Once there lived a rich man
In the centre of the main road into the town, he placed
“Who put this stone in the centre of the road?” said the old man, but he did not try to remove the stone. Instead, with some difficulty he passed around the stone and continued on his way.
Then he began to move the stone. He pushed and pulled with all his
2 . We’ve all been there: in a lift, in line at the bank or on an airplane, surrounded by people who are, like us, deeply focused on their smartphones or, worse, struggling with the uncomfortable silence.
What’s the problem? It’s possible that we all have compromised conversational intelligence. It’s more likely that none of us start a conversation because it’s awkward and challenging, or we think it’s annoying and unnecessary. But the next time you find yourself among strangers, consider that small talk is worth the trouble. Experts say it’s an invaluable social practice that results in big benefits.
Dismissing small talk as unimportant is easy, but we can’t forget that deep relationships wouldn’t
even exist if it weren’t for casual conversation. Small talk is the grease(润滑剂) for social communication, says Bernardo Carducci, director of the Shyness Research Institute at Indiana University Southeast. "Almost every great love story and each big business deal begins with small talk," he explains. "The key to successful small talk is learning how to connect with others, not just communicate with them."
In a 2014 study, Elizabeth Dunn, associate professor of psychology at UBC, invited people on their way into a coffee shop. One group was asked to seek out an interaction(互动) with its waiter; the other, to speak only when necessary. The results showed that those who chatted with their server reported significantly higher positive feelings and a better coffee shop experience. "It’s not that talking to the waiter is better than talking to your husband," says Dunn. "But interactions with peripheral(边缘的) members of our social network matter for our well-being also."
Dunn believes that people who reach out to strangers feel a significantly greater sense of belonging, a bond with others. Carducci believes developing such a sense of belonging starts with small talk. "Small talk is the basis of good manners," he says.
1. What phenomenon is described in the first paragraph?A.Addiction to smartphones. |
B.Inappropriate behaviours in public places. |
C.Absence of communication between strangers. |
D.Impatience with slow service. |
A.Showing good manners. | B.Relating to other people. |
C.Focusing on a topic. | D.Making business deals. |
A.It improves family relationships. | B.It raises people’s confidence. |
C.It matters as much as a formal talk. | D.It makes people feel good. |
A.Conversation Counts | B.Ways of Making Small Talk |
C.Benefits of Small Talk | D.Uncomfortable Silence |
A conflict at work is common. If you can avoid conflict, it means you will win what you want regardless of what the other person wants. Since the potential problem has not been removed, it will simply reappear later.
◆Be aware of the fact that some conflicts are unavoidable at work.
On many occasions (场合), conflict and disagreement are likely to happen. But when a conflict happens it is not the end of the world.
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Solve a conflict when it starts, as it only gets worse with time going by. Everyone is waiting for the other to admit he or she is wrong and gets more unpleasant after the conflict has lasted a while. It is necessary to interrupt the “waiting game” before it gets to that point.
◆Ask nicely.
If somebody has done something that makes you angry, or if you don’t understand their viewpoints or actions, simply asking nicely about them can make a world of difference. Never assume that people do what they do to annoy or hurt you. Sometimes there is a good reason why that person does what he or she does, and a potential conflict disappears right there.
◆Appreciate.
A.Praise the other part in the conflict. |
B.Deal with conflicts sooner rather than later. |
C.Invite the other person to talk about the situation. |
D.Do remember to make an enquiry, not an accusation of any sort. |
E.Here are the necessary steps to effectively get rid of conflicts at work. |
F.On the contrary, it can be the beginning of an interesting learning process. |
G.Clear thinking is unlikely to happen while an argument continues to boil over. |
How to Prepare for GuestsGuests are people whom we welcome sincerely and we should make sure they feel comfortable like they are in their home. Sometimes we get enough time to make preparations for guests, but sometimes we don’t. This article will be beneficial for both these kinds of people.
A.Declare your absence. |
B.Allow them to come and go as they please. |
C.Just bear in mind everything fresh and clean will do fine. |
D.If they come during the vacation then you can plan for outdoor activities. |
E.Here are some ways to help you to put away things well in a short amount of time. |
F.Make your guests feel even more welcome by including them in activities such as outings, or movies. |
G.It can be just a photo in a beautiful frame that will remind them of beautiful moments that they spent with you. |
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How to Say GoodbyeKnowing how and when to say goodbye is often difficult, even in informal situations. But learning to say goodbye appropriately is a skill that will help you keep your relationships and let people know you care.
Watch body language. People don’t like telling you that they’d like you to leave.
Make plans to see each other again.Even saying, “See you at school tomorrow,” or “Can’t wait to see you again at Christmas” keeps the goodbye light and focused forward.
Tell the truth.Many people expect to come up with a “good excuse” when they’re ready to leave.
