When was the last time you listened to someone? And when was the last time someone really listened to you? I asked people what it meant to be a good listener. The typical response was a blank stare. People had no trouble, however, telling me what it meant to be a bad listener.
Of course, technology plays a role. Social media helps filter out (滤掉) opposing views. People find phone calls disturbing and ignore voice mail, preferring text or wordless emoji. But tech is not the only blame. High schools and colleges rarely, if ever, offer classes or activities that teach careful listening. Traffic noise on city streets and music playing in shops exceed (超过) the volume of normal conversation by as much as 30 decibels (分贝), and can even cause hearing loss.
So how can we reclaim the lost art of listening? After years of studying and consulting, I discovered that listening goes beyond simply hearing what people say. It also involves paying attention to how they say it and what they do while they are saying it, in what context, and how what they say resonates (与. . . 共鸣) within you. It’s not about merely holding your peace while someone holds forth. Quite the opposite. A lot of listening has to do with how you respond — the degree to which you assist in the clear expression of the other person’s thoughts and in the process, express your own.
Good listeners ask good questions. Good questions don’t begin with “Wouldn’t you agree. or “Don’t you think. . . ?” and they definitely don’t end with “right?” The idea is to explore the other person’s point of view, not sway it. You also want to avoid asking people personal and evaluating questions. Instead, ask about people’s interests so that they feel more connected than if they spend time together accomplishing a task.
The reward of good listening will almost certainly be more interesting conversations. Attentive listeners receive more information, related details from the speakers, even when the listeners didn’t ask any questions. We are, each of us, the sum of what we attend to in life. And to listen poorly, selectively or not at all limits your understanding of the world and prevents you from becoming the best you can be.
1. Which is NOT mentioned as a factor that contributes to bad Listening?A.People prefer text message to phone calls. |
B.Listening skills are not taught in school. |
C.The noise around us drowns out our speech. |
D.Our responses to others while listening is different. |
A.Listening combines hearing, understanding and responding. |
B.Listening requires the listener to keep in total silence. |
C.Listening isn’t just hearing but also predicting questions. |
D.Listening is to put your thoughts into other person’s mouth. |
A.Influence. | B.Stop. |
C.Prove. | D.Complain. |
A.Good listeners should express themselves bravely. |
B.Good listening promotes our understanding of the world. |
C.Good listeners always receive reward from the speakers. |
D.Good listening develops people’s interest in private life. |
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【推荐1】Imagine a child standing on a diving board four feet high and asking himself the question: “Should I jump?” This is what motivation or the lack of it can do.
Motivation and goal setting are the two sides of the same coin.
You also need to judge the quality and depth of your motivation. This is quite important, because it is directly related to your commitment. There are times when your heart is not in your work.
Another way of setting realistic goals is to analyze your short and long term objectives, keeping in mind your beliefs, values and strengths. Remember that goals are flexible. They can change according to circumstances. They also need to be measurable. You must keep these points in mind while setting your goals.
Your personal circumstances are equally important. For example, you may want to be a Pilot but can’t become one because your eyesight is not good enough.
You will surely need to overcome some difficulties, some planned, but most unplanned. You cannot overcome them without ample motivation. Make sure that you plan for these difficulties at the time of setting your goals.
A.This can affect your work. |
B.So how should you motivate yourself? |
C.However, this should not discourage you. |
D.So why should we try to set specific goals? |
E.Without motivation, you can neither set a goal nor reach it. |
F.Motivation is what you need most to do a good job. |
【推荐2】Rules for proper gift giving
When you are planning to give a gift, it is important to think about the receiver. As the gift is for the other person, it should be suitable for his or her particular personality. Is he or she a family member or a close friend?
At a dinner party, it is usually proper to show up with some sort of gratitude(感谢) for the host.
When someone gives you a gift, you generally want to give one in return.
When in a situation where you have received something expensive and are expected to give one in return, many people feel pressured to give a gift of greater or equal value to the one that was gifted to them. However, it is important to distance yourself from these assumptions.
