For years, my wife Teresa taught physical education at the elementary school level. Travelling on a regular schedule to the six schools in her district, she had a chance to get to know most of the kids in the area and see them at their best and their worst.
One day, in her class, Teresa noticed a third-grade girl, Meagan, who was short and grossly overweight, with a closed and hopeless look on her face. Meagan always sat alone in class, played alone at break, and ate alone from a recycled paper sack at lunch. The teachers and staff were kind to Meagan, but the students were not.
The stories made your shoulders drop. Teresa heard that when the playground supervisors (管理员) turned their backs, kids would run up to Meagan, calling her “Meagan the Fat Pig.” They did far worse than isolate (孤立) her; they filled her school days and walks home with physical and emotional torment (折磨). Also, Meagan’s single mother, a hard-working woman, was trying her best to make ends meet but she had never made it before.
Meagan’s situation disturbed my wife deeply. After talking with the principle and other teachers, Teresa came up with an idea. She knew from talking to Meagan that the child had never had a pet. Teresa was sure a pet would be the perfect way to inject some high-powered love and acceptance into Meagan’s life.
So one Saturday afternoon, Meagan was invited to Teresa’s office. When the door buzzer sounded, a dog engaged in a predictable and vigorous welcome. Getting down on one knee, Teresa introduced herself to Meagan. She told Meagan her thought that she could take away a puppy if she liked. Like any creature that has been cared about, Meagan gleamed in her eyes and playfully lifted the puppy almost off the ground. That day Meagan left the office with the puppy.
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Paragraph 1: Now she had a living, breathing friend who wanted to play with her.
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Paragraph 2: Ten years later, Teresa received an invitation to the high school graduation ceremony from Meagan, where Meagan made a speech.
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I was lacking in everything needed to start a new friendship.
My parents moved to the town when they decided to look for new jobs but they didn’t realize I was really hurt when I said goodbye to my old friends. It felt awful to be a new student in the school and when my classmates were chatting, what I could do was to be caught up in my thoughts watching the clouds outside the window. I was not good at math or history; nor was I good at drawing or dancing. I was shy and timid (胆小的). I had a few friends back at my hometown and it seemed that they were the only ones who I could be friends with for my whole life. I felt I had achieved a point of saturation (饱和) with regard to having friends and I could make no further addition to my friends list. I was ashamed of myself, so I believed I deserved (应受) no notice from others until Emily came to my world.
Emily was fearless, outspoken and easy to go. She was everything I was not and I was too shy to come out of my shell. I met Emily in school almost every day and ye I never talked to her. We were in the same class but we were like poles apart. How I wished I could be like her or at least be a friend of hers!
It was another ordinary day. I was on the school bus back home, when I got up to get down the bus, my schoolbag was stuck in the armrest (扶手). I didn’t notice it and stood up with all my strength. Unfortunately, my schoolbag was torn apart and all the contents fell on the ground. I knelt down to pick them up. Suddenly, I saw a hand passing me some of the books.
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I looked up and found it was Emily who was helping me.
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3 . Resolving (解决) Conflict in Friendships
Conflict is surely a common problem in life and friendships.
Resolve it the day it happens. One rule my parents follow in their marriage is that they don’t go to bed angry with each other. They always attempt to resolve things the day it happens so that in the morning, it’s a fresh start with no past grudge (怨恨). I’ve found I need a short cool down period so that I don’t act in anger. For some, counting to one hundred before saying anything may be an option.
Initiate resolution.
Most importantly, be loving in what you do. Try to focus on peacefully resolving the disagreement. It is not a most pleasant task to resolve conflict in any friendship.
A.Focus on the bigger picture. |
B.Try to see the other person’s perspective. |
C.Whatever you do, don’t let things ride for too long. |
D.Be the first person in a fight to say sorry for your part. |
E.Offering a listening ear shows you value the friendship. |
F.Many shallow friendships end up being ruined after an argument. |
G.However, it is worth the efforts because it results in a deeper friendship. |
4 . You’ll make new friends in each stage of your life. Some of them will come and go, while others will last for the rest of your life.
If you are lacking in good friendships, it’s not too late. There are a lot of ways to make new friends that can stay with you for the rest of your life.
Sometimes it’s a good idea to let a friendship go, even if you’ve been friends for a long time. If one party isn’t making an effort to keep things going, it can lead to feelings of hurt and betrayal.
A.Look for people who share things with you. |
B.Friendship can help you get through mental and physical sufferings. |
C.There are many benefits of having strong friendships. |
D.It might be time to let things cool off and pursue other friendships. |
E.Lifelong friendships are what most people desire. |
F.This toxic friendship may bring you nothing but hurt. |
G.You can get built-in opportunities to spend time with each other. |
5 . Teens with dominant (占主导地位的) friends are at higher risk for mental health problems, according to a new research republished from The Conversation.
