Every person is unique. Although you can find a common interest, there will always be individual differences in the way each of you was raised. To maintain harmony in a relationship with another person, you should try to understand these differences. It will be full of obstacles (障碍), but don’t worry.
When you deal with a person who is different from you, try to learn more about him by spending some of your time talking to him.
Show respect to the differences of a person.
Make connections with the person who is different from you.
A.Share some details regarding your life |
B.That’s what you call a cultural difference |
C.All you just need to do is to follow these tips |
D.Everyone has a right to be treated with respect |
E.But it does not mean you need to always agree with him |
F.By doing so, you can see what makes him different from you |
G.You may invite him to a gathering or discuss something both of you enjoy |
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【推荐1】How to Make a Chinese Hot Pot
Eating a Chinese hot pot is a very common experience. People gather around the pot, dipping their food, waiting for it to cook, mixing their own seasonings(调味品)and enjoying each other’s company. Below are some easy steps to make a Chinese hot pot at home.
Firstly, prepare a large pot of soup.
Then, cut a variety of meats and fish into thin slices.
A.Finally, arrange the seating reasonably |
B.Now comes the turn to enjoy your hot pot |
C.There is no right or wrong way to do so |
D.It will guarantee that the items will cook quickly and fully |
E.For more variety, consider dumplings, rice cakes and tangyuan |
F.Popular choices include: cabbage, pea leaves, winter melon and tomato |
G.It usually lasts a couple of hours because you are cooking and eating in small parts |
【推荐2】Most of us don't have millions of dollars to go door- to-door to persuade people to care about climate change. But most of us do have parents.
It might be a hard conversation. If you do accept this challenge, here are a few suggestions
Share a couple of informative articles on the topic. Bill McKibben's article in Rolling Stone is great and very readable.
Once these unpleasant facts are laid out, making it clear that you aren't blaming them for this. Your parents likely made their decisions with a strong sense of morality and social responsibility, and could only make those decisions based on the information they had at the time.
Encourage them to buy environmentally- friendly goods and services as much as possible. Talk to them about trying to avoid using non-renewable resources and make it clear that this will not be enough.
A.Warn them to care about the change. |
B.Talk to them with love and respect. |
C.There is no need to flood them with data. |
D.So let's talk to them about climate change. |
E.There are a lot of interesting articles about climate change in it. |
F.Therefore, if they have done something improperly, it is not their fault. |
G.This is a challenge that requires us all to act as citizens, not just as consumers. |
【推荐3】Nowadays many people realize kitchen gardening helps reduce their carbon emissions (排放) and save them hard-earned cash and choose to grow their own food.
Select your garden location. You don’t need a plot of land to grow your own food. You can grow inside or outside.
Select your plants. After that, you’re ready to choose which plants will work best for your garden. If you’ve got a yard, you have your choice of beans, root vegetables, fruit trees, berries, and herbs.
Choose good soil. If your yard garden has quality soil, you can plant food in it. Otherwise, you may choose purchased soil in raised beds. You’ll see a difference when using high-end organic soil.
Enjoy your harvest. Nothing tastes better than the food you grew yourself, and after all your hard work gardening, you deserve a celebration.
A.Feed your plants nutrients. |
B.Water deeply and infrequently. |
C.Invite some friends over for dinner. |
D.Of course, whether to celebrate is up to you. |
E.So we designed this guide to help you grow your own food. |
F.Even a well-lit window can grow vegetables in small containers. |
G.Container gardeners often favor tomatoes, onions, and small fruit trees. |
【推荐1】Life is full of surprises and events that sometimes change one’s daily routine. Some of them might be good and pleasant.
Have a positive attitude. Not all unexpected events are bad.
Always focus on the present moment, learning from it and making use of new changes that come your way. In other words, make the most of the present moment, instead of thinking about what you lost, or how bad the situation is.
Introduce small changes into your life.
A.This is useless and is a waste of time. |
B.Admit the fact that unexpected events are part of life. |
C.However, there are some that are bad and unpleasant. |
D.Think before speaking when facing unexpected events. |
E.This will help you deal more easily with unexpected events. |
F.Sometimes what seems like a problem could be a good thing. |
G.It would be much more useful to think about the new situation. |
【推荐2】Most people don't need convincing that happy relationships are the key to a successful life. When Harvard researchers followed 268 men for more than 70 years, the study's founding director summarized its finding with a single sentence: Happiness is love.
The magic ratio(比例)for happy relationships
The piece comes from newsletter The Profile. Just seven days married, Polina Marinova asked The Profile readers for their best marriage tips.
A real thing for other relationships, too
It's important to note that the 5:1 ratio was not invented merely for couples.
A.Humans are, as we all know, complex. |
B.It’s a handy standard to keep in mind for all relationships. |
C.The whole article is worth a read due to the excellent advice. |
D.The tips were finally collected by a love expert John Gottman. |
E.This ratio is actually backed by decades of research by John Gottman. |
F.However, marriage life can be far happier if the 5:1 ratio is carried out. |
G.The study also shows loving relationships improve your physical health and job satisfaction. |
【推荐3】We’ve all been there—you’ve sent a message and it’s marked “read”, but you haven’t heard anything back. What’s the deal? While being left on read (已读不回) can be confusing, it’s also pretty common.
Expect the best. Remind yourself that the person is probably just busy. Ask yourself if you actually know their schedule. There could be some time commitments you aren’t aware of. Here are a few other reasons for a delayed response.
Resist the temptation (诱惑) to double-text.
Read over your previous messages. See if there are any confusing texts that you need to clarify. It’s okay if you review your message again and notice that it might have been a little unclear—it happens!
