How to Love Your Parents
Even if you think that your parents are mean-spirited at times , loving your parents is a normal and fulfilling part of life. You love them for the fact that they created you, raised you, and are in part, a source of who you are.
A gentle “good morning” and “I love you” will warm a coldest heart. Remember that they brought you into this world. Without your parents, we might still wander at an unknown corner in an unknown world.
Respect them more and cherish these moments. You can use these moments to learn from them when you're off on your own. It's OK to get angry but angry actions don't help you or your parents. Act calmly, cool off, write down your feelings, or talk to a friend.
Obey their requests. It will make your attitude better and earn you more respect from them. It may seem like you are going through hell when you don't get what you want or you have to clean. However, you had better remember they keep a roof over your head when it's cold, raining, snowing, or too hot. Understand that parents are human beings and make mistakes.
Keep company with them. Do things with your parents like watching TV, or go somewhere with them.
Some people simply may not be able to love their parents.
A.Parents will in turn express their love to you. |
B.Forgiveness is the key. |
C.Here are some ways to love your parents. |
D.There can be realistic reasons for this, family violence for example. |
E.Anyway, spend as much time with them as you can. |
F.After this, share your feelings with your parents. |
G.Please remember parents are as important as friends. |
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【推荐1】How to accept change in life and embrace it positively
Change is the only constant in life.
Accept the situation
Changes happen expectedly and unexpectedly.
Embrace the unknown
Most of us are afraid of the unknown and therefore are resistant to change.
One of the reasons change is difficult to accept is because of the range of emotions we feel when we confront change.
A.Acknowledge your fears. |
B.Look at how far you have come. |
C.The sooner we learn to make peace with this fact, the better. |
D.We fear the unknown because anything can happen to us there. |
E.Expected or planned changes can buy us sometime for preparation. |
F.It’s important to embrace your feelings and accept that they are there. |
G.People who have experienced the loss of loved ones often talk about how that experience changed them. |
【推荐2】A recent research shows that most people while attending their very first or second interview face the problem of interview nerves. This interview nerves simply make them nervous and depressed. This mainly happens due to lack of confidence and belief in oneself. Most of them even suffer from sleepless nights.
They feel as if interviews are nothing but a questioning by an unknown person who will judge them by their answers. They simply can’t understand or comprehend that the interviews are as beneficial for them as for the company.
To overcome these problems, people need to make their mind set for facing the interview full of confidence. This can be done by building up confidence that this job is for me only. They need to make preparations for the estimated questions to be asked in the interview. They also need to be familiar with a few details of the company like its products, vision, recent achievement, etc. This is just to have an upper hand in the interview so that you can explain that you are the right candidate for the company. One must be completely relaxed before the interview. Because stress is one of the major reasons which reduces one’s performance ability.
Another way of getting over with your nerves is by a well-known therapy called as hypnosis. Hypnosis is a very effective therapy which is generally used for curing nerves of Examinations, Interviews, Meetings, etc. Hypnosis mainly activates your subconscious mind so that you are extra alert and attentive what you are doing. Thus this gives you a lot more confidence to deal with.
Now here are some of the tips you must follow for your interview.
• You must be fully prepared for the interview and you must possess everything required.
• You must maintain a complete eye contact with the interviewer, because it will show your confidence.
• You must not do any nervous acts like being uneasy, fixing your tie or touching your clothes dress again and again.
• Be positive while talking and use your hands to express yourself.
• With hypnosis you can come in terms with such a situation and will be well prepared to face a series of questions that come your way.
1. People feel nervous while attending interview in that________.A.they doesn’t sleep well | B.they lack confidence |
C.they doesn’t know about the company | D.they are afraid to miss the chance |
A.know about | B.care about | C.talk about | D.bring about |
A.1 | B.2 | C.3 | D.4 |
A.To show that he or she knows a lot | B.To express his or her wish |
C.To have an upper hand in the interview | D.To fool the interviewer |
A.To help overcome interview nerves | B.To tell people the meaning of interview nerves |
C.To tell people how to attend interviews | D.To help people become more confident |
【推荐3】How do you express gratitude in your everyday life? For me, it sometimes feels worrying: hand-writing hundreds of thank you cards after an anniversary, or making sure to eat every last bite on my plate so my grandma wouldn’t think I was ungrateful for the meal.
Start a gratitude journal or write a letter. Make it a habit to put down the things that you’re thankful for.
Bear in mind the difference between saying “thanks to” and “thanks for”. Being grateful “for” something can be a little unclear or general.
A.Stretch your gratitude muscle. |
B.Notice the world surrounding you. |
C.Better still, deliver it in person and read it to them. |
D.A habitual gratitude journal will certainly benefit us. |
E.But experts say it doesn’t have to be that complicated. |
F.In fact, this habit reduces materialism and enhances generosity. |
G.Being grateful “to” something or someone implies a direct relationship. |
【推荐1】For parents the most stressful years in parenting are perhaps the time when their kids turn into teenagers. Some parents have a strong belief that a strict approach to parenting the kids is a must. Others believe that it is best to give teenagers a free hand.
