1 . We all want to know what happiness means and try to find ways to help make our life better. Happiness — you know it when you see it, but it’s hard to define. You might call it a sense of well-being, optimism or meaningfulness in life, although those could also be treated separately.
We also know that we don’t always have control over our happiness. Research suggests that genetics may play a big role in our level of happiness, so some of us may start out at a disadvantage. On top of that, environmental factors can bring down mood and dry up our thirst for living.
A 2022 review of more than 200 studies found a connection between positive psychological features, such as happiness, optimism and life satisfaction, and a lowered risk of heart disease.
If what you mean by happiness is specifically “enjoyment of life”, there’s newer evidence to support that, too. A study in the Canadian Medical Association Journal found that people aged 60 and over who said they enjoyed life less were more likely to develop disability over an 8-year period.
A.But whatever happiness really is. |
B.It might take more work if your mood is low. |
C.For now these studies can only show associations. |
D.That refers to the person, and the situation he or she is in. |
E.Being able to travel around was also related to enjoyment of life. |
F.To manage our emotions is important for both our body and mind. |
G.It’s not as simple as “you must be happy to prevent heart attacks”, though. |
2 . The voice within can guide you toward development and optimism. But sometimes, that inner dialogue also presents a critical voice.
Choose your friend circle wisely. If you want to live a happy life, it’s important to surround yourself with people who want to see you do good.
Shift your mindset toward growth. A growth mindset is a belief that your talents are developable over time. A person with a growth mindset tends to be less likely to suffer mental health problems. So do develop a growth mindset!
Choose to respond rather than react. Often, when someone feels triggered (激怒), they react without thinking.
A.Identify negative thoughts. |
B.Learn from negative thoughts. |
C.It points out shortcomings, limitations and worries. |
D.As a result, they usually end up saying something they may regret. |
E.Are you feeling there are repetitive thoughts circling around your head? |
F.In this way, you’ll be more determined to achieve happiness and success. |
G.A saying goes that you’re the average of the five people you spend time with. |
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3. 期待保持联系。
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4 . Staying in on a Friday might feel like a good idea—you could really use the “alone time” after a busy week—until you get on Instagram. You see your friends eating at that new restaurant you have been wanting to try, and then you start watching another friend’s story before they set out on an exciting road trip.
Suddenly, that alone time you chose doesn’t feel so good anymore. You feel like it’s boring to stay at home—you may even question the purpose of your very existence. Don’t worry, that anxiety is common—and not that new. You are experiencing FOMO, or the fear of missing out.
We are always comparing ourselves to people around us, but sometimes that self-comparison can lead to some pretty bad feelings. “FOMO” is about having thoughts on missing out on opportunities which might increase our happiness,” says Dr. Aarti Gupta. “Humans are social beings and depend on each other to survive, and being left out or not being in the know could have, once upon a time, been a matter of life or death.”
If you find yourself comparing yourself to others in a way that doesn’t feel productive, Gupta recommends practicing an abundance mindset: “This means remembering that there are plenty of opportunities to go around for everyone, and just because someone else found success doesn’t mean that you won’t.” So next time you see someone else win, try congratulating them instead of feeling unhappy.
So the next Friday night you decide to stay in, keep in mind that we are always missing out on something. Choosing one activity or path simply means you’ll miss out on others.
“I think the irony of all of it is that it’s called FOMO, the fear of missing out. But actually, what it is doing is that it’s making you miss out on today and that comfortable bed that you are in right now, or the job that you’re in right now or the relationship that you are in right now because you are so worried about what else is out there,” says Gupta. You can fight FOMO simply by being more fully present and invested in the life you have today.
1. What would make you experience FOMO when staying at home?A.Having dinner alone. | B.Having nothing to do. |
C.Hearing friends’ bad news. | D.Seeing friends’ colorful life. |
A.The effect of FOMO. | B.How to avoid FOMO. |
C.The reason for FOMO. | D.How to deal with FOMO. |
A.Being more creative. | B.Being less competitive. |
C.Being less self-doubting. | D.Being more self-dependent. |
A.Making more new friends. | B.Living in the here and now. |
C.Following your own feelings. | D.Taking part in more activities. |
5 . Birthday depression (沮丧), also known as the birthday blues, is being not interested in celebrating your birthday. It might occur to you, especially if you are fearful of getting older. Symptoms (症状) can include feeling low, crying more than usual, a lack of energy and a desire to avoid birthday celebrations.
●Allow your feelings to appear. We tend to connect birthdays with celebrations and positive experiences, but that may not be the case for everyone.
●Practice awareness and self-compassion (自我同情). Pay attention to your thoughts and feelings and be kind to yourself during the process.
●Talk about your experience with someone you trust. Share your feelings with a friend or family member who has similar experiences.
●Celebrate in your own way. You don’t have to follow traditional ways of celebrating. Do what feels right for you, whether that’s a quiet day at home or a small gathering with close friends. Remember it’s your day.
A.Talking openly can provide comfort |
B.Having them doesn’t make you lonely |
C.If you increase your awareness about your feelings |
D.You prepare for your birthday with healthy activities |
E.If you are not feeling excited or happy during this time |
F.Don’t feel shame if you experience birthday depression |
G.Luckily, there are several tips you can try to deal with it |
6 . If your stress-response is always on, your immune system suffers and your blood pressure increases.
The first way to start your relaxation mode is to breathe. Now, you may be saying, “I breathe all day. If I didn’t, I’d be dead.”
Practice Imagination
You can experience that relaxation mode by trying imagination. My favorite is to imagine I’m on a beach. I use all five senses to try to bury myself in the imagined experience of relaxation on a beach. I try to smell the ocean air and see and hear the waves.
