1 . Sharing a room with a family member or a friend can be tough (困难), but it becomes especially difficult when you are sharing it with someone you hardly know. If you find yourself in a similar situation, do not despair. There are things you can do to help you cope with having a roommate, no matter who it may be.
First of all, you have to remember that you get what you give. If you are nice to others, then others will be nice to you as well. You also need to set boundaries for yourself and for the other person. So before your new roommate moves in, talk to him. Set the rules early on and discuss your hopes.
Remember that there are two things that make up any good relationship: belief and respect. The same thing applies to (适用于) having a roommate. You have to respect each other. So he has that new PS3 game that you have always wanted to try out? Ask permission first. If he says no, don’t ask him for it again. If he lets you borrow his stuff, take care of the item and treat it as if it were your own. Make sure that you return it in the same condition as when you borrowed it.
To keep away from disagreements over who does the housework, clean as you go. For chores (杂务) that can be shared, you may want to divide it equally so that you don’t do all the housework. Take turns in washing the dishes. You may do it every other day or you may divide the task so that you only have to do it in the morning and your roommate will only have to do it at night.
When it comes to food and grocery items, determine what can be shared. Don’t be too mean when it comes to sharing food. On the other hand, determine what you can share and what you can’t and be clear about it. The advantage of sharing food is that you can save on time and food preparation.
1. What is the passage mainly about?A.Why you need a roommate. |
B.How you drive a roommate you don’t like. |
C.What you do to find a roommate. |
D.How you can get along with your roommate. |
A.Borders of two countries. | B.Personal space. |
C.Public relations. | D.Something shared by all roommates. |
A.money and gifts | B.attraction and good words |
C.trust and respect | D.threats and orders |
A.There are always quarrels between roommates. |
B.Try to do all the chores by yourself. |
C.Share everything with your roommates. |
D.Try to do the chores by turns. |
2 . How Helping Others Benefits You
Everyone wants to lead a happy and fulfilling life, so it’s natural to want to put yourself and your health first! However, helping other people can also directly help you at the same time.
Here are a few ways that helping others can benefit you:
·Attract more back to you.
When you give, you’re more likely to receive. You don’t necessarily need to keep the receiving in mind when you decide to give, but nature may just take its course.
·Bring you a good feeling.
If you volunteer your time to help others, you’re sharing your blessings with those less fortunate, which is a wonderful gift to give! You’ll likely return home after volunteering with a smile on your face.
·Heighten self-esteem.
When you help others, you may be helping yourself to a heightened self-esteem. A positive result for your good deeds enables you to feel pride in your accomplishments.
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After you’ve done something nice, you may also find that your confidence increases. The fact that your helpful acts have turned out so positive might lead you to the confidence you need in your own life.
·Be more positive about your own situation.
Sometimes you’ll find that you’re your own worst critic. You might accept the faults of others, but you may be less likely to accept your own. Helping others can help you to accept your own situation and your own faults.
Seek out opportunities, today, to help others. You’ll be glad you did!
A.Strengthen confidence. |
B.Make a difference. |
C.It may help you to start seeing everything in a more positive light. |
D.Maybe a friend will unexpectedly return a favor. |
E.It also builds confidence in bigger and better things. |
F.Just by completing a giving act, you receive positive feelings in your life. |
G.It makes you feel surprised to know that you’ve made a difference in the world. |
3 . When I was 16 years old, a boy gave me an important gift.
It was the early autumn of my first year at junior high school, and my old school was far away.
Every time I listened to other students talking and laughing, I felt sad. I couldn’t talk with anyone about my problems. And I didn’t want my parents to worry about me.
Then one day, my classmates talked happily with their friends, but I sat at my desk unhappily as usual.
Suddenly, I felt the touch of something bright and friendly. It made me feel happy, lively and warm.
One day, I asked him why he smiled, but he couldn’t remember smiling at me. It doesn’t matter because all the dark days have gone.
A.It was a smile. |
B.That smile changed my life. |
C.As a result, no one knew who I was. |
D.He’s living in Australia now and he loves it. |
E.At that moment, a boy entered the classroom. |
F.It’s practically impossible to make friends here. |
G.I believe that the world is what you think it is. |
4 . Eyes can speak
Much meaning can be conveyed, clearly, with our eyes, so it is often said that eyes can speak.