Well, what should you do when you have forgotten to send a gift? It happens to all of us. Whether it is a family member’s birthday or a friend’s graduation ceremony, forgetting to give a gift is awkward. So, it can be difficult to find the right way to make up for forgetfulness. However, before you begin to panic, know that a late gift is better than no gift.
A.However, this is not always the case. |
B.Do you have to give a gift to your friends? |
C.Gifts should be tied to meaning instead of dollar value. |
D.In Eastern cultures, gifts are given before the guest leaves. |
E.Does he or she enjoy big gifts or prefer a bunch of flowers? |
F.So, send your gift with an apologetic note and all should be forgiven. |
G.They have invited you over to their home and that should be acknowledged. |
【推荐3】People don't really care what you say.
The lyrics (歌词) to your favorite song on paper don't mean much. They are just words. It's the singer that can bring the words alive through their actions. Talk is cheap actions are expensive. In other words, words don't do much, actions do everything.
All of the famous people who had successful stories didn't get there by simply talking about being there.
A.They did something about it. |
B.All you have got to do is walks the talk. |
C.They pay more attention to what you do. |
D.They would like to explore how to be doers. |
E.What I mean is that words and actions are functioning differently. |
F.If you had one week left to live, you would regret so much in your life. |
G.What I need you to understand is words are the talk, actions are the walk. |
【推荐1】The more parents talk to their children, the faster those children’s vocabularies grow and the better their intelligence develops. Dr. Hart and Dr. Risley published their study in 1995.
They found a close relationship between the number of words a child’s parents had spoken to him by the time he was three and his academic success at the age of nine. At three, children born into professional families had heard 30 million more words than those from a poorly performed family. Besides, recent studies show that words should be spoken directly to a child, rather than simply heard in the home. Leaving children in front of the television does not have the same effect. Neither does letting them sit at the feet of academic parents while the grown-ups talk about Plato.
The effects can be seen directly in the brain. Babies are born with about 100 billion neurons more or less, and connections between these neurons form at an exponentially(以指数方式) rising rate in the early years of life. It is the pattern of these connections that determines how well the brain works, and what it learns. By the time a child is three years old, there will be about 1,000 trillion connections in his brain, and that child’ s experiences continuously determine which are strengthened and which decreased. This process—gradual and irreversible, has shaped the path of the child’s life.
Fortunately, there are tools that can help those silent parents. One such is a Language Environment Analysis (LENA) device. It is like a pedometer, but instead of recording users’ walking steps, this device keeps track of words by analyzing the speech children hear. Parents use it to monitor and improve their patterns of words, much as a pedometer-wearing couch potato might try to reach 10,000 steps a day. Plus, parents are taught to make the words they speak to their children more enriching. In this way parents can make sure of an enough input.
1. Which factor influences the children’s intelligence development most according to the text?A.The wealth of households. | B.Parents' academic success. |
C.Babies’ inborn language ability. | D.Effective vocabulary input by parents. |
A.The number of neurons at birth varies a lot. |
B.Neurons connections can be decided by experiences. |
C.Individual efforts can also shape the kids' development. |
D.School education leads to faster increase of the connections. |
A.To give parents two options. | B.To offer two possible solutions. |
C.To show the similarity to LENA. | D.To tell the difference from LENA. |
A.Involve in their games. | B.Share more quality time with them. |
C.Enlarge their vocabulary through media. | D.Expose them to being spoken to directly. |
【推荐2】There are some things money can’t buy. Education, however, does not appear to be among them—at least as measured by performance on international exams. On average, pupils in wealthy countries obtain vastly higher test scores than those in developing ones. Do students in the rich world perform better because their governments provide superior schools? Or is the reason that they tend to have richer parents, and enjoy more educational resources at home?
Evaluating test scores around the world is more challenging than it sounds. Although pupils in the rich world mostly take one of a few big international exams, many developing countries rely on regional tests, making apples-to-apples comparisons impossible.
