1.阐明礼貌的重要性;
2.谈谈如何养成有礼貌的好习惯。
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Be a Person with Good Manners
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2 . Integrity is the quality of being honest and strong about what you believe to be right. The concept of integrity has played a key role in moral philosophy throughout history and is promoted in all societies because of its importance to social relations. Individual integrity is vital to society, one that enables people to make use of their capacity for critical reflection, does not force people to take up particular roles and does not encourage individuals to betray each other. Besides, societies can be favorable to the development of individual integrity.
Individual integrity can lift up the spirits of the entire society. It can shape the lives of people living in a particular society, the lives of all fellow people and, in its broadest sense, even the destiny of a nation. By contrast, if those living in the society are corrupt, it could have bad effects, jeopardizing the healthy morality of the society.
On the other hand, a society can be favorable to the development of individual integrity. Society expects and requires integrity. A society consisting of people of integrity, and people who never compromise on their principles, could have a positive mark on the personal development on its members. Being a part of such a morally lively community could serve as a basis for absorbing traits of good character. This could be of a distinct advantage to any individuals in the society.
Nonetheless, some social structures are of the wrong sort for some individuals to pursue integrity. If that is the case, we have to ask questions about the moral nature of society first before raising questions about individual integrity. Questions about integrity may turn out to be about what kind of society it is, rather than about the relationship between individual interests and characteristics of a society. The pursuit of adequate individual integrity often depends, not so much on understanding who one is and what one believes and is committed to, but rather understanding what one’s society is and imagining what it could be.
Under no circumstances can we underestimate the importance of human integrity in a society. People, who are honest, trustworthy, compassionate and caring, are the factors decisive in the growth of individuals as well as the development of a society.
1. Individual integrity has been valued in society because ______.A.it helps develop philosophy | B.it is crucial to social relations |
C.it is the basis of critical thinking | D.it ensures people’s particular roles |
A.strengthening | B.assessing |
C.influencing | D.destroying |
A.Individual integrity relies on what one has faith in. |
B.The pursuit of individual integrity changes with time. |
C.The nature of society is decided by economic development. |
D.Social structures guide the formation of individual integrity. |
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3 . Develop Positive Relationships
One of the most profound experiences we can have in our lives is the connection we have with other human beings. Positive and supportive relationships will help us to feel healthier, happier, and more satisfied with our lives.
●Accept and celebrate differences.
●Listen effectively.
Listening is a crucial skill in boosting another person’s self-esteem.
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In a world where time is of the essence, we don’t always have the time to give to our loved ones. Being present in the time you give to people is important. In other words, when you are with someone, you are truly with someone and not living in the past or worrying about the future. Devoting time, energy, and effort to building relationships is one of the most valuable life skills.
●Manage mobile technology.
By now, everyone has a mobile phone and many people have two or more. While they are a lifesaver in an emergency, and an effective tool for communication, they also can be a complete distraction when people exhibit a lack of mobile phone etiquette (礼仪).
A.Give people your time. |
B.Develop your communication skills. |
C.We can perceive the world variously. |
D.Active listening is the most useful listening skill. |
E.So here are some tips to help you develop more positive relationships. |
F.Pay attention to who you are with and answer the phone when necessary. |
G.So technology has somewhat weakened our ability to build a good relationship. |
My job is just one of the essential jobs, a sanitation(卫生系统)engineer, not a glamorous one, but is considered the alternative. Of course, I never regard it as an ashamed task to be in my position. About the second week of the lockdown because of the Covid-19, I was having trouble finding a sanitizing spray(消毒喷雾)for my truck. The next morning on my way to work at 4 a. m., I stopped at one of the few stores which were open that early, hoping to purchase some. However, it was only open for the police and medical personnel. “Look at my vest please,” I begged to the clerk, “I’m not just buying it for myself.” “I’m more than sorry, sir. But this is just the regulation, and I really can’t help.” replied the smiling girl. As I turned to head back to my car with disappointment, I nearly broke down.
