1 . Part of me has always wanted to be the kind of person who breaks the ice with a stranger. When I witness that kind gregariousness (合群) in others, I feel
I’m not alone. In a 2022 study, Gillian Sandstrom, a psychologist, noted that people are “remarkably
Eager to test her theory, I gave myself a week to reproduce Sandstrom’s assignment, which meant speaking to around 30 people. I had no
One of my missions was to speak to someone who was eating. “Is that cream cheese?” I asked a guy on a park bench who was eating stuff. It
Here’s a tip: asking strangers about the bonuses of talking to strangers can be an effective strategy. I used this
My
A.sacred | B.distressed | C.disapproving | D.envious |
A.nerve | B.willpower | C.sympathy | D.vision |
A.masks | B.eases | C.inspires | D.taps |
A.informed | B.pessimistic | C.expectant | D.confused |
A.overstate | B.demonstrate | C.exploit | D.suffer |
A.identification | B.resistance | C.profile | D.scale |
A.at the mercy of | B.in contrast to | C.for the sake of | D.in line with |
A.excuse | B.means | C.authority | D.regrets |
A.set about | B.came out | C.stood by | D.ended up |
A.delightful | B.awkward | C.one-sided | D.initial |
A.Likewise | B.Therefore | C.Plus | D.Instead |
A.bonus | B.receipt | C.approach | D.patent |
A.unpredictability | B.resolution | C.discrimination | D.inaccessibility |
A.persistence | B.ritual | C.experiment | D.convention |
A.turns out | B.pays off | C.goes on | D.falls short |
A. alert B. connected C. correspond D. dismiss E. embarrassed F. invaluable G. judgement H. piloted L. respectful J. urge K. wellbeing |
Are you listening? But are you really listening?
You’d think we’d be very good at listening, but do we deeply listen? Sometimes we quickly
Practicing deep listening means tuning into empathy(同理心), resisting the
The project was
They have also had a chance to be listened to and heard, which research shows can improve
The project is also an opportunity for participants to feel the benefit of stepping outside their own “echo chamber (回声室)”. Echo chambers are created by our natural tendency to seek out people and opinions, in person and online, that we agree with, so we mainly see and hear information and opinions that
So, training young people with deep listening skills can encourage many more people to take part in challenging and
3 . Most of us associate awe (敬畏) with something rare and beautiful: nature, music or a spiritual experience. But people can waken awe too, and not just public heroes. Research shows that we can be awed by our nearest and dearest — the people sitting next to us on the couch, chatting on the other end of the phone, looking back at us over Zoom.
Often, interpersonal awe is a response to life’s big, sweeping changes, such as witnessing a baby’s first steps.
Though we can’t make someone else behave in a way that’s awesome, we can prepare ourselves to notice it when they do and boost the emotion’s positive effects.
Question your assumptions. Do you believe your partner is insensitive or your sibling is selfish? There may be a little truth to that, but it’s never the whole tale.
Name awe when you see it. Speaking out “Wow, that was awesome!” is a simple way to help you identify and remember a special experience. Savor (品味) it in the moment and then tell others about it. This will reinforce your positive emotions.
A.Thank the person who awed you. |
B.And recall it or write about it later. |
C.Psychologists call this interpersonal awe. |
D.It’s easy to forget that it can be awesome too. |
E.But interpersonal awe does happen in smaller moments. |
F.Here’s why you should recognize those moments of interpersonal awe. |
G.The story you tell yourself gets in the way of catching people at their best. |
4 . Most people want to live a life that feels meaningful.
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If you want to have a meaningful life, the first step is to understand your own life story. When have you felt strongest and happiest? How you interpret the events of your life impacts how you see yourself. There’s a lot of power in being able to construct your own sense of meaning and purpose.
• Living with compassion (共情)
Compassion is key to leading a meaningful life. If you want to influence those around you in a meaningful way, try to develop a sense of compassion for others. Pay attention to the body language of those around you.
• Connecting with the world
Try to build positive, meaningful relationships with people who support you and build you up, like your friends and family.
• Giving back
A.Making lifestyle changes |
B.Figuring out who you are |
C.It can be difficult to make it |
D.This can give you insight into their emotions |
E.Pay attention to the needs of those around you |
F.Volunteering can be a great way to feel your life has meaning |
G.Meanwhile, self-expression is a great way to interact with the world |
5 . Most people enjoy variety. We like to eat different foods from meal to meal. We wear different clothes. We like to try new activities and visit new places. We become bored when there is little variety. Nevertheless, there’s one place where we tend to dislike variety, and that’s in each other. We often feel uncomfortable with people who practise different habits, or hold beliefs or values that we do not share.
There are reasons for this. When we are exposed to new and different things, our brain works a bit harder than usual. When we’re learning, our nerve cells require more resources, such as water, salt, and various other chemicals. This extra metabolic (新陈代谢的) activity can feel unsettling and unpleasant. And it can feel worse if our nervous system is already under pressure, like in the midst of the pandemic.
This sort of variation may be uncomfortable for individuals, but it’s critical to the survival of any species. If all finches (雀科鸣鸟) were identical, for example, and their environment changed in some significant, harmful ways, like an increase in the temperature or a decrease in water, all of them would be equally affected and the species might become extinct. This insight into variation comes from Charles Darwin, and it’s known as population thinking. Most people associate Darwin with his evolutionary theory of natural selection, but population thinking may be an even greater scientific achievement. The idea of “survival of the fittest” implies that individuals must vary. Some are more suited than others for a given environment, making it easier for them to survive, grow, and reproduce. Variation is therefore a prerequisite for natural selection to work.