Dev Patel of Harvard University and Justin Sandefur of the Center for Global Development organized an exam in 2016 for 2,314 children in Bihar, in northern India. It included both questions from the leading tests and ones taken from smaller exams. Using answers from the same pupils on the same day to questions from different tests, they built a statistical model they called a “Rosetta Stone”. It can translate scores from a range of exams—such as one used only in West Africa—into an equal mark in other common international tests.
Patel and Sandefur then used these equations(等式) to calculate how pupils in 80 different countries would perform on the benchmark(基准) Trends in International Mathematics and Science Study (TIMSS). Their data show that the wealth of a student’s country and family has similar influences on test scores, meaning that big gaps in GDP per person matter more than small ones in household income do. For example, pupils from families that are very poor by rich-world standards—those earning $ 5,000 a year (measured in 2005 dollars)—were expected to score around 500 out of 1,000 on the TIMSS in America, and 560 in Japan. In contrast, those whose parents make $ 10,000 a year in an upper-middle-income country, such as Costa Rica, still manage only the equal of a 475.
1. What is the author’s attitude to educational investment?A.Favorable. | B.Cautious. | C.Doubtful. | D.Concerned. |
A.Rich countries refuse regional tests. |
B.The tests vary in different countries. |
C.Pupils have distinct academic levels. |
D.International tests aren’t available anywhere. |
A.Its questions were mostly from leading tests. |
B.Participants built a statistical model for it. |
C.2,314 children around the world took it. |
D.It helped create a “Rosetta Stone”. |
A.Students from the rich world do better. |
B.Family income plays a big role in education. |
C.Country wealth counts more for test scores. |
D.It’s better to be a rich pupil in a poor country. |
【推荐3】Without cracking a single textbook, without spending a day in medical school, the co-author of a preprint study correctly answered enough questions that it would have passed the real US Medical Licensing Examination. But the test-taker wasn’t a member of Mensa or a medical specialist; it was the artificial intelligence ChatGPT. The tool, which was created to answer user questions in a conversational manner, has generated so much buzz that doctors and scientists are trying to determine what its limitations are and what it could do for health and medicine.
The medical licensing exam is generally considered one of the toughest of any profession because it not only tests basic science, medical knowledge, but also assesses clinical reasoning, ethics (道德观念), critical thinking and problem-solving skills.
The AI passed all the parts of the exam without any specialized training, showing a high level of insight in its explanations. This greatly impressed Dr. Victor Tseng, a medical director of the California-based group and a co-author of the study. “Googling the answer is very difficult,” he explained. “Because there’re a lot of red herrings on the Internet. It might take hours to get an accurate answer.” But ChatGPT was able to do it within five seconds.
The results of the medical licensing exam study were even written up with the help of ChatGPT. However, the journal Nature created guidelines that said no such program could be credited as an author because “any authorship carries with it accountability for the work, and AI tools cannot take such responsibility.” Actually, AI is only as good as the information it’s fed, and with so much inaccurate information available online about things like Covid-19 vaccines, it could use that to generate inaccurate results.
Tseng said he ultimately thinks ChatGPT can enhance medical practice, but won’t replace doctors. Tseng’s group will continue to test it to learn why it creates certain errors and what other ethical factors need to be put in place before using it for real.
“AI is here. The doors are open,” Tseng said. “I firmly believe that it will actually make me and make us as physicians and providers better.”
