1 . Helping a stranger can be easier than advising someone we’ve known forever. When friends and family ask for advice, it is more complicated.
You can’t always give advice right now. Texts and FaceTime might be immediate, but your advice doesn’t have to be. You can politely explain to someone that you want to give them your full attention when you’re ready.
You don’t have to fix the problem. People who ask “What should I do?” often want to process a problem themselves.
Pay attention to patterns. When you’ve known someone for years, you’re a witness to their patterns and repeated mistakes. Instead of saying, “Ugh, you’ve said this 15, 000 times,” you can ask questions. “What do you think that means?” or “
A.Body language matters. |
B.Listen to them carefully. |
C.What’s wrong with you? |
D.What has worked for you before? |
E.Otherwise, you can do more harm than good. |
F.If we don’t get it right, we could hurt someone we love. |
G.You’re giving good advice if you can help them get there on their own. |
Some years before, when we moved to town, Mother had decided to start a day nursery. She had no training, but that didn’t stand in her way. Through correspondence courses(函授课程)in child care, she qualified herself for the task. Soon she had a full enrollment(招生)and a waiting list. But neither the nursery nor the motel my parents bought later had provided enough income to send my sister and me to college.
A few months after we had sold the motel, Mother arrived home with a used typewriter. From that day on, as soon as the table was cleared and the dishes were done, Mother would disappear into her sewing room to practice. The slow tap, tap, tap went on some nights until midnight.
It was nearly Christmas when I heard Mother got a job at the radio station. I was not the least bit surprised, or impressed. But she was extremely happy.
Monday, after her first day at work, I could see that the excitement was gone. Mother looked tired and upset. I responded by ignoring her.
Sitting beside her on the couch, I began very slowly to understand. I could sense her pain and the tension of holding back the strong emotions that were interrupted by my arrival. Suddenly, something inside me turned. I reached out and put my arms around her. She broke then. She put her face against my shoulder and sobbed. I understood for the first time her vulnerability(脆弱).
A week later Mother took a new job selling dry goods at half the salary the radio station had offered. “It’s a job I can do,” she said simply. But the evening practice sessions on the old green typewriter continued. I had a very different feeling now when I passed her door at night and heard her tapping away. I knew there was something more going on in there than a woman learning to type.
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Two years later, I left for college and Mother decided to quit her old job.
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The old green typewriter sits in my office now, unrepaired.
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When Canadian couple Edith Lemay and Sebastien Pelletier first noticed that their daughter Mia was having vision problems, she was just three years old.
A few years after they first took her to see a specialist, Mia, the eldest of their four children, was diagnosed with retinitis pigmentosa(视网膜色素变性), a rare genetic condition that causes a loss or decline in vision over time.
By this point, Lemay and Pelletier, who’ve been married for 12 years, had noticed that two of their sons, Colin, now seven, and Laurent, now five, were experiencing the same symptoms. Their fears were confirmed when in 2019 the boys were diagnosed with the same genetic disorder. Their other son Leo, now nine, was given the all clear. There’s nothing they can really do, because there is currently no cure or effective treatment to slow down the progression of retinitis pigmentosa.
Once they came to terms with the news, the couple focused their attention on helping their children build the skills they’d need to lead their way through life. When Mia’s specialist suggested that they absorb her with “visual memories”, Lemay realized that there was one truly incredible way that they could do just that for her and the rest of the children.
“I thought, ‘I’m not going to show her an elephant in a book. I’m going to take her to see a real elephant’,” she explains.“And I’m going to fill her visual memory with the best, most beautiful images I can.”
She and her husband soon began making plans to spend a year traveling around the globe with their kids. They think there are great things to do at home, but there’s nothing better than traveling. Not only the scenery, but also the different cultures and people.
After gathering up enough savings,they soon began their family journey with an in-depth itinerary (行程) that involved traveling through Russia by land, and spending time in China.
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The trip has provided the children with unforgettable visual experiences.
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Lemay says, “Traveling is something you can learn from.”