Dealing with the vast variety of humankind can be demanding and even annoying at times, but it’s a good investment, sort of like exercise for your brain. When you meet someone who looks different or thinks differently from you, treat your discomfort as a cue to be curious and learn instead of a signal of a problem. Don’t hold the view that the other person should be silenced. Ultimately, this mindset can make you more flexible in adapting to challenging situations, and more adaptable to change.
1. Which of the following might make people feel uncomfortable?A.Having an adventure in the wild. |
B.Taking a trip to a foreign country. |
C.Sharing traveling experiences with others. |
D.Socializing with people from diverse cultures. |
A.People’s unwillingness to deal with new things. |
B.The significance of learning new things in our life. |
C.The biological explanations for people’s discomfort. |
D.The role of the nervous system in learning new things. |
A.Requirement. | B.Substitute. | C.Motivation. | D.Challenge. |
A.Why we tend to chase and enjoy variation. |
B.How we can benefit from seeking variation. |
C.How we should treat the differences we find in others. |
D.Why we should get along with people different from us. |
6 . In this day and age, gadgets have become a significant part of our daily lives. While it does make people’s lives easier, there are disadvantages.
Turn off Gadgets
Start Playing with Classic Board Games
Before the trend of high-tech gadgets, board games had always been the source of entertainment when a group of friends wanted to have some fun. Meeting with your friends could be the best time to bring these classic board games back.
Bond over Food
Eating together is a chance to bond, de-stress, and relax.
Have a Heart-to-Heart Talk
Entertainment isn’t the only way to interact with your friends.
A.There are many different games you can search online. |
B.One is how gadgets seem to be taking over people’s social relationships. |
C.Evening meals are considered significantly more valuable for building friendships. |
D.One study suggested social eating has evolved as a mechanism for improving social bonding. |
E.If you want to spend quality time with each other, all of you need to sacrifice your screen time. |
F.While it’s essential to enjoy your get-together, going into a purposeful conversation is also important. |
G.Though they have digital equivalents, you may still get benefits when playing them in the traditional way. |
7 . How to communicate effectively?
No matter your age or background, effective communication is a valuable skill. It’s also a skill that everyone can learn. Knowing how to communicate well comes in handy when it’s time for a heart-to-heart chat with a friend. Skillful communication can even turn a potential fight into a productive talk. The finest leaders have always been good communicators, whether in education, business or politics.
Remove distraction.
Turn off the television, laptop and any other electronics that could distract from communication. If a call or text comes through on your cellphone when you are talking or listening to someone, turn it off without looking at it.
Never try to be amusing at the expense of other people. Whether you mean to or not, disrespecting others will hurt the communication process. If you’re unsure if something is appropriate, you probably shouldn’t say it.
Communicate eye-to-eye.
Eye contact is the most important form of body language. It shows interest and helps convince people that you can be trusted. During a conversation, it is important to meet others’eyes, using just as much eye contact as feels natural.
Use “I” messages.
When raising concerns, try to start your sentences with “I” instead of “You”, stating clearly how you feel about the situation rather than blaming others. Instead of saying “You’re sloppy,” you might say, “I’m really uncomfortable surrounded by clutter like this. Is there something we can do to deal with it to keep it from being a problem?” “ I”messages improve the chances that listeners will consider your point of view.
Effective communication is a powerful tool that is useful in almost any situation.
A.There are some exceptions, though. |
B.Organize and clarify ideas in your mind. |
C.Be respectful of other beliefs and cultures. |
D.Interrupting a conversation shows a lack of respect. |
E.With some practice, you can learn how to communicate well, too. |
F.It’s important to choose a setting that makes everyone comfortable. |
G.Developing this skill will improve your relationships everywhere you go. |
1. What does Miyako want to do?
A.Make a call. | B.Send a card. | C.Hold a party. |
A.To continue the talk. | B.To greet Miyako warmly. | C.To finish the talk. |
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10 . “Shyness can stop you from doing all the things in life that you’d like to,” the Smiths once sang. However, research suggests that may not be the case when working as a team.
Researchers have found that when animals temper their personalities because of social rules, the efficiency of a group to undertake risky missions—such as foraging (觅食) for food—is boosted. “We see this phenomenon happening when we mix together a school of fish with wildly different personalities: the very fearless individuals and the very shy individuals tend to control what they would normally be doing when they stick with the rest of the group,” said Dr. Sean Rands, the lead author of the research at the University of Bristol.
Writing in the journal PLoS Computational Biology, the researchers reported how they built a computer model to investigate the impact of social conventions and animals’ personalities on the movement of individuals within a group. The model was based on an assumption in which a group of animals in a safe “home” set out to travel to a food foraging site some distance away.
The results revealed that when no social conventions were in place, their movements were governed by their personalities alone—in other words how fearless or shy they were determined how quickly they left home and arrived at the foraging site. However, when social conventions were introduced, so that the individuals had to keep an eye on each other and adjust their movements accordingly, the impact of personality reduced with less variation in how quickly they reached the destination. The team found where social conventions were present, the group foraged more efficiently than when individuals behaved independently. “We find that if individuals pay attention to the other members of the group, the group will tend to remain at the safe site for longer, but then travel faster towards the foraging site,” the team wrote.
Rands added that for many social animals, being part of a group can bring huge benefits, and these can outweigh the influence of personality.
1. Why are the Smiths’ words mentioned in paragraph 1?A.To give an example. |
B.To make a comparison. |
C.To lead in the topic. |
D.To introduce the background. |
A.Adjust their behavior. |
B.Take on risky missions. |
C.Ignore social rules. |
D.Travel to a distant foraging site. |
A.Personalities alone determine movements. |
B.Individuals prefer to behave independently. |
C.Group work increases exposure to potential risks. |
D.Social conventions contribute to working efficiency. |
A.Be Part of a Group |
B.Stay True to Yourself |
C.Get Rid of Your Shyness |
D.Control Your Personalities |