Family conflict affects everyone.
●
●Encourage everyone to control their feelings. It's not uncommon for tensions to run high when discussing family conflict.
●Try hard for forgiveness. Even if you were not directly involved in the argument, you are probably affected by the atmosphere in some way. Choose forgiveness. Remember, you can't control someone else's actions but you can control your own response. You can also encourage other family members to forgive.
●Work on fixing the relationships.
A.Think about everyone's view |
B.Have a healthy discussion |
C.There may be times when people get sensitive and angry |
D.If there’s an ongoing argument between family members |
E.Although it's not your job to offer exact causes of action |
F.If a family member reacts very violently to an unimportant affair |
G.However, remember you cannot force someone to feel a particular way |
相似题推荐
【推荐1】How to Have a Good Sleep
What should you do to have a good sleep? The following are some tips.
Make your bedroom completely black.
Our brain associates light with day.
Make your bedroom quiet.
Sounds can decrease your sleep quality.
Block blue light.
The blue light from equipment like phones, TVs and computers can do harm to your sleep quality. The best thing would be to avoid using such equipment three hours before bedtime. But we all know that's not going to happen.
Be smart about what you eat and drink.
What you eat and drink can greatly affect your sleep quality.
Write down three things you're grateful for before you go to sleep. It can help you feel relaxed, healthy and happy and increase your sleep quality by 25%. Calm yourself down and focus on your breath. Feel the air coming in and going through your body. Then feel it flowing out. This exercise can give you a clear mind.
A.Relax and clear your head. |
B.And it associates darkness with night. |
C.Sleep at the perfect temperature. |
D.Here are some suggestions on how to eat and drink. |
E.Exercise can increase your sleep quality by 65%. |
F.They can even wake you up and keep you awake for the night. |
G.Fortunately, technology can help us by removing most blue light from the screen. |
【推荐2】If you’re feeling tired and stressed because you have too much going on, like lots of afterschool activities, you will feel better when you give something up. Sometimes lots of activities—even if they’re all fun—can make you feel stressed by keeping you busy all the time. On the other hand, if problems at home are troubling you, in fact some afterschool activities may help you relax and feel better.
There are also relaxing exercises that you can use to keep stress away. The easiest one is to breathe in slowly and deeply through your nose, and then exhale slowly through your mouth. Do this two to four times.
You can do breathing exercises anytime. You can even do breathing exercises in class if you’re nervous before a test.
The best way to keep stress away is to have a balanced life. That means making good decisions about how to spend your time. If you’re always busy with schoolwork and have no time to play, you can get stressed. Make sure you keep yourself in mind: sleep, exercise, leisure (something fun), and food.
If you take care of yourself and get enough sleep and food, and if you exercise and leave time for fun, you’ll probably be less stressed out!
1. What may help if you have problems at home according to the passage?A.Doing a parttime job. | B.Doing some houseworks. |
C.Doing some afterschool activities. | D.Watching TV. |
A.do exercise anytime | B.make good decisions about how to spend time |
C.get much food to eat | D.do breathing exercises in class |
A.Doing exercise can’t help you keep stress away. |
B.Get enough sleep and you will never be stressed out. |
C.Being unhealthy makes you tired and stressed. |
D.Too many activities can make you feel stressed. |
A.breathe in | B.breathe out | C.get on | D.get off |
【推荐3】Music is part of our life.
Pregnancy (孕期)
High Stress Tasks
Going to see the doctor or the dentist can be somewhat scary experiences. You might therefore want to request some calming music.
A.Medical Appointments |
B.Important Interviews |
C.Most people tend to use calming music. |
D.Many doctors actually already provide this. |
E.Parents hope their babies can grow under calming music. |
F.Science has proven that musical tones affect the brain waves. |
G.Gentle tunes can help you deal with stressful work well. |
【推荐1】Hi! My name is Rachel. I'm 14 years old, in the eighth grade, and I live on a dairy farm(牛奶场)in Michigan with my dad, mom, grandma and my 12-year-old brother, Andy. I want to tell you what life is like on a dairy farm!