Coming out of the store, my stomach began to call for energy support. I stopped at a 7/11 and ordered an everything bagel(硬面包)with cream cheese to satisfy my poor stomach and my empty heart. It was toasty warm, and I couldn’t wait to dig in. But as I left the store with a little joy coming sweetly from the bagel, I noticed a scene that an old man was sitting at the bus stop, in rags. Knowing that it would probably be his only warm meal of the day, I gave him the bagel without any hesitation. Just when I was ready to turn around for another same bagel, something warming my heart came into being. Another customer, a gentle lady, from the 7/11 offered me half of her bagel. “We everyone should be taken care of at some certain moment.” she said with a tender sweet voice as I smiled to thank her sincerely. I was delighted because I realized that in one way or another, we were all looked after.
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So I decided to go back to the former store to try my luck again for the spray.
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Just before I gave up, a local policeman was heading into the store.
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5 . “I’m sorry” are two very important words that play a big part in daily life. You might apologize while squeezing through a crowd or using the last of the printer paper at work. It’s easy to say “I’m sorry”, but true apologies are a different story.
Apologize sincerely. A genuine apology can help repair your relationship, and even your reputation—you’re showing that you can be trusted to do what’s right. But your relationship will remain tense if your apology seems casual.
Apply specific principles. A meaningful apology comes down to the three R’s- regret, responsibility and remedy (补救办法). Firstly, communicate your regret. Show the other person you have recognized your error and can relate to his/her pain. Then take complete responsibility.
Don’t expect immediate forgiveness. Most people hope for immediate forgiveness while apologizing, but that may mean you don’t respect the others’ emotions and all you care about is yourself.
A.Ask for an apology if necessary. |
B.Don’t make excuses or blame the victim. |
C.Say sorry first if both parties are at fault. |
D.So you have to be truly willing to apologize. |
E.You should make sure your words are acceptable. |
F.So give them some time to come out of the pain after your apology. |
G.You may have trouble finding the right way to send meaningful apologies. |
6 . Feeling like we belong is a basic human necessity.
A new study has found that a sense of belonging helps give a sense of meaning to our lives.
If feeling like we belong helps give meaning to our lives, it is understandable that social rejection is painful.
A sense of connection is so important to humans, but we live in a society where the importance of community is undervalued. Indeed, many media sources seem keen to stress what makes us different and divides us rather than brings us together. This means it is left to us to build a sense of community and belonging. Achieving this might not be easy.
A.However, it is surely worth the effort. |
B.It's just like the need for food and shelter. |
C.In addition, we love to share good times with others, too. |
D.This is important because it can affect our well-being in many ways. |
E.Being rejected can lead to difficulty in accepting ourselves as we are. |
F.Unfortunately, many of us experience social rejection at various times in our lives. |
G.If a sense of belonging makes life more meaningful, then it's something worth building. |
7 . When Sarah Harmeyer moved to Dallas, she didn't know any of her neighbors. So she offered to invite them all to dinner—and was thrilled when 91 people showed up in her backyard. For Harmeyer, it started with a simple desire to know others in her community. And the free Nextdoor neighborhood networking app made what could seem like a tough process easy.
"I went to the app and I said, 'If you've never stepped outside your house to meet your neighbors, would you consider coming? I would love to meet you, " she said. After she reached out, Harmeyer discovered others wanted to connect just as much as she did, if not more.
Since that first request, Harmeyer has now hosted gatherings with more than 3, 500 neighbors in total. She's had people over for backyard concerts, holiday parties and more. Harmeyer even shares hosting tips and tricks with others interested in becoming "people- gatherers” like her.
According to a recent survey, now half of Americans feel they can rely more on their neighbors and local community than before. 72% of Americans have made it more of a priority to support local businesses and 61 % now feel it's more important to build connections in the neighborhood than outside their community. Research also shows that a majority of people (58%) have a renewed appreciation of their neighborhood.
