1 . My grandfather was a rigid perfectionist. Everything had to be orderly, precise and punctual. I was frightened of him until the day he died. Growing up, my mother desperately wanted to please him. She probably thought he might leave if she didn’t.
In fact, I now think the fear of being left alone, abandoned, was a current throughout much of her life. A few years into my father suffering from Alzheimer, my mother’s voice on the phone sounded so upset that I had to tell her, “Just be with yourself for a little while.”
“No, I can’t do that. I don’t want to do that,” she said abruptly, closing the door on the subject. A while after my father died, she told me that she kept the television on all the time because it made her feel less lonely. “It makes the house seem more lived in,” she said. I had given in to my annoyance and either turned the volume down or turned it off. But after she told me that it filled in some of the loneliness, I never reached for the remote again.
We have had a long journey together, she and I. Over a half-century of memories, now that the journey has ended, I have a choice which ones to study which ones to turn over in my hands and dust off.
I choose to look at the ones that ache with a sweet truth not told often enough: there was love between us. It was just hard to find sometimes. I choose to remember her face on that winter day in Manhattan, when I came to her with a broken heart. I choose to remember walking on the shore with her in summers when we rented a beach house; somehow the sea always transformed us. And how she looked on my wedding day when she handed me a bracelet that had belonged to my grandmother. “Something old,” she said.
1. From the author’s point of view, what did her mother feel in her much time of life?A.A sense of relief. | B.A sense of excitement. |
C.A sense of being deserted. | D.A sense of being pleased. |
A.By giving examples. | B.By stating arguments. |
C.By interviewing her father. | D.By visiting her grandfather. |
A.express regret for her grandfather |
B.show her sympathy toward her mother |
C.reveal her deep feelings for her mother |
D.emphasize her concern about the generation gap |
2 . Over the years working as a psychologist, I have found that the following habits seem to be the most important for developing a happier, healthier mind,
By nature, most of us are critical of our emotions—especially the difficult ones: You feel anxious and afraid and then immediately criticize yourself for being weak. Though something feels bad, it doesn’t mean it is bad.
Be realistic with your expectations.
When you create an expectation in your head—which is really just you imagining the thing you want to be true—it relieves some of that anxiety and uncertainty for the time being. But in reality, your expectations are merely fictions in your own mind.
Expectations have their place.
Practice compassion (同情) in your self-talk.
A.Acknowledge your emotions. |
B.Try to avoid painful emotions. |
C.Negative self-talk worsens your emotions. |
D.In much of life, pain is actually a good thing. |
E.Treat yourself like you would treat a good friend. |
F.But they may run wild and cause negative effects if ignored. |
G.They teach your brain that your emotions are bad and dangerous. |
3 . I was about 13. My father frequently took me on short outings on Saturdays. Sometimes we went to a park, or to a marina (码头) to look at boats. My favorites were trips to junk stores,where we could admire old electronic stuff. Once in a while we would buy something for 50 cents just to take it apart.
On the way home from these trips, Dad frequently stopped at the Dairy Queen for l0cent ice cream cones. Not every single time: just often enough. I couldn't expect it, but I could hope and pray from the time we started heading home to that critical corner where we would either go straight for the ice cream or turn and go home empty handed. That corner meant either mouthwatering excitement or disappointment.
A few times my father teased me by going home the long way. “I'm just going this wry for variety.” he would say, as we drove by the Dairy Queen without stopping. It was a game, and I was well fed, so we’re not talking torture (折磨) here.
On the best days he would ask, in a tone that made it sound novel and spontaneous, “Would you like an ice cream cone?” and I would say, “That sounds great, Dad!” I’d always have chocolate and he’d have vanilla. He would hand me 20 cents and I would run in to buy the usual. We'd eat them in the car. I loved my dad and I loved ice cream — so that was heaven.
On one fateful day, we were heading home, and I was hoping and praying for the beautiful sound of his offer. It came. “Would you like an ice cream cone today?” “That sounds great, Dad!”