The same is true in our daily life. If you are stared at for more than necessary, you will look at yourself up and down to see if there is anything wrong with you.
Looking too long at someone may seem to be rude and aggressive.
However, when two people are engaged in a conversation, the speaker will only look into the listener’s eyes from time to time to make sure that the listener does pay attention to what the former is speaking.
Actually, eye contact should be made based on specific relationships and situations.
A.That’s what normal eye contact is all about. |
B.But things are different when it comes to staring at the opposite sex |
C.Therefore, continuous eye contact is limited to lovers only. |
D.On the contrary, it will give him away. |
E.After all, nobody likes to be stared at for quite a long time. |
F.Do you have such kind of experience? |
G.If nothing goes wrong, you will feel annoyed at being stared at that way. |
5 . For the British, the home is a private place in which he or she goes to hide away from the troubles of life. It is very seldom that one would be invited to a British person’s home. It is rude to knock on a person’s door if you are not invited. If you are invited, don’t ask to see more than the downstairs that your British host invites you into. Never ask how much the house or any of the items in it cost.
To the American, most of them want their home to be a place where they can entertain (款待) and share their lives with their friends. They may be delighted to give you a full tour of their houses. They may also be pleased when you show your interest and pleasure in their houses.
Both British and American people will engage in quite a bit of chat and a drink or two before the meal is served. After the first mouthful, you should say how delicious the food is and ask something about it. Remember, never eat with your mouth open and make very little noise while eating. It would be nice of you to help your host in any way. Maybe offer to pour some drinks or clear up after the meal.
1. If your British friend invites you to his home, you can _________.A.see anything you like |
B.ask how much his house is |
C.only see the downstairs that you’re invited into |
D.ask the cost of any the items in it |
A.happy | B.angry | C.sad | D.worried |
A.参与 | B.陷入 | C.回避 | D.限制 |
A.Different table manners between British and American people. |
B.Some manners on visiting British and American people’s home. |
C.Different ideas about the home between British and American people. |
D.Different ideas about how to get along well with neighbors between British and American people. |
6 . In England, recently three foreign gentlemen came to a bus stop and waited. About five minutes later, the bus they wanted came along. They were just going to get on when suddenly there was a loud noise behind them. People rushed onto the bus and tried to push them out of the way. Someone shouted at them. The bus conductor came rushing down the stairs to see what all the trouble was about. The three foreigners seemed all at sea and looked embarrassed. No one had told them about the British custom of lining up for a bus that the first person who arrives at the bus stop is the first person to get on the bus.
Learning the language of a country isn’t enough. If you want to have a pleasant visit, find out as much as possible about the manners and customs of your host country. You will probably be surprised by just how different they can be from your own. A visitor to India would do well to remember that people there consider it impolite to use the left hand for passing food at table. The left hand is supposed to be used for washing yourself. Also in India, you might see a man shaking his head at another to show that he doesn’t agree. But in many parts of India a shake of the head means agreement. Nodding your head when you are given a drink in Bulgaria will most probably leave you thirsty.
1. The British people tried to push the three gentlemen out of the way, because the gentlemen .A.were foreigners | B.didn’t have tickets |
C.made a loud noise | D.didn’t line up for the bus |
A.learn the language of the country |
B.understand the manners and customs of the country |
C.have enough time and money |
D.make friends with the people there |
A.Tired. | B.Disappointed. |
C.Confused. | D.Pleased. |
A.pass food with the left hand |
B.use the right hand for passing food at table |
C.shake your head |
D.nod your head |
7 . Marty was new at school. On his first day, he showed magic to his schoolmates. He made a toothpick (牙签) disappear and appear within seconds. Everyone wondered how he did it.
“How did you do that?” I asked. “Sorry, but that’s the first law of magic. A magician never lets out his secrets.” Marty smiled. I thought he was tricking everyone. I would make his secrets known to all.
The next day, Marty gave his second magic show. He said he could make things float (飘起). He had a ring in one hand and a pencil in the other. That’s when I saw it: a thin line tied around the end of the pencil and attracted to a button on Marty’s shirt! Sure enough, he made the ring “float” by sliding (滑动) it over the pencil and hanging it from the line. No one else noticed, but I found the secret. I got close to him and said, “I know how you did it.” He looked nervous and asked me, “Are you going to tell others?” I thought for a moment. If I told, I’d finally be able to prove Marty’s magic was fake (假的). Then Marty might lose his new friends. So I told him that I would say nothing about it. And then I walked away.