Whether it's by picking up groceries for a disabled neighbor, offering childcare, or sharing trusted information and recommendations— like which local pizza joint satisfies bellies most—neighbors are showing up for one another and are happy to do so.
Harmeyer's story illustrates how one person has the power to strengthen their entire neighborhood. Technology like Nextdoor can be used to facilitate real-world interactions— and, in turn, these gatherings can spark positive change.
"Something is extraordinary when we reach out to each other as neighbors, Harmeyer said.
1. Why did Harmeyer invite people to have dinner when moving to Dallas?A.To become a public figure. | B.To know people around her. |
C.To celebrate her new move. | D.To market her own free app. |
A.Posting her invitation. | B.Teaching her programming. |
C.Offering her specific tips. | D.Presenting Internet surveys. |
A.Commanding bigger money from their communities. |
B.Sharing more information about their family gatherings. |
C.Becoming more reliant on and committed to their neighbors. |
D.Building stronger connections with people outside their communities. |
A.Why Making Friends in Communities Matters |
B.Technology Helps a Woman Know Her Neighbors Well |
C.Nextdoor: a Way to Connect with People Living Nearby |
D.How One Brings Neighbors Together and Transforms a Community |
8 . The most popular course at Yale is Psych 157: Psychology and the Good Life, covering the science of happiness and how to apply it. Since its launch in 2018 by Professor Laurie Santos, the course has been taken by a quarter of Yale students and more than 200,000 others in its online version.
When chasing happiness, many of us are trying to be a little gentler with ourselves and assigning a priority to self-care. That’s a sensible strategy, Santos agrees. The trouble is how people understand self-care. We assume that self-care looks like a nice bubble bath - or even selfish pursuits.
Santos isn’t the only scientist insisting that you focus more on kindness to others than kindness to yourself. Research out of Oxford University confirms that even tiny acts of kindness can have significant effects on our happiness.
A.Apparently, we all have a thirst for happiness. |
B.Self-care is the foundation for caring about others. |
C.Finally, to pursue happiness, learn from mistakes. |
D.Getting them down on paper will help us avoid mistakes. |
E.And other studies show small acts of kindness can spread out. |
F.Therefore, we can save the unavoidable pain in life for what’s worthwhile. |
G.But data suggest the right way to treat ourselves would be to do nice things for others. |
9 . No matter what profession or occupation you hold you will need to work with others to meet your goals. Group work is a great way to showcase your own skills while getting help from your teammates in areas where you might not be as strong.
Clarify the team expectations so everyone is on the same page.
Direct your concern toward the problem, not your teammates. Don’t accuse or blame anyone on your team for causing the conflict, even if you believe they did.
Focus on the success of the group, not your personal success. When you’re on a team, everyone’s success depends on each member working toward a common goal.
A.Make sure you do an equal share of the work. |
B.Volunteer to take on extra work when necessary. |
C.Treat the team’s accomplishments as a group success. |
D.Our guide will show you how to boost your teamwork skills. |
E.State the issue you’re having, then listen to what everyone has to say. |
F.Instead, keep all of your comments focused on the issue and how your team can solve it. |
G.This can include explaining the expectations or asking questions if you find them unclear. |
10 . In daily life, there are many cases where we need to write a letter of apology. The following are some tips for writing a good letter of apology.
Acknowledge your mistakes. At the beginning of the letter, you have to state clearly what you have done.
Face the facts. Don't use indirect language.
Make an apology sincerely. Even though there was a reason why you acted in a certain way, don't put it in the letter
Keep your promises. It is quite easy to say what other people want to hear, but it will bring disappointment if you fail to keep your promises or if you keep repeating the mistakes.
A.Do better in the future. |
B.Don't blame the situation. |
C.Don't try to prove your acts are right. |
D.So only promise whatever you can achieve. |
E.State directly that you have made that mistake. |
F.It could be considered as an excuse you are making. |
G.You can learn from each incident, whether it is good or bad. |