1. What can ChatGPT possibly do according to paragraph 1?A.Study in medical school. | B.Start an online conversation. |
C.Conduct a study independently. | D.Pass a challenging examination. |
A.Appealing topics. | B.Efficient helpers. | C.Hidden resources. | D.Distracting facts. |
A.it has invented all the data based on inaccurate information |
B.it doesn’t actively create and is not responsible for the work |
C.it doesn’t have a bank account and can’t receive payment |
D.it has failed to demonstrate problem-solving skills |
A.Interested yet doubtful. | B.Disinterested and calm. |
C.Confident yet cautious. | D.Critical and disappointed. |
Tate Modern,London,UK Together with three other Tate museums. Tate Modern located in London is a national museum of international音modern art. It is one of the largest museums of modern and contemporary art in the world. Most of the exhibit items are open to the public for free,only charging for major temporary(临时的)exhibitions. | ||
The Musee du Louvre,Paris,France It is the world's largest and most visited art museum and a historical land mark of Paris. Housed in the Louvre Palace,the museum has been added to many times since its opening in 1793. Its glass pyramid in the main courtyard was designed by Chinese American architect Ieoh Ming Pei,and it later became a signature design of the museum. appearing in the hit thriller The Da Vinci Code starring Tom Hanks and Audrey Tautou. | ||
National Museum of China, Beijing, China Near Tiananmen Square in Beijing, it's one of the largest museums in the world and the second-most visited art museum in the world, just after the Musee du Louvre. Covering a time span from the Yuanmou Man of 1.7 million years ago to the Qing Dynasty (1644-1911), the museum houses around 1. 05 million items-and many cannot be found in museums elsewhere. | ||
State Hermitage Museum, St Petersburg, Russia The State Hermitage Museum is the second-largest art museum in the world. The public can visit five of the main buildings: the Winter Palace, Small Hermitage, Old Hermitage, New Hermitage and Hermitage Theatre. Frequently seen in pop culture. it often appears as a setting for films. TV series, novels and even video games. |
1. Tate Modem, London, UK is attractive partly in that.
A.it is a national museum with three branches |
B.entry to most of its exhibitions is free of charge |
C.its exhibitions range from ancient art to modern art |
D.visitors can purchase some wonderful exhibit items |
A.It often serves as a setting for films. |
B.It slays the same as it was when first built. |
C.It is the most visited art museum in the world. |
D.It was designed by a Chinese American architect. |
A.Tate Modern. London, UK. |
B.The Musee du Louvre, Paris, France. |
C.National Museum of China, Beijing. China. |
D.State Hermitage Museum, St Petersburg, Russia. |
【推荐2】Shanghai, the first Chinese mainland city to carry out a compulsory garbage classification regulation in July, is using intellectual platforms that can count the amount of garbage residents dump(倒)to promote recycling.
A residential area in Shanghai's Baoshan district is using 10 sets of such smart bins. Through data shown on the screen, staff of the platform will know the amount of garbage collected and when and who dumped them. The smart bin can also help social workers. For example, for elderly people living alone, a social worker will go to their home to check if the elderly people failed to dump garbage.
The "green fortune can!'' issued in 2016 by Shanghai environmental authorities is the base of the big data platform. The card is meant to encourage daily garbage sorting and to build an eco-friendly way of life in the city, according to the city government's website. Residents can swipe (刷)the card after selecting the waste type on a screen above the smart bins, and the bin will open automatically. After the trash is dumped, residents will receive corresponding points which they could exchange for small gifts.
The city government said more than 7.28 million Shanghai families have joined the project, and 6.31 million cards have been distributed. Residents and experts welcomed the use of high-tech equipment in garbage recycling, saying it is more convenient than expected.
But proper garbage handling and necessary construction should catch up to avoid such a good idea from becoming a formalism project, Luo Yameng, a Beijing-based urban-planning and eco-city expert, told the Global Times on Thursday.
In the future, the community's management company would also issue garbage bags attached with QR codes, which would make it convenient for management departments to track residents who break garbage recycling regulations.
The Global Times reporter found that similar measures have been applied in some areas in Beijing, which is drafting its own garbage recycling regulations.
1. How does the smart bin help social workers?A.By signaling when garbage is dumped. |
B.By offering data about where garbage is put. |
C.By tracing the people who dumped garbage. |
D.By showing how much garbage is collected. |
A.Swiping the card. |
B.Dumping the garbage. |
C.Selecting the waste type. |
D.The bin opens automatically. |
A.More and more families will be likely to join the project. |
B.Garbage classification needs to be open to further discussion. |
C.The use of high-tech equipment is much better than expected. |
D.Follow-up measures should be taken to guarantee the success. |
A.Green fortune card一a card for your family |
B.Shanghai gets tough with incorrect trash sorting |
C.Big data, smart devices help Shanghai sort garbage |
D.Compulsory garbage classification regulation in Shanghai |
【推荐3】The Internet has completely changed the workplace over the past three decades. Artificial Intelligence is now all set to do the same, and businesses that don't take advantage of the technology risk being left behind.