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1.上网课的优点;
2.上网课的弊端;
3.你个人的看法。
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2.可以适当增加细节,以使行文连贯;
3.邮件开头和结尾已写好,不包含在字数内。
Dear Ben,
How are you doing?
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Yours,
Li Hua
1.活动目的;
2.活动内容;
3.活动反响。
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2.可以适当增加细节,以使行文连贯。
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A Mother’s Heartfelt Note of Love
Everything seemed to have changed for me when I entered high school. I never saw a single person I knew from middle school. At home I was just as lonely. “My brothers and sister all fit in.” I thought, coming in the door after another bad day at school. “Why can’t I?”
Mom was there waiting for me. “Karole, your bedroom’s a disaster. Why can’t you keep it clean?” The last thing I needed was criticism from my mother. What had happened to the mother who used to snuggle (依偎) with me on the sofa, loving me with complete acceptance? Who thought everything I did was wonderful? I didn’t bother trying to explain my unhappiness. It was easier to hide in my bedroom, without saying a word, like I did every afternoon.
Clearing off some space, I sat down at my desk. Yet another thing I wasn’t good at anymore. My grades had slipped along with my confidence. I turned to a new page in my notebook and started working out the first problem. Almost immediately, I saw I’d made a mistake. “Wrong again!” I thought. “You can’t do anything right!” I tore the paper out of my notebook, balled it up in my fist and threw it at the wastepaper basket. The ball landed on the floor. I heard my mother’s voice in my head, “Why can’t you keep your room clean?”
By the time I finished my homework, the floor was littered with crumpled (弄皱的) paper. It gave me a kind of satisfaction to see the mess I’d made. Like it was proof of all my shortcomings. Every time I looked at those crumpled balls, I reminded myself what a failure I was. But my unhappiness stayed hidden away, just like those mistakes. With my face a mask of indifference, no one knew what I was really feeling. Who would want to listen?
One day, I came home to an empty house. It was a relief not to be met with Mom’s latest complaint. “Nothing I do is right in her eyes.” I thought. “Or anyone else’s, including mine.”
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When I opened my bedroom door, I froze at the sight of a neat and orderly room.
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_____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________7 . I sat staring out of the window, holding back tears, as the old red bus moved along one of the main highways in Guatemala City. For nine months I had been
Now I faced having to say goodbye to the children and workmates I had come to
As she
A.working | B.studying | C.fighting | D.traveling |
A.parents | B.children | C.farmers | D.visitors |
A.rewarding | B.amusing | C.depressing | D.embarrassing |
A.memory | B.health | C.confidence | D.performance |
A.ask | B.worry | C.care | D.forget |
A.calm | B.lucky | C.easy | D.alone |
A.self-pity | B.self-help | C.self-respect | D.self-defence |
A.showed | B.found | C.carried | D.bought |
A.wrapped | B.covered | C.buried | D.hidden |
A.joking | B.writing | C.arguing | D.chatting |
A.planned | B.refused | C.rose | D.chose |
A.car | B.bus | C.train | D.plane |
A.angrily | B.eagerly | C.tightly | D.nervously |
A.punishment | B.judgement | C.warning | D.reminder |
A.trust | B.love | C.peace | D.knowledge |
8 . When I was 14, I invited some friends for a party at our home out in the country.
I planned it well, but something
When it was time for us to ride the bus, Nora, one of my friends, didn’t
Nora
Years later, I began to reflect on that ugly phone conversation. Now, I
A.unexpected | B.unproven | C.unfair | D.unsure |
A.take over | B.show off | C.turn up | D.set out |
A.guilty | B.mad | C.embarrassed | D.skeptical |
A.reach out | B.step forward | C.look away | D.back out |
A.answers | B.comfort | C.expectations | D.company |
A.explained | B.announced | C.predicted | D.complained |
A.attempted | B.intended | C.refused | D.pretended |
A.merely | B.barely | C.regularly | D.frequently |
A.urgent | B.formal | C.random | D.hurtful |
A.Quarrel | B.Friendship | C.Tolerance | D.Disagreement |
A.regretted | B.ignored | C.remembered | D.honored |
A.self-disciplined | B.self-centered | C.self-respected | D.self-contained |
A.accessible | B.easy | C.right | D.valuable |
A.decision | B.sympathy | C.information | D.forgiveness |
A.serious | B.strange | C.healthy | D.natural |
9 . When the phone finally stopped ringing and the house lay still with grief, I filled my home with the sweet smell of peach pie to mask the scent of worry that still lingered.
