1 . Have you ever felt nervous or afraid to take time off from work to look after your mental health?
Marisa Kabas, a writer and political strategist, recently posed a similar question on Twitter (推特网), inspired by Simone Biles, who stopped taking part in Olympic events this week to protect her mental health.
“It was so shocking to so many people,” Ms. Kabas said on Wednesday in an interview. “Because the whole mentality (心态, 思维方式) is to be strong, and push through the pain.”
If you’re unlikely to use sick days for mental health reasons or are scared of being punished for doing so, I experts say it’s time to start thinking about how to protect your mental well-being. You should take a “sad day”.
There’s no official definition for a “sad day,” also known as a mental health day. Typically, it is paid time off drawn from sick days(or personal days) to help employees who aren’t feeling like their usual selves, offering an opportunity to refresh their minds, do something meaningful; or simply take a break from daily stressors. The “sad day” is only a temporary (暂时的) fix, and not meant to address deeper problems, but sometimes a little time away can make a big difference.
In most situations, just say that you need to take a sick day, and leave it at that, the experts advised. “I think the safe advice is not to be honest and frank,” said Andrew Kuller, a clinical psychologist. Not everybody values mental health, he added, and “unless you’re close with your boss, it is a risk. But say you work at the type of organization where you can tell the truth without fear of being punished. In that case, you still don’t need to reveal why you want to take a sick day.”
Whatever you do, don t spend the mental health day feeling guilty. So instead of thinking, “I should be at work right now, try to reframe your thinking in a more positive way. For example, try saying: “It would be great; if I could be at work right now. But today is a day that I need to take care of myself, so that’s what I’m going to do.”
1. Why were so many people shocked in the eyes of Ms. Kabas?A.Simone Biles posed questions on Twitter. |
B.Simone Biles was interviewed by Ms. Kabas. |
C.Simone Biles inspired sports fans greatly in the Olympics. |
D.Simone Biles pulled out of Olympic events due to mental health. |
A.It is only short-term relief. |
B.It has an official definition. |
C.It is of no value in reducing stress. |
D.It is a perfect solution to big problems. |
A.Face punishment bravely. |
B.Try your best to please your boss. |
C.Ask for a sick day without much explanation. |
D.Tell your boss about the importance of mental health. |
A.Don’t be too serious about a “sad day” |
B.When work weighs you down, take a “sad day” |
C.Don’t be afraid to talk about your mental health |
D.When you feel burnt out, tell your manager openly |
2 . My adult son walked to the table this morning for breakfast. As he did he opened his
My Italian grandma had been a big hugger when I was a boy, but my mom had
When I was sixteen, I went on a trip with a group of boys to
A.lips | B.arms | C.ears | D.eyes |
A.smile | B.kiss | C.hug | D.surprise |
A.memory | B.impression | C.sight | D.opportunity |
A.stood out | B.got along | C.settled down | D.grown up |
A.follow | B.challenge | C.acquire | D.understand |
A.along with | B.because of | C.except for | D.instead of |
A.establish | B.tour | C.occupy | D.promote |
A.museum | B.school | C.hospital | D.temple |
A.relieved | B.greeted | C.awarded | D.tricked |
A.turn | B.decision | C.concern | D.stage |
A.proud | B.unlucky | C.scared | D.faithful |
A.wisdom | B.shame | C.justice | D.warmth |
A.practiced | B.enjoyed | C.stopped | D.remembered |
A.determined | B.regretted | C.hesitated | D.applied |
A.needed | B.loved | C.believed | D.supported |
3 . Most of us spend a lot of time inside our own mind—worrying about the future and focusing on the parts of life that leave us dissatisfied. Although they are common, negative or unwanted thoughts can prevent you from enjoying experiences, distract you from focusing on what’s important, and drain your energy.
Take a break from negative thoughts. It is possible to learn how to separate from negative thoughts.
Release judgment. We all judge ourselves and others, usually unconsciously. Constantly doing those leads to dissatisfaction. Be able to let go of judgment, and you will feel more relieved. Some ways to decrease judgmental thoughts include recognizing your own reaction, observing it, and then letting it go. Another helpful technique is to “positive judge.”
Focus on your strengths.
A.They can also make you feel anxious and depressed. |
B.The more you can focus on your strengths, the easier it will be to feel positive about yourself. |
C.Recognize inaccurate thoughts. |
D.Always give others positive comments. |
E.When noticing you are negatively judging a person or yourself, observe positive qualities, too. |
F.One way to do this is to allow yourself a certain amount of time with the thoughts. |
G.Taking a break from negative thoughts is a little difficult. |
4 . Anger may seem unappealing, but this emotion is a necessary part of your well-being. As with joy and sadness, expressing anger over a broken promise, a lost opportunity, or other inconvenience is healthy. However, if anger is frequently expressed, it will be harmful. Learning to deal with this emotion then becomes important.
Try positive exercises.
When you feel the unmistakable signs of your anger building up, try to focus on positive practices like deep breathing to calm yourself down.
Just as you open up to loved ones over the pain of heartbreak or the joy of a promotion, calling loved ones when you’re about to lose control of your anger is a healthy way of dealing with the emotion. Your friends and family can act as a support group, calming you until the worst is over.
Keep a mood journal.
A recommended way to deal with anger and recognize how frequently you embrace this emotion is keeping a journal to track your emotions.
See a therapist (治疗师).
A.Turn to your loved ones for help |
B.Share something good with your loved ones |
C.However, you can try some practices to express your anger |
D.So let’s take a look at some ways to help you manage your anger |
E.If you feel that your anger is too strong to be contained through self-help |
F.Supporting your breathing with comforting words can help to control your anger better |
G.If you note the causes that push you to outbursts and the thoughts that run through your mind |
5 . Coursework, quizzes, and activities can all get you, a high school student, too stressful sometimes.
i. Find out why you’re worried about your results.
Think you’re not prepared? Don’t know how you’re going to learn everything in time? Or do you just get nervous in test conditions?
ii. See the improvements to ease your worries.
Are you already doing hours of revision and are still worried? Maybe you’re not seeing the results of your revision.
iii.
While it’s great to realise that all people are having a hard time with revision, it’s important you don’t get used to thinking negatively about your results. Positive thinking has been shown to build up confidence and reduce anxiety. So even if you’re talking about your fear for the results, make sure you’re imagining yourself passing with success.
iv. Study now!
A.You probably have some scary thoughts about your final results. |
B.The best way to stop worrying is to take action. |
C.Talk to other people who are being negative. |
D.You may get worried about examinations for different reasons. |
E.Keep testing yourself with past papers to track how your work helps. |
F.Try to take the negative energy away from your thoughts. |
G.The good news is that these emotions are entirely normal. |
6 . In the back of my closet, there is a small cardboard chest that has followed me to every one of my new addresses. Until now, the only
When I was three, my mother learned that she had advanced breast cancer. When I was seven, she had begun
My mother died ten days before our
On the morning of my high school graduation, a
Year after year, my mother
A.following | B.remaining | C.entire | D.full |
A.plastics | B.products | C.pieces | D.presents |
A.working | B.preparing | C.writing | D.receiving |
A.milestones | B.majors | C.purposes | D.centers |
A.individual | B.usual | C.shared | D.national |
A.marked | B.celebrated | C.created | D.made |
A.read | B.sounded | C.found | D.signed |
A.called for | B.stood for | C.paid for | D.longed for |
A.tackled | B.traced | C.revealed | D.confirmed |
A.list | B.string | C.matter | D.variety |
A.member | B.problem | C.impression | D.tradition |
A.put | B.looked | C.traveled | D.stepped |
A.house | B.box | C.map | D.hunt |
A.property | B.sorrow | C.comfort | D.value |
A.deeply | B.temporarily | C.unfortunately | D.simply |
7 . Today, anxiety disorders are the most common mental health issues in the US, affecting 30% of adults. In 2021, a survey of 8,000 children led by Oxford University Press named anxiety as the Word of the Year. “It’s the word on everyone’s lip, the challenge of the moment,” Dr. Tracy Dennis Tiwary says, a professor of psychology, immersed in research — evaluating which mental health treatment worked and why.
The idea that anxiety is something to manage or eradicate, a habit to be broken, is wrong and actually doing us harm. It’s literally a recipe for more anxiety. This is central message in Dennis Tiwary’s new book, Future Tense. She concludes that the problem isn’t anxiety itself, but our belief about it and our attempts to avoid it, which are not only destined to fail, but make us weaker and more fragile. It’s a vicious cycle.
To help reframe anxiety as an ally not an enemy, Dennis takes a deep dive into the emotion itself. Anxiety is different to fear, which is the certainty that something bad is happening to you. Anxiety is about uncertainty; it’s the feeling that something bad could happen, but might not. Unlike fear, anxiety contains hope. Anxiety can focus the mind, drive you to revise harder, to see a doctor, to seek new pathways towards your chosen career.
Anxiety helps us forge forwards with creative solutions, but there are times when there is little we can do to address a future uncertainty. Dennis suggests many ways of coping with it. Connecting with friends and family is a soothing first step. Cultivating things that immerse you in the present moment is also helpful. Our emotional systems are like immune systems. If it isn’t exposed to germs, it remains weak. It’s only by feeling our anxiety, listening and acting on it that we cope better next time.
1. What is a common misunderstanding of anxiety?A.Anxiety is wrong and doing us harm. |
B.Anxiety is the challenge of the moment. |
C.Anxiety is difficult to change, as a habit. |
D.Anxiety is something to manage or eradicate. |
A.Panic. | B.Complex. | C.Difficult. | D.Severe. |
A.By giving an example. | B.By making a comparison. |
C.By making a definition. | D.By making a suggestion. |
A.How to Cope with Anxiety. |
B.Anxiety can be Good for You. |
C.Anxiety should be managed |
D.Dennis Tiwary’s New Book — Future Tense. |
8 . Some people mistakenly think that some people are born emotionally strong while others are not, but that is totally wrong. The truth is that emotional strength can be built by anybody. Below are some of the important suggestions.
·Learn to face a serious problem
What do you do when you face a serious problem?
·Surround yourself with positive energy
·Know better about yourself
If you were anxious to receive positive comments and got a negative remark instead, then you will feel really bad.
·Give up limiting beliefs
Limiting beliefs like “I can’t do it, I’m a loser…” do not only make you psychologically weak but can also make your life unhappy. If you believe you can’t achieve some important goals in your life, you won’t try to fight for them.
A.Most often success does not happen at the first attempt. |
B.Do you try to keep yourself busy in order to forget about it? |
C.The more you demand acceptance, the more you will get easily hurt. |
D.It isn’t unusual to see someone struggle to become stronger emotionally. |
E.Family and friends who bring positive energy is a necessity to one’s life. |
F.It is better to learn and try to forgive others, even though it may feel hard. |
A.By offering thanks orally to the loved ones. |
B.By showing gratefulness on a regular basis. |
C.By developing good sleeping and eating habits. |
D.By taking exercise with close friends regularly. |
A.Noticing the positive helps cure eating disorders. |
B.Practicing gratitude can lengthen your sleep cycle. |
C.Showing thankfulness contributes to your career promotion. |
D.Admiring others’ value can improve relationship in workplaces. |
A.It is a blessing that we are valued. |
B.Extending gratitude has multiple benefits. |
C.We should stop counting sheep or calories. |
D.People can learn to be appreciative by heart. |
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