Encourage discussion.
Make use of the problem areas in your teen's development as an opportunity to teach him or her tricks of good decision-making.
Follow rules.
If you have set rules for your teen to follow, then make sure you are strict in them. A teen who knows that there are certain rules that cannot be overlooked will make an effort to follow them.
Do not ignore your teenager’s unfriendly attitude or regard it as normal teen behavior. If you ignore this at the start, then you will have to face all the more difficult situations later. Mind signs which can point towards such behavior as sleeping late, missing classes, etc.
Help set goals.
Parents often make the mistake of setting unreasonable goals for their teens. The expectations you have should be dependent on the abilities of your kids. Never shout at them if they fall short of their goals.
A.Instead, encourage them and help them to find their faults and weaknesses. |
B.However, the teen will not act this way if you are not firm about the whole thing. |
C.Parents should enjoy some sports with their kids. |
D.Parents should recognize that teen years are the time when kids want more personal space. |
E.Both these approaches are, however, right and wrong. |
F.This will turn him or her into a responsible adult. |
G.If you see any such sign, talk to him or her without overreacting. |
【推荐2】Over Half of Young Chinese Block Parents on WeChat Moments
We all know the feeling-you want to check what someone you care about has been up to on social media, and suddenly you find you are denied access to their feeds. It’s an instant start of mixed emotions and speculations-when did this happen? Did do anything wrong? What are they attempting to hide from me?
And that’s what half of Chinese parents have to deal with when they try to browse their children’s WeChat Moments, also known as “Friends’ Circle”, as suggested by a recent survey released by Tencent, the Chinese Internet giant. According to the report, entitled Annual White Paper on Family Affection on WeChat Moments, about 52 percent of WeChat users aged 18 to 29 block their parents on Moments, a major feature on the platform that allows users to share everything they like with their WeChat contacts.
About 62 percent of the young interviewees said that parents “are neurotic about everything,” along with reasons such as fear of parents’ disapproval, rejection to parents’ nagging(唠叨), and seeking privacy. “My parents don’t know Moments very well, so I just told them I don’t use it anymore,” said Qin Jianping, a 28-year-old Xie Yun, a 26-year-old, said that while she didn’t block her parents entirely, they were in a specific group to which she only shares positive posts. “I don’t want my parents to see minor setbacks in my life, she said.
The report also found that more than 49 percent of Chinese parents use WeChat as a main channel to communicate with their children When asked how they would react to being blocked, some parents said they would initiate a conversation with their children to find out the reason, while others said they wouldn’t care. And some parents just outsmart their kids in this hide-and-seek game online. “I didn’t realize I was blocked until I compared what I could see on my phone to what my son’s aunt could see,” said Chen, a mother of a 27-year-old son. I chose to remain silent on this and now I’m following my son’s posts through his aunt.”
1. Parents would like to read their children’s WeChat Moments because they _________.A.are too emotional and speculative. |
B.want to keep up with the trend of time. |
C.are concerned about their children’s lives. |
D.leave a lot of comments on their feeds. |
A.protect their privacy. | B.learn from parents’ nagging. |
C.challenge parental authority. | D.maintain a positive state. |
A.criticize parents. | B.support the young. |
C.entertain readers. | D.analyse a phenomenon. |
【推荐3】My father was attached to gardening by birth. One of my earliest memories is following Dad barefoot around in the garden with both hands blackened from digging (挖) in the soil. The garden is a wonderland full of possibilities.
As Dad grew older, he still loved gardening. Even when he was diagnosed with cancer, he still planted all sorts of plants. Sometimes, I would come over to visit. and we would walk together in the garden. But then something changed. Like the weeds that took over his garden, the cancer grew rapidly in Dad. I stayed with Dad twenty-four hours a day and I found myself in all kinds of uncomfortable situations with Dad until I promised to look after the garden.
Though I had heard the words of the doctor, what really made me believe that Dad was dying was the state of his garden. That year, he only planted tomatoes. Too tired to weed them, he just tied them with strong strings (绳子) to the fence and let them be. It made me sad to see them ignored, so I would come over and water them once in a while, and remove the weeds. I still remember the day I picked the last tomato from the vine (藤). That day was one of the saddest I had ever experienced in my life.
Three years ago, I decided to plant my own garden. I decided I would start out with a few tomatoes. That morning when I moved to the garden, something caught the corner of my eyes and I had to smile. It was my eight-year-old son Nathan, standing barefoot in the soil, happily playing in the soil.
1. Why did the author like his father’s garden when he was a child?A.It was a field that produced much food. |
B.It was a wonderful place with unexpected surprise. |
C.It was a place where he got educated. |
D.It was a piece of land covered with black soil. |
A.His son. | B.His illness. | C.His garden. | D.His grandson. |
A.That the garden wasn’t taken good care of by his father. |
B.His communication with his father. |
C.The condition of his father. |
D.The words of the doctor. |
A.He remembered his father. | B.He thought of the food he would get. |
C.His son showed interest in the garden. | D.He could look after his own garden. |