1 . All students have bad times. What do they usually do when they get into trouble?
My mom is like my friend. I talk about everything to her. Whenever I have some trouble, I can get good advice from her. I have another good friend — my diary. It knows all my secrets. Talking with my two friends always makes me feel better.
—— Linda
Laughing helps me when I’m upset. I usually watch funny movies and TV shows. I also love spending my hard time with my best friend Dave. He is humorous and always makes me laugh.
—— Peter
Every time I feel bad, I go climbing alone. The study says exercising can help cheer one up (精神振奋). And the beautiful view at the top of the mountain makes me forget all my troubles. Sometimes I shout at the mountain top. It feels fantastic.
—— John
1. Linda’s ________ knows all her secrets.A.sister | B.teacher | C.diary | D.computer |
A.quiet | B.funny | C.careful | D.serious |
A.goes climbing | B.watches movies |
C.talks with his friends | D.reads books |
A.Linda often asks her teacher for advice. |
B.Dave often helps Peter with his homework. |
C.John likes climbing mountains with his friends. |
D.Exercising can help people feel good. |
2 . Comfort the Sunday scaries
Most of us look forward to the weekend as a time to relax and connect with friends or family. But as the weekend comes to an end, many of us may experience a sense of anxiety and even worry about the upcoming week.
Manage your Sunday well.
Getting rid of the Sunday scaries isn’t just about minimizing the anxiety of the week ahead. Having something to look forward to gives you something to think about that’s pleasing. Instead of focusing on the awful things you expect from the week, build excitement over a coffee or lunch date with a friend you’ve been meaning to catch up with. This gives you the opportunity to shift your thoughts to something fun and will help improve your mood.
Don’t forget to relax.
A.Arrange a date with your friends. |
B.Don’t fit in too many tasks and chores. |
C.Create some excitement for the week ahead. |
D.Leave the work emails for Monday morning. |
E.But even though the Sunday scaries are common, they are manageable. |
F.That sense of anxiety on Sunday can come from many different sources. |
G.Try to figure out what’s really causing you to be anxious about the coming week. |
3 . Gifts are more than just an economic exchange of goods. They signal things about the giver, receiver and their relationship. It’s a sort of language that lets us communicate without words. Use the following little tricks to make gift-giving perfect.
Aesthetics (美学) of a gift shouldn’t be ignored and neither should presentation be. All the time and energy you spend picking the perfect thing for your receiver will fall short if you do. A gift should delight. It should be unique and easy on the eyes. So receivers often prefer appearance over function. This is why gift stores are filled with such gifts. These items are often low in their usefulness yet they make most gifts.
The price isn’t necessarily a priority. Even costly items can be considered as cheap sometimes. It’s better to pick an item from the top of an inexpensive sort than one at the bottom of an expensive sort. Even if you’re paying the same for both choices, the former will be received well.
A gift that feels heavier tends to be considered as of higher quality. Giving someone a hardcover book is better than giving them a paperback as a gift. You may also package it in a relatively heavy box. Anyway, pick items that aren’t too light.
Don’t present your gift without the wrapping (包装). It shows effort and devotion. Presentation expresses special thought on behalf of the giver. When they receive a gift, receivers process the exchange and analyze the giver in terms of thoughtfulness, which is communicated through gift presentation. If you want your receiver to think of you as thoughtful, make sure you wrap it in a good wrapping paper. Bad presentation can ruin a great gift. So it matters making a present more attractive to your receiver.
1. What kind of gifts are mostly sold in shops?A.Strange objects. | B.Eye-catching items. |
C.Useful things. | D.High-cost pieces. |
A.Never choose any expensive gif. |
B.The more expensive a gift is, the better. |
C.Two gifts at a time are always better than one. |
D.The best gift in the cheap kind is a better choice. |
A.A hardcover book. | B.A paperback. |
C.One in a light box. | D.One without wrapping. |
A.The giver is generous. | B.The receiver is special. |
C.The giver is thoughtful. | D.The receiver is attractive. |
Today I was at the shopping centre and I spent a lot of time reading the Father’s Day cards. But as I chose and read, and chose and read again, it seemed that not a single card said what I really wanted to say to you.