The weekend after Dad’s diagnosis (诊断), Mom had sent the same text to each concerned relative and friend: Jay was diagnosed with Pick’s disease. We are going back to the doctor for more information. Then Mom put down the phone, rubbed her forehead, and suggested that we go for a drive. On the interstate, we passed a board with clear red letters: “Fredericksburg peaches, the best fruit you can find in Central Texas.” Mom went to negotiate with the stand owner.
Now in our kitchen, the sweet smell of peach juice drifted into the living room and pulled Dad away from the football game on TV.
“Oh! You got peaches?” He eyed the fruit with childish glee (欢快).
“Here,” I handed him a knife. “We’re making peach pie.”
I showed him how to peel the skin off. As I made pie dough, he asked questions: How long does it take to bake? Are you adding sugar? How many peaches? What should I do with the seeds? Showing him how to slice and measure and mix in a calm, firm voice, I suddenly felt grown up.
The summer had reversed our roles; now, I was the adult. I stayed home all summer and cooked his dinner, washed his T-shirts and helped him make phone calls. I stayed up late thinking about him and monitored him like an anxious caretaker.
The same day, before the afternoon drive and peach pie, I had held my tears as I read the diagnosis for Pick’s disease: four to ten years, depending on how fast the damaged proteins overpower Dad’s brain. I decided then that I would be grateful for just four more years with Dad, enough for him to see me become an adult for real.
1. Why did Mom propose a ride?A.To purchase fruits. | B.To enjoy a trip. |
C.To release sorrow. | D.To consult the doctor. |
A.It takes years for Dad to recover. |
B.The author enjoys the time with Dad. |
C.Dad shows little interest in football games. |
D.The author gets annoyed by Dad’s questions. |
A.Tough and confusing. | B.Boring but rewarding. |
C.Annoying and struggling. | D.Painstaking but meaningful. |
A.Peach Pie | B.Diagnosis for Dad |
C.Father And Daughter | D.A Plain Summer Day |
10 . There are young trees near my window, growing proudly around pink flowers. My little hill with the trees
I met my best friend Marianne when I was 14. She sat behind me in our Grade 9 classroom. I can still
The laughter never
Marianne and I went in
I recently felt a longing to call Marianne. We chatted about old times and caught up on news about our kids and parents. A few days later, she
I’m
When I look out from my window, I can see the little hill with its trees. I think of those
A.warns | B.informs | C.reminds | D.convinces |
A.belief | B.memory | C.spirit | D.kindness |
A.see | B.accompany | C.accept | D.connect |
A.hunger | B.comfort | C.ambition | D.curiosity |
A.playing | B.arguing | C.wandering | D.laughing |
A.changed | B.stopped | C.burst | D.returned |
A.stubborn | B.selfish | C.silly | D.proud |
A.because | B.unless | C.although | D.until |
A.move on | B.give up | C.help out | D.step back |
A.proper | B.different | C.clear | D.main |
A.free | B.lovely | C.late | D.regular |
A.worries | B.feelings | C.lives | D.achievements |
A.posted | B.recommended | C.read | D.discovered |
A.Therefore | B.Instead | C.Soon | D.Still |
A.recalling | B.considering | C.celebrating | D.building |
A.even though | B.now that | C.ever since | D.as if |
A.responsible | B.grateful | C.eager | D.sorry |
A.escaping from | B.walking around | C.getting over | D.jumping into |
A.classmates | B.flowers | C.trees | D.treasures |
A.strong | B.independent | C.faithful | D.quiet |