1 . Many people feel anxious in situations that are stressful to them. For example, they may feel anxious about taking tests, meeting new people, or speaking in class.
Start with a “growth” mindset. Some people have a fixed mindset. They might think, “This is how I am.”
Notice how anxiety affects your body. When you’re anxious, do you feel “butterflies” in your stomach? Sweaty palms? Shaky hands? A faster heartbeat? These physical feelings can be uncomfortable but they aren’t harmful. You can cope. You don’t have to push the feelings away.
Face the situation—don’t wait for anxiety to go away. You might think that you’ll put off speaking in class or talking to that new person until you no longer feel anxious about it. But it doesn’t work that way.
Learning to cope with anxiety takes time, patience, and practice. Most of all it takes being willing to face anxiety. Start with one small step. The more you practice, the better you’ll get at lowering anxiety.
A.Talk yourself through it. |
B.Tell a parent or another adult you trust. |
C.It’s facing the anxiety that helps you lower it. |
D.Try to pay attention to anxious thoughts and feelings. |
E.Try to notice them without getting upset that they’re there. |
F.With a fixed mindset, people don’t think things can change. |
G.If you feel anxious in situations like these, you’re not alone. |
2 . More than half of the world’s population are city residents, and, by 2050, the United Nations predicts that seven in ten people will be. Architects are having to consider how architecture influences our emotional well-being in urban settings.
According to Colin Ellard, a research psychologist at Waterloo University, Canada, there is a lot of evidence which shows “the profound impact that the design of buildings has on how we feel, how we treat one another, and our overall psychological well-being”. A study from the University of Heidelberg concluded that people raised in the countryside are less likely to have mental disorders than those raised in the city. The city of Vancouver in Canada, which is surrounded by mountains and ocean, recognises the need to connect with nature. It has included protecting ocean and mountain views in its urban planning guidelines. For example, tall buildings are set up in strategic locations that don’t block scenic views for downtown residents.
The British designer Thomas Heatherwick wants to make architecture less soulless and boring. He told The Guardian, “We need to fearlessly demand interestingness and make buildings that enrich our senses.” He has listed seven characteristics of a boring building. These include being too flat and straight. He says lack of depth means light and shadow cannot play on surfaces, while straight lines are at odds with nature and make buildings dull.
However, making buildings interesting is not always easy, as architect Rafael Vinoly found out in 2013 when he created the 37-store y skyscraper in London. The building was admired for its curved exterior walls covered in reflective glass. However, it acted like a magnifying glass and reflected light which melted nearby cars and almost set fire to a carpet. A screen had to be added to prevent the building causing further damage.
So, for your own well-being, surround yourself with buildings that bring you joy, and ideally a view of nature.
1. Why are tall buildings located in certain places in Vancouver?A.To protect people’s mental health. | B.To follow the tradition of the city. |
C.To caution people against disorder. | D.To reveal the prosperity of the area. |
A.One with straight lines. | B.One having flat surfaces. |
C.One having a security system. | D.One with innovative patterns. |
A.Boldness. | B.Creativity. | C.Practicality. | D.Flexibility. |
A.To call on people to live in big cities. |
B.To compare buildings in different cities. |
C.To stress the importance of healthy emotion. |
D.To convince people of emotional impact by buildings. |
3 . Rising Above Fear: Strategies For Conquering Anxiety and Achieving Your Goals
You have to know that managing your worst fear and anxiety isn’t easy but that’s okay, we are here to help you out.
You need to notice how you feel.
Own your fears. Have you ever cried so much that it became very difficult to stop the tears, we can totally understand that.
Create goals that are necessary. Most of the time, the process of overcoming your fears and anxiety is hindered by elusive goals that we set for ourselves. Ask yourself this: What does the life I deserve look like? How can I achieve that lifestyle? Once you know that your goals are essential, the fear of not making an effort will overcome the fear of failure.
A.Find acceptance in failure. |
B.Never back away from learning. |
C.Hardship is another trouble you have to face in life. |
D.It will motivate you and this is when you will be inspired to act. |
E.When the fearful thoughts kick in, it becomes so hard to ignore them. |
F.You need to be able to talk about your emotions, no matter how hard it is. |
G.You can build skills to manage your emotional response when anxiety and fear kick in. |
4 . Even the most positive people have negative thoughts. It’s part of being human. But when negative thoughts become the norm, it isn’t healthy. Fortunately, there are steps you can take to change your negative thoughts into realistic thinking — seeing yourself, your relationships and world events as they really are.
Monitor your self-talk. We all have an ongoing dialogue running in our head, which affects how we view our life.
Challenge your unhelpful thoughts.
Repeat. Realistic thinking doesn’t come easy, especially when you are also working on managing anxiety, depression, and other problems.
A.Identify thoughts that aren’t helpful. |
B.Plant positive thoughts in your mind. |
C.Analyse what self-talk is the most beneficial. |
D.But because it’s constantly running, we often forget it’s there. |
E.These thoughts can consume your energy or cause physical problems. |
F.To be more realistic, you need to question whether your thoughts are factual. |
G.You need to continually return to it even when it feels natural to become negative. |
5 . You laugh out loud when a friend misses a step on the stairs, but soon you feel guilty of laughing at other’s clumsiness. You may ask yourself “Shouldn’t I feel empathetic (共情的) for the person involved?” Don’t worry. Your laughter is not provoked by lack of empathy. As a clinical psychologist, I’d like to shed light on different aspects of such a situation which can bring our usually well-meaning laughter.
