When I succeeded in
I once asked
But why did the interviewer pick me instead of them?
Finally, curiosity pushed me to ask the interviewers soon
To be frank, I once felt ashamed of being a student from
Living your best life
It was a bright spring morning in a suburban Rochester, New York, neighborhood. Three young men,
A bucket list simply lists things you want to see, try or accomplish
Making a bucket list can also help you get in touch with your values. People live busy lives, so it’s easy to get
If you’re ready to start making your own bucket list, you first need to decide what to put on it. You could make a list of unusual things you’d like to do, such as doing
What’s on my list? Well, since I fancy
It’s OK Not to Be OK
Every now and then, you are probably told not to give up when things get difficult. But at what point can we feel that it’s OK to give up? Sometimes, giving up can be a thoughtful and brave decision. If you feel like you have the weight of the world on your shoulders and it is holding
Simone Biles, with a
As a four-time Grand Slam winner at the age of 23, the Japanese tennis player Naomi Osaka
Agree to Disagree
I am old enough to remember running through the whipping rain to find a phone booth, only
In comparison, the world of social media is truly a miracle. Free of charge, you
Because online disagreements are no longer being conducted between two people in an enclosed room, but are instead happening in a public space with thousands of onlookers, many debates have devolved into nothing more than a popularity contest—whoever walks away with the most “likes”
Meanwhile, social media algorithms (算法) reinforce an echo chamber (回音室). By
Many of us have probably got
My advice here is to bear in mind the following: You are entitled to your opinion; I just happen to think otherwise. So let’s agree to disagree.
On Teachers
Ancient scholars certainly had teachers. A teacher is one who passes on the truth, imparts knowledge and solves puzzles. Man is not born with knowledge. Who can deny that he has puzzles? If one had doubts and is not willing to learn from a teacher, his doubts
The men born before me surely know the truth before me, so I respect them as teachers, whereas those born after me may also know the truth before me, so I likewise respect them as teachers. It is the truth that I endeavor to learn. Must I know beforehand
Alas, it is a long time
Loving parents may select teachers to instruct their children. But when it comes to themselves, they feel
Physicians, musicians and multifarious artisans are not ashamed of learning from each other. But among the gentlefolk the talk about the teachers and pupils would invite laughter from a gathered company. When
Sages have had no constant teachers. Confucius once learned from Tan Zi as well as from Chang Hong, Shi Xiang and Laozi, though Tan Zi and his like are not on a parity with him in wisdom. Confucius says: “Out of my two fellow-travelers one
Li Pan, aged seventeen, is fond of ancient classical writings and have studied all the six arts and their commentaries. Not restrained by the current practice, he has learned from me. As I praise him for his
The first time I invited a good friend not just over to but into my house, post-vaccination, without masks, I couldn’t even wait until she walked up to my door —I ran outside to greet her, and we hugged each other in the driveway. We both held on tight, as we took turns exclaiming how good it was to see each other. We
I’ve been a huger since middle school, when my friends and I
In the Name of Love
Many people grow up hearing the advice that all you need to do in life is to “find your passion.” The implication is
When you stick to the “do what you love” advice for your career, you immediately narrow your vision of what a career can be and therefore, limit your ability
Most people don’t grow up,
Stop putting too much pressure on
Wintry Scenes from a Swedish Wonderland
I always give the same advice to ambitious photographers: Wherever home is, that’s where you should begin. Having lived and worked everywhere but in Sweden for most of my life, I was terrible at following it myself. For me, Sweden has always been a place to relax and spend time with family. I’ve never explored it in the same way I’ve explored destinations like Zambia
With all of my foreign trips
Climate change doesn’t have any impact on the length of our daylight. And yet,
But Johan Stenevad, my host at Lapland Guesthouse, showed me
He shook his head. “Not a forest, just a plantation. Soon, this is what
We are not visitors in nature and it’s essential for our own survival as well as that of the natural world.
My community and state are still recovering from the recent disaster. A storm
Hundreds of thousands of people suddenly found themselves in the dark
However, the most amazing thing happened.
People shared their food, ice, and gasoline. People who still had power opened their homes to
People gathered in their gardens
Life’s disasters challenge all of us from time to time with no one
How we respond to them, however, is up to us. We
Home Team or Visitor?
“Time to leave!” my mother shouted up the stairs.
My heart beat fast. This was it---my first day at school in Chicago! By the end of last year, we
When the bus came, it was nearly full. I walked down the aisle (走道)slowly, looking for an empty seat. I felt
“Hey, we have something new
Suddenly, a big kid stood up and said, “Come over here.” I was glad
“I’m Al,” he said,
“I’m Lewis.” I said.
Al smiled and said, “You know, you do kind of look like a tourist.”
We both laughed, and suddenly I felt a lot better. Right then I decided that
the next day I'd wear the same kind of clothes I had worn at my old school.
From the experience of that day, I learned that it's always best to just be