On our dairy farm, we milk about 55 cows twice a day at five o'clock in the morning and five o'clock in the afternoon. We also have quite a few calves, some bulls and dry cows. Calves are babies, bulls are fathers of the calves, and dry cows are the adult cows who are pregnant(怀孕) and close to having their calves. So we don't milk the dry cow.
My brother and I help my dad with evening housework on school days. My mom works for the Michigan Department of Agriculture(密歇根农业部), so she helps out on the weekend. As we are at school or work on weekdays, my grandma helps my dad milk and feed the animals on weekday mornings. All of us are busy, but we all enjoy our farm life!
My favorite part of living on the farm is talking care of the baby animals. What I hate to do is have to get up so early, especially on the weekend!
When it's time to milk the cows, one person has to push the cows into the milk house, and another gets the cows ready for milking. If you look here, you can see milk flowing from the cow into a milk line and to the big milk tank(贮乳槽)in the milk house. It makes you thirsty, doesn't it?
1. Where does Rachel live?She
2. How often do Rachel's family members milk the cows?
They milk them
3. Why don't they milk the dry cows?
They don't milk them
4. Rachel's mom doesn't help with the housework during the week,does she?
5. What do you think of Rachel's family life?
Do you have family rules? Do you think they are good or terrible? Frank is a middle school student. He is always happy with his family rules. Do you want to know what the rules are?
Take exercise every day. On weekdays, Frank always plays tennis with his classmates for half an hour after school. And his parents run in the morning. On weekends, Frank’s family often play sports together.
Let evening time only be family time. They can’t watch TV or play games after dinner. The family usually sit on the sofa and have a talk. Frank likes to talk about his school and friends. Sometimes they take a walk to the park.
Always say “I love you” and “Thank you”. Frank says “I love you” to his parents every morning before he goes to school and every night before he goes to bed. And his parents say it to him, too. When they get help from other family members, they must say “Thank you”.
Frank likes every rule in his family because he thinks his family rules help him to keep healthy. Many students don’t like doing sports but Frank is different. He is good at sports and be looks healthy. And these rules also let his family live a happy life. To follow the rules, they must show their love and thanks to each other every day.
1. Do Frank’s parents say “I love you” and “Thank you” to him?2. How many rules in Frank’s family are mentioned in the passage?
3. Why does Frank like his family rules?
4. Do you like the rule “Take exercise every day”? Why or why not?
【推荐3】When we are little we do all kinds of foolish things, sometimes unwillingly and sometimes on purpose. And parents' next behavior is to punish us and make sure that we won't repeat foolish things.
At an early age parents punish their children as it follows: firstly, they don't allow children to watch TV for a couple of days; secondly, parents don't permit their children to go out and play with their friends; thirdly, children are given different tasks to do—they have to write something several times or they have to stay in the corner of the room, until parents decide to "free" them.
When in their teens, children can receive other types of punishment Most parents punish children by not giving them pocket money, which is the best from of punishment for them. Then, they forbid children to go out on weekends or return home after a certain hour. Besides, parents also refuse to give them food. It means that children have to prepare meals alone as they have no other choice.
Sometimes, these forms of punishment have positive(积极的) results and children won't repeat the bad things they have done. However, if a child is used to doing bad things then all these punishments will be of no importance to him or her. He or she will carry out the punishment and after a short period of time will do another one.
1. Parents punish the children to ________ according to the passage.A.stop them doing the foolish things |
B.help them get good grades |
C.do something by themselves |
D.help them make good friends |
A.He isn't allowed to watch TV for a few days. |
B.He can't be permitted to go out and play with friends. |
C.He has to do all kinds of tasks. |
D.He has to cook meals by himself. |
A.He can't get the pocket money. |
B.He can't go out on weekends. |
C.He has to return home after a certain hour. |
D.He can't eat the meals prepared by parents. |