1 . Nobody enjoys failing.
Figure out where the fear comes from.
Ask yourself what the root cause of your negative belief could be. Write down where you think the fear comes from, and try to understand it as an outsider. If it helps, imagine you’re trying to help one of your best friends. Perhaps your fear comes from something that happened in your childhood, or a deep-seated insecurity.
Learn from whatever happens.
In many cases, you believe what you tell yourself. Your internal dialogue affects how you react and behave.
A.Understand your fear |
B.Learn to think positive |
C.Fear is part of human nature |
D.Things may not go the way you planned |
E.The simplest way to do this is never to take a risk |
F.Naming the source of the fear takes away some of its power |
G.Even the most successful people encounter failure though our society is obsessed with success |
1. What can we learn about the man?
A.He used to give public speeches. |
B.He has given many presentations. |
C.He feels confident of the presentation. |
A.Giving good advice. |
B.Focusing on his topic. |
C.Communicating with psychologists. |
3 . Yesterday we said goodbye to my grandfather. He was 96 years old and he was my last grandparent.
It has been a while since I saw my grandpa in person. I think he only met my youngest Lilly once. It kind of pains me to think that I deprived(剥夺)my children of the chance to know their only great-grandparent. But I didn’t want them to know or remember a very old man, incapable of getting down on his knees to play with them, and laughing with them because he can’t hear what they’re saying. That’s not the grandfather I know.
My grandfather never stopped. He was an early-adopter to have a laptop-type-device long before Apple was a houschold word and he was programming video games for grandkids to play before most people knew what programming was. He kept physically fit every day of his life. In his later years, he kept busy playing tennis, ballroom dancing, swimming, bicycling. In the end, he didn’t lose a battle to any disease. His body simply could not go on anymore.
I feel extremely thankful to have had the opportunity to know my grandfather. Intentional or not, he taught me many lessons. My grandfather taught me to waterski when I was 5 years old and he taught me how to surf about a decade after that. Whenever I thought it’s too late for me to study a language or get better at piano, he made it clear that it’s only my fear holding me back, not age.
These lessons make life meaningful to me. I prefer to think of them as lessons for living a positive life that leaves a positive impression on me. That is something I will strive to do. Thanks to my grandfather, I have a pretty good blueprint to follow. So I guess the best thing I can offer my children to feel connected to that man is the lessons I learned from him.
1. Why did the author seldom take kids to their disabled great-grandfather?A.To promote the kids’ independence. |
B.To keep the old man living a quiet life. |
C.To prevent the kids from being frightened. |
D.To avoid the kids having a bad impression of him. |
A.By eating apples everyday. | B.By playing with little kids. |
C.By living a simple life. | D.By keeping exercising. |
A.He was a surfing instructor. | B.He was very encouraging. |
C.He did everything with an intention. | D.He studied a new language in his old age. |
A.Memories of My Grandfather | B.Winning a Battle to Disease |
C.Connecting the Generations | D.Impression of My Childhood |
4 . If you’ve ever felt like you can’t do anything right, you might think you’re the only one who has experienced that feeling.
Practice self-care. Self-care is a great stress reliever.
Do a good deed. Acts of kindness toward others aid our emotional well-being, and when you’re feeling more positive, chances are you’ll realize you do plenty of things in life right. Additionally, a kind act is also something you did right!
Take a break.
A.Let yourself feel this way. |
B.Get past a feeling and fight with it. |
C.It’s not a failure in life if you just need one. |
D.It also helps you feel more positive about yourself. |
E.And most of us do not share this feeling with others. |
F.The truth, though, is that it’s perfectly common to feel this way. |
G.Everyone wins when you practice being charitable toward other people. |
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6 . “I knew when I saw you, I wanted to take you home,” my dad says to me when I visit him one Saturday. There is a deep-seated
My father has Alzheimer’s (老人痴呆症). He does not
Another Saturday, he points to a photo of me and says, “She’s smart.” Does he know the
Now I bring a spoonful of yogurt to his lips. With a
These words are all he can give now. But they make me understand more
His door was always
Time, advice, money. There were many ways he
And he gives, still. The
A.fear | B.memory | C.doubt | D.opinion |
A.gladly | B.eventually | C.generally | D.gradually |
A.surprises | B.answers | C.amuses | D.calms |
A.successful | B.same | C.independent | D.responsible |
A.admiration | B.confidence | C.affection | D.curiosity |
A.cold | B.feeding | C.firm | D.trembling |
A.guided | B.followed | C.scolded | D.assessed |
A.easily | B.deeply | C.quickly | D.carefully |
A.magical | B.closed | C.open | D.safe |
A.hesitate | B.intend | C.pretend | D.attempt |
A.valued | B.divided | C.killed | D.volunteered |
A.tried | B.took | C.preserved | D.gave |
A.chat | B.disease | C.visit | D.decision |
A.known | B.faced | C.left | D.remembered |
A.important | B.convenient | C.impressive | D.difficult |
7 . If you’ve ever felt a rush of intense emotion, then you’ve probably also experienced the crash that comes when those emotions gradually become less strong. Although we usually think of exhaustion (精疲力竭) in physical terms, it can also be mental. One of the contributors to mental exhaustion is high-intensity emotions. Too many of these high-intensity emotions, whether they are positive or negative, can lead to burnout.
Psychologists divide emotions into two dimensions, which includes high and low intensity, as well as positive and negative. High-intensity positive emotions include excitement or elation, while low-intensity positive emotions include calmness, or contentment. When it comes to negative emotions, high-intensity emotions include anger, anxiety, and fear, while low-intensity emotions include sadness, boredom, and tiredness.
It’s easy to see how high-intensity negative emotions like anger can be exhausting. What we don’t think about as much is the fact that high intensity positive emotions are also exhausting, although in a way that feels very different.