Dominant friends often control decision-making power. They can also control others’ behavior, like by making the junior friend go to a party they don’t want to attend.
Friendships are extremely important relationships for teens, but are they always a positive influence? Some psychology researchers were interested in the potential psychological results of having dominant friends. They predicted (预测) that being part of this kind of friendship might make teenagers feel useless or anxious.
To investigate it, 388 teenagers were surveyed at U.S. high schools five times across one year. Each time, teen participants were asked to answer questions about their close friends’ dominating behaviors: Do they make all the decisions? Do they always get their way?
Consistent with researchers’ predictions before, they found that when teenagers felt powerless in their close friendships — like their friends always made the decision — they experienced lower self-value and more symptoms (症状) of depression or anxiety.
Although some teens might be OK going with the flow and letting their friends take the control, the study found some of the first evidence that this kind of unequal relationship can be psychologically harmful. Healthy friendships should offer both partners opportunities to have a say and make decisions.
The findings suggest that it’s important to teach teens how to form healthy, fair friendships. One friend shouldn’t always feel bossed around or powerless. Also, teenagers may benefit from receiving help in developing effective communication tools for asserting (坚持主张) their wants and needs to their close friends.
1. Which kind of person below is probably a dominant friend?A.One who knows how to make decisions. |
B.One who is willing to respect friends’ needs. |
C.One who always asks friends to buy food for him. |
D.One who attends the party his friend doesn’t want to. |
A.Lonely. | B.Worthless. | C.Positive | D.Self-respected. |
A.Apart from. | B.Satisfied with. |
C.Unconnected with. | D.In agreement with. |
A.Expressing their own needs firmly. |
B.Taking back control of the relationship. |
C.Ending the friendship with dominant friends. |
D.Going with the flow and letting dominant friends take the control. |
6 . The World’s oldest pen pals have both turned 100 after 84 years of transatlantic(跨大洋) letters.
Geoff Banks from Honiton, Devon, UK and Celesta Byrne, from the US, started writing to each other aged just 16 in 1938. They met as part of an educational project to put British and American students in contact-and 84 years later they are still contacting.
Geoff, a retired engineer, said, “I can’t quite remember how we got in touch, but I was talking to Celesta recently and I think it was something to do with an American school’s plan, which matched us up with Americans for a pen pal relationship, and somehow I ended up with this letter from an American girl, and we just kept contacting ever since. There were a couple of years when we tried very hard to keep in touch because of the war. Now of course she is poorly sighted, so I contact mainly by email to one of her daughters who lives nearby. Email is much easier for me these days too because I can’t write very well anymore. We just talk about daily lives and our families. She’s always been there to write to, even if it was just birthday cards and Christmas cards.”
Though having chatted for over 80 years, the pair has only ever met twice-first in 2002 while Geoff visited New York, and then two years later. Geoff is now a great grandfather, having three sons settling across the world and many more grandchildren. “I have this new thing called Zoom I think now to chat with her, but I leave all the technology to younger people. They’re much better at pressing all the buttons.”
1. What may bring Geoff and Celesta to be pen pals?A.The world war. | B.Geoff’s visit to New York. |
C.An American school’s plan. | D.Communication technology. |
A.He relied on Zoom to chat. | B.He was unable to write well. |
C.He suffered from eye disease. | D.He wrote to Celesta’s daughter. |
A.Pen pals are true friends. |
B.Technology builds friendship. |
C.Letters were not allowed during the war. |
D.True friendship survives time and space. |
A.Oldest Pen Pals in the World. | B.A Great Way to Keep in Touch. |
C.Importance of Being Pen Pals. | D.Zoom: A New Technology to Chat. |
7 . Kyra Peralte thought keeping a diary during the pandemic might help her sort out her complicated feeling. In April 2020, the mother of two in Montclair, New Jersey, started writing frankly about the challenges of balancing work, marriage and motherhood during a global crisis.
Peralte wanted to know how other women were doing. “I wanted an interaction that felt human,” so she invited women from near and far to fill the remaining lined pages of her black-and-white marbled composition notebook with their own pandemic tales. She named the project The Traveling Diary. She came up with a system: Each person gets to keep the diary for three days and fills as many pages as she wishes. Then she is responsible for mailing it to the next person, whose address Peralte provides.
So far, more than 2,000 women from 30 countries have participated, some as far away as South Africa and Australia. More than 50 of these notebooks are currently in circulation, and about 20 completed ones are back in Peralte’s possession.
It felt meaningful to pass on something so personal. It felt like these were women that they had known even though they didn’t know them at all. Some did get to meet the women whose stories they read, through a virtual get-together that Peralte organized. Peralte often hosts Zoom events so the women get the chance to get to know one another more, share stories and connect more closely. Some of the women have even become close friends.