“Wait!” Marty jumped in front of me. “You’ve got a pretty good eye for magic. If you’re interested, I have an idea,” Marty suggested. And I accepted his idea. That’s how the Magic Marty and Mysterious Matt Lunch Show began. We’ve been a magic team for three months now. It turns out that instead of a fake magician, Marty is a real friend.
1. To whom did Marty show magic on his first day at school?A.His parents. | B.His brothers. | C.His teachers. | D.His schoolmates. |
A.It was the first law of magic. |
B.It was the rule of study. |
C.It was a duty for everyone. |
D.It was a task for a student. |
A.Its operation went wrong. |
B.It was praised by the writer. |
C.The writer found its secret. |
D.It was done with the help of others. |
A.Nervous. | B.Excited. | C.Sorry. | D.Happy. |
A.He refused Marty’s suggestion. |
B.He and Marty set up a magic team. |
C.He let out the secret of Marty’s magic. |
D.He and Marty wrote a book about magic. |
8 . Friends should always be honest with you, right? So when they lie, it can be really hard to take. You want to trust your friends and that means you know they’ll tell it to you straight no matter what it is.
One of the biggest reasons why friends lie is simply to avoid hurting your feelings. Some people don’t understand the difference between being gently honest with a friend and being so straightforward that they leave a verbal(言语的) wound. They choose to avoid these two extremes in the form of a lie.
They feel embarrassed.
Sometimes friends will lie about things in their life because they are too embarrassed to admit the truth. Maybe they are going through a rough time and
Avoid an argument with you.
Perhaps your friends know that if they tell you the truth, you’ll get angry with them. Make sure that if a friend tells you something unpleasant,
Exclude you.
Lying isn’t always a sign that your friends are trying to protect you, however.
A.you don’t overact. |
B.Protect your feelings. |
C.Leave your friends alone. |
D.they just don’t want you to know about it. |
E.But a friend who lies isn’t always trying to hurt you. |
F.Being honest and making a sincere effort can keep the friendship strong. |
G.Sometimes they lie because they don’t want you to be included in their plans. |
9 . For some people gratitude comes naturally; other people may have to actively think about being grateful for what they have. But it doesn’t matter how you get there as long as you do.
Make you feel better about yourself
Being grateful for what you have could reduce social comparisons about money and success. These comparisons can lower self-esteem (自尊心).
Improve social relationships
May improve your health
A study found that grateful people are more likely to say that they are in good physical health. The researchers found people who express gratitude are more likely to take part in healthy activities and ask for medical help when they need it.
Make you more empathetic (能产生共鸣的)
Gratitude is a good act. It can make you a more empathetic person.
A.The levels of empathy differ from person to person. |
B.Showing gratitude can help you make more friends. |
C.Gratitude is good for health, relationships and happiness. |
D.Practicing gratitude can also make people mentally healthier. |
E.Being able to step into another person’s shoes is very important. |
F.People who learn from their mistakes can make real changes in their lives. |
G.But grateful people are able to appreciate the achievements of other people. |
10 . Friendship needs care and attention to keep it in good health. Here are five ways to sustain (保持) long-distance friendships.
·Set a regular dateLong-lasting friendships share the characteristic that both sides equally contact (联系) and share with one another. With busy schedules, squeezing in phone calls can be a challenge.
Make sure you have communicated with your friend about how frequently each of you wants to be contacted and what method works best for you both.
Anniversaries and birthdays carry even more weight in long-distance friendships. Although technology might make day-to-day communication possible, extra effort goes a long way on special days. Simply keeping a diary that keeps track of friends’ birthdays and other important dates will make sure nothing slips by you.
·Don’t rely on technology aloneA.Remember important dates |
B.Compensate by writing letters |
C.It is also helpful for you to be a friendship keeper |
D.Try to find a time that works for both of you and stick to it |
E.Friends need to talk about their preferred methods of communication |
F.It is easy to have a sense of connectedness through social media |
G.You may be the friend who left or the one who was left behind |