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When was the last time you listened to someone? And when was the last time someone really listened to you? I asked people what it meant to be a good listener. The typical response was a blank stare. People had no trouble, however, telling me what it meant to be a bad listener.

Of course, technology plays a role. Social media helps filter out (滤掉) opposing views. People find phone calls disturbing and ignore voice mail, preferring text or wordless emoji. But tech is not the only blame. High schools and colleges rarely, if ever, offer classes or activities that teach careful listening. Traffic noise on city streets and music playing in shops exceed (超过) the volume of normal conversation by as much as 30 decibels (分贝), and can even cause hearing loss.

So how can we reclaim the lost art of listening? After years of studying and consulting, I discovered that listening goes beyond simply hearing what people say. It also involves paying attention to how they say it and what they do while they are saying it, in what context, and how what they say resonates (与. . . 共鸣) within you. It’s not about merely holding your peace while someone holds forth. Quite the opposite. A lot of listening has to do with how you respond — the degree to which you assist in the clear expression of the other person’s thoughts and in the process, express your own.

Good listeners ask good questions. Good questions don’t begin with “Wouldn’t you agree. or “Don’t you think. . . ?” and they definitely don’t end with “right?” The idea is to explore the other person’s point of view, not sway it. You also want to avoid asking people personal and evaluating questions. Instead, ask about people’s interests so that they feel more connected than if they spend time together accomplishing a task.

The reward of good listening will almost certainly be more interesting conversations. Attentive listeners receive more information, related details from the speakers, even when the listeners didn’t ask any questions. We are, each of us, the sum of what we attend to in life. And to listen poorly, selectively or not at all limits your understanding of the world and prevents you from becoming the best you can be.

1. Which is NOT mentioned as a factor that contributes to bad Listening?
A.People prefer text message to phone calls.
B.Listening skills are not taught in school.
C.The noise around us drowns out our speech.
D.Our responses to others while listening is different.
2. What does the author find about listening?
A.Listening combines hearing, understanding and responding.
B.Listening requires the listener to keep in total silence.
C.Listening isn’t just hearing but also predicting questions.
D.Listening is to put your thoughts into other person’s mouth.
3. What does the underlined word “sway” in paragraph 4 mean?
A.Influence.B.Stop.
C.Prove.D.Complain.
4. Which of the following will the author most probably agree with?
A.Good listeners should express themselves bravely.
B.Good listening promotes our understanding of the world.
C.Good listeners always receive reward from the speakers.
D.Good listening develops people’s interest in private life.

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Motivation and goal setting are the two sides of the same coin.     1     Like the child on the diving board, you will stay undecided.

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