A.Put your phone away. |
B.Fix your attention closely on text responses. |
C.Give them a little space so they have a chance to reply. |
D.They want to give you a longer response but can’t right now. |
E.Ask yourself why being left on “read” frustrates or confuses you. |
F.You can keep the situation from bothering you until you hear back. |
G.You might feel relieved when you find something that is easy to misread. |
【推荐1】Teamwork Doubles the Strength
Admittedly, teamwork is literally important for any class or team to achieve its goals and objectives. Let me give three reasons why it is advantageous.
As individuals, we possess diverse talents, strengths, weaknesses and experiences. A team is just like a tapestry (织锦) that weaves what each of us possesses, resulting in an end product that is diverse yet homogenous (同种类的). As team members exchange thoughts and experiences, there can be more efficiency and effectiveness at problem-solving. This pooling of talents can also lead to greater innovation and success.
Next, teamwork means members share the workload. When work is distributed and each of us in a team specializes in specific tasks, the stress on each of us is reduced and the completion of tasks before deadline is ensured:
Some may think that working in isolation (单独) is more efficient since more time is taken when cooperating with others. For more talented individuals, working alone means being the star of a project.
A.Take Leicester City for example |
B.Thus we can expect greater job satisfaction |
C.Team members can also be divided in opinions |
D.They don’t need to share the success with others |
E.Let’s not wave away the chance to work in teams |
F.And finally working in a team multiplies learning opportunities |
G.We learn to respect differences in working styles and opinions, and develop trust |
【推荐2】By day, Robert Titterton is a lawyer. In his spare time though he goes on stage beside pianist Maria Raspopova — not as a musician but as her page turner. “I’m not a trained musician, but I’ve learnt to read music so I can help Maria in her performance.”
Mr Titterton is chairman of the Omega Ensemble but has been the group’s official page turner for the past four years. His job is to sit beside the pianist and turn the pages of the score so the musician doesn’t have to break the flow of sound by doing it themselves. He said he became just as nervous as those playing instruments on stage.
“A lot of skills are needed for the job. You have to make sure you don’t turn two pages at once and make sure you find the repeats in the music when you have to go back to the right spot.” Mr Titterton explained.
Being a page turner requires plenty of practice. Some pieces of music can go for 40 minutes and require up to 50 page turns, including back turns for repeat passages. Silent onstage communication is key, and each pianist has their own style of “nodding” to indicate a page turn which they need to practise with their page turner.
But like all performances, there are moments when things go wrong. “I was turning the page to get ready for the next page, but the draft wind from the turn caused the spare pages to fall off the stand,” Mr Titterton said, “Luckily I was able to catch them and put them back.”
Most page turners are piano students or up-and-coming concert pianists, although Ms Raspopova has once asked her husband to help her out on stage.
“My husband is the worst page turner,” she laughed. “He’s interested in the music, feeling every note, and I have to say: ‘Turn, turn!’ Robert is the best page turner I’ve had in my entire life.”
1. What should Titterton be able to do to be a page turner?A.Read music. | B.Play the piano. |
C.Sing songs. | D.Fix the instruments. |
A.Boring. | B.Well-paid. |
C.Demanding. | D.Dangerous. |
A.Counting the pages. | B.Recognizing the “nodding”. |
C.Catching falling objects. | D.Performing in his own style. |
A.He has very poor eyesight. | B.He ignores the audience. |
C.He has no interest in music. | D.He forgets to do his job. |
【推荐3】In the days before air conditioning, a wife and her husband were visiting her parents in a small town. As they were relaxing one day, the wife’s father suggested that they all drive to Abilene for dinner. The son-in-law dreaded the hot drive to a town 53 miles away, but said OK to avoid being a rude guest. The wife and mother-in-law both said it sounded good, so they went off.
Having the not very good food and returning home hot and sweaty, the mother-in-law said they would never have taken the terrible trip if it had been up to her. The son-in-law said that he chose to agree because the others wanted to go. Finally, the father-in-law said he only suggested it because he thought the younger couple might be bored at home.
This story happened to Jerry B. Harvey who later became a university professor. In 1974 he told it in an article entitled, “The Abilene Paradox (悖论): The Management of Agreement”, which shows that sometimes a consensus (一致) of opinion may not lead to achieving the desired result. The Abilene paradox sounds like groupthink. But in fact, groupthink members are voting according to their conscience (是非感) while Abilene “paradoxers” are not.
Going along to get along arises from a desire to avoid conflict and unwillingness to be seen as the “spoiler” who criticizes ideas and plans that others favor. The choice to go against one’s conscience to please the group produces cognitive dissonance (认识失调), and could involve personal risk to relationships or career or both.
The only way for either groupthink or the Abilene paradox in planning or decision-making situations is to avoid agreeing publicly with something you disagree with privately. You can’t control what others in the group do, but at least you can speak up, “I’ll go if everyone else wants to, but I’d be just happy to stay here and relax”.
1. What do we know about the son-in-law?A.He was good at pleasing others. | B.He didn’t want to take the trip. |
C.He behaved badly during the visit. | D.He was treated as an honored guest. |
A.She helped the family make a decision. | B.She suggested taking some food along. |
C.She had an argument with her family. | D.She made a complaint about the trip. |
A.It is difficult to make a balance. |
B.It is impossible to avoid a conflict. |
C.It is unnecessary to satisfy everyone. |
D.It is impolite to blame a person publicly. |
A.A man should find right ways to relax. |
B.A man should consider others’ ideas deeply. |
C.A man should actively participate in group discussions. |
D.A man should express himself directly in decision-making. |