Global tech giants (巨头) like Amazon have been leading the change, and businesses of all sizes are now using the technology for employing and managing their staff.
Among them is L'Oreal. With about a million applicants for roughly 15,000 new positions each year, the company is using AI to hire.
“We really wanted to save time and focus more on quality, diversity and candidate experience. And AI solutions were the best way to go faster on these challenges, said Eva Azoulay, global vice-president of L'Oreal's Human Resources Department.
The company uses Mya, a chatbot, to save employers' time during the first stage of the process. It handles routine questions from candidates, and checks details such as availability and visa requirements. Should candidates make it to the next round, they’ll run into Seedlink, an AI software that scores applicants based on their answers to open-ended interview questions. These scores don't replace human judgment, said Azoulay, but they do pick out candidates who might not seem like obvious choices.
Early results have been promising. For one internship program, where 12,000 people apply for about 80 spots, employers claim they saved 200 hours of time while hiring the most diverse group to date.
Other businesses have gone beyond employment and are using AI to help manage employees. Some UK firms have started using Isaak, a system designed by the London-based company StatusToday, to track how many hours staff spend online and the number of emails they receive. London real estate agent JBrown has been using this system since March. CEO James Brown said it helps the firm understand employees' habits and prevent them from overworking. “It enables us to solve bottleneck problems and relieve overburdened employees,” he said.
Despite these examples of good practice, there is still a long way for AI to reach its full potential (潜力), and the technology comes with risks. Another AI danger could be its impact on jobs through automation (自动化). McKinsey predicts AI could add $13 trillion to the global economy by 2030, with early adopters doubling their cash flow over that period. But the demand for repetitive (重复的) or digitally-unskilled jobs could drop by around 10%, the consulting firm said in a 2018 report.
1. What can we learn about AI technology from Paragraph 1?A.It causes a great problem in workplace. |
B.It will replace the Internet in the future. |
C.It requires businesses to invest much money. |
D.It will become a necessary part of business. |
A.pick out the most suitable candidates directly |
B.come up with more questions unlimitedly |
C.improve the company's hiring efficiency |
D.save money by replacing human judgment |
A.prevent their employees from surfing the Internet |
B.force their employees to form good working habits |
C.monitor the contents of all their employees' emails |
D.help their employees avoid being overstressed at work |
A.setting examples |
B.making comparisons |
C.examining differences |
D.following the time order |
【推荐1】Layton Guenther recently took a break from work to talk about moving from a wealthy neighborhood near New York City to a farm on Long Island. “Farming----where I grew up----was a very unusual career choice,” said the 32-year -old American.”But everybody belongs to the land in their own way. None of us should feel separated from it.”
Guenther was brought up in a rich town outside New York, where most people never think about working on a farm. Today Guenther grows potatoes, pumpkins,wheat and other crops at Quail Hill, New York. She is one of a growing number of college-educated Americans in their 20s and 30s who are changing the face of organic farming.
In the United States organic farming is a growing industry. Some of the best-known organic farms on Long Island are operated by women. Women make up a little more than 37 percent of all organic farmers nationwide. They represent 36 percent of all commercial farmers. Experts predict women’s share in farming is likely to increase. One reason organic farmers are more popular is that their smaller size means less money is needed to support them. The average organic farm is around 141 hectares, compared to 178 hectares for a commercial farm.
These new young farmers chose organic farming because of their desire to have an influence on society.
Guenther said that the farmers meant to protect natural resources for future generation, to fight against climate change and to feed their community good and healthy food.
Although organic farming is growing quickly, it comes with high labor costs and at times smaller harvests than commercial farming. So it can be a difficult business for new farmers. “When I look now at the starting of the farm, it seems really audacious,”Guenther said.”But in that environment ,in2008, everyone had lost their jobs and there was no work. So it didn’t feel strange to start something new,” she said.