Excitement, even when it is fun, involves what psychologists call “physiological arousal”-- activation of our sympathetic system. High-intensity positive emotions involve the same physiological arousal as high-intensity negative emotions. Our heart rate increases, and our sweat glands (腺) activate. Because it activates the body’s stress response, excitement can deplete our system when sustained over longer periods. In other words, high intensity -- whether it’s from negative states or positive states- exhausts the body.
About 15-20% of people are thought to be highly sensitive. As they cycle through the highs and lows of life, the increased amount of intensity leaves them more exhausted than others.
This isn’t to say that we should never feel intense emotions. Emotional variety is an essential aspect of life, one that adds a depth and richness that we need. However, what we need to be mindful of is balance. There will be the exciting days, as well as the days when stress and anxiety are what push you through the tough times, but there are other, lower-intensity emotions that will serve us well in many other situations.
1. What’s the main idea of Paragraph 2?A.The functions of emotions. |
B.The definition of emotions. |
C.The categories of emotions. |
D.The expression of emotions. |
A.Set off. | B.Build up. | C.Stand for. | D.Burn out. |
A.Enrich our daily lives. |
B.Avoid intense emotions. |
C.Create emotional balance. |
D.Detect the cause of anxiety. |
A.Why psychologists are more exhausted |
B.How high-intensity emotions wear us out |
C.Why high-intensity negative emotions are tiring |
D.How psychologists explain the effects of emotions |
8 . Before I lived in Pakistan, I was always with my grandfather. We were never
However, on the morning of June 20, 2009, when I was 5, I went to
My parents had to call a psychologist (心理医生). Sonia was very kind, showing deep
Dealing with a death of a family member is
A.apart | B.alike | C.aside | D.around |
A.upset | B.occupied | C.happy | D.impatient |
A.mind | B.mood | C.spirit | D.condition |
A.wake up | B.pick up | C.take up | D.put up |
A.silent | B.hesitant | C.innocent | D.confident |
A.sad | B.annoyed | C.mad | D.nervous |
A.trapped | B.fenced | C.locked | D.caged |
A.motivation | B.sympathy | C.regret | D.warmth |
A.quit | B.risk | C.advocate | D.postpone |
A.ambition | B.liberty | C.attitude | D.progress |
A.loneliness | B.suffering | C.memories | D.hatred |
A.embarrassed | B.complicated | C.inspired | D.puzzled |
A.brought about | B.made out | C.held back | D.let off |
A.blank | B.main | C.major | D.minor |
A.love | B.ability | C.fortune | D.experience |
9 . Feeling tired and stressed? You are not alone.
●Start your day with a short morning workout.
Modest amounts of exercise first thing in the morning can set you up for a good day. You can do some jumping jacks, run for a few minutes, go for a bike ride or take your dog for a walk around the block.
●Remove clutter(杂乱) to reduce stress.
Clutter can easily cause stress-and stress contributes to poor sleep, which can also affect your overall productivity and general health.
●Write down three things that went well today.
What went well? This simple question can help you focus on all the good things that happen in your life every day. At the end of your day, look back and find three things that went well. Reflect on them, and even replay them in your mind, revisiting those good feelings. This exercise focuses your attention on the positive experiences in your day and away from the negative.
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Starting a new project you care about can be the healthy distraction(消遣) you need to improve your mood, reduce stress and increase your sense of accomplishment. You can use your mornings just before your normal work routine or an hour of your evening to accomplish some pretty amazing things.
A.Work on a passion project . |
B.Accomplish amazing things early. |
C.The causes of cluttering are varied. |
D.It can help you think more positively. |
E.It’s normal to feel uninspired or unmotivated every now and then. |
F.Besides, research also shows that clutter can be bad for your mental health. |
G.Even short exercise sessions of just 10 minutes can do wonders for your mood. |
10 . “It's possible to jump to happy endings a little too quickly,” says Laura King, PhD, a psychology professor at the University of Missouri, Columbia. In her research with people who have experienced major life challenges, King has found that people whose stories gloss over(掩盖)conflict tend to become happier over the course of two years.
“The ability to take some time and experience grief(悲伤)or unhappiness improves your ability to appreciate the world in all its richness and complexity,” King says.
In one study, King asked parents to tell the story of discovering that their child had Down syndrome. Immediately after telling their stories and again two years later, the parents completed measures of subjective well-being. Researchers blind to the participants' test scores read their stories and recorded the presence of foreshadowing(预示)and whether the stories had happy or sad beginnings and endings. The researchers also scored how vividly the stories illustrated conflict, struggle and exploration.
Two years later, the parents who had grown happier were the ones who had written stories with happy endings. “I knew everything would be all right,” one woman wrote. Another parent wrote, “I know my daughter is quite special. She's the closest I've come to an angel on Earth.”
However, only the parents who first vividly described their mixed feelings upon learning of their child's diagnosis grew happier. “I cried a lot,” wrote a parent. “The pain was so deep. I felt cheated. I could hardly function.” These were also the parents who later seemed best able to fully appreciate their children's gifts and limitations.
1. What did the study find?A.People with sick child tend to be happier. |
B.People usually jump to happy endings too quickly. |
C.People who go through challenges may become happier. |
D.People need to suffer difficulty to be able to appreciate happiness. |
A.Who the research focused on. |
B.Why researchers did the study. |
C.What benefit the finding will bring us. |
D.How researchers carried out the study. |
A.Preview what will happen to them. |
B.Describe their mixed feelings clearly. |
C.Write a story with a happy beginning. |
D.Take good care of their sick children. |
A.A news report. | B.A diary. |
C.A travel guide. | D.A short story. |