining room where we children were encouraged to exhibit things we had found — anything unusual or beautiful — snake skins, seashells, flowers, arrowheads... I remember the thought-provoking (引人深思的) books left by my bedside that pushed back my horizons and sometimes actually changed my life.
My father had, to a marvellous degree, the gift of opening doors for his children, of leading them into areas of splendid newness. This subtle art of adding dimensions to a child’s world doesn’t necessarily require a great deal of time. It simply involves doing things more often with our children instead of for them or to them.
1. What does the underlined sentence in paragraph 4 mean?A.The child was still immersed in the beautiful scenery just now. |
B.The child was too frightened to fall asleep because of darkness. |
C.The child wanted to listen more to the music about falling stars. |
D.The child felt grateful to his father for what he showed him. |
A.unusual and novel | B.dangerous and demanding |
C.strange and uncommon | D.educational and thought-provoking |
A.Parents should interfere more with their children’s learning. |
B.Parents should push their children to try to do everything on their own. |
C.Parents should devote energy to exploring new things for their children. |
D.Parents should encourage children to be curious and explore new things in life. |
A.Limitless knowledge | B.Father, the hero of my life |
C.Curiosity aroused that night | D.The unusual things in my life |
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1. 榜样的事迹;
2. 对你的影响。
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6 . My dad also taught me, by example, that a healthy lifestyle is important. He was
He would say, “Bonnie,your
When I decided to get silent about 18 years ago, he told me, “See,Bonnie, it’s so great to see you in such a strong voice
He just did not complain(抱怨), even when he was uncomfortable towards the end,
l am so glad that we had the
A.possibly | B.hardly | C.nearly | D.almost |
A.voice | B.beauty | C.habit | D.health |
A.whether | B.when | C.if | D.though |
A.idea | B.question | C.decision | D.deed |
A.all in all | B.all over | C.all the time | D.all right |
A.from | B.by | C.in | D.at |
A.carried | B.took | C.changed | D.lost |
A.plan | B.living | C.choice | D.promise |
A.time | B.luck | C.energy | D.chance |
A.happily | B.fortunately | C.truly | D.naturally |
A.difficulty | B.success | C.difference | D.effort |
A.dancers | B.editors | C.listeners | D.singers |
A.teach | B.train. | C.calm | D.praise |
A.forget | B.believe | C.make | D.See |
A.mind | B.thought | C.heart | D.eyes |
7 . I still remember the day I was driving to the supermarket I own. When I came out, I found a boy cleaning my car with a brush. I went over and patted (拍) him
As he had refused the money, I offered to drive him around the town. The boy became so
As soon as I stopped, he jumped out and ran into an old building, telling me to wait there for some time. Very soon he came out, saying to a little girl on his back, “Look at this beautiful car. I will buy you
I noticed his sister had a pale face. What’s worse, her legs were too thin, and she was unable to
After that day I went to his home several times. And I got to know more about him and his family. Poor as they were, the boy once again refused my money, and said, “I can
A.over | B.off | C.in | D.on |
A.switched on | B.needed | C.received | D.took up |
A.rich | B.poor | C.handsome | D.brave |
A.begged | B.suffered | C.allowed | D.refused |
A.bill | B.wheel | C.paper | D.box |
A.stressful | B.peaceful | C.excited | D.unfriendly |
A.one | B.it | C.this | D.that |
A.volunteer | B.graduate | C.climb | D.walk |
A.spend | B.stand | C.make | D.prefer |
A.always | B.often | C.never | D.ever |
8 . “I knew when I saw you, I wanted to take you home,” my dad says to me. I am sitting beside him for our Saturday morning visit. While our conversation may repeat at times or be filled with silence, sometimes I get these
My father has Alzheimer’s (阿兹海默症病人). It has been a long time since he
Another Saturday, it happens again. He is looking at a photo of me in high school. He points to the photo and says, “She’s smart. She can do anything.” I am shocked. The emotion catches in my throat. Does he
Our weekly visits repeat. We sit. I listen. He talks.
The more I listen, the more I
A.simplified | B.invaluable | C.abnormal | D.anxious |
A.called | B.taught | C.contacted | D.evaluated |
A.summed up | B.rolled over | C.welled up | D.ran out |
A.need | B.memory | C.dream | D.intention |
A.believe | B.wonder | C.found | D.know |
A.last | B.appear | C.work | D.matter |
A.relief | B.reminder | C.instance | D.absence |
A.expect | B.imagine | C.sense | D.doubt |
A.attempt | B.hesitate | C.forget | D.struggle |
A.grateful | B.curious | C.ashamed | D.amused |
9 . My daughter Kelly is a cautious person. She needs to warm up to situations, who is hesitant to try new things. When with close friends, she becomes a leader who laughs loudly and chants, “Girls rule, boys drool.” But when that comfort zone is not around her, she is shy and nervous.
This has been challenging for me at times. “Shy” is not a word that I think has ever been used to describe me. But this has been a year of firsts for my girl that has filled her with a new sense of confidence. This year she moved to lap lane in swimming where she was preparing for a swim team. This year she learned to ride a bike without training wheels. And this year she completed her first kids’ triathlon (三项全能).
On Saturday, with a thunderstorm coming soon and my son’s birthday party later in the day, we all went out in the dark of the morning for Kelly to participate in her first triathlon. We practiced transitions from swim to bike to run with her. we got all the equipment she’d need, and we kept talking about the race. But as we waited the two hours for the older kids to finish before her turn, she held my leg a little harder and told me she loved me a few too many times. She was nervous but trying to keep it together.
And then it was her turn. From the second she jumped into the water, my heart soared. My daughter transformed into the most confident human being I had ever seen. She dominated that swim, crushed that bike ride and ran to the finish with the biggest smile on her face.
I can honestly say that I never felt so proud of someone in my entire life. It wasn’t because she did a sport or anything like that. It was because she was afraid of something and conquered that fear with confidence and a fire I hadn’t seen before.
All day I would find myself just looking over at her and smiling. She might be wearing the finalist medal but I felt like I won that day. I won the chance to see my girl shine.
Shine on, sweet baby.
1. Kelly is nervous when ________.A.boys are around her | B.she changes into a leader |
C.she is away from her mom | D.situations are new to her |
A.the race began in the early morning |
B.the whole family gave Kelly support |
C.Kelly was eager for her turn in the race |
D.Kelly prepared for her brother’s birthday party |
A.to defeat someone especially in a competition |
B.to succeed in dealing with or control something |
C.to become very popular or successful in a place |
D.to take control of a country or a city and its people |
10 . Katie Whetsell was interested in musicals and Disney movies from an early age. When her mother, Karen, was diagnosed (诊断) with cancer, the family made a
This was the day when Katie decided she wanted to
Katie has a strong message for everyone,
A.comment | B.summary | C.presentation | D.decision |
A.gave in | B.settled down | C.packed up | D.took over |
A.benefit | B.forget | C.finish | D.dislike |
A.saved | B.balanced | C.shortened | D.changed |
A.request | B.admire | C.introduce | D.organize |
A.approached | B.defended | C.persuaded | D.affected |
A.respectful | B.peaceful | C.cheerful | D.powerful |
A.touched | B.ashamed | C.distracted | D.anxious |
A.care | B.search | C.work | D.stand |
A.degree | B.job | C.blessing | D.reward |
A.broke out | B.paid off | C.showed up | D.came around |
A.director | B.writer | C.journalist | D.performer |
A.exactly | B.actually | C.especially | D.gradually |
A.violence | B.hardship | C.loneliness | D.doubt |
A.celebrate | B.recognize | C.spend | D.select |