1 . When attending holiday parties, we are eager to help our hosts in the kitchen, with food and drink service, and with post-party cleanup, which sometimes causes more trouble and stress for a host.
Be sure to respond in a timely manner.
Don’t show up early. Respect the event’s start time and arrive on time or 5 minutes later than the time on the invitation. If the invitation says 7:15 pm, guests should arrive between 7:15 and 7:20.
When the party is over, don’t stay. At the end of the evening, you can make one last offer to help the host tidy up the space. But if they refuse, don’t insist.
A.Consider offering help to the host ahead of time. |
B.So what can you do to really help holiday hosts? |
C.Contact the host to know the details about the party. |
D.Many hosts are too polite to tell people it’s time to go. |
E.Being a good guest begins long before the party begins. |
F.This way, the host can know an extra pair of hands is available as needed. |
G.The invitation phase serves as a prime opportunity to clarify the event’s tone. |
2 . The Powerful Guide to Finding Your Passion
Following your passion can be a tough thing. But figuring out what that passion is can be even more difficult. Here are some tips to find your passion.
Think about what you have secretly dreamed of.
Learn, ask, take notes. OK, you have a list.
Experiment and try. Here’s where the learning really takes place. If you haven’t been already, start to do the thing you’ve chosen. Pay attention to how you feel doing it-is it something you look forward to, that gets you excited, that you love to share?
A.Find what excites you. |
B.Confirm what you are good at. |
C.Predict what’s the worst that can happen. |
D.Pick one thing from the list that excites you most. |
E.If all the answers are “yes”, you’ve found where your passion is. |
F.You need to do something, get good at it, be passionate about it. |
G.You might have some ridiculous dream job you’ve always wanted to do. |
3 . Is life a story or a game? Answers may vary from one to another. Over the course of life, we find things to love and commit to — a job, a partner or a community. At times, we struggle to learn from our misfortunes to grow in wisdom, kindness and grace.
Will Storr, a writer whose work I admire, says this story version of life is a misunderstanding. In his book The Status Game, he argues that human beings are deeply driven by status. Rather than about being liked or accepted, he writes, it’s about being better than others. “When people are obedient to us, offer respect, admiration or praise, that’s status. It feels good.”
Life is a series of games, he adds. There’s the high school game of competing to be the popular kid. The lawyer game to make partner. The finance game to make the most money. The academic game for fame. The sports game to show that our team is the best. Even when we are trying to do good, Storr claims, we’re playing the “virtue game” to show we are morally superior to others.
I think Storr is in danger of becoming one of those guys who ignore the noble desires of the human heart and the caring element in every friendship and family. The status-mad world that Storr describes is so loveless. In fact, gaming as a way of life is immature. Maturity means rising above the shallow desire — for status — that doesn’t really nourish us. It’s about cultivating the higher desires: the love of truth and learning; the inner pleasure the craftsman gets in his work, which is not about popularity, and the desire for a good and meaningful life that inspires people to practise daily acts of generosity.
How do people gradually learn to cultivate these higher motivations? To answer that, I’d have to tell you a story.
1. What lies in the core of Will Storr’s opinion about life?A.The pride in one’s virtue. | B.The pursuit of superiority. |
C.The desire for acceptance. | D.The motivation by wealth. |
A.Love and inspiration. | B.Maturity and desire. |
C.Commitment and kindness. | D.Friendship and popularity. |
A.To correct an attitude. | B.To compare two values. |
C.To explain two arguments. | D.To criticize a viewpoint. |
A.A king’s-comeback story. | B.A rags-to-riches story. |
C.A Yuan Longping-style story. | D.An overnight-success story. |
1. What is the man’s problem?
A.He forgot his password. |
B.He can’t use the system. |
C.He can’t find his computer. |
A.Beside the stairs. |
B.At the back of the lift. |
C.Next to the reception desk. |
1. When might Susan leave the library?
A.At 9:00 p.m. | B.At 8:00 a.m | C.At 7:00 p.m. |
A.To study for the coming exam. |
B.To finish her graduation paper. |
C.To prepare for the presentation. |
1. What can Leo play?
A.The piano. | B.The guitar. | C.The violin. |
A.To help students relax. |
B.To celebrate National Day. |
C.To prepare for a competition. |
A.He is too busy with his study. |
B.He is afraid of meeting new people. |
C.He doesn’t think he is good enough. |
A.They didn’t open their wings. |
B.They didn’t stop moving around. |
C.They didn’t come down from the tree. |
A.Talk about them at her school. |
B.Send them to the local paper. |
C.Enter them in a competition. |
8 . We all do procrastination (拖延). No matter how well-organized you are, chances are that you have found yourself wasting hours on small pursuits when you should have been spending that time on school-related projects.
Knee-jerk reaction and recommendations to procrastination can focus on making lists, downloading apps, setting timers, etc. If simply making a list could solve the problem of procrastination, then there wouldn’t be so many articles on it or conversations about it with doctors.
When we look at a task, such as doing homework or preparing a presentation, we do an internal assessment.
A.Learn from negative thoughts. |
B.What’s more, reward yourself after the task. |
C.It means a mismanagement of your emotions. |
D.Procrastination frequently happens in daily life. |
E.Therefore, we need to figure out its internal roots. |
F.If the task is easy to handle, we can do it as soon as possible. |
G.Fortunately, you will find many ways to deal with procrastination online. |
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10 . Do you ever find yourself saving the good things in life for some distant moment in the future? Maybe you have a collection of fancy plates that only see the light of day on special occasions, or perhaps you’re waiting for the perfect time to wear that beautiful dress put away in your closet.
In a recent conversation with leading psychologist Dr. Alison McClymont, we explored the idea of giving ourselves permission to enjoy the good things now, rather than waiting for an uncertain future.
But why do we feel the need to save things for best?
Welcoming the joy of everyday life can be seen as an act of self-love. We are supposed to surround ourselves with things that bring us happiness, even in ordinary moments.
A.So, why not start now? |
B.Well, it’s time to reconsider. |
C.By doing so, we can boost our overall well-being. |
D.After all, there will be more happiness in store for us. |
E.Actually, cultural and generational factors play a crucial role. |
F.The reason may be that our well-being is closely related to abundance. |
G.If we deny ourselves small moments of joy, we may never get them again. |