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1.续写词数应为150左右:
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But then he said, “It sounds good to me too, Son. How would you like to treat today?”
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My father just said, “Okay, Son.”
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4 . The Happy Man
The happy man lives objectively, and has free love and wide interests, through which he secures his happiness. To be the receivers of love is a vital cause of happiness, but the man who demands love is not the man to whom it is given.
What then can a man do who is unhappy because he is enclosed in self? If he is to get out of the vicious (恶性的) circle of unhappiness, it must be by true interests. But before that, he should analyze his trouble first.
Admit to himself every day at least one painful truth.
All unhappiness depends upon lack of integration (融合). There is disintegration within the self,consciously and unconsciously or between the self and society.
A.There is much he can do about it. |
B.The man who receives love is the man who gives it. |
C.The interests will arise when you overcome being self-centered. |
D.The happy life is to an extraordinary extent the same as the good life. |
E.Teach himself life is worth even not having great virtue or intelligence. |
F.Self-denying leaves a man self-absorbed and aware of his own sacrifice. |
G.Neither divided against the self nor the world, the happy man never fails to unite. |
I want to tell everyone about two teachers on Changyu Island, Wang Kaiquan and Lin Zhujin.
Few people know about this hometown of
These two primary school teachers, however,
I want to thank them, and let the world know about these teachers who work
6 . Ways to Show Gratitude (感激)
COVID-19 has a way of making people feel like their world was turned upside down overnight. They struggle with feeling frightened and feeling like everyone is overreacting (反应过度).
Give thanks for everyday things
One way to make gratitude a regular part of your day is to make it a habit to think of three things you are thankful for each day. It doesn’t really matter whether you perform this exercise first thing in the morning or just before you go to bed. The important thing is that you’re taking time and reflecting on what you are grateful for.
Keep track of everything you’re grateful for
Using a phone app like Gratitude Plus, you can record the things you’re grateful for. Another option is to use social media or even post-it notes to express your gratitude.
Reflect on past negative experiences
Look back on the worst moments in your life.
A.Make gratitude a daily habit. |
B.Stick to expressing gratitude in public. |
C.Then, compare those with where you are now. |
D.Gratitude doesn’t have to be over the top or something significant. |
E.You can hardly stay strong while recalling the moments that ever happened. |
F.But learning to practice gratitude every day can bring some changes to your life. |
G.The key is to use a method to help you remember the things you are grateful for. |
1. 表示歉意;
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3. 表示祝愿。
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(2)可以适当增加细节,以使行文连贯。
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(1)写信目的;
(2)他对你学习上的帮助(鼓励你多读文章,善于思考,敢于表达自己的想法……);
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(1)词数100左右;
(2)可以适当增加细节,以使行文连贯。
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10 . Life became dull when social distancing began in March due to the coronavirus. The
That is, until July, when one of my
I don't remember the drive there, and even the scenery slowly
The coronavirus brought on the hardest couple of months of my life. But I wholeheartedly
A.years | B.months | C.centuries | D.seasons |
A.talk | B.reason | C.interact | D.compete |
A.ambition | B.determination | C.curiosity | D.desire |
A.relatives | B.friends | C.teachers | D.partners |
A.unwillingly | B.excitedly | C.sadly | D.hopefully |
A.frustration | B.disappointment | C.achievement | D.happiness |
A.profit | B.power | C.appeal | D.magic |
A.separated | B.resigned | C.disappeared | D.collapsed |
A.odd | B.fantastic | C.mixed | D.equal |
A.emptiest | B.largest | C.least | D.fullest |
A.jumped | B.crawled | C.climbed | D.crossed |
A.wild | B.attractive | C.dark | D.dangerous |
A.partly | B.completely | C.strangely | D.sadly |
A.believe | B.explain | C.infer | D.predict |
A.Adding | B.Replacing | C.Checking | D.Losing |