A.Excited. | B.Exhausted. | C.Bored. | D.Dissatisfied. |
2 . Why We Hate the Feeling of Failure and How It Affects Us
Loss aversion is the idea that a potential loss has greater weight in a person's mind than the possible gain. People seek to avoid failure and the negative feelings they expect will come from such a loss.
More recently, social scientists have turned their at tent on to how loss aversion can hinder people from performing in their daily lives.
Sports and athletic performance was one of the first areas of focus. A study in May 2023 looked at how adult athletes were hindered by a fear of failure. It found that athletes who feared failure tended to approach an athletic event and appraise(评估) it for potential losses.
Losses weren't just related to the final numbers on the scoreboard. Rather, some athletes approached a practice or a game and saw it as a potential to perform poorly and lose standing with their coach, teammates or fellow athletes.
Not surprisingly, procrastination was shown to decrease academic performance.
While our fear of loss may impact our mindset and whether or not we pursue something new, if we let that fear take hold, then we’ve already lost. There for, don’t let fear of failure keep you from trying something new.
A.Researchers have examined how fear of failure can lead to-procrastination. |
B.The loss was seen as humiliating and something the athlete feared or wanted to avoid. |
C.Research has found this fear of failure drives people to stop pursuing their passions. |
D.However, the study found that it wasn't due to students prioritizing their social life or Netflix queue. |
E.Doubt has killed their dreams than failure ever will |
F.Loss a version has long been used to study consumer psychology. |
A.simple B.heard C.difficult D.faster E.personal F.shapes G.goal H.receive I.shared J.come K.happiness |
Everybody has different ways achieving happiness and the reasons for feeling happy may change from year to year, or even from day to day. For example, happiness may
The most important things to remember in your pursuit (追求) of
1. Happiness should not be your only
2. Happiness may come in all sizes and
3. Happiness is meant to be
Dear Sally,
I recently became engaged, I love my fiancé a lot but we are getting into a lot of arguments
It’s not a question whether we can afford it although I
——Nervous
Dear Nervous,
Planning weddings
Why don’t the two of you talk about
——Sally
A. steadily B. predicts C. biology D. temporary E. dramatic F. recovers G. permanent H. grounded I. expansion J. formed K. kindly |
Teens Are Still Developing Empathy Skills
The teen years are often full of door-slamming, eye-rolling and seeming insensitivity, even by kids who behaved
In adolescence, critical social skills that are needed for one to feel concern for other people and to understand how they think are undergoing major changes. Adolescence has long been known as prime time for developing cognitive skills for self-regulation and executive function.
“Cognitive empathy,” or the mental ability to take others’ perspective, begins to rise
Adolescent boys actually show a
This doesn’t mean, however, that we can do nothing but just wait for teenagers to develop a feeling of empathy. In fact, parents can help instill(灌输) affective empathy into their children. Affective empathy is
The findings reflect a major
6 . Years ago, I made friends with a couple who had recently fallen in love. It was glorious to be in their orbit, watching as their relationship blossomed into a serious commitment. I recall the night we celebrated their engagement, watching this golden couple swing each other on the dance floor, laughing while emitting a glow that could light a city grid.
As happy as I was for them, in that moment I couldn’t ignore a sudden heaviness of heart. That pang was back, whispering, “Why not me?”
It had been a long time between visits from the pang. In the past, it was a constant companion as I navigated life with naive notions of love, romance and fate. I had grown up believing a relationship should complete me. As a result, I often felt more lost than found as part of a couple.
Then as I matured, I took a closer look at those who I thought had it all, the ones who tick all the boxes, who look and act the romance-novel parts. And when I dared to explore under the shiny surfaces, I saw that no honest couple had what I’d assumed they had: the perfect relationship, the easy love, the lucky life.
No, what I saw was a lot of unhappiness. Yes, while some couples were both blissed and blessed, many admitted that their relationships were hardly the happily-ever-after.
What’s more, I grew to understand I avoided bad relationships and like my life too much to settle. I realized I am the cake and relationships just the icing. The pang only emerges when I make the mistake of comparing myself to others.
The reason why I’m sharing this is because in the past couple of weeks, I have watched that golden couple endure one of the ugliest break-ups. What I saw that night on the dance floor was a romantic illusion. When the bubble burst, the fall back to earth was terrible for them both.
Watching the break-up, I am aware that to protect perfection is to do reality an injustice. I accept the understanding that there is only one relationship that really counts in life and that is the one we have with ourselves. And mine is a healthy one, not golden, but rosy all the same, because as my friends’ split has proven once again, shine and sparkle can blind the rest of us.
1. What can we learn about the author from the first two paragraphs?A.She was moved to tears by the engagement of her friends. |
B.She didn’t really feel happy for the engagement of her friends. |
C.She had mixed feelings while seeing the engagement of her friends. |
D.She didn’t think her friends would live a happy life after their engagement. |
A.She was misguided to pursue the perfect love. |
B.She was too naive to find a perfect partner. |
C.She was keen on being a good partner. |
D.She was immature to control her fate. |
A.pursuing perfection does good to reality |
B.we should never stop looking for perfection |
C.what reality is all about is just perfection |
D.a perfect relationship is hard to find in life |
A.Accepting whatever you have in life. |
B.Living in harmony with yourself. |
C.Leading an admirable and happy life. |
D.Having a golden relationship. |
A.It was quite a success. | B.It was huge. |
C.It was terrible. | D.The music was good. |
A.Curious. | B.Confident. |
C.Casual. | D.Hopeless. |
The Bennets had made plans to dine with the Lucases. And during the main part of the day Miss Lucas was kind enough to spend a lot of time listening sympathetically to Mr. Collins. Elizabeth made sure to thank her, but Charlotte assured her friend that she was happy to be useful, and
This was very kind, but Charlotte’s kindness went further than Elizabeth
But here she underestimated him, because the very next morning he rushed to Lucas Lodge to swear his love to her. In as short
Charlotte did not think highly of men, but marriage
What she liked the least about the arrangement was the surprise
In a private meeting with Elizabeth, she told her of the news. Elizabeth was so astonished that she could not help but
Understanding Your Loved Ones
Eight months after my father died, I saw some letters on top of my mother’s coffee table. They were written decades ago
“Would you like me to read them to you?” Mom asked with a hint of a smile. The letters
I sat back and listened while my mother read his letters to me, and thought, “Who is this guy?” My father was proud and stubborn (固执的), and he married a woman who was his equal in that regard. During their 58-year marriage, their stubbornness often
As children, we often assume we know
These letters are only part of their correspondence. My mother also wrote back to my father. I begged her to read them to me, but she only smiled. I don’t want to enter her heart’s most sacred place uninvited unless she wishes