1. What do we know about Guenther from the first two paragraphs ?A.She had no farming background. |
B.She hoped to become a wealthy farmer. |
C.She dreamed of farming during childhood. |
D.She created the age of organic farming in America. |
A.It is smaller in size. | B.It is modern farming. |
C.It has lower labor costs | D.It produces better harvests. |
A.To deal with unemployment | B.To make a difference to the world |
C.To experience a different career | D.To have healthy and natural food |
A.Rewarding | B.Exciting | C.Promising | D.Daring |
【推荐2】Raised in a motherless home, my father was extremely hard on us children. His attitude didn't soften as I grew into adulthood and went to college. I had to ride the bus whenever I came home. Though the bus stopped about two miles from home, Dad never met me, even in severe weather. If I grumbled, he'd say in his loudest father-voice, "That's what your legs are for!"
The walk didn't bother me as much as the fear of walking alone along the highway and country roads. I also felt less valued because my father didn't seem concerned about my safety. But that feeling was canceled one spring evening.
It had been a particularly difficult week at college after long hours in labs. I was eager for home. When the bus reached the stop, I stepped off and dragged my suitcase to begin the long journey home.
A row of hedge edged the driveway that climbed the hill to our house. Once I had turned off the highway to start the last lap of my journey, I always had a sense of relief to see the hedge because it meant that I was almost home. On that particular evening, the hedge had just come into view when I saw something gray moving along the top of the hedge, moving toward the house. Upon closer observation, I realized it was the top of my father's head. Then I knew, each time I came home, he had stood behind the hedge, watching, until he knew I had arrived safely. I swallowed hard against the tears. He did care, after all.
On later visits, that spot of gray became my watchtower. I could hardly wait until I was close enough to watch for its secret movement above the greenery. On reaching home, I would find my father sitting innocently in his chair. "So! My son, it's you!" he'd say, his face lengthening into pretended surprise.
I replied, "Yes, Dad, it's me. I'm home. "
1. What made the author feel upset?A.The tiredness after long hours in labs. | B.The feeling of being less valued. |
C.The fear of seeing something moving. | D.The loneliness of riding the bus home. |
A.he was concerned about his son's safety |
B.he wanted to help his son build up courage |
C.he didn't want to meet his son at the doorway |
D.he didn't think his son was old enough to walk alone |
A.Riding Bus Alone | B.My College Life |
C.My Father's Secret | D.Terrible Journey Home |
【推荐3】For the past 40 years I’ve done the same thing-teaching. We know why kids drop out from school. It’s poverty, low attendance, or bad classmate influences. But above all is the value and importance of human connection, relationships.
A colleague said to me one time, “They don’t pay me to like the kids. They pay me to teach a lesson. That’s all Well, I said to her, “You know, kids don’t learn from people they don’t like. Your year is going to be long and boring, dear.”
I have had classes that were so low that I cried. I wondered, “how am I going to take this group in nine months from where they are to where they need to be?”And it was difficult. And so — I gave a quiz, 20 questions. A student missed 18. I put a “+2”on his paper and a big smiley face. He said, “Ms. Pierson, is this an F?” I said, “Because you got two right. You didn’t miss them all. And when we review this, won’t you do better?” He said, “Yes, madam, I can do better.”
You see, “-18” sucks (抽取) all the life out of you, “+2” said, “I am not all bad. ”
Can we stand to have more relationships? Of course not. And you know your toughest kids are never absent.
Teaching and learning should bring joy. Every child deserves a champion, and an adult who will never give up on them should believe they become the best that they can possibly be.
1. According to the author, some students left school when young mainly because .A.they could not afford the education |
B.they didn’t get on well with the teachers |
C.the schools couldn’t admit so many students |
D.they followed the examples of their classmates |
A.he felt hurt by the teacher |
B.he felt ashamed at the result |
C.he felt pleased to have passed the exam |
D.he felt doubtful about what the teacher meant |
A.Caring and considerate. |
B.Ambitious and sympathetic. |
C.Strict and demanding. |
D.Sociable and Creative. |