Peralte feels a strong bond with the people who filled its pages, none of whom she would have otherwise known. Her spontaneous (自发的) idea has had a profound effect on her and the other women who were part of it. “The Traveling Diary,” she says, “is making sisters out of strangers.”
1. Why did Peralte start The Traveling Diary?A.To help sort out her feeling. | B.To finish her pages of notebook. |
C.To have an interaction with other women. | D.To write a book covering pandemic tales. |
A.It has become popular across the world. |
B.Each woman keeps the diary at least three days. |
C.Each person fills pages based on Peralte’s wishes. |
D.It requires Peralte to post the diary to the next person. |
A.They are totally strangers before. | B.They often hold parties themselves. |
C.They have met each other in real life. | D.They have been known to Peralte before. |
A.Generous and tolerant. | B.Creative and helpful. |
C.Romantic and imaginative. | D.Demanding and adventurous. |
8 . When Charles Barkley’s mother passed away, Barkley’s hometown came to the funeral. But a(n)
My dad said he
But the friendship was real.
My dad
“As an Asian in the U.S., we had a good
Then on a Sunday afternoon my dad passed away. Everyone was astonished as Barkley attended the funeral. “It gives me great memories and
At the funeral, people
The story of his friendship with Barkley was not just a relationship with a famous person—it threw light on the possibilities of this world.
1.A.frequent | B.unexpected | C.average | D.unwelcome |
A.specifically | B.importantly | C.carefully | D.strictly |
A.cared | B.worried | C.thought | D.knew |
A.read | B.forgot | C.sent | D.typed |
A.find out | B.apply for | C.talk about | D.pick up |
A.potentially | B.accidentally | C.deliberately | D.certainly |
A.still | B.also | C.even | D.already |
A.experience | B.holiday | C.player | D.friendship |
A.chance | B.conversation | C.argument | D.choice |
A.matter | B.divide | C.change | D.differ |
A.surprise | B.sorrow | C.joy | D.relief |
A.meeting | B.hometown | C.party | D.funeral |
A.achieve | B.contribute | C.develop | D.gain |
A.improved | B.refreshed | C.shared | D.lost |
A.spread | B.learn | C.obtain | D.mourn |
9 . America is a mobile society. Friendships between Americans can be close and real , yet disappear soon if situations change. Neither side feels hurt by this. Both may exchange Christmas greetings for a year or two, perhaps a few letters for a while then no more. If the same two people meet again by chance, even years later, they pick up the friendship. This can be quite difficult for us Chinese to understand, because friendships between us flower more slowly but then may become lifelong feelings, extending(延伸)sometimes deeply into both families.
Americans are ready to receive us foreigners at their homes, and share their holidays and their home life. They will enjoy welcoming us and be pleased if we accept their hospitality(好客)easily.
Another difficult point for us Chinese to understand Americans is that although they include us warmly in their personal everyday life, they don’t show their politeness to us if it requires a great deal of time. This is usually the opposite of the practice in our country where we may be generous with our time. Sometimes, we, as hosts, will appear at airports even in the middle of the night to meet a friend. We may take days off to act as guides for our foreign friends. The Americans, however, express their welcome usually at home, but truly can not manage a great deal of time to do with a visitor outside their daily routine. They will probably expect us to get ourselves from the airport to our own hotel by bus. And they expect that we will phone them from there. Once we arrive at their homes, the welcome will be full, warm and real. We will find ourselves treated hospitably.
For the Americans, it is often considered friendlier to invite a friend to their homes than to go to restaurants, except for purely business matters. So accept their hospitality at home!
1. The writer of this passage must be________.A.an American | B.a Chinese | C.a professor | D.a student |
A.Willing to spend time. | B.Serious about time. |
C.Careful with time. | D.Strict with time. |
A.warmly welcomed at the airport | B.offered a ride to his home |
C.treated kindly at his home | D.treated to dinner in a restaurant |
A.Friendships between Chinese |
B.Friendships between Americans |
C.Americans’ hospitality |
D.Americans’ and Chinese people’s different views on friendship |
10 . How to make friends at a new school
Starting with a new school can be difficult. Everything seems to be different,and you don’t even know where to go for your own classes.
Be yourself.
Remember to be nice and friendly to the people you meet at your new school. Also,remember to be as helpful as possible!
Believe in yourself.
A smile goes a long way. When you walk in the halls, don’t keep your eyes on the floor. Raise your head and make eye contact (目光接触) with other people.
You like it when people use your name,and so do other people. People may become angry if you just begin by saying “Hey” each time. Besides,ask them in a kind way if they have a nickname (昵称). You’d be surprised how often this might come in handy.
A.Be friendly to others. |
B.Making new friends can be hard,too. |
C.Join after-school activities you like. |
D.Never change who you are to try and fit in. |
E.If you see someone you know, smile or say “Hi”. |
F.Remember people’s names. |
G.Don’t sit at the back of the classroom where other people don’t notice you! |