A.You don’t need to. |
B.Set up a coffee date. |
C.Recognize when to leave. |
D.So try and watch for signals. |
E.It makes the goodbye easier. |
F.It’s also easier than it seems sometimes. |
G.If you haven’t already made plans, use it as an opportunity to make them. |
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We use both words and body language express our thoughts and opinions and to communicate with other peoples. We can learn a lot of about what a person is thinking by watch his or her body language. Words are important, but the way a person stands, folds his or her arms, or moved his or her hands can also give us informations about his or her feelings. Just like speaking language, body language vary from culture to culture. Making eye contact — looking directly in someone’s eyes — is in some countries a way to show interest. In another countries, however, eye contact is a way to show that a person is rude or disrespectful.
Some people just know how to start a conversation with anyone, in any place. If you're not one of these lucky types, don't worry.
Remark on the surroundings or occasion. If you’re at a party, for example, you could comment on the food or the music in a positive way like this: “I love this song." or “The food’s great.”
Remark on anything you have in common. People would like your saying “My daughter went to that school, too. How does your son like it?"
Listen effectively.
A.Choose subjects you’re interested in. |
B.Use a praise to create a good atmosphere. |
C.Keep the conversation going with small talks. |
D.It is not the same as waiting for your turn to talk. |
E.Ask specific questions that are related to the drinks. |
F.Ask a question that requires more than just a yes or no answer |
G.Here are some ways to have a conversation with someone new. |
Every day, in hundreds of ordinary situations, actions speak far louder than words. We talk with our mouth, but we communicate with our facial expressions, our tone of voice and our whole body.
By understanding how to use body language, you can communicate more effectively. Here is how:
Work on your handshake.
Use eye contact. Eye contact is very important in forming an impression of someone. You should have the ability to keep direct eye contact if you want to be taken seriously. But some people feel uncomfortable when it is too strong.
Be yourself. Nonverbal (非言语的) messages come from deep inside you, from your own sense of self-respect. If you are comfortable with yourself, it shows.
A.Use hand gestures carefully. |
B.Pay attention to your body-talk. |
C.A mirror can be useful to examine facial expressions. |
D.People who know who they are have a relaxed way of talking and moving. |
E.In the business world, the handshake shows important messages about power. |
F.Understanding body language is one of the most useful skills you can develop. |
G.To avoid this problem, change your focus so that you look at somewhere between the eyes and the chin. |
From the point of my 50s, I’d say that sounds about right. Some of my happiest moments are the ones I spend with my husband, a few close relatives, and a handful of very good friends who know me well and like me anyway. But the more I read about how social media are interfering with (干扰) good old-fashioned friendship, creating virtual bonds that can’t quite take the place of real ones, the more I wonder just how today’s 20-somethings will look back on their own lives when they’re my age.
After all, much crucial relationship building work is done in the 20s. According to research by the late Bernice Neugarten of the University of Chicago, who helped launch the academic study of human development, people choose most of their adult relationships, both friends and lovers, between the ages of 22 and 28. The friends we make in our 20s are not only best friends forever; they’re also our first truly chosen friends. And choosing how to commit to these friendships is an essential psychological task of the 20s.
But with so much of friendship in this age group now being developed online, an essential question is what the effect of that interaction is. A study, conducted in 2010 by Craig Watkins and Erin Lee of the University of Texas at Austin, investigated the Facebook habits of 776 young people between the ages of 18 and 35. “Whether it is a wall post, a comment, or a photo,” they wrote, “young people’s engagement with Facebook is driven, primarily, by a desire to stay connected to and involved in the lives of friends who live close by, far away, or have just entered into their lives.”
This kind of constant contact can be efficient, but it can also be upsetting. For one thing, it adds a new layer of concern to a young person’s already-heightened awareness of social ranking, giving appearance-conscious young people yet another thing to worry about. “I see other 20-somethings feeling pressured to constantly keep up a public image, especially a public image online,” wrote Ariana Allensworth on the group blog. “Folks are always keeping the world informed one way or another about what they’re up to, where they’re at, what projects they’re working on. It can be a bit much at times.” Not the most fertile ground for real-world friendship.
1. According to the passage, the 20s is an age for people to _____.
A.have a good public image |
B.keep themselves informed |
C.look back on their own lives |
D.develop critical relationships |
A.It makes people pay less attention to social ranking. |
B.It robs people of the happy moments spent with friends. |
C.It keeps people away from their family and close relatives. |
D.It prevents people from keeping in contact with their friends. |
A.To know about the 776 young people’s Facebook habits. |
B.To find out how social media affect real-world social life. |
C.To help young people stay connected to the lives of friends. |
D.To investigate what kind of people prefer online interactions. |
A.old-fashioned friendship can help create virtual bonds |
B.there’s no need for young people to make online friends |
C.real-world friendship is a better choice for young people |
D.online friendship is an inevitable trend in the modern world |