You’ll soon be 84 years old, Dad, and you and I will have had 56 Father’s Days together. I didn’t think that you were too old. But the sad thing happened last week. I watched as you turned at the corner in your car. I didn’t realize at once that it was you because the man who was driving looked so elderly.
Fifty years ago this spring, we planted carrots together in a garden in Charles City, Iowa. This week, we’ll plant carrots together again, perhaps for the last time but I hope not. I don’t understand why planting carrots with you is so important to me. Well, I don’t quite know how to tell you this, dad…I don’t like carrots…but I like planting them with you.
I guess what I am trying to say, Dad, is what every son and daughter wants to say to their dad today. Praising a father on Father’s Day is about more than a dad who brings home money or shares a dinner. It’s more about a dad deeply loving children who know everything and won’t listen to anyone. It’s about sharing. It’s about loving someone more than words can say, and I wish that it would never end.
Lover,
Jenny
1. Where did Jenny go today?A.A garden. | B.A shopping center. | C.A cinema. | D.A hospital. |
A.An old man. | B.A car driver. | C.Jenny’s father. | D.Jenny’s husband. |
A.It’s the last time for Jenny to plant carrots with her father. |
B.Jenny and her father plant carrots together every year. |
C.Both Jenny and her father like eating carrots. |
D.Jenny would like to stay with her father. |
A.Deep love for Dad. | B.Best wishes for Dad. |
C.The importance of Dad. | D.The beginning of Father’s Day. |
5 . A guide to gaining self-confidence and feeling your best
Do you value yourself as a human being? Do you believe that you’re able to get the things you want?
Exercise. When you take good care of yourself, you feel more confident and positive. For good health, exercise for 30 minutes a day most days a week. Do something fun, like playing tennis, going for a walk with a friend, or dancing to your favorite music.
Stop comparing yourself to others. You are one-of-a-kind, so you’re not going to be like everyone else. Instead of using others as a measuring stick for success, use your past self. That way, you can focus on creating a life that makes you happy. Try to remember that what you see on social media is just the high point of someone’s life.
Set and pursue (追求) realistic goals.
A.Write down everything you do well. |
B.Your dreams are totally within reach. |
C.Schedule time to pursue your hobbies. |
D.Schedule exercise into your day so you won’t forget. |
E.You usually don’t see the bad days and moments of self-doubt. |
F.A good support system helps you stay focused on your best qualities. |
G.If not, we’re here to help you go after your dreams and believe in yourself. |
6 . Failure in a relationship, business and exam or sudden loss of a close one can make you lose patience and calmness.
•Create some peaceful moments in your life.
•Open your mind. Don’t let yourself be troubled by any beliefs and thoughts.
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A.Learn to manage anger. |
B.Sit relaxed on your sofa. |
C.Go to a calm and cool place. |
D.In short, there are many ways to be calm in any situation. |
E.But if you just do so, you’ll slowly get into a state of peace. |
F.Of course, this doesn’t mean you’ll stop thinking in your life. |
G.However, the only person who can help you keep calm is none but you. |
7 . Do you ever worry about your study? Your health? These kinds of worries are quite common. However, for some people, worrying may become constant (连续发生的).
Realize your styles of thinking
Another step you can take to reduce your worries is to consider what aspects (方面) of a situation you can control. Once you have considered this, focus on what you can control, For example, if you are worried about your health, focus on lifestyle changes that you can make. If you are worried that you may fail an exam, focus on studying well.
Practice mindfulness (正念)
When we worry a lot, it often means that we are caught up in our past or our future.
Exercise more to help you stop worrying
Exercise such as running or going to the gym can help give you a break from your thoughts and worries.