Play Pretend
A.That’s kind of true |
B.Breathing Exercises |
C.Focus On Your Senses |
D.And you will easily get into anxiety and depression |
E.A little physical exercise could help you better yourself fast |
F.I’ve also created another exercise that requires me to play pretend |
G.Practice imagination can help us decrease stress by shifting our focus |
When the final school bell rang, Eli walked home as usual. His trip took him across the playground, past the T-shirt factory, and across the main street. From there, Eli often cut through a blank lot (空地) where a house used to be. The house burned down years ago, but there were still flowers and trees to show that people used to live there. Everything was usual, but everything was immersed (沉浸在) in Eli’s sadness.
At that time, Eli watched a blue jay (蓝松鸦) fly into the old maple tree at the blank lot. The bird sat on a low branch and screamed loudly. It was as if the blue jay knew that he was sad, for he had failed his math test again. And he wrote a letter to Aunt Lucy. But Aunt Lucy did not reply to him.
When he got home, there was something in his mailbox. He found it was from Aunt Lucy, who lived in a different town. Upon opening it, his eyes widened with delight. It was a letter he looked forward to and a book! Eli read the letter.
Dear Eli, You told me that you didn’t do well in math. I hope you don’t give up and don’t get discouraged by a few failures. Because you once told me that you wanted to be a math teacher when you grew up and helped more children. I gave you a book. It’s about a great scientist you liked, I hoped you, like him, had been studying hard and sticking to your dream.
Love,
Aunt Lucy
After reading Aunt Lucy’s letter and receiving her encouragement, Eli’s sad mood improved a lot. Eli took the book and rushed to show it to his father, saying that it was the best gift he had ever received. His father smiled, noting Eli’s happy smile. Touched by Aunt Lucy’s thoughtful present, Eli felt an immediate urge (强烈的欲望) to thank Aunt Lucy right away. So with his father’s help, he decided to call Aunt Lucy.
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Eli called Aunt Lucy but couldn’t get through.
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Just then, there was a knock at the door.
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8 . How to Handle an Argument with Your Family Members
We’ve all been there. A relaxed evening with our family members. A lot of laughing. And then, as if someone had sat on the TV remote and changed the channel, the mood shifts. No more warmth. Suddenly there’s shouting, a ping-pong of accusations(指责), deadly stares, and hostility(敌意) streaming from eyes like red laser pointers. Having a conflict with your family members is frustrating, and you may feel sad and depressed.
Do remember that as much as it might feel this way, you’re not in a court of law with your family members.
Do try to be an advocate of others’ feelings.
Don’t try to explain yourself. You often want to explain yourself when having conflicts with your family members, but you don’t have time. You’re being cut off and attacked again.
A.If you are looking for a new relationship |
B.Don’t attempt to prove yourself in the face of your loved ones |
C.The point of an argument isn’t to prove the others guilty or to win |
D.Rather than going in circles about what you think and how you feel |
E.Each accusation strikes deeper and deeper into your sense of justice |
F.Don’t talk about what happened as though you’re simply stating the facts |
G.Here are the do’s and don’ts when you are arguing with your family members |
9 . Todd was a sadly quiet 11-year-old boy struggling to adjust to the death of his mother. His father had left long ago, and Todd was living with an aunt who made it
On several occasions, his
Sheryl took extra pains to make Todd feel
“It’s beautiful!” Sheryl cried.
Todd replied, “There’s something special
As Sheryl started to open the box,Todd
Sheryl asked
“It’s
Sheryl hugged Todd tightly and said, “I’ll
She kept it on her desk until she
Years later, Todd sent her the autograph book (签名簿) he wrote during his graduation from a medical school. It’s been in the
In truth, love—not diamonds—is the
A.possible | B.known | C.reasonable | D.secret |
A.neighbor | B.grandpa | C.teacher | D.uncle |
A.friendless | B.careless | C.hopeless | D.homeless |
A.ignored | B.upset | C.separated | D.valued |
A.presented | B.awarded | C.traded | D.bothered |
A.beyond | B.inside | C.around | D.below |
A.give | B.take | C.buy | D.help |
A.happy | B.curious | C.sad | D.rich |
A.surprised | B.puzzled | C.scared | D.encouraged |
A.warned | B.ordered | C.pleased | D.advised |
A.nervously | B.favorably | C.differently | D.kindly |
A.joy | B.pity | C.love | D.wisdom |
A.watch | B.treasure | C.cover | D.hide |
A.ever | B.hardly | C.even | D.frequently |
A.married | B.graduated | C.deserted | D.retired |
A.stopped | B.failed | C.arranged | D.continued |
A.desk | B.room | C.heart | D.box |
A.gift | B.idea | C.offer | D.sense |
A.Therefore | B.However | C.Besides | D.Anyway |
A.give away | B.take in | C.set aside | D.pick up |
10 . Reasons Why Emotions (情绪) Are Important
Emotions can play an important role in how you think and behave.
Emotions can make you act. When faced with an exam, you might feel a lot of anxiety about whether you will perform well and how the test will impact your final grade.
Emotions help others understand you better. When you communicate with other people, it is important to give clues to help them understand how you are feeling. The clue might include emotional expressions through body language.
Emotions allow you to understand others. Just as your own emotions offer valuable information to others, the emotional expressions of those around you also give a wealth of social information.
A.Why are they important |
B.Emotions help you to avoid danger |
C.How can you control your emotion well |
D.It might also include directly stating how you feel |
E.Getting social information is an important part of your daily life |
F.You are giving them important information about taking action |
G.You’re driven to take action to improve your chances of getting a good grade |