The first of these ingredients is surprise. The unexpected situation surprises us and creates a departure from the predictable, from what we expected to see. This incongruous (不一致的) situation highlights our errors of prediction. Laughing at the situation is a way of resolving the incongruity by making a new and comic interpretation of what we witnessed.
Besides, we react according to how we interpret the person’s facial expression. A study explored this. Participants were asked to view 210 images representing three types of faces: faces expressing a puzzled look, faces expressing pain or anger, and people whose bodies were placed in awkward positions, without the face being visible.
At the end of the study, participants rated the images with puzzled faces as funnier than images in which the faces expressed pain or anger, and funnier than images in which bodies were shown in ridiculous positions but no facial expression was seen.
So when we perceive puzzlement in the facial expression of the victim of clumsiness, this information creates a context that makes us laugh. On the other hand, if we can read suffering or anger in the facial expression, we will be touched by the pain of the victim of the fall and be empathetic, which will prevent us from laughing.
Let’s forgive ourselves for laughing at comical situations involving other people’s clumsiness! Having learnt that they are not actually in danger and have not really hurt themselves, we aren’t laughing at the other person’s suffering.
1. What does the underlined word “provoked” in Paragraph 1 mean?A.Determined. | B.Confirmed. | C.Caused. | D.Prevented. |
A.Unpredictability. | B.Visibility. | C.Dignity. | D.Identity. |
A.The faces expressing pain or anger were often ignored. |
B.Awkward positions seemed funnier than puzzled expressions. |
C.People laughed at others’ suffering in unfortunate situations. |
D.Participants were asked to indicate how funny the images were. |
A.Praiseworthy. | B.Unacceptable. | C.Forgivable. | D.Ridiculous. |
6 . What is wrong with Paul?
A.He has been fired by his company. |
B.He lost a competition. |
C.He has heart disease. |
7 . Finding the words to explain how you feel isn’t always easy. This is why young people’s mental health charity has made “My Voice Matters” the theme of this year’s Children’s Mental Health Week.
Do you have trouble sharing your thoughts or worry no one will listen if you do? Making your voice heard means understanding that your words matter and your opinions count. Dr Julia Clements, a psychologist, says that it means expressing your views, thoughts and feelings, not bottling them all up, and being open to hearing the thoughts, feelings and views of others too.
Clements suggests practising conversations with friends, parents or carers on the way home from school and seeing if you have different opinions about something. If you’re struggling to explain your feelings, find a way that feels right for you, whether it’s talking face-to-face or writing it down.
A.What does speaking up mean? |
B.What are the benefits of speaking up? |
C.Making yourself heard isn’t about shouting the loudest. |
D.Don’t be afraid to ask questions if you are confused about something. |
E.Everyone has their own unique way of processing and sharing their feelings. |
F.Sharing your feelings with a person you trust will help you make sense of them. |
G.Words have the power to uplift someone’s spirits and make a positive impact on their day. |
8 . How does the woman feel?
A.Regretful. | B.Cheerful. | C.Hopeful. |
9 . While socializing comes naturally for some, it can be a struggle for others. Shyness is a normal, common personality trait (特征).
Get Excited About A New Adventure
You may have been shy most of your life.
Pay Attention To Your Words
Practice Mindfulness (正念)
Mindfulness involves drawing your attention to the present and being aware of your thoughts, feelings, and surroundings.
Take Small Steps
Getting started can be the hardest part of learning how to be more social for those who are shy.
A.If so, that’s a part of you that you’re used to |
B.Sometimes the best path toward addressing a fear is exposure |
C.Mindfulness can help reduce symptoms of social anxiety disorder |
D.Taking time to tend to your appearance can make a big difference |
E.How we communicate and characterize ourselves can be powerful |
F.However, shyness can make it hard for people to connect with others and achieve their goals |
G.But engaging with people doesn’t have to be practiced as an important work presentation |
10 . How to Stop Laughing at Inappropriate Times
Although laughing at inappropriate times can be embarrassing, it’s actually a natural reaction for some people when they’re facing a highly stressful situation. It can help you relieve stress and release your own tension.
Distract yourself from your urge to laugh.
It takes time to learn how to curb your tendency to laugh, but distraction is an easy way to stop yourself, in the meantime. For example, you can pinch yourself. The slight pain will distract you from your urge to laugh.
What can you do instead of laughing nervously? For example, nod, lick your lips, exhale slowly, or click a pen. What you decide to replace your laughter with depends on the circumstances that are causing your laughter. For example, you may laugh nervously during work meetings.
Identify what makes you laugh inappropriately.
Do you laugh out of nervousness, or do you laugh to cope with painful feelings? Maybe you laugh because you have a lot of energy or have trouble finding the words you want to say. Whatever your reasons for laughing, write down when your laughter is causing you issues. Consider the time, location, occasion, and people who could be causing your laughter. These are called your triggers.
A.Create a plan for replacing your laughter. |
B.Choose replacement behaviors for the laughter. |
C.You can also look for a certain color in the room. |
D.Tell yourself, “The next time I feel awkward in a work meeting, I will click my pen.” |
E.Once you know what they are, you can begin to address your habit of laughing. |
F.But the inappropriate laughter may negatively affect your life. |
G.If this is the case, click your pen instead of laughing. |