A.Are you one of them? |
B.Why do I worry too much? |
C.Talk to someone about your worries. |
D.It also has many useful effects on the brain. |
E.Focus on changes you can make to worry less. |
F.Mindfulness is a practice of focusing on the present moment. |
G.You now need to have some understanding of your styles of thinking. |
8 . There’s no single best way to cheer someone up when they are feeling down.
Write them a handwritten note. If you want to cheer someone up, you don’t have to write a six-page letter detailing every happy thing you can think of.
Have a movie night. Perhaps you won’t be talking a lot during the movie, but it’s an excuse to come together with the person you’re trying to support. Sometimes they just need a little company when they’re feeling down.
Bring them their favorite food. Surprising someone with their favorite meal is an act of kindness that many like. They’re called our “comfort foods” for a reason, and sharing them will help your friends feel better.
A.Try something new together. |
B.Talk about interesting things. |
C.It shows them that you value them. |
D.Often, it just depends on the person. |
E.Being close to someone can help them feel less alone. |
F.A simple note with a supportive sentence or a little card will be OK. |
G.Plus, sharing a meal together is a good chance to chat about whatever they want. |
9 . Music affects our emotions. We tend to listen to music that reflects our mood. When we’re happy we may listen to upbeat (愉快的) music; when we’re sad we may listen to slower and more moving songs; when we’re angry we may listen to darker music with heavy guitar, drums and songs that reflect our level of anger. We may not know why we prefer the artists we listen to, but we can learn a lot about ourselves through our musical tastes.
Consider John, a pleasant man in his mid-40s who describes his mid-20s as a time when he was figuring out his place in life. At the time, he considered himself to be cold, nervous, shy, well-mannered and sensitive. But the music he preferred to listen to was dark, heavy and aggressive. After some time in therapy (治疗), John realized he’d been repressing (抑制) anger and aggression due to years of childhood abuse, and music had become his voice. Now John has been able to unlock his previously hidden emotions and begin to work through the issues.
Cindy, a woman in her mid-30s, has struggled through years of depression. While depressed, she often listened to music that reflected sadness and emotional pain. However, Cindy also noted that she had a passion for upbeat music that made her want to dance and feel free from emotional struggle. But she rarely felt this energy and freedom without the music encouraging. It turned out that Cindy was an energetic and happy child. However, Cindy’s struggle with depression began after her mother’s death when she was 11 years old. With the help of therapy, Cindy is now in the process of breaking through the layer of depression that has covered her since her mother died.
In summary, while music can move us in an intense emotional moment, it also can be used to teach us about unconscious elements of our emotional structure. If we notice a pattern of emotional music that raises questions about our current feelings or about who we are, it could be an important opportunity for self-exploration.
1. What kind of music do people probably listen to when they are delighted?A.Music with drums. | B.Slower songs. |
C.Upbeat music. | D.Dark music |
A.He was passionate. | B.He was aggressive. |
C.He was dark inside. | D.He was polite. |
A.Her mother passed away when she was 11 years old. |
B.She rarely felt energetic and free. |
C.She always listened to sad music. |
D.She had experienced childhood abuse. |
A.How to Be Happy |
B.Music Impacts Our Emotions |
C.People Change While Growing up |
D.Different People Listen to Different Music |
10 . How to cheer others up
It is nice to help a friend, family member, or partner out when he or she is feeling down. Here are some easy ways to cheer him or her up.
Just listen. Generally speaking, people who are feeling down would rather be alone.
Offer to give advice.
Make them laugh.
We are not natural comedians (喜剧演员) but that is okay. Even without being a professional comedian, we all have the ability to make our loved ones laugh.
A.Reduce their stress. |
B.Spend time with them. |
C.Ask for permission before you offer your advice. |
D.Something as simple as a hug can change a person’s day. |
E.In that case, listening is a very important step to cheering someone up. |
F.If they say yes, go ahead and gently offer the advice you have for them. |
G.Telling a joke, making a funny face or just smiling big enough can make your friends laugh. |