2 . As people hold different views on almost anything, we live in a judgmental world where people are quick to point out the faults and imperfections of others, yet seem unaware of their own. Some misguided souls believe they have a duty to help you to be a better person by telling you what a failure you really are first and then offering suggestions as to how you can improve.

So what is the possible solution to criticism?

If you are the one forcing others to feel ashamed of themselves, STOP. Make a conscious decision rather than focus on the negative aspect of a person’s performance or attitudes. You are more likely to offer helpful suggestions from the beginning. If you are on the receiving end of criticism, the “OK” response is a perfect solution. When someone comments negatively on a task you are doing or a personality issue of yours, a natural response is to defend and attack. However, this approach is rarely effective as it puts both parties on the defensive. Instead, simply reply with “OK”. This brief one-word response acknowledges the other person’s comment without agreeing with it or feeling necessary to engage in a debate about it.

It is important to remain emotionally attached to what the other person is saying, to listen without feeling, to be an objective observer. In fact, there is much that one can learn from a negative review. You can ask yourself: Did I make a mistake? Could I have done better? Did I give 100% of myself to the task at hand? If so, how can I improve myself? As for chronic(习惯性的) criticizers: It is important to set strict boundary with them. Remove yourself from their presence when necessary.

In any case, one can learn to be “OK” with criticism and not allow it to negatively impact your life or relationship with the other party.

1. What may the author think of people who prefer to judge others?

A．Warm-hearted.

B．Self-centered.

C．Talkative.

D．Responsible.

2. What does a person probably convey by saying “OK” according to paragraph 3?

A．He thinks the suggestions are helpful.

B．He defenses himself with the response.

C．He agrees with the comments completely.

D．He wants to avoid unnecessary arguments.

3. What is the key to making an objective observer according to paragraph 4?

A．Having debates.	B．Accepting criticism.
C．Keeping calm.	D．Avoiding criticizers.

4. What is the purpose of the text?

A．To make a judgment on others.	B．To explain some social behavior.
C．To call for action against attack.	D．To give advice on facing criticism.

3 . Despite being connected online, no matter what state you’re from, each city still retains its own language and slang. At my public high school in Los Angeles, we had our own secret language. A party was a “yart”. A beer was a “brewsky”. If I tried to use these words in front of anyone that didn’t live in Los Angeles, they would have no idea what was going on. When I came to college and used these words around my roommate from the East Coast, she would look at me with a blank stare.

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Whether the way we talk is regional or from online, the soul of communication lies in its power to connect people, foster understanding, and facilitate interactions that shape our personal and social lives. I have often found it’s the way we connect with the people we live around.

What is mainly talked about in the last paragraph?

A．The means of communication.	B．The nature of communication.
C．The elements of communication.	D．The process of communication.

4 . 语法填空

We all know that honesty is     1    important value and     2    lying is wrong. But sometimes we tell some “white lies”    3    (protect) others from the truth.

There are three main reasons     4    we tell a white lie. First, we try to make others feel better, so we protect ourselves from the     5    (disappoint) and anger of others. Another reason for     6    (tell) a white lie is to give encouragement. For example, when our friend asks us what we think of his singing, we surely say it’s wonderful, despite     7     (secret) thinking that it’s awful. Stop for a moment and consider that perhaps our friend wants some frank     8    (comment). Finally, we may also tell a white lie when we want to protect others from bad news.

We may find even white lies have     9     (expect) results. Perhaps the meal we said was “delicious ”     10     (serve) every time we visit. Or when we only share good news, others won’t truly understand our emotions.

5 . What are the speakers mainly talking about?

A．How to treat others.

B．How to support a family.

C．How to find a great job.

6 . What is the relationship between the speakers?

A．Husband and wife.

B．Co-workers.

C．Salesman and customer.

8 . Who are the speakers?

A．Mother and son.

B．Husband and wife.

C．Teacher and student.

9 . Some people make you feel comfortable when they are around. You spend an hour with them and feel as if you have known them half your life.     1    . Here are several skills that good talkers have. If you follow the skills. they’ll help you put people at their case, and make friends with them quickly.

First of all    2    Almost anyone, no matter how shy he is, will answer a question. One well-known businesswoman says, “At business lunches, I always ask people what they did that morning. It’s a common question, but it will get things going. ” From there you can move on to other matters—sometimes to really personal questions.     3    

Second, once good talkers have asked questions, they listen to the answers. This point seems clear, but it isn’t, Your questions should have a point and help to tell what sort of person you are talking to. And to find it out, you really have to listen carefully and attentively.     4    . It means not changing the subject of the conversation often. If someone sticks to one topic, you can take it as a fact that he’s really interested in it. Real listening also means not just listening to words, but to tones of voice. If the voice sounds dull, then, it’s time for you to change the subject.

Finally, good talkers know well how to deal with the occasion of paring. If you’re saying goodbye, you may give him a firm handshake and say, “I’ve really enjoyed meeting you. ”    5    . Let people know what you feel, and they may walk away feeling as if they’ve known you half their life.

A．Real listening at least means some things.

B．These people have something in common.

C．It’s polite to listen to others with a smile.

D．And how he answers will let you know how far you can go.

E．You can become a popular person.

F．If you want to see that person again, don’t keep it a secret.

G．Good talkers ask questions.