1 . “Dad, I need your help. Come here!” My 5-year-old girl pulled me towards the computer. “Dad, please buy everything I have in the Amazon shopping cart (购物车). Here, take this cash from my savings!” The shopping cart showed ten items for a total of about 130 dollars. “Wait!” I replied.“That’s too much money! Why do you need all these things?”“Please, Dad! These items will get here before Christmas. I have a surprise for everyone. No peeking(偷看)!” she explained, and I bought everything.
A couple of days later, she got everything. I saw her then wrapping (包装) all her gifts. “Can I help you?” I asked.“No, Dad. I told you these are special surprises. No peeking!” she replied. Her excitement was obvious.
The day came. She was all around her gifts, planning, protecting, arranging. Everything had to be perfect. As soon as dinner was over, she jumped from her chair and took her gifts. She went around giving each one of us her piece of love. These were small items, but it was the meaning of giving her heart that we were really feeling. As she gave the gift to each person, she watched the expression on our faces. Our smiles were her greatest reward. Her last gift was for my 2-year-old boy—a toy car. It was hard to describe my little boy’s delight at getting this gift! For several minutes, everyone’s attention was focused on watching him go all around the house happily.
Seeing these acts of my 5-year-old helped me understand the power of giving—giving from the heart. Later that day, my girl received some gifts, but she didn’t need them. She focused on others, not on herself. It was clear that she was the one feeling true joy.
1. Why did the girl ask her father for help?A.She didn’t have enough money. |
B.She needed him to keep the secret. |
C.She wanted to get his opinions on gifts. |
D.She couldn’t make the online payment. |
A.She felt proud. |
B.She felt delighted. |
C.She felt cautious. |
D.She felt satisfied. |
A.Pleasant. | B.Creative. |
C.Reasonable. | D.Surprising. |
A.To praise his daughter for her generosity. |
B.To share his experience of raising his kids. |
C.To discuss how to find happiness in daily life. |
D.To share the lesson learned from his daughter. |
2 . How to live with an elderly person
Living with an elderly person has both rewards and challenges for everyone involved.
Communicate with your elderly roommate.
Figure out finances. Figure out who pays for what ahead of time. Having finances decided and agreed upon ahead of time could save you from a headache or even legal fees in the future. Records will make a big difference here, so if you start out knowing who pays for what, and have it written down, you are ahead of the game.
Give the person privacy. When possible, they should have as much privacy and personal space as it is practical to allow. Don’t turn yourself into a caregiver. Don’t become a nurse without need.
A.Decide boundaries. |
B.Respect each other. |
C.Don’t leave them alone. |
D.Don’t enter their personal space. |
E.This will help you avoid problems in the future. |
F.Communication is the most important element of any relationship. |
G.But we also need to respect